I’ve said this before- domestic abuse is a criminal offense. We should not normalize yang sigawan & murahan. Mahina ang pilipinas sa ganito that’s why nauuso and hinahayaan lang. I am team Ellen because she have evidence. She has a platform to express herself so let her be! Tama na ang pagiging Gomburza nating mga babae. Domestic abuse should never be tolerated. Mapa babae or lalake. You have no right to intimidate anyone. You have no right to belittle anyone. Kung ang partner mo nag checheat, or naninigaw, or palamura… please maawa ka sa sarili mo, just leave!
Wala namamg pumilit sa kanya na makipagrelasyon kay Derek. Ginawa niya yan in her own volition. Eh di umalis din siya kung sa tingin niya eh agrabyado siya. Ganun kasimple, ganun kadali. Hindi ung iinvolve mo pa mga tao sa social media sa AWAY MAG ASAWA niyo. Kailan pa kailangang maging national issue ang marital issue? Walang pinagkaiba yan sa kapitbahay mong mag asawa na nagsisigawan kahit madaling araw. Wag niyo kami idamay. Dalang dala naman un mga shunga. I've said this before and I'll repeat it again, either hire a marriage counsellor to save your marriage or a lawyer to annul your marriage. At kelan ka pa naging for women's advocate? Jumping from one relationship to another. Di ka nga nababakante girl. Ganda mo. You even called a long time girlfriend of someone you're in a relationship in the past as "losyang". That's putting one woman down. Sorry not sorry di ako madadala sa drama mo
7:22 halatang hindi mo alam pinagsasabi mo? Ni hindi mo alam ang Gomburza. Mga pari yun na naexecute. Anong konek non sa pavictim card at pa women's advocate card niyo ni Ellen
That's common sense. 2025 na marunong na magtrabaho ang mga babae at marunong ng lumayas. Marunong ng pumalag sa pang aabuso. Hindi na kailangan ng advice sa isang babae na wala namang tumagal na relasyon. Na obviously naghahanap lang ng simpatya at kakampi. Bakit niya kinontak pa yun mga ex ni Derek kung hindi yan naghahanap ng kakampi
848: ano? Ininvolve mga tao sa social media?? Haha.. Involved ka ba talaga? Do the same , your own volition, so get out of whichever platform andun sya.. walang pumipilit ayo and hindi ka kawalan... Masyado ka kasing INVOLVED, lagyan mo boundary ang nakikibasa lang sa tsismis at ang pagiging pakialamera..
if you don't need the advice, then good for you. if you haven't been in that kind of situation, even better. but if you belittle her advice just because you can't relate or you think na unneccessary? My God, you're so out of touch sa married life. I know of conventionally successful, intelligent, and independent women, who are in some ways "abused", but for some reason, cannot leave their husbands. It is so easy to say to "leave, pack up your bags", but if you're in that kind of situation, some people can hardly lead themselves out of the door. It may sound dumb to you, but these kinds of reminders/advice, are actually useful to those who need help/guidance. Pasalamat nalang mo wala mo sa ana nga sitwasyon.
good advice. women, makinig kayo. you have a choice to walk away. kung ayaw magbago, ayaw ayusin ang problema just because they feel na wala ka na magagawa kasi kasal na kayo, well prove them wrong.
12:06 kung hindi ka nga self reliant at walang bumubuhay sa'yo kundi lalake, hindi nga basic yun. You do not have the option to walk away. In short, magdusa ka. Pero sa panahon ngayon dami ng libreng public school. Send yourself to school, work your a$$ off so you can provide for your own keep. Again basic yun unless you're lazy or want things complicated
If you want to live like Ellen fine, but not everyone would want to be miserable like her, like you married to be a spy of your husband 24/7? Its simple if you reached a point where theres a need for you to record or gather evidence then its a sign you should get out of that marriage. I dont think Derek stops her or did something to keep her in the house like illegally detain her? She is free and she can choose to leave and do it quietly. The bigger problem that she has is she is too hungry for attention.She lives and breathe social media like she thinks every filipino is invested in her. She should snap out of it fast and see a therapist to cure this more concerning behaviour and delusions.
