Friday, December 28, 2012

Please Mind Your Child!

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What happens when celebrity parents decide to split up and their children are left being second priority because mom and dad have found new partners and have started new families? Regardless of the split,  children of celebrities are often under scrutiny especially when their peers find out about their identities.

Take the case of the child of a separated showbiz couple (CS). The dad of CS has found a new wife and has even moved away from the city from where his other career had once flourished. The mother of CS has kept a low profile after the marriage crumbled, and has constantly denied any connection with a married man.

The story goes that CS struck a friendship with a fellow student (FS) from an exclusive elite school. Naturally, as young adolescents, CS and FS regularly exchange text messages. Then one day, the mother of FS freaked out when she found out that CS was asking for load from her 12 year old son. Turns out, the 'asking for load' has been a regular thing between the two.  Apparently, FS has been generous in passing load to CS each time the mother has loaded his mobile.

Sadly, the mother could not help but lament at how CS, at such a young age, can just as easily and naturally ask her young son for a load. “Oportunista” was how she labelled CS.

Perhaps, CS' behavior or misbehavior got more magnified because she is a child of celebrities. Asking for a load might seem “cute” at the stage of adolescence, but it sends off a wrong message that might lead to more and bigger demands later on. As such, celebrities or not, parents must be extra cautious at how they behave in front of their children. Kids are like sponges who absorb everything that they see and hear from their elders.

As it is said biblically, "Train up a child in the way he should go. And even when he is old, he will never depart from it. "

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86 comments:

  1. OMG! kay bata pa marunong ng mambakal! di na lang ako ge-guess, kawawa naman minor eh!

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    1. Ermageerd kaese December 28, 2012 1:06 AM, are you, like, so sossy that you don't know what mabakal is? Ermageerd, like, you shouldn't be in the Philippines then, you can like stay in your hotel na lang and make utos-utos to the maids. Ermageerd!

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    2. mambakal-meaning mag delihensiya. naririnig ko sa Kuya ko and his barkada.

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    3. read between the lines.

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    4. December 28, 2012 6:30 AM Kung makapag react ka naman! Eh ano ngayon kung di niya alam yung mambakal??? Lahat ba ng pinoy slang kailangan alam ng lahat ng tao? Insecure ka ba sa mga mayayaman?

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    5. mambakal as in mam bakal is iron woman in english. intiende na , Kapiz ?

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    6. Itong si.dec.28 630am kung makapagsalita... mambakal ay slang na expression. Its not as if tinuturo yan sa school. Eh parang expert ka eh kase alam na alam mo diba??? Hinay hinay lang.

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    7. mambakal - manghingi ng barya. bakal kasi yung barya diba.

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    8. Im mainly visayan and although i can speak good tagalog im not really familiar with some slangs. Ito lang masasabi ko - OA mo anon 6:30!!!! Not because di alam ng reader ang meaning eh mayaman na. Gags.

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    9. korek ka jan December 29, 2012 9:32 PM! hello, malay ba nung tao sa word na "mam-bakal", na sa normal nyang pang araw araw na pamumuhay eh di nman nya gaano naririnig un?! kahit ako nga ngyn ko lang narinig un. sorry ha, December 28, 2012 6:30 AM, di naman kami mayayaman pero di nman kase normal na part everyday words sa vocabulary namin un. napahiya tuloy si December 28, 2012 1:06 AM. masama ba mag-tanong.

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  2. Anak ng sissy ni behati na ngpamigay ng pink na walis nung xmas!!!!

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    1. Dont they have postpaid lines? Bonggels naman datung ni mudra ah! :))

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    2. Cno sa mga un? Ung eldest cgro college na un,so I think ung younger?

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    3. may tama ka 12:14! kung ano nakikita sa magulang siyang gagayahin ng anak.

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    4. sya din naisip ko.

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    5. yung bunsong babae siguro. 12 yo ang friend eh.

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  3. pahirap ng pahirap everyday!

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  4. Help mga vaklush! Hirap naman nito.

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  5. wit ako idea. hahahaha

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  6. ano meaning ng "please mind your child"? mind means thinking. please think your child ba ang meaning ng title? hindi iniisip ni mother si CS? kawawa naman si CS kung ganun...

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    1. Mind your child means supervise the child. Alagaan/gabayan/bigyan ng atensiyon ganun po ang ibig sabihin ni FP.

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    2. cute ng comment na to, verbatim talaga :)

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    3. Trying to make patawa?corny u.

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    4. bantayan ang anak ang meaning nito. usually sa mga european countries nakasulat yan sa gitna ng kalye meaning pay attention (to passing children).

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    5. this is one of the reason kung bakit dapat ipasa ang RH bill, para mabawasan ang mga intellectually challenged

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    6. Teh LOL facepalm. second hand embarrassment Hahahaha porket mind isip agad. kahit yung think your child eh mali parin LOL fail

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    7. Parang " Please MIND THE STEP" isipin ang paghakbang! Bwahahaha...PEACE! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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    1. based on clue: The dad of CS has found a new wife and has even moved away from the city from where his other career had once flourished.

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    2. Anon 9:26 PM, inulit mo lang yung sinulat ni FP. wala ka bang sariling clue o hula man lang?

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    1. based on clue: The dad of CS has found a new wife and has even moved away from the city from where his other career had once flourished.

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    2. Anonymous 9:29 PM, thank you for re-typing what FP said. lol.

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  9. The niece of la gr**a?

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    1. Hindi ba madumi ang niece la La Great kasi lagi syang nakaluhod? My toes, my niece, my shoulders, my head.

