Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Letter from a Reader: Carrying Her Karma

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Dear Fashion Pulis,

FP, I am not a relative of the the actress, but just an insider privy to the happenings and milestones in the family. But I feel just as miserable myself having witnessed the events and the major upheavals in their lives.

Over the years, this actress has denied knowing the whereabouts of her loved one. In fact, this longing has been played on as a sad story on her part, perhaps, to gain sympathy, or to portray her as someone longing for love and affection.

But the truth is that her loved one had a certain illness - a fact that the actress knew all along, but never admitted. Was she so embarrassed that this will adversely affect her career?

Her loved one had been staying in a city down south (ironically, this city used to be very familiar to her being her ex's hometown), under the care of private nurses and some relatives. Only once did the actress give money to help, but she had never visited her, not even once. How her relatives hate her for treating an important family member this way.

Now we wonder if this actress and her management will exploit this personal matter to gain sympathy and publicity. Will she cry her heart out in a showbiz interview and express regret for all that she failed to do? Definitely, crying stunts like those will boost up her popularity while she’s on hiatus. Is her consistent denial commensurate to the fame and fortune she is now enjoying?

The public deserves to know the truth. While she projects herself as the underdog, she has committed the biggest sin of denying someone. Yet, we can only pray that she realizes how much pain she has caused her loved one, and that she changes her ways before it’s too late.

More power, FP!

Micki

“To regret one’s own experience is to arrest one’s own development. To deny one’s own experiences is to put a lie into the lips of one’s life. It is no less than a denial of the soul.” – Oscar Wilde

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361 comments:

  1. This is Parinig Queen! As usual full of bad vibes! move on girl!

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    1. One sided ang story. Me mga reasons for everything. Hindi man lang nalaman Kung ano ginawa nung Ina kaya ganun. Like iniwan ba sila for another guy? Next time two sides ha! Leaning on one side Lang e! Bagsak yan!

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    2. ^may point ka. however, this is not a piece of journalism naman that's required to present two sides and it's a normal practice for FP to print letters like this. It's a given that letters are obviously one-sided and maybe printing this will prompt the other party to present their side.

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    3. Yes i totally agree lahat may other story. And too bad if hindi msyado expose ang ibang tao here ung reality at kaweirduhan ng ibang magulang sa anak, sometimes its really traumatic na you dont even want to be associated with them anymore.

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    4. One side of the story lang it, if the allegations in the letter are true. All we know is that siblings grew up together without parents, left to fend for themselves.

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  2. Si K ito. tsk obvious naman kasi xa lang ang namatay ngyon na napapabalita. Nakakalungkot kasi ang daming issues sa kanya. Sana ayusin nya toh. Tsk

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  3. This is a sad story. Condolence pa rin po to the family. How sad. Bashers and haters, ceasefire muna in respect to the soul.

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    1. OO nga. RESPECT!

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    2. Ohhh eeem geeee my sister ako schizo rin pero pinapagamot namin...thank u lord bumalik xa sa katinuan nya pro paminsan minsan inaatake parin...bawal na bawal xa mgbuntis kasi balik sa dati wala sa katinuan kami ngbuhugas sakanya at ngpapaligo...di kumakain...pero di namin xa tinatalian...pero masakit talaga toh...especially kung ganyan ang sitwasyon nila...laki siguro sisi nya...magpray xa ng mgpray pra maenlighten xa at maguide xa ni lord...condolence nga pla... :(

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  4. Condolence to the family. What a very saddening moment and a saddening truth :(

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    1. truth agad? you're so gulliver naman.

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    2. Gulliver talaga anon12:20..

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    3. Anon 12:20 Gulliver tlga? GULLIVER'S TRAVELS ganun? baka GULLIBLE teh!

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    4. Anon 2:10 hahahaha di nakagets? sige, i-tama mo na yan.

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    5. hahhaha kaya minsan takot na ako magjoke sa gamit ng mga words kasi yung iba di nakaka gets. one time nasa mall kami tapos i saw a dress na kapareho ng saken and i blurted sa kasama ko "hala looks family!" (looks familiar). talagang titig na titig yung aleng mukhang teacher saken. wahhahaa nakakalurkey! ang gullible ni ateng, nahulog sa bitag ni gulliver! geez!

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  5. Guys huwag naman tayong mag judge agad. Malay mo may reason kung bakit she was like that. It's not always the child's fault. I don't think you Micki knows what's behind her relationship with her mom. I don't either. So we really shouldnt judge.

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    1. Illness pinaguusapan dito, iba yang iniwan para sa lalake. Besides, you shouldn't hate your mother, o kahit sino pang anak for whatever reason. Love them much more and help your mom realize that that guy is only after her money. Buti nga di ka pa inilaglag habang pinagbubuntis ka niya.

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    2. para namang sinabi mo na rin na kapag binato ka ng bato, batuhin mo rin ng bato. Nanay ang pinaguusapan dito, nanay na nagsilang sa anak. kahit ano pa siguro nagawa ng nanay, kung anak ka, at naging maganda ang buhay mo dahil sa sarili mong sikap, kung hindi mo kaya mahalin nanay mo, sbi nga ni ate sa "anak" respetuhin mo bilang tao.

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    3. true. wala tayo sa childhood nya. everyone has reasons. i know, hindi yon sapat para tratuhin nya ng ganoon ung loved one(supposing totoo)..but then, tao din sya na masama man pero nakakapagtanim talaga ng galit.

      marami diyan na nagsisisi kasi namatay na hindi man lang ngkaayos. this is true and this is happening to a lot of people.

      so if ever man, umiyak sya on national tv,can we not assume na fake or acting lang. mas masakit kasi ang regrets.

