Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Going Beyond Help

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While much has been written about this Intense Actor (IA) succumbing to his old habits, have people done enough to help IA get out of his struggle? A few days ago, at his new network's party, showbiz was rocked with another incident of IA’s notorious drunkenness. At the event, alcohol flowed freely, of course. IA, who after undergoing rehabilitation for months and promised on television that he would reform, could not help himself. What was worse was the alleged story that IA actually brought his own stash at the party. To review the events, IA in his drunkenness turns into his Jekyll mode and reacts regardless of who gets hurt. He stole a kiss from a socialite/TV host (SH), then calls “cheap” and threatens to hurt well-loved beki personality (BP), and even challenged a young dramatic actor of the network.

Of course, the three did not want to let the incident pass, but they knew better than to argue with a drunk. Moreover, a few weeks ago, his family has appealed for understanding as IA is also suffering from bipolarism. IA was lucky that the boyfriend of SH was not around or else, there might have been an unwanted confrontation. After cooler heads intervened, IA realized what he did was wrong and apologized to the three. Then, in an interview regarding the incident, IA denied of any wrongdoing in the event. However, instead of fanning the flame again, the three continued to forgive IA.

It is sad that IA, who happens to be one of the most talented and versatile actors of his generation, could not seem to rise above his struggles. After his personal tragedies that came one after the other, he has allowed himself to be defeated again. What could really be troubling IA all these years? Lately, stories about his behaviour are coming out as speculations. The most surprising story is that he was allegedly taken advantage of while he was languishing in jail sometime ago. Of course, no one will talk about this allegation as what happens in jail, stays in there.

The only thing IA definitely loves is his career, but if he refuses to accept that his alcoholism is his big problem, he might lose that as well. Although the industry can be forgiving, it can only take so much. One word from management, and IA can just disappear into oblivion. He needs to face his problems head on, accept his losses, and cut clean. At the rate he's going, his reputation is already deplorable and pitiful.

Only a few actors have sunk so low and made successful comebacks. One is now a politician, another is the premier dramatic actress, and a comedian turned versatile actress. They have revelled in their lives, until they realized that taxes, bankruptcy, alcohol, gambling, and drugs have consumed them. Then, they woke up with the help of people who dared to believe in them at the lowest point of their lives. The rest, like IA, need people who will continue to have faith in them, but before looking for others, IA should look into himself first.

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61 comments:

  1. Pahingi nga muna ng Toothpick

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    1. All I can say is... Napakahusay nyang actor. Kamukha nya si Heath Ledger.

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    2. Heath Ledger ng Pinas. Kaso may topak.

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    3. Ang aktor na mahilig sa chubby women Gaya nung anak ng dating matinee idol, pati na sina sina yasmien at cherry pie binastos nya. Excuse nya lagi lasheeeng sya.

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    1. Ex ni Maya. First time nila isat isa noon. Sayang ang love team nila.

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  3. C DUKE itech. sure na.

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  4. BI ito as in Bonus Ito! Obvious na sagot...

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  5. I dont think he's really bipolar, nasunog nalang siguro ng alcohol ang kanyang brains kaya nagmukhang bipolar!
    Christmas naman lets forgive na muna and pray na sana marealize nya yun and that his family would also help and support him in this ordeal afterall, one's core values are formed within one's family.
    Happy Christmas everyone!

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  6. Kung di to nagbisyo, kasingsikat sana sya ni JL. Grabe sya, sikat at sumikat ang mga orig love team partners nya, mula may tin hanggang kay Maya. Sana magtino na sya. Ang husay nya umarte, natural na natural. Kaso lulong sa Alak

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  7. Favorite ko sya. Dahil sa kanya, watched ako ng Asyong Salonga. Sya pala pumitik kay Asyong

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  8. barumbado to baronbago, turned barumbado again. haist!

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  9. meri xmas fp! parang giveaway na din etong BI. B wla nang iba.

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  10. walang iba kundi si ka ernie itey.

    -magandang tomboy

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  11. di ko pa binabasa BI alam ko na kung sino to hndi nrn nmn 2 BI since naheadline na 2

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  12. kaya nga giveaway ung BI kc christmas eh :)

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  13. Naku fp ndi na bago ito!easy ang b.i na itey! ^_^ nwei merry xmas fp!and sa lahat ng avid readers mo!mabuhay!merry xmas!!-jade

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  14. Tama! Yung politician, lowest point nya noon yung ma-bankrupt, ma-b*t*m*x scandal at ma-depress dahil kahit anong gawin niya, laging poor second lang siya nung premier dramatic actress. Pero ngayon, magiging VP pa yata. Yun namang premier dramatic actress, na-depress dahil nawalan ng career assignments, umeskapo sa ibang bansa, natsismis na nagpakasal sa lesbian, nasangkot sa drug case pero nag-comeback at very successful pa rin dahil sa sheer talent niya. Yun namang comedienne-turned-versatile actress, na-depress dahil nawalan ng career, nagdroga, na-basement, at nabigo sa pag-ibig, pero bumangon at bumabango na uli ang career. Pati si famous singer/actress, going through rough time ngayon dahil binabash ng marami sa twitter, wala nang gustong pumartner sa kanya, binabastos ang anak at ang family, at may personal struggle tungkol sa weight nya, pero nananatiling matatag.

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    1. sa sobrang haba te, di ko na binasa! :)) Merry Christmas na lang! hahahaha!

