Bakit pag ikaw ba may trabaho hindi ka babalik hanggat hindi nkaka 40days yung patay nyo? Ugh! Life goes on. One way to move on is to keep yourself busy. Kuya kim is also being professional here.
Hindi ka ba happy na he is trying his best to cope ? Hindi pare pareho coping mechanism ng mga tao. Sabi niya sa interview emotional siyang tao na kapag mag isa siya, dun siya napapaisip ng malulungkot na thoughts. Moving forward doesnt mean you’re okay or that you dont love the person who passed, It’s a way for people to process their emotions because they have no choice but to keep going. He is very strong and i admire him for it.
ate mas madaming thoughts pag naka idle madami what if na di mo masasagot at ma drown ka. need nya to be busy and mag pa council sila as a family kasi tragic loss
He has money and suppose to be spend time with his wife and 2 children muna.dito sila sumablay magasawa dahil puro sila work at naiwan sa yaya Kaya na abuse.lesson learned na dapat ang pagka wala ng anak niya.
Life goes on. Dito 3 days lang nga bereavement. 40 days ekek ka jan. We all cope differently. Maybe this is his way to keep his self busy para di nya maisip or maybe to briefly escape his reality. On top of that, life does not stop when you lose someone.
Ano daw?maski sa corporate world churva pa yan.hello nasa GMA siya he can ask for a leave even unpaid at papayagan yan kse he is an Atienza after all.tama, na dapat spend siya ng time sa family niya.buti na lang sa uk allowed mag sick leave ng matagal lalo na sa ganitong sitwasyon.but again siya yan.sanay na sila magasawa na naiiwan sa ibang Tao ang anak Nila and independent na lumalaki.
2:51pm di mo yata na-gets yung point re corporate world comment. Yes valid naman kung prefer pa mag leave ni kuya kim at he can return to work if kaya na nya. Kahit sino naman na griefing. Ang point lang is 2 weeks usually ang standard kapag sa corporate world for bereavement leave pero if course no pressure naman if gusto mo mag extend leave pa.
Uhmmm.....11:57, are you for real? Like, nagtratrabaho ka ba? Kasi mas insensitive k p and ur comment than s mga taong nakakabalik agad sa work dahil needed. Different people, different way of life and coping.
Kanya kanya talga ng coping mechanism ang mga taong nasa grieving process. Wala mali sa desisyon nyang bumalik. Di din naman masamang magpa hinga muna. Godspeed Kuya Kim! Pakatatag ka.
Bat andaming nangingialam. Hindi nyo alam kung paano sya nag gi grieve. Sabi nya nga, parang wala syang sanity kung wala ang support ng friends and fam nya. Kung yan ang way nya to overcome the feeling of loss, let him be!
Back to work instead of maybe be with family na muna. Mag asawa na puro work work work . Iniiwan mga anak sa yaya at walang kalam alam sa abuse kasi busy kaka work kahit na enough naman na ang savings. Kaya di k masyado maramdaman awa sa mga mayayaman na itoo na nawawalan ng anak na napapariwara sa buhay or na di depress. I pity the children. Mayaman mga pero walang maguang na andiyan mentally, emotionaly, and physically.
I'm sure he will carry the guilt forever. The regret is going to haunt him. It's traumatizing to lose your own child. He said they prayed every single day na hindi mangyari kay eman but it happened. Imagine how painful that is. Habambuhay nila dala-dala ang sakit at guilt.
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Graveh.wri ba coping mechanism niya?parang off na wala pa 40 days.
ReplyDeleteMas ma stress sya pag walang work
DeleteBakit pag ikaw ba may trabaho hindi ka babalik hanggat hindi nkaka 40days yung patay nyo? Ugh! Life goes on. One way to move on is to keep yourself busy. Kuya kim is also being professional here.