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    4. oo naman day, may reason tlaga! at ang reason ay hindi pa din niya napapatawad iyong tao! aheheheh!!!! di kailangang cumlaude para magets iyon :-)

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    5. easier ssaid than done. madaling sabihin na nanay yun at di mo dapat tratuhin ng ganun, etc etc. but unless you've been there, I don't think you have the right to judge. And besides, ilan silang magkakapatid? Nasan rin sila?

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    6. Tsk tsk madali lang sa inuo magsabi niyan kasi di oayo sa sitwasyon!!!madaling sabihin pero mahirap gawin...tao lang din tayo nagkakamali katulad ng pagkakamali rin nila...wala tayong katapatan ijudge sila kasi were not in their shoes...kya nga my mga counselling pshychiatrist at pari at kung anu ano pa kasi kelangan dn ng guidance pra magbalik sa katinuan at d makalimot sa diyos at matutuna at tanggapin ang pagppatawad

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  6. for me, wla naang masama na magdamdam ka sa nanay mu.di naten alam ung dahilan dba?ako, i hate my mom because pinagpalit nya kame sa lalake nya na ang habol ay pera lang.kaya we dont know the real story.we are just judging but what we hear and what we see....

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    1. For you lang yun paano namang yung for us?!

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    2. now u hate ur mom, but r u not goin to cry n feel bad when she dies?

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    3. Ako naman, di ako perpekto, ganoon din naman ang mga magulang ko. Pero the mere fact na magulang ko sila, okay, sige na, sila na ang tama. Kasi walang nanalong anak sa away ng magulang-anak. Kapag nagaaway kami, minsan di kami nagkikibuan ng nanay ko pero at the end of the day, ako na ang unang sumusuko. Parang di ko makayang di kausapin nanay ko bago matulog. Pero etong bata na ito, nakatagal ng 5 taon sa isa niyang magulang. Sana naging tagapamagitan iyong mga ate, o baka naman sila pa ang nagsusulsol. Aminado ako galit ako sa mga kamaganakan ng tatay at nanay ko, pero never sa nanay at tatay ko! Kahit umikot ka sa buong mundo, walang totoong tao mas magiging totoo pa kaysa sa mga magulang. Nakakalungkot lang din kasi di niya binigyan ng chance ang mga magulang niya, sayang. Nasa kanya man ang lahat ng kasikatan o pera pero kung wala naman iyong pinakaimportante, wala pa din, may kulang pa din.

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    4. Hating is a different feeling from grieving. There are a few thousand even millions of cases and reasons why some children hate their mothers.

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    1. Its run to to the family kaya pala search ako ng search about her mom kasi di n nababangit..so sad

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  8. Condolence to the family pero This is so True! Sobrang Nakakaawa ang nanay niya :( kaya di nila mailabas kung ano talagang dahilan ng pagkawala.

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  9. Sana mabasa ni K tong BI na to. Para magbago na siya..

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    1. You can't just make one individual change his/her ways with just a snap. Hindi natin alam ang totoo kung bakit ganyan ang story behind that family. Let's just pay respect and condolence mas makakatulong pa.

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    2. i think magbabago sya, mas magiging paawa sya sa mga tao. yun lang.

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    3. i don't think so. siguro kapag binalita na nakipagbati na siya kila E at M then i can say na NAGBAGO na talaga siya. pero pag wala, means ganyan na talaga ugali niya wala ng pagbabago.

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  10. nakakatawa kung kelan patay na saka irespeto pero nong buhay pa di masabihan yong idol nila kung ano ang kahalagahan ng pagpatawad.

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    1. I cant judge her...kung nsa sitwasyon k na mau schizo sa family mahirap talaga...masakit!lalo na nung pumasok xa sa pbb bata pa niya...maraming rason bat kelangan itago...pro for sure sa loob loob niya masakit yun pra sakanya...were in that situation magkaiba mn paghandle namin pro masakit talaga...tsaka my mga ate pa siya...wag natin xang sisihin...ung mga elders dapat nagguide sknya..kya siguro maxado syang emotional..madali mbroken hearted...mahirap mgtrust ng tao kc my pinanggalingan...at malalim un na sugat!na d basta basta nabubura...kya siguro sobrang nasaktan xa kc sa sitwasyon nya iilan lang ang inaallow namin na pumasok sa mundo namin...kya mahirap!naawa ako sakanya sa totoo lang...ngayon pa lang magsisink in lahat ng eto...sana d xa madepress..kc sa mga ngyayari sknya sa mga kilos nya madali xa mgbreakdown...pray ka lang ng pray kay god humingi ka ng guidance sknya...condolence

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    2. tama. ngayon nila gamitin pagkafan nila...sa mabuting paraan. pagsabihan nila si K na wag ng magpakabitter at baka todong karma pa ang dumating.

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    3. pak! well said

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  11. Sana bago namatay nanay niya nakapag ayos sila. Sorry pero dahil sa ugali niya kahit sa huling sandali hindi niya napasaya ang nanay niya... Buti pa ang fans niya napapakilig niya pero ang nanay na bumuhay skanya.... Tsk tsk

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    1. ur so right anon 12:28.

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    2. makikipagayos lang siguro siya sa mga nakasamaan niya ng loob kapag nagaya sa nanay niya. so sad naman. magbago ka na K.

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  12. Sad Story. Condolence. it explains how emotionaly unstable of her.. nasa genes na nya.. sad part.. ikinahiya nya ang mama nya.. so sad :(

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    1. sad na sad... dapat talaga unconditional love and support para sa mama nya kasi special eh... :( naawa ako sa mama nya kasi ina na rin ako.. wat f magkasakit ako ng ganyan na hindi ko naman kontrolado utak ko ;(

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    2. Yeah tama.. :(

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    3. oo nga. siguro kaya sya ganyan, mana-mana lang. pero ang sad kasi kahit ano pa kalagayan ng magulang mo, u should never be ashamed of them. tignan nyo si b, shes proud of her brother, di niya ikinahihiya.