5:20 pm, Do you have a short term memory. Here is the timeline
October 2025, the birth month of Derek and Ellen baby. She sent an invitation for their child 1st birthday but he refused to attend. He can not set aside whatever differences they have just for the celebration of their baby at wala siya sa b-day ng anak nila.
On November 17, 2025, Derek exposed their martial problems and posted on his social media about 6 stages of marriage, highlighting the 3rd stage: if he married the wrong person . (This is where the married couples problems start to be exposed in social media)
November 18, 2025 Derek denied cheating allegation. Ellen reacted and showed proof of Derek cheating
November 18, 2025. Ellen said, that John Lloyd is a good provider and a "PRESENT" Father.
November 20, 2025. Derek Ramsay disputes Dating Coach's View that his Cursing when Ellen Woke Him Up was a Red Flag, Ellen Reacts
November 20, 2025 Ellen met Derek ex-girlfriend at the event.
November 21, 2020...Ellen explain why she made her expose public and volunteer to become spokesperson of women
And the rest alam ninyo na ang mga post nila.
Makikita naman na everytime nag post si Derek, mag react si Ellen until naging "saga" with several chapters 1,2,3,4 ,5 ang marriage problems nila online
Ayaw kasi mag sorry ni Kuya, defend pa ng defend sa sarili. Subukan kaya ni Derek mag sorry at baka mag sorry rin si Ellen. Basta kailangan may mag sorry sa kanila and they need to see a counselor. Pero kung hindi talaga si Derek mag-change and will continue to entertain other women, marriage life is not for him or them. That's the first step of any broken relationship, infidelity
you don't put out the fire by adding fuel to it, then act surprise when you see that the whole forrest is burning
455 Not siding with either pero mas malala si Ellen. Sino ba namang magrerecord na alam mong wire tapping tapos ipopost mo? Tapos kukuha ka sympathy. Tapos mga exes ng asawa mo kokontakin mo pa. Mala Voltes 5 kayong magvovolt-in. Di uso move on sa ex? Tapos magpapanggap kang spokesperson for womens advocacy. Eh kung 10 ang nakarelasyon ni Derek siguro si Ellen mga 20. Libre naman Google search niyo na lang
6:34 pm, regardless of what you say, he still provokes her.
6:43 pm, some people records out of fear. Some people records out of protection and safety. Some people records because they don't rely on their memory.
May mga lalaki na sasabihin na hindi ko siya sinigawan, it was just a prank. Others will say, parati naman kami nagsisigawan and it is normal to us (which is not true). Or maybe she does not trust him, maybe iba ang sinasabi ni Derek sa parents nila sa totoong situation nila.
Kapag nag aaway ang mag asawa, takbuhan nila mga parents nila. And at first the parents will not believe unless they ask for proofs
4:55 nakalimutan mo sa timeline mo… Ellen recording arguments with husband way before 2025… not siding with Derek but Ellen is malala…arguments are normal, yes kahit pa murahan at sigawan… darating talaga sa point ng mag-asawa ang ganyan. But yung i-record mo tas nilabas mo pa just to prove you are right. Disturbing. Egotistical. At shempre dahil alam nyang nirerecord nya, she is at her best behavior lol maniwala akong di sya nagsisigaw at mura lol
6:43 pm, Can't you understand? Kung pina-pa barrangay ni Ellen si Derek (twice) daw.....it means na GRABE ang awayan nila mag asawa. Other person has to step in for them. Baka may nag advice na rin kay Ellen to records or take a video of them fighting.
A simple misunderstanding at disagreement will not put the couple in the position with the Baranggay official to intervene. May barrangay records sila.