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    2. Ang corny mo teh! Dun ka dpt sa sisterakas,magsama kau ng idol mong kabayo! Lol

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  10. ito ba si former endorser ng gingersnaps? Tsk si tita at madir kasi may image na bilmoko..kung ano ginagawa ng matatanda ginagaya ng bata

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  11. sinetch?! nakakaloka! nakaka-relate ako kasi yung lil sis ko noon may mga nagpapapasa din sa kanya ng load. nung nalaman ko, todo sermon inabot sa akin!

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  12. no idea kaya balik nalang ako dito pagkagising ko. good mornight

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  13. Niece ni the great at ni naia thrilla... bata pa lang mukang aral na aral na..

    -Echoserang Frog

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  14. CS - D Mom - M Dad - KL

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    1. Lalaki si CS hindi babae. Basahin mo yung sinabi ni FP na, "12 year old son". So it's not NAIA Thrilla niece.

      -Donyang Tsismosang Badush-

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    2. 12:43 -- "Then one day, the mother of FS freaked out when she found out that CS was asking for load from her 12 year old son." -- FS is the boy FP is referring to, not CS.

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    3. "Then one day, the mother of FS freaked out when she found out that CS was asking for load from her 12 year old son."

      Pakibasa nalang po uli :)

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    4. Si FS po yung 12 year old son na tinutukoy ni FP, hindi si CS.

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  15. sorry di ko mahulaan :)


    - Charring Tatum

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  16. Wow FP, at least di ka biased. Gusto ko yung naging insights mo about this, pag tabloid siguro magbblown out of proportion itey! Pero sinetch ba sa mga junakelya yun? yung mestiza na malaulap, mestiza na me kambal na tadhana or yung morena? The morena one seems nice naman di ba active netizen yun?

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  17. How can the mother deny that she is with the married man when she even has a baby with h. And she lives in the house married man bought for her as well as the married man always goes to the house.

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    1. sinong H? di ba E?

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    2. sinong H diba E?

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    3. can you please repeat with feelings? waley ko magets grammar mo te!!!

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  18. CS parents are showbiz politicians from Monumento. Her dad is planning to have a seat in laguna de bay. Her mom is now with king don romantico. I think its one of CS' perks for being beautiful. Im sorry for CS and her dad

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  19. Anak ni Konsehala?

    Matandang Chismosa

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  20. kakainis na nakakaawa. busy kasi ang parents sa kanilang love life nakakalimutan na nila ang anak.

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  21. Anak ng sissy ni b***ti....fp true ba na nanganak mom nito?

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    1. kelan nanganak? I just recently followed her sa Instagram and payat naman. Ang payat nga ng arms nya for her torso e, tingin ko payat na nilipo. Panay post nya na nag-g-gym sya. At ang mga bags ang gaganda kahit sa S&R lang ang punta. Gano ba kalaki kita ng konsehala para ma-afford yung mga bags nya?

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  22. I'm sure sasabihin ng mader ng bagets, "Good job anak! Loook where your Titas and I are now? Nakahiga kami sa salapi, puno ang walk in closet namin ng mamahaling make-up, designer clothes and perfumes, pa-travel-travel, may pinag-aawayang pera sa bangko etc.! Use your charm!"

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  23. 12 y/o niece of NAIA jombag queen and la great.. CS - C; Mom - M; Dad - D

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  24. Tommy Abuel look alike yung kinakasama ng mom?

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  25. Diyos ko. Load lang nag freak out na agad ang nanay??? Baka naman favor lang kasi wala mapa loadan.

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    1. honga! para load lang ang hiningi e, at im sure hindi naman P100 na load yun! if i know P5 lang siguro o P10 yung hiningi. tsaka sana, huwag nating pangunahan na kung nanghihingi ng load ngayon e it might lead to more and bigger demands later on. pwedeng oo pero pwede ring hindi. huwag naman sana tayo agad manghusga.

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    2. Korek! Sino ba satin hindi nagpaload sa iba kahit ONCE lang?

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    3. Ako po, nagpapaload sa tindahan. :D

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  26. Yung isa kong friend sa Facebook, friend Niya yung new "wife" ng father ng batang ito. the "wife" gave birth a few months ago.

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  27. Persons involved are quite obvious pero based from observations, si CS mukang ginu-groom ng kafam to be the next rising star. Does this BI has something to do with it? Just wondering!

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  28. J Child ni Meryl Streep

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  29. I think so too. Kaya puro kabulukan nangyayari sa anak at sa K****kan eh. Puro kalokohan ang nanay.

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  30. Anak ni D the Menace sa sis ni G na balitang nag kaanak sa mayor. Like mother, like child.

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    1. kung maka-like mother like child ka naman, wagas. para load lang ang hiningi nung bata e. uso yan sa mga bagets ngayon kung hindi nyo alam. sus.

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    2. tomoh! magwala kayo kung ang nanay magpaload sa mayor dabah?!

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  31. yung dad si D. yung madir si M, na kapatid ni la G

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  32. Oa naman, load lang naman ang hiningi. I dont know who this kid is nor her family (wala ako magets sa clue), so i'm not being judgemental. This is not a big deal, and oa lang yung nanay nung bagets na kinalat pa to sa mga friends niya

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  33. Gulo mo FP..akala ko ba "exculsive elite school"? db pag exclusive either all-boys or all-girls? e bakit sa pagkakaintindi ko e girl si CS at boy si FS?

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    1. CS and FS study in "separate" exclusive elite schools. Their schools are beside each other. Fyi

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  34. Lol. Daughter of MB (konsehala) has a postpaid plan. She's also 15 so why would she be asking load from a 12 year old?? ++ she's 2nd yr HS in an all girls school and FS would be gr 6 or 7? Sounds more like her younger sister but she also has postpaid. Lol

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