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    4. di ko alam na diyan sa pinas ikinahihiya ang sakit na yan. kasi dito sa ibang bansa normal lang naman, di ikinahihiya kundi mas binibigyan pa kamo ng special treatment.

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  13. Fame over family? A BIG No!

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  14. Lagi siyang kinakarma. From being kaibigan ngayon from being a anak... Ayusin na lang kasi ang paguugali

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    1. Panget man pakinggan but yeah i agree w/ u.
      Wala naman kasing masama kung ikaw ang magpapakumbaba

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    2. magpapakumbaba lang siguro siya kapag wala na rin sa mundo sila...alam niyo na kung sino sila.

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    3. sa tatay nga niya sino unang lumapit di ba ang tatAY, para mag bati na sila for 3 ba 5 yrs na di sila nag uusap>

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  15. sayang ang oras. Kung nilet go niya galit niya sana masaya ng nanay niya bago siya namatay

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  16. My deepest sympathy to her and her family. Whatever issues she may have sa family nya, let's give her space and time to heal.

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  17. actually nagtaka din ako n npbalita agad n nmtay ang mom nya e last claim nya e di n nagpakitaulit ang mom sknla. But anyway,there are so many factors involved pag gnyan,it might be bec of her career but i think it will most likely be a family decision as well. i mean she has younger siblings to consider.denying her mom's condition can be a way of keeping personal matters in private.we really dont want our problems to be broadcasted right?!
    And about how she treated her mom,you can never judge her bec we dont know everything.do you have any idea how to grow up in a broken family?and if her claim is right,her mother abandoned them,and infairness to the actress she stepped up to fill in her mom's duties.so whatever negative feelings she has for her mother,we can never judge her for behaving that way.

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    1. I super agree we don't know what happen in their family, we're just hearing one side if story and looks like she's close to all her siblings . Si we better not judge her as if we know everything of course I'm sure still grieving, it's still her mom after all. I'm sorry for your loss

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    2. yes. i have an idea how growing up in a broken family is like. but, it didnt stop me from doing good things to my father, who left us bec of my mother. every pay day i give some money to him, bec it was what he needed to pay his rent, for food, etc. and id treat him out to where he wants to eat. so kahit ano pa ang ginawa ng parents, when u r a child, and u are already capable of helping them, then u should always help them no matter what. why, simply bec they are ur parents. without them, u wont be here. so there's no justification for what she has done to her parents. st**id fantards!

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    3. Ang mga pakonti konti na kuwento eh yung mom niya ang nang-iwan kaya nasira ang family such that lahat ng mga anak including si star eh ayaw magpatawad. In fact si star lang ang nag re-reach out but patago sa family? Yung pinag-daanan nilang hirap as a result of wasak na family is too much for them. Ewan ko medaling magsabi na dapat magpatawad dahil di mo naranasan pero pag sa iyo nangyari, baka ganun din ang gawin. Meron akong kilala, iniwan siya ng mom because out of wedlock siya. Bumabalik ang mom pero he is not interested. Ni aaw niyang makilala. So it takes to be in somebody's shoes to experience the pain.

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  18. I pity her mom for having a kid na pinandidirian ako dahil lang sa isang saket

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  19. How about her sisters T and C? Nakikiride lng dn sa money ni k?

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    1. yung isa nyang kapatid may OC...sign na ba ito na it is really on their genes?

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  20. Sabi na eh walang magandang pupuntahan ang galit. Kung nagjapatawaran lang sila.... Condolence anyways

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  21. Ang sinumang di magmahal at rumespeto sa magulang ay destined to be punished. The bible says HONOR THY FATHER AND THEY MOTHER. No ifs, no buts. Kung may problema magulang mo like addict or whatever, tulungan mo pa rin by helping him/her recover. Hindi yung basta mo na lang iiwanan at ikahihiya. That's really Karmic.

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    1. true. true. true.

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    2. personally don't know the story behind the family but honestly- regardless of how our parents ill-treated us- they being the ones who gave life to us, that fact alone deserve them the honor, love and respect! like one comment says: NO BUTS, NO IF's. True goodness of our heart is not measured on how we treat others but how we treat those of our "own blood".
      no child has the right to ever disrespect their parents in anyway!
      True we are imperfect and make lots of mistakes in our lives but we are also capable of learning to let go and take steps to correct those mistakes, especially the ones we commit against our own parents.

      So Sad!

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    3. lakas maka-quote ng bible but FYI- karma is not a Christian belief.

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    4. AnonymousJune 25, 2013 at 3:07 AM
      hahaha, natawa aq..tama nga! Lakas maka quote pero ung huli Karmic ang sinabi...Karma is a hindu belief...Walang karma sa bible.

      I think mas appropriate yung "u reap what u sow."

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  22. I do think there's a reasonable explanation for this. I mean she has her siblings with her, if she really has a bad personality specially with their mom wouldn't her siblings be the first one to stop her? Since this is a sensitive issue both sides should be taken.

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    1. Ito ang tamang pananaw di kagaya ng iba dyan hindi nag-iisp bash lang ng bash

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    2. Eh iyong siblings kasi nakikinabang din, in place of parents, sila ang nasa malapit sa kusina di ba. Ikaw ba naman, aalis ka pa ba naman sa ganoong pwesto, o ibibigay mo pa sa iba? At wala din naman silang mga say dahil ang bumubuhay sa kanila ay si girlalu.