Example: you have a dispute within your family or relatives or neighbors at pina-baranggay mo, it means na hindi siya na resolve within your means or among the two of you. Kung hindi na ma-resolve ang problema sa Baranggay, it will go to court. Pwede mag endorse ang barrangay for legal cases. Or punta sila sa marriage counselor
@9:28 pm, you are sympathetic to cheater because she exposes him?? And women who expose their abusive partners are also a red flag and can be tagged as worst than their cheater partners??
Gusto mo na lang tahimik ang mga babae at hindi magsalita kahit naabuso sila?
The couple arguments are NOT normal anymore. May normal arguments ba ng mag-asawa na umaabot na sa Baranggay Hall?
9:35 Kaya niya pina Brgy because she wants Derek out of the house, out of his house actually. Si Ellen pag ayaw na niya, ayaw na niya. No rhyme nor reason. Pero syempre gagawa na lang ng palusot later. 2021 pa daw ung mga away nila. 4 years wala siya ginawa kundi mag record?
Kung di na sya happy and she felt she was being abused, nakalayas naman na sya kanila. E di okay. Time will reveal the truth naman about derek. Hayaan na natin sya. Bitter ka din ba ellen as opposed sa sinasabi kong di ka affected at cool image about leaving a reationship pag di ba masaya? Very childish naman ang atake mo. May mga anak kayo remember. And if derek is a red flag, you are no different. Hehe
6:36 pm, he is still an absentee father. He left his first child. Derek admitted that he was not there for his first child. (with other woman)
He was not around on the birthday of his 1st child with Ellen. kahit may invitation. Ibig sabihin kaya niya tiiisin ang anak niya.
Derek mismo ang nagsabi na kapag magkasama sila sa bahay, binuhos ni Ellen ang oras para sa mga anak nila. It means that she is a hands-on mother to their children.
7:21 Ellen is not one to talk about exes lol Just look at her exes too. Mas maramj syang failed relationship actually. Si JL, nasira image while with her lol. Yung Baste, may gf/partner pala. Pati yung BF ng friend nya Gwen, google nyo na lang. makalat din sya sa ex lol
My mother was married to an alcoholic narcissist with a mean temper. In the public eye, may father curated an image na mabuti syang tao and people would always side with him. Sadly, housewife lang nanay ko and she couldn't just walk away. I really questioned her kung bakit sya nag asawa ng ganyang lalake. He only gave us trauma and PTSD.
8:28 society was more rigid before, and women had fewer options. Yung lola ko was pressured into marriage by her own family kasi hinipuan siya ng manliligaw at "nakakahiya" daw kung hindi sila ikasal. Kaya mas kokonti ang empowered women noon kasi grabe talaga yung pagjudge and shame. Buti nagbago na and women have more freedom now.
Kaya nga. Like what she did in the past. That's what she do best. Leave and move forward. Dito dami na niyang hanash. Mukhang di niya maamin sa sarili niya na hindi siya pang wife material. Na pang temporary lang siya
1:28 some women are hindi pang wife material. Hindi sila for the long haul. Gusto lang un umpisa. Getting to know. Honeymoon phase. Nagsasawa. May nakikita na mali. Ayaw magtiis. Ayaw ayusin un differences. Wala namang masama sa ganun. Ganun sila eh. Yun nga lang know thyself. Umpisa pa lang kilalanin mo na sarili mo para hindi ka na pumasok sa mga sitwasyon na kumplikado gaya ng kasal. Ako mas gusto ko na ako yun naghahabol. Ako yun nagkakagusto. Pag nagustuhan ako parang natuturn off ako. Nandidiri ako. Mas gusto ko un unrequited love. Dun ako fascinated. Eh ganun talaga. Ano ba tawag dun? May tama ako LOL o iba lang talaga ako. iba iba naman kasi talaga ang tao at preferences at upbringing. Again, know thyself
And some people here are still defending derek. I've never been a fan of ellen. I'm old-fashioned and ellen's wild nature doesn't sit right with me. But again, I'm on her side. Derek has always had a manipulative vibe. Yung parang claudine vibe na bait-baitan infront of the cam but nasty in real life.