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    2. Er politician was never a poor second to the premier dramatic actress. They were always at par, mas tragic lang si premier actress because she battled alcoholism among other things and had a bad streak with love. Politician, who came from a good family, had an easier time overcoming her demons unlike premier dramatic actress who was a rags to riches story didn't have the support system politician had. She had the opposite - madaming humuhuthot sa kanya. Even if her lovers had as much money or even more money than she did, sya pa din ung gumagastos. This includes a big time politician who is making a comeback this coming election.

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    3. cno po ung politician at comedienne? clues pls. tnx!

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    4. Teh Anon 1:57AM, napanood mo ba ang kanyang confession sa Sa Loob ng Cinema kasama si Ate Boy? Buong ningning niyang inamin doon na poor second lang siya noon sa premier actress. Pero at least, she accepted it very well and nakaahon siya sa lowest point ng career niya mula nung mabuntis siya kay I Love You Lucy. Kaya nga ang nickname ni I Love You Lucy ay Lucy! LOL

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    5. Ay enjoy ako sa comment mo Teh. Trulili lahat yang mga big stars na yan.

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    6. LOL at Anon 1:39 AM, may tama ka!

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    7. Anon 1:57AM, ganun daw tlg ang mga artist. maraming demons sa buhay. look at this alcoholic actor. magulo rin ang buhay.

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  15. yung kababata ni popoy sa tabing ilog ito.

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  16. Nasa title na ang initials niya. i really like him pa naman talaga.

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  17. di ko xa feel.. - erza

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  18. IA - Fonzy, title of nobility ang first name nya

    "Only a few actors have sunk so low and made successful comebacks"
    Politician - Asyong? (not sure dito..)
    Premier Dramatic Actress - Walang Himala
    Comedian turned Versatile Actress - Maria/Diamond

    Hulang lang po yan. Merry Christmas Everyone! :)

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    1. Teh, ang politician ay ang Bituin sa Lahat ng Panahon. Nag-lowest dip ang kanyang career dahil sa utang sa BIR at sa kung anu-anong eskandalo.

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    2. mali ka sa politician. wala namang lowest point si asyong except perhaps nung mamatay ang father niya. si gobernadora po yan na nagkaroon ng lowest point noon dahil sa BIR at kung ano ano pang scandals.

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  19. just read the article in pep... it's b
    socialite - GA tower
    well-loved beki - from juicy
    dramatic actor - bona male lead

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  20. Ay naku napangalanan na ang subject dito. Bukod sa hinalikan na niya ang socialite na anak ng mandarambong, nang-agaw pa daw ito ng eksena at naghost. Siya rin yata ang nagsabi na mukhang cheap ang apo ng nasirang queen of intrigues.

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    1. Korak! At tinarayan ang BF ni Bona dahil dumaan daw ito sa harapan niya pero hindi yata napansin. Wala raw itong galang sa kanya na mas senior sa kanya sa showbiz. HAHAHAHAHA. Kalowkah!

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  21. B the talented actor, ex ni Maya... sayang, lgi nia cnsbing magbbago xa pero bumabalik pa dn. fatal!

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  22. New network? San lumipat si Fonzy?

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  23. engat? jokes lol ang member of the lowest grade of nobility itechiwa. Parehas kasi na lasshenggo ngunit magaling naman pareho sa pag-aarte

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  24. Knows Ko kung sino ang NASA BI pero ang tanong Ko Lang well love ba talaga ang chismosang bading na sinabihan mg cheap

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  25. first sentence pa lang alam ko na kung sino to. yung initials nasa title pa.

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  26. bakit na BI pa toh? Alam naman ng lahat kung sino. Nakaka sad lang na he can't get out of the mess he's into, he stayed long sa rehab pa naman with matching bible study. Oh well, hanggang wala syang will power to quit, paulit ulit na lang yan. Merry Christmas all!!!!

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  27. Merry Christmas FP and FP readers. Merry Christmas na rin sa "John Regal of this generation" na hindi naman masyadong versatile actor kasi nga he's been playing that psychotic role of Heath Ledger's Joker sa halos lahat ng projects nya. Kawawa naman si equally talented Cloud nine, nagwala lang sa airport naglaho na ang career pero si BI subject laging binibigyan ng katakut-takot na chances kahit minsan krimen na yung ginagawa nya. Good luck to him and Cloud Nine. Magpakabait na sila next year.

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  28. ambot nimo 'Dong! Going Beyond ka na talaga! sayang ka!

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  29. Hopeless case na talaga tong si baronbado

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  30. easy BI..ang ex ni Maya dela Rosa.. Merry Xmas Everyone esp to FP.. God Bless :)

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  31. Ka partner ata ni maya eto sa tabing ilog before

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  32. di sya bipolar... may self-esteem issues sya kaya aggressive. common case of anti-social personality... kung di artisya yan malamang rapist yan. happy xmas fp... luv u

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  33. Sayang talento nito.. Lulong na lulong lang talaga sa bisyo! Naku naman! Bigyan na lang itong ng toothpick!

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  34. Nakakaawa siya na nakakainis na nakakahinayang yung talent niya all at the same time!

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  35. Di ko betchokola ang BI ngayon fp

    Christmas pa nman

    Merry Christmas na lang sa inyong lahat....
    at sa iyo Michael Lim!

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  36. this is FP's Christmas BI? Parang aginaldo huh ang dali! Si B! ^___^

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  37. c fonzy ng tabing ilog :)

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  38. Nakakasawa na itong batang ito. Dapat i-ban na sa movie industry!

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  39. Addict sa alcohol, maniac na naghihipo at nanghahalik!!

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  40. SI B***NESSANG LASINGGERO ETO SINO PA BA

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  41. napanood ko yung MMFF movie kung san cia nandun, well portrayed. sana maovercome nya yang habit nya na yan. sayang ang talento nya.

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