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    3. ikaw ba eh kokontahin mo ang bread winner niyo sa sinasabi niya? Ako ang bread winner sa family namin kahit bunso ako pinakikinggan ako ng mga kapatid kong panganay....respect nila lahat ng sasabihin ko, nararamdaman ko yon....so ganoon ang mga siblings ni k di ba?

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  23. kung ano man ang dahilan niya sa kanya nlang yun. irespeto nlang natin kung bakit kinailangan nyang gawin ang magdeny, ksi bka pinayuhan din siyang itago ang part na yun. Condolence.

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    1. Nagdeny na nga gumawa pa ng istorya? Okay ka lang?

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  24. Just wondering why the young actress is projecting sadness now. Why? Was she ever sad nung time when she was most needed by her loved one and she wasn't there?

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    1. bec shes an actress and as usual, she always wants to play "victim" to get people's sympathy.

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    2. eh kasi iyong sadness, iyon ang bebenta sa kanya. hindi naman dadami ang fans niya kung pinroject niya na di niya mapatawad ang mga magulang niya diba? filipino culture, honor thy parents. in short, magaling maglaro ang bida natin.

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    3. so totoo siya ba siya sa sinasabi sa tv noon na madaling magpatawad pero mahirap makalimut? eh para namng kasing mahirap din siyang magpatawad?

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  25. I'm sure as hell that the network will milk this - for the ratings, dahlins!

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  26. Condolence, ceasefire muna mga bashers kayo din baka kayo naman ang makarma

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  27. Ay akala ko bad mom kasei super hindi pinapansin ni daughter at ang sinasabi dati kasi iniwan daw siya. Shes ill pala. :(

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    1. eh baka nga kaya iniwan kasi ill diba, kung mental illness yun, mahirap nga naman tlga yun.

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  28. Condolence sa kanya, mahirap mawalan ng loved ones.

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    1. Lalo na kung wala kayong closure

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  29. nakakalungkot naman na ang isang tao na nagbigay ng buhay ay tinalikuran over fame and fortune pero di mu masisisi pero sana nung sikat na sya inamin na nya na ang mom nya eh may sakit, tingen ko lalo syang hahangaan ng mga tao!

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    1. tumfact! malalaos na sya dahil sa mga pinaggagawa nya.

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  30. We don't really know the story behind the feud so let them handle it. Let's just pray for them

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    1. yeah pero me as a mom... naawa talaga ako sa mom nya.. i just hope na d totoo na once nya lang na visit mom nya and etc... :(

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    2. me too kung gagawin yon ng isa sa mga anak ko...iniisip ko pa lang parang mababaliw na nga ako.

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  31. kawawa naman si aling t..ok lang magkasama na sila ni d sa heavenly bodies.

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  32. Kung totoo ito, kawawa mom niya. Pinalabas na ngang masama sa public pinandidirian lang pala.. Iba ang nagagawa ng kasikatan

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  33. wag tayong mag judge sa hnd naten alam

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  34. Lesson learned: forgive and Forget.

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  35. I remember her before telling the public that her mother abandon them and she never had a chance to meet her and, now i was so shock that she knows pala where her mom was...i like her before but sa pinapakita nya it other way around.

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  36. @Bible_Time: Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you. -Exodus 20:12

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  37. hinde sila inabandona ng NANAY nya, may sakit nga kaya nagawa nilang itago sa publiko at pinalabas na inabandona nga sila.. nahihiya syang aminin na may sakit ang nanay nya baka makasira sa career

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    1. Anong sakit b yun para ikahiya nila? A or b?

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  38. Iniwan po sila ng nanay nya bata pa sila they never felt the love of a mom. So we cannot really judge her dahjl lang sa isang sender na yan na baka kampo yan ni M or G at baka mga bashers lang din iyan to ruin the image of K.

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    1. heto na naman, nananahimik si m at g tapos isasali niyo dito. pwedi pa mourning day kamo ngayon ng idol niyo at respetohin baket di niyo magawa sa iba. kung kailan may namatayan doon lang kayo magceceasefire. mga pathetic. wag niyong idamay ibang tao sa kabitteran ng idol niyo. ayan na-KARMA tuloy.

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    2. Hanggang dito dinadamay ng k fans sina m at g? C'mon nanahimik na ang dalawa.

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  39. may malaki syang rason bakit nya nagawa ang ilihim sa publiko or sabihin inabandona sya ng nanay nya, pero sana sa mga anak kahit anu pa ang rason nyo, nakakalungkot kung ganun ang gagawin sa nanay, balang araw eh magiging nanay din sya so sana huwag nya maranasan ang sakit na naramdaman ng nanay at relatives nya

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  40. Mahirap 'to. Walang closure. Condolence to the family. May the mom's soul rest in peace.

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  41. if people only knew what happened to her and her siblings.. and why she doesnt have any means to contact the parent.. they will understand.. but knowing her she will not defend her self just for other people's satisfaction

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    1. Shes defending herself by make iyak iyak in her guestings ang be the kawawa one. Lagi naman niya ginagawa yan too bad nakabisado n sya ng tao

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    2. eh kung ikaw alam mo, eh why dont u tell us kaya!

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    3. anong wlang means? sa daming pera at popularity niya? ikaw na ang fantard

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  42. None of us know their real situation when they were growing up but definitely it wasnt the most ideal especially if you & your siblings are surrounded by family who are way, way, way off than you are and not dealing with aftermaths of other people's decisions. There are stories that it was daughter who paid off all of the mom's obligations. Di niya kinahiya nanay niya pero kinailangan niyang di sabihin kasi marami ang naghahanap. Let the mom go in peace & let the family grieve in whatever way they choose to.