I remember the netizens would hound andrea for that short term relationship w/ derek thinking she was the problem since the past ones lasted for yrs. And now people are realizing she's smart for cutting it short. As andrea would say -
"Keep calm and let karma finish it"
Lmao. Who would have thought it's ellen who would finish it for her 😆
Nah. We're not siding with Derek. But we aren't siding with Ellen either. A big no-no. Useless ang pagkakalat niya other than to gain sympathy and to prove to everyone na mali si Derek at tama siya
not siding with Derek and Ellen. Both red flags. Both puno ng pride and ego. But with what Ellen is doing, posting so-called receipts, gathering exes, feeling women advocate, mas worse sya lol she needs to think and reflect. Di lang naman si Derek ang may failed relationship.. sya din naman…twice naka-away nya yung father ng kids nya bago mag one year old.
1:52 hindi mo ba alam na naunang nagpost c Derek online? Feeling sadboi pa nga at hindi nya raw namura c Ellen, ever. Eh di nilabasan ng Audio Recording ni Ellen na minura sya. 🤣
@1:52 am, May record naman si Fashion Pulis. Go back to previous post to this date November 15, 2025. Makikita mo si Derek ang nag umpisa lahat at ini-expose niya ang problema nilang mag asawa. Dyan nagsimula lahat. At eto naman si Ellen, parati nag react sa asawa niya.
Hindi alam ng mga tao na nagkaroon ng miscarriage si Ellen, until Derek told it on his interview.
It seems that Ellen is more private, while Derek wants to get the world involve in their family life. Kaya he gets what he wants. Ang dami tuloy marites na nakikisawsaw
No matter how modern our times now, the patriarchal system is still dominating in our country. Like kahit toxic na ang relationships ninyo mag-asawa. Ang pamilya mo pa mismo ang mag advice sa yo na habaan mo pa ang pisi for the sake of kids or image etc. It's time for us women to break this toxic cycle. We shouldn't tolerate any form of dis-respect from our spouse, okay na yon you forgive him once, pero twice no out na dapat. Sana lahat nang babae kayang gawin yong ginawa ni Ellen, pero hindi eh, some are still dependent sa mga husband nila so ang ending, tanggapin nalang kapalaran nila, ang lungkot lang.
Ellen, it’s easier for you because you have your own money, house, support system etc., but for the rest of us, it would be like a camel going through the eye of a needle.
6:48 am, she has her own house. Baka gusto lang niya ng mas bigger house because he has two kids. Or maybe siya nagpapa-gawa ng dream house for her family
6:48 am, Super, duper na mayaman ang family ni Ellen. They own a chains (several) building hotels across the Philippines at sila ang owner ng "Temple of Lea" in Cebu (a greek design palace which is a tourist destination) . Temple of Lea is considered the Taj Mahal of Cebu.
I'm pretty sure she has her own house and can afford to have more. Hindi lang siya showy or hindi niya ipinagkalat kung gaano kayaman ang family nila. Hindi alam ni Korina Sanchez na mayaman si Ellen, she found out about it when when they had a shooting in Temple of Lea in Cebu.
During Korina Sanchez interview, she asked Ellen directly if she is rich. Ellen did not answer the question but told Korina that she grew up in a comfortable life.
Ladies... long courtship will minimize this kind of situation. Get to know to him. Vet him. Make him prove his worth. Men secretly desire a woman that they have to earn. Also, don't fall in love with any man.. fall in love with the QUALITY OF LIFE that a man can give you - drama-free and peaceful. Also lumalabas lang ang tunay na kulay ng lalake kapag buntis ka na lalo pag nagsilang ka na... Also, wala talaga template. So women should be kinder and less judgy to each other. - Ante nyo na nagmamagaling nyahahahaha!