DeleteHindi ka ba happy na he is trying his best to cope ? Hindi pare pareho coping mechanism ng mga tao. Sabi niya sa interview emotional siyang tao na kapag mag isa siya, dun siya napapaisip ng malulungkot na thoughts. Moving forward doesnt mean you’re okay or that you dont love the person who passed, It’s a way for people to process their emotions because they have no choice but to keep going. He is very strong and i admire him for it.
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DeleteTeh sa corporate world, kahit yung mga normal na empleyado, 2 weeks lang ang bereavement leave. OA yang 40 days mo
Delete@1157 san planeta ka ba galing.
Deleteate mas madaming thoughts pag naka idle madami what if na di mo masasagot at ma drown ka. need nya to be busy and mag pa council sila as a family kasi tragic loss
DeleteHe has money and suppose to be spend time with his wife and 2 children muna.dito sila sumablay magasawa dahil puro sila work at naiwan sa yaya Kaya na abuse.lesson learned na dapat ang pagka wala ng anak niya.
DeleteSa korea, 3 days funeral, after that, back to normal na
DeleteLife goes on. Dito 3 days lang nga bereavement. 40 days ekek ka jan. We all cope differently. Maybe this is his way to keep his self busy para di nya maisip or maybe to briefly escape his reality. On top of that, life does not stop when you lose someone.
DeleteAno daw?maski sa corporate world churva pa yan.hello nasa GMA siya he can ask for a leave even unpaid at papayagan yan kse he is an Atienza after all.tama, na dapat spend siya ng time sa family niya.buti na lang sa uk allowed mag sick leave ng matagal lalo na sa ganitong sitwasyon.but again siya yan.sanay na sila magasawa na naiiwan sa ibang Tao ang anak Nila and independent na lumalaki.
Delete2:51pm di mo yata na-gets yung point re corporate world comment. Yes valid naman kung prefer pa mag leave ni kuya kim at he can return to work if kaya na nya. Kahit sino naman na griefing. Ang point lang is 2 weeks usually ang standard kapag sa corporate world for bereavement leave pero if course no pressure naman if gusto mo mag extend leave pa.
DeleteUhmmm.....11:57, are you for real? Like, nagtratrabaho ka ba? Kasi mas insensitive k p and ur comment than s mga taong nakakabalik agad sa work dahil needed. Different people, different way of life and coping.
DeleteWelcome back Kuya Kim. Pakatatag ka lang po
ReplyDeleteWork is life
ReplyDelete12:26 its how he cope with what happened… wag kang mema
Delete2:20 ikaw ang masama ang isip. Sinabi lang work is life triggered ka na
DeleteAs they say, work/getting busy is the best therapy. One day at a time Kuya Kim!
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DeletePraying for you & your family Kuya Kim.
ReplyDeleteKanya kanya talga ng coping mechanism ang mga taong nasa grieving process. Wala mali sa desisyon nyang bumalik. Di din naman masamang magpa hinga muna. Godspeed Kuya Kim! Pakatatag ka.
ReplyDeleteBat andaming nangingialam. Hindi nyo alam kung paano sya nag gi grieve. Sabi nya nga, parang wala syang sanity kung wala ang support ng friends and fam nya. Kung yan ang way nya to overcome the feeling of loss, let him be!
ReplyDeleteBack to work instead of maybe be with family na muna. Mag asawa na puro work work work . Iniiwan mga anak sa yaya at walang kalam alam sa abuse kasi busy kaka work kahit na enough naman na ang savings. Kaya di k masyado maramdaman awa sa mga mayayaman na itoo na nawawalan ng anak na napapariwara sa buhay or na di depress. I pity the children. Mayaman mga pero walang maguang na andiyan mentally, emotionaly, and physically.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure he will carry the guilt forever. The regret is going to haunt him. It's traumatizing to lose your own child. He said they prayed every single day na hindi mangyari kay eman but it happened. Imagine how painful that is. Habambuhay nila dala-dala ang sakit at guilt.
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