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    1. i agree with u...

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    2. it took her a while to build a house bec. of this reason she wants to pay cash for everythin and no "utang" bec of her trauma...

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    3. kaya pinagkalat na lang niya na inabandona sila at nagpaawa effect at lumabas na masama nanay niya? pagsamahin niyo nga utak niyo ng idol mo

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  43. I'm not a fan but I know that there are always 2 sides to a story...

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  44. naniniwala ako na kinailangan nya na hinde sabihin ang tungkol sa mom nya sa publiko, pero nung nasa estado kana na sikat kana at kaya muna ng masukat ang kakayahan ng tao na umunawa siguro baka hinangaan pa sya..

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    1. She will do anything for fame... anything... even turning her back from her own mother. Sad...

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  45. Ang mga fans ni p would really do everything just to justify her wrong doings. Wake up guys. Your idol will never learn if you keep on doing that. Her mother might have done something terribly wrong in the past but she was still her mother who gave her life! She was suffering from a certain illness during the last days of her life and that's enough reason already for her to forgive her for whatever mistake she committed! She always portrays herself in teleseryes to be a good daughter but it's ironic that she can't do it to her own mother!!

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    1. Amen to that. A Mothers's role in the family is forever etched in our lives. Moms are irreplaceable!

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    2. Agree! Sad :(

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    3. Paano kung di naganpanan ng nanay ang pagka-nanay niya?madali magsasabi na nanay mo pa rin yan, dapat patawarin mo.pero pag kayo na sa sitwasyon na saktan and ibetray ng magulang, gaano kabilis mag forgive.gaano kabilis makalimot?

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  46. Mahilig talaga ito mag-hold ng grudge kaya I doubt na magkipagayos pa yan sa mga taong nakasakit sa kanya. Hindi lang siya bitter at galit, gusto pa niya talaga na ipinaparamdam sa taong kinagagalitan niya ang sakit. Talaga namang hanggang ngayon malaki pa galit niya sa mom niya. Kahit pa napakalaki ng kasalanan ng nanay niya, it's still not right to hold grudges. Condolence sa mga taong nagmahal at nagpatawad sa nanay niya, can't say the same to her. And to think she was unreasonable about her feud with his dad, sorry pero ayoko sa mga taong ganyan lalo na sa magulang nila. If one can hold grudges for her mom, that person can do that to anyone. No wonder she's loveless (not just in the form of relationship).

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  47. Condolence to the family..

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  48. Lagi naman sinasabi nung girl na ang tumayong nanay sa kanila is yung eldest sana whatever issue nila naayos before mamatay although mukhang hindi naayos condolences sa family.

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  49. dear K, “Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.” ~Paul Boese

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  50. tama! matutong magpatawad kahit anong kasamaan pa ang nagawa sa iyo lalo na ng mga magulang mo.

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  51. Having a relative with mental illness especially as close as parent/sibling is not easy. If they hide it from the public is understandable. Majority of Filipinos still do not understand the illness and would usually resort to passing judgement to person with the illness and to the whole family.

    If they really hide it, I'm pretty sure that it is family decision and not only by K.

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    1. iba naman yung tinago yung illness - understandable yun. Pero yung pinalabas niya na inabandona sila ng nanay niya at pinalabas na napakasamang tao yung nanay niya? iba naman yung.

      ang harsh ni K. Walang awa. and yet paawa effect siya sa mga 'tards niya.

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  52. condolence po..sana wala munang maligaw na haters and bashers dito.

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    1. at sana di na idamay pa ang iba. focus na lang kayo ngayon sa idol niyo. - Venus

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  53. Malay nman nating lahat kung ano ang totoong story ng buhay nila. Grabe naman magsalita ang iba dyan. Pwedeng iyon ang sinabi sa kanya nung bata pa sya kaya iyon ang alam nyang totoo. Kung anu man talaga ang kwento ng pamilya nila, labas na tayong lahat don.

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    1. ok...so ano ang totoo? yung side lang naman lagi ni K ang naririnig sa tv at interviews ah. so ano ang totoo? yung pinalabas niyang napakasam ng nanay niya sa mata ng publiko?

      yan ang totoo? anong excuse niya dun?

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  54. Its true our parents will always be our parents, its just sometimes, some of them are not fit to be called such by their children. You dont know the whole story -- so why bother judging?

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    1. This one totally makes sense among others.
      I dislike crab-mentality of most people. Gusto nila may karamay sila sa bitter lives nila kung kaya't at the very slight opportunity na makahila ng kapwa paibaba, gagawin talaga.
      I wouldn't judge this family. They even deserve prayers at this time. Sa mga nabiyayaan ng mga mabubuting, just be thankful of what you have, that you don't have to endure others' experiences who don't have the same which could have molded them into what they have become today. If you're not the mother of this girl herself, then you don't have the right to say what's been going on. (And mind you, again, not all parents are what they seem and tell the real stories too.)

      Condolences to the whole family especially to the young girl at whom everyone is "casting their stones." Only God knows what's in our hearts. x

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    2. Agree. Kala mo naman anghel ang lahat ng parents. Moms may have carried children for 9 months, pero pano naman kung paglabas nung bata, a lifetime of strife naman ang dinanas. 9 months VS bad childhood which resulted to problematic adulthood = stressful lifetime. Unless the child had the will to strive for a better life and personal peace. Most children with bad childhood dont have this will, or it takes double effort for them compared to those with a balanced childood. Dont be so quick to judge. Im not a fantard btw. Please be reasonable. Take iron.