Maganda nga live in na lang muna. Para kung ayaw na eh di mag alsa balutan ka na lang. Wala ng legalidad. Wala ng mga papeles kelangan na i-file. Madeds ka man wala siyang makukuha sayo kahit piso. At kung ano mang pera at ari arian mo na dala at naipundar, sa'yo pa din. Wag ka lang pumayag na gawin kang unli palahian. Dahil pag naghiwalay kayo ikaw lahat sasagot sa gastos ng bata o magmamalimos ka pa ng suporta
Girl hindi mo makikilala ng husto ang tao kahit mag long courtship pa... minsan nga kahit mag kasama na kayo sa bahay di mo pa rin sya kilala. Just be more judgy, insightful sa mga kakasamahin. Di purkit kinilig ka na dapat push mo na.
In courtship - people always put their best foot forward. Hindi mo pa rin makikilala ang tao.
In co-habitation or living together, hindi mo pa rin makikilala ang tao, lalo na kung pareho kayo busy, except siguro if both of you stay in the same house for 24/7 for 6 months.
During COVID pandemic, ang daming married couples and live-in partners nag-break up kasi hindi nila kilala ang isa't isa
Start as friends, dyan mo makilala ang tao. How is he as a person? How he treats himself? how treats his family and siblings? How he treats ordinary people? How he treats his work? May goals ba siya or walang ambition? May trabaho or wala? Tamad ba siya sa bahay or neat freak sa bahay? Possesive ba siya or hindi? Jealous type ba siya or hindi? Dreamer ba siya? Or a builder? Family oriented ba ito? Pet lover? red flag ba ito??etc
Maganda ba ang morals at values ng tao ito? Dyan mo makikita kung magiging mabait siya asawa or mabait na tatay sa anak ninyo
Baka magulat ka na lang, you married a swindler, a hoodlum , a drug dealer or addict or member pala ng mafia.
9:41 am, Both of them are well off and can provide a quality life for their family. Ang problema lang kung magkasundo sila sa ugali at hobbies. Kung hindi, l mag crack ang relationship nila. Tapos wala pang core foundation as friends because they started as lovers.
Before entering a married life, alam ninyo dapat what makes each other angry at kung paano e-diffuse ang anger na yun. If they don't have that patience - get out of the relationship or work with a counselor. Kasi there's something in you that needs to change before you commit yourself in a married life. You and your partner need a lot of dose of patience when you enter a married life. Patience with your self, patience with your partner and patience with you children and patience with whatever circumstances you both have.
@3:10 quality life has little to do with money. yes we all need money, but the quality of life that I was referring to was drama-free and peaceful. a man who is stable, reliable, restrained, with a spirit of generosity can elevate a woman's life in ways that you can't even imagine... your heart will burst with joy, you don't know what to do with the overflowing love that he is giving you.
@7:55 many people like you don't even understand what courtship means.... this is not pa cute stage... this is the right time to give a man money problems and all kinds of problems. because that is the only way for him to reveal his true colors.
sus hindi din. daming pretentious na tao, kahit long courtship kung magaling umakting waley rin. magdasal ka nalang talaga na sa mabuting tao ka mapunta.
Grabe un mga hindi kino-consider un mga salitang sinasabe ni derek sa recording. Talagang naka focus lang sa sumigaw, nagmura. E si ellen nga tong ayaw makipagusap ng maayos e kaya nafrufrustrate yun isa. Wag kayo makipagrelasyon if you cannot humble yourself to fix a problem with your partner. Mga babae, d kayo prinsesa. Hindi lang kayo ang dapat makatanggap ng respeto, mga lalake din. 2 way yan. Pero mga tagapagtanggol ni ellen 1 way lang.