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    3. ok...so ang papakinggan lang yung side ni K? na inabandona sila ng nanay niya at napakasamang tao ng nanay niya? so yun lang yung side na gustong marinig?

      then why the hell is she "sad" now?

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  55. Condolence to the family. Sana magkaayos na ang mga dapat magkaayos sa loob at labas ng pamilya para sa ikatatahimik ng lahat.

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  56. hay, sana naman sa nangyari na ito eh may matutunan ka.

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  57. nakakalungkot doble doble ang sakit nyan kay K, kasi may guilt dahil hinde nya napatawad ang nanay nya sa nagawa nito sa kanila at hinde rin sya nakahinge ng tawad sa nagawa nyang pagtalikod sa nanay nya! kaya sa mga readers ni FP naku simulan natin magisip isip at kung kaya na magpatawad na, magpatawad na

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  58. Sa huli ang pagsisisi. Sana narialize niya lahat ng mga actions niya may mga consenquences

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    1. Sana narealize din yan ng parents nya noon pa para nagkabati na sila.

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  59. naway ito ang magdaan para magliwanag ang kanyang puso at isipan,, its not about fame and fortune kasi darating ang araw kakailanganin mung iwan ang lahat ng yan

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  60. I never liked this girl. May something about her that seems insincere. Now I guess I know why.

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    1. Agreed! Pareho sila ng kaaway nya ngayon, parang laging ang plastik, not just with each other but with other people.

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  61. Wag kau manghusga! I'm not a fan of kawayan girl pero d natin alam Kung ano talaga nsa loob nya at Kung ano reason bkit cla iniwan ng Ina nila pati ng ama nila at Kung anong hirap ang pinagdaanan ni kawayan girl para maitaguyod mga kapatid nya!

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  62. Kung totoo ito, kawawa naman si girl nakain na ng limelight. Lahat gagawin para sa image niya kahit matapakan na niya pagkatao ng iba. Okay labg sa kaibigan pero sa nanay?

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  63. ano naman ang nakakahiya sa mental illness, eh kung iyon ang totoo? ang nakakahiya, nagsisinungaling ka! at di ka nagpapakatotoo! lalo na hindi ka marunong magpatawad! iyon ang mga masama!

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    1. Correct! at pwede ba, huwag nga siya pa-sad effect ngayon. plastik.

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  64. Hindi ako fan ni K. Pero mali naman yata husgahan sya dahil hindi natin alam kung ano ba talaga pinagdaanan ng pamilya nila. Maaring hindi mabuting kapamilya yung namayapa at naging traumatic kay K at mga kapatid nya ang buhay nila noon. I remember napanood ko noon na kinwento ni K na palipat-lipat sila ng iba't ibang kamaganak na kukupkop sa kanila nung lumalaki sila. Hindi natin masisisi si K na sumama loob ng ganun..hindi natin alam hirap at sakit na pinagdaanan nila.

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    1. So, ok lang na alagaan ang galit kahit na alam mong may sakit na 'yong mom mo na nagkasala sa'yo? Hmmm... magulang is magulang, balik-baliktarin mo man ang mundo, magulang pa din 'yan.

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    2. ito ang pinagdaanan ng pamilya nila according sa kwento ni K sa mga tv interviews niya - masamang tao ang nanay niya at inabandona sila and her mother deserves na pandirihan at itago sa publiko.

      So tama lang si K na pandirihan ang nanay niya di ba? kasi masamang tao ang nanay niya di ba? that's according to your fantard state of mind.

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  65. Kung yung old self nya dinedeny nya nga e.... Its just hard to hear na just for fame you turn your back on everything. This too shall pass but family will always be there, but make sure ir won't be too late.

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    1. Exactly, the family members that was supposed to be always there for them, wasn't there.

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  66. mahirap mag judge kung hindi natin alam ang totoong mga pangyayari...

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    1. W/ k's history hindi maaring totoo ang balita.. Well bahala na siya sa buhay niya siya naman ang nagsusuffer sa mga ginagawa niya. Sayang lang hindi niya naibigay sa mommy niya ang peace of mind

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  67. Maiicocompare nanaman siya kay bff niya. Bff niya namatay ang dad ng walang samaan ng loob. I guess kahit gaano kalaki ang kasalanan ng magulang nasa anak na kung paano ito tatanggapin. At the end of the day andito ka sa mundo dahil sa kanila. Magalit ka kung gusto mong magalit but be sure may pupuntahan ang galit mo. Ngayon wala na mom niya sayang dahil napunta lang sa wala ang galit niya. Condolence. May she rest in peace at mahanap niya ang katahimikan.

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  68. Too judgmental, folks...did you ever consider that the Mom does not want to be exposed, too? If she had legal issues, why would she thrust herself into the limelight? Isip isip rin pag may time!

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    1. Kaya pinalabas na lang ni K na saksakan ng sama ang nanay niya eh 'no?

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  69. Haaay naawa pa Naman Ako before Kay K dahil Ning kinuwento Nya yung mom Nya nag hire pa daw siya ng investigator just to find her mom and over the years WLA daw talga syang alam Kung asan mom niya bigla Lang daw nawala ,.. Tapos ngayon biglang ayan nah alam niya pala Kung asan mom niya.. Grabe unti unti nakong nwawalan ng bilib Sakarya.

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  70. Napakaimmature nga ni K sa paghandle ng mga problema niya nad now wala na mama niya wala naring chance sila magkaayos

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    1. Kung walang sinira eh di wala sanang kelangang ayusin.