Ellen said na di naman din sya perpekto pero Derek also has a choice na to walk away kesa mag sisigaw mag mumura and terrorize his whole household. Derek said himself many times sa mga posts nya na Ellen is Annoying. Alam nya pinasok nya, so he could've handled himself better as well
But Derek NEVER admitted that he was also wrong. (wala or kulang ng self-reflection ang lolo mo). He always say, ikaw ang may problema.. Ikaw..Ikaw.. Ang dami naging ex-girlfriends ni Derek, lahat ng mga exes niya ay "mali"?? At si Derek parati ang Tama???
Couples cannot solve their problems, IF either of them or one of them do not see that they are in the wrong.
Kailangan lang dito mag sorry ni Derek kasi hindi siya faithful - "infidelity". Nag-entertain pa ng iba ang lolo mo while he is already in a relationship.
@3:59 pm, Read and listen to Ellen and Derek post. Maiitidihan mo naman kung sino sa kanila ang umaamin sa flaws nila at kung sino rin ang pilit na ipagtanggol ang sarili at ayaw umamin sa cheating nola
So from the beginning ba ng relasyon nila ginagawa na ito ni Ellen dahil alam nya merong mali sa relasyon nila or just when Derek shows the real him na? Nung tapos ng honeymoon stage nila which is stage 1.
Seems like may namasdan na si E 2021 pa lang, prior to them getting married. She started recording by that time na e. So she's also at fault bat nya pinakasalan si D, knowing what she knows. Baka may savior complex to si E.
5:07 am, mali po kayo. She started recording after marriage somewhere in December. Baka sunod sunod ang pagtatalo nila at mataas ang boses ni Derrick. Maybe she started to fear him and started recording.
They got married November pa, but they got engaged in March pa.
True. Nagiging bitter yong mga ex if they pool together to gang up on him. Nagpapagamit sila kay E na red flag pagdating Sa relationships. Huy, if na hurt kayo dati kay D, lessons learned. but to join in this circus? Dont be like E na makalat
I'm all for women standing up for themselves in a relationship. But excuse me, Ellen - you are not the eight person to advocate for this. Please take a look at yourself and reflect. What you have done is not right. Second time in a tow to break up with someone before the kid turns one. Look at your nasty social media posts, look at you justifying yourself by talking to his past girlfriends - these are not the actions of someone in their right mind. Go back to Bali and reflect if you must. Please do not have a baby in your next relationship. Post partum depression is real.
5:57 bitter pa rin kung sino ang nag reach out. Do you think someone like A or S mag re reach out pa? They’re happy and thriving in their lives. Magbabasa lang yan and go on with their day. And E, if may nag reach out pala; todo post kaagad? Kakampi lang hanap? So immature ka girl. Mayaman ka naman. Move out and move on and be happy.
Red flag naman talaga si Derek (and even Ellen). Nakaka-off lang na pinost pa nya ung private convo nil ni Derek for everyone to feast on. Sa korte nalang dapat nya pinakita yan.
Ellen recorded when D was shouting and swearing provoking him sh kalmado lang because gusto nya palabasin na sya ay hindi nagmumura . That act of provocation from e is not ok with me. Planado nya para magmukhang ganyan si D although tutuo naman pero si E kaya hindi ganyan?
If you reach to a point that will need you to document your encounters with your partner is the sign to break up. Trust is not there anymore if you keep recording your fights. Man what kind of a partnership is that??? And then use it later on against your ex. That is not a true partership.
Eto ang best advice for you Ellen ----- listen to your friends ( Im sure merong kahit isa nagsabi huwag mo pakasalan si Derek) , take seriously red flags in men, yan ang dapat advice mo sa ibang babae, as for you well , as they say, ginusto mo yan , kakakilala lang kasal agad , fault mo din kaya di rin ako maka sympathize sa yo
7:56 am, Some people are risk takers kahit alam na red flag ang tao. Nakikipag-date pa rin. Tapos magpapa-kasal pa ang iba, Only to end up in a martyrdom. Sinabi ko na ito before, if you knew that the person is a red flag but continue to date him or her, cheating and abuse is expected. Do not try to blame others for your own heart break. you made that decision to be with that person.
sus bat naman of all people makikinig ako sa advise mo? eh failed relationships mo, kalat mo pa. if ever dun ako sa may successful marriage/s at hindi sa’yo. napaka palengkera mo pa.