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    2. Bakit sino ba may sabi hnd cla nkta at nagka usap ilang lingo din pblk blk sa lugar nla reseach research din pag may tym try 2 ask fly details ilang ulit bmbya c k mnsan kht hating gbi bmbyahe mga ate nya ksma nya s lhat kung.mnsan.eto.nag ddssyun pra s knya ano kraptang nyo praang husga sino ba kau

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  71. K close to her relatives. Binibisita pa nga siya sa Manila. Her and her siblings were passed from relative to relative after her parents split. Wala naman tayong alam sa story nila.

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  72. to be honest maraming nakakaalam nyan,pero karamihan ng fans ng IBA or haters may respeto pa kaya hinde nabubunyag or hinde ginagawang sandata yan para tuyain sya.. kaya sana sa mga fans ni K matuto rin kayong rumespeto sa ibang artista para sa mga pagkakaton na ganito irespeto rin nila kayo or ido nyo! thanks

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    1. tumpak!!! unclassy kasi ang mga fans ni K

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  73. You do not know the real reason for all of these. She loves her mom. In fact, she is the main reason why she joined showbiz. She wants her mom to have proper treatment and to prevent further deterioration. The best treatment and care is quite expensive. That's why she has to work hard for the family and of course, she has to protect her from the dirty tricks of show business . Are you sure that she doesn't talk to her mom on the phone and checks on her? Or sees her when she goes home? You guys do not have the right to judge her. It's best that we pray for her and the family

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  74. sabihin na natin wala tayo sa posisyon para humusga pero napapaisip ako kay K, ang tatay nya taon ang binilang na hinde sila nagkakasundo and now eto naman yung sa nanay nya.

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  75. Bagay pala sa kanya ang kantang Pusong Bato. Wala nga sa itsura niya na mukhang kaawa-awa ang tigas ng puso niya. Kahit ano pa ang ginawa ng magulang, da-dalawang tao lang iyan sa mundo, na kung hindi dahil sa dalawang tao na iyan, hindi tayo mabubuhay. Iyon na lang sana naisip niya. Pinatawad niya hindi para sa mga magulang niya, kundi para sa sarili niya. May kapayapaan na siya, mas bibiyayaan pa siya ng Diyos. Ngayon wala na, tapos na, huli na. May pagsisisi ba? Ewan ko. Hindi pa nga nila masabi kung ano kinamatay, kaya maaring totoo din ito. At sa mga fans na sa tingin nila na hindi makabasag pinggan ang idol nila, may nangyari nga na makakapagpatunay na kaya niyang tumiis ng magulang, nang hindi niya kinausap iyong isa niyang magulang sa mahabang panahon. Iyon na lang makikita mo na ang pagiging pusong bato niya. Ganoon lang talaga siguro siya, manhid na, pusong bato na

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    1. Sana nagsasabi kg ng totoo...para hero ka. Kung opinion mo lang yan God Bless you na lang baka bumalik sa iyo mga pinagsasabi mo.

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    2. Kung pusong bato siya, di sana hinayaan na niya ang mga kapatid at lola niya tutal hindi naman niya obligasyong bigyan ng maayos na buhay ang mga siblings niya at lola niya na may mga anak pa namang iba. Obligasyon iyong gawin ng mga magulang niya at hindi siya na kinakailangang magtrabaho sa murang edad. Na nagsakripsyo na di magpatuloy ng pag aaral, mapag aral lang at mabigyan ng magandang kinabukasan ang mga kapatid niya. Magtrabaho ng walang humpay para sa kanila. Na kapag may mga calamities na nangyayari sa bansa, nandiyan agad siya para tumulong. Ikaw na pusong mamon, at magaling manghusga ng iba kahit wala pang trial, nagawa mo na ba kahit isa lang sa mga ginawa ni Kim? Kapag may nagawa ka ng kapuri puri sa pamilya mo at sa taong bayan, saka ka na lang magmalinis. pero habang wala pa, manahimik ka na lang muna at matututong tumawag sa Diyos na tulungan kang huwag maging mapanghusga.

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  76. Let us not judge too harshly or too fast. We are all not privy to what went on to her family in the past. And we do not know the pains, hurt, aches and other stuff that went on the the four walls of her family. Plus give her time to grieve, come to grips with whatever fault she may have in not taking care of her loved one. Remember we did not live her life and in the end she will be accountable to herself, her conscience and to her GOD. Leave her alone, she needs understanding and condolence now not people casting stones at her. WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE? If you cannot be part of the solution just stay out of it! Regrets they come too late when the loved one is gone. So better treasure those that are still around.

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  77. kaya minsan kayong mga fantards ni k matuto din kayong rumespeto, para sa mga ganyang pagkakataon maibalik ang respeto sa inyo

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    1. yes so ironic, humihingi sila ng respeto ngayon eh di naman sila marunong rumespeto

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  78. ijajudge nyo na agad yung pagiging anak-magulang nila? Imposible naman sinadya lang ni k itago ang case ng mom nya. May mga siblings naman sya na posibleng magagalit sa kanya pag ganun ginawa nila. Stop bashing. Pagpray nyo na lang muna.

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    1. impossible magalit sa knaiya, siya ang nagpapakain sa kanila. remember?

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  79. karma n palang matatawag amg sobra sobrang biyaya na tinatamasa nya..kung totoong di nya trinato ng maayos nanay nya bakit napaka successful nya?! wag tayong maging mapanghusga s kapwa lalo n at di naman nating lubusang kilala!

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    1. maybe di ngayon, maybe in the near future. only time can tell

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    2. eh kayo nga kung makahusga rin sa iba, wagas! tas pag idol nyo na jina-judge ayaw nyo. kanya-kanyang trip lang yan. kaya nga may freedom of expression, dabah?

      and yang karma naman, di agad-agad dumarating sa isang tao yan. antay-antay ka lang, teh.makikita mo result. gudlack sayo!

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  80. Madali lang maging opinionated, nature ng tao yan na mag judge pero kahit isa sa atin, walang karapatan mang husga sa kapwa, kahit pa public figure ka, kahit pa sa tingin ng tao, masama ka, bitter, cant handle grudges, lahat ibato nyo na sa kanya,

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    1. ngaun alam mo na kung panu husgahan??? this is a wake up call sa mga tards ni K

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  81. Di nman natin alam anong nangyari sa pamilya nila kundi lumaki silang magkakapatid sa nanay ng tatay nila who has his own family na din. Sya ang tumayong nanay at tatay ng mga kapatid nya nung nakakagaan na sya sa buhay. Nasan ang nanay at tatay nya? Ewan natin...kung maysakit man ang nanay nya at according sa letter sender tinutulungan financially ng aktres swerte pa din nya. Kung di man sya nadalaw siguro me reason si aktres at mga kapatid nya kung bakit. Kung ayaw man pag usapan ngayon ng aktres siguro para na din maging tahimik ang lahat...ayaw na din siguro makakuha pa ng sympathy at publicity ang aktres, Dahil nga sa di ko sila kilala di ako pwedeng mag judge at sana yung letter sender tingnan din ang kabilang side at wag i blame sa isang tao lang ang pangyayari.

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  82. sabi nga nila, ang hirap sa LIE eh kailangan pagtakpan mo ng another LIE.. next thing you know hinde mo na alam oh ma alala kung anong kasinungalingan ang sinabi mo..

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  83. wawa naman kung totoo ito. price of her career? ang bigat naman.

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  84. Hindi naman sya hinuhusgahan e, totoo yan, di ba sabi nya lagi galit sya sa nanay nya? Ang totoo may sakit ang nanay nya at kinahihiya nya

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  85. may tsismis nga na ganyan, oh well girl na sa huli ang pagsisisi, if meron ka nun

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  86. may meeting pala ang mga judge ng supreme court dito...

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  87. Dr are always 2sides of the story at wala tyong karpatan n mag judge..Malay natin kailan LNG sila ngkita ng ina Nya

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  88. Sa gaya ko na iniwan din ng nanay gaya ni K, madali sabihin ng iba na mom mo pa rin yun..but for us na mga anak super hirap na i-accept ang ginawa ng mom namin..madali mag judge na walang awa si K pero I understand her pain cause her mom CHOSE to leave them before..condolence sa family ni K and sana itigil muna mga kabitteran na ganito..

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  89. me reason namn siguro kung bakit sya nagdamdam sa mommy nya,baka hindi talaga naging maganda yung childhood nya.im sure nag cc rin yung mom nya at nakkawa rin nag karon sya ng ganung sakit

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  90. masama talaga ang ugali nitong si K sariling ina di kinilala nabuhay ng puno ng lies and bitterness mapagtanim ng galit sa kaibigan at pamilya kahit na sikat sya deep inside she will never be happy may time pa para magbago ugali nya ang magpapabagsak sa kanya

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  91. KAHIT GAANO PA KABAIT ANG MUKHA NG TAO, MATULUNGIN SA KAPWA, KUNG SARILING MAGULANG TITIKISIN HINDING HINDI AKO HAHANGA SA KANYA. KAKABATI LANG SA ISANG MAGULANG NIYA NGAYON ANG ISA HINDI MAN LANG NIYA MAIKUWENTO I MAIPAKITA SA NAG UUMAPAW NIYANG LETRATO KUNG SAAN SAAN. SAYO NA K ANG LAHAT NG SALAPI PERO HINDI KA SASAYA NG TOTOO.

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  92. Kaya pala ang sabi sa news eh sa di pa daw pdeng sabihin ang rason ng death of her mom. Condolence to her family. Wag maging bitter. love love love.

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  93. Wala kaung alam alam nyo trabaho nya kya mhrap.dn.s.knya pero alam q mga kptd nya pnpgwa nya ng praan pra mkakilos..

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  94. even if my illness ang mother they should love their mom more...kung iniwan nga sila eh may reason naman eh..
    sayang talaga ang oras at panahon...esp her na milyon milyon ang kita and yet di man lang napagamot...it will rebound of her for a longest time..hope it will not get into her.

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  95. Sana manalo na talaga si K ng Best Actress Award... deserving talaga siya.

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  96. Napaisip tuloy ako kay C ng dahil sa BI na 'to. Parang mas masahol pa pala si K kaysa kay C kung ang pagiging pusong bato ang pag-uusapan. Tsk tsk tsk....

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  97. Napaka judgemental nga naman talaga ng tao. Kaya hindi umuunlad ang bansa.

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  98. Lahat tayo walang karapatan manghusga we don't know the real story and hindi din tayo sure sa kung reliable itong micki let's just pray for her soul....whether totoo o hindi hayaan na lang natin...kasi siguro tayo naman lahat my problemang pamilya na kayo kayo lang ang nakakaalam at lahat tayo alam ang feeling ng namatayan kaya respect na lang

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  99. we dont know the real story behind the story so rather than make conjectures, i think, it would only be proper to give the dead a few minutes of silence... kung totoo man ung issues, her mom chose not to speak or complain about it... as outsiders, we dont have to dig into something that the relevant parties chose to bury. we could only hope that they find peace and atonement.

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  100. People who suffer from mental illness are stigmatized and all other members of the family are also affected directly and indirectly. The move to covered the truth was not to get sympathy or to protect ones career but all the members of the family. The public does not have the right to know ones private business. The news prior to the death indicated she visited her mother in the hospital. One can concluded that the daughter had been in contact with her - she had provided the necessary support for the care of the mother who was capable to take care of herself.

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