Don't marry a red flag. Unfortunately, most women don't listen to this advice until they experience it themselves.
They will still try to be in the relationship, be optimistic about the person and the situation and go through with it. Pero ang ending...still the same. It is already embedded in history books. It never change kahit ilang generations pa yan. Ganun pa rin ang ending sa red flag
Para mag change ang red flag kailangan e-overhaul nila ang sarili nila. Kaya mahirap yun
Guys, meron naman martyr na tao. Meron mag asawa na kahit nam-bababe ang lalaki at nagkaroon ng anak sa ibang babae, pinapatawad at tinatanggap pa rin nila ang guy kasi mayaman. Some women just live with it.
My problem with anyone recording their confrontation with someone else is that is is not giving the real story. because the person recording knows it’s being recorded so of course she will be cool and calm in the situation. it’s very manipulative. and i dont like this guy one bit, but im not a fan of Ellen’s behavior as well.
But the past relationships and how they treat their exes is a great indication if they will be good for you or not.
Hindi naman basta-basta nagbabago ang ugali ng tao if they will find the right person, ganun pa rin sila. Nagbago lang ang mukha ng ka-relasyon but their behavior, attitude and personality is still the same.
2:32 they’re both problematic people based on their relationship histories so honestly i dont know who you are alluding to. your statement is applicable to them both 🤷🏻♀️ they’re both terrible people
6:06 as if santa naman ung Ellen they deserve each other, parehong questionable characters. a narcissist and a manipulator. inuhanan lang nya si yung Derek
6:06 si ellen, recording dahil takot? you think hindi aalma si ellen kay derek? What makes you think tahimik lang si leen sa away nila? Sa recordings of course tahimik siya kasi she was baiting him. She needed him to get to this point na yelling para may justification siya kaya nga naipabaranggay niya. Toxic si Ellen
6:52 i am not 1:28 and also nakiki maritess lang. I dont like D kasi sa history talaga, mukhang na depressed mga exes niya sa kanya. Pag di niya na feel, break na. Tumatagal pero no plans for marriage. Until E came along. So mukhang natamaan si kumag. Pero baks naman, parang blinded fan ka naman ni Ateng E. If you listen to the recording, he sounded so frustrated. And she seemed like she wanted a reaction talaga. It is not about tolerating a cheater; it is about someone manipulating the situation also. I agree sa iba dito na toxic din si E. In other words, red flag din!
2:19 am, Mag asawa pa sina Derek at Ellen, may video sino-surprise ni Ellen si Derek and tried to wake him up, but when Derek opened his eyes nag-mura siya sa video.
Okay pa ang pagsasama ng mag asawa. Hanapin mo ang video na yun. Mahilig talaga mag curse ang lolo mo. The guy is obviously a manipulative and a red flag
Not all women are victims. Neigbor namin nakaka awa kasi ang asawang babae magaling mag manipulate and ginagamit ang mga anak as leverage. So si guy oo nalang ng oo sa Misis para di mahiwalay sa anak.
Nakakapagtaka lang, alam na ng buong bansa na red flag yan si D even before they got married. Bakit parang now lang nya nalaman? Saka kala ko ba hindi ka nagchcheck ng phone kasi maganda ka?
If you were not in an abusive relationship before just shut up. Makalat kung makalat, but Derek needs to be exposed! Yung umabot kana sa pag rerecord kasi nag se self doubt kana. Saka ive experienced na idedeny na minura ka or idedeny na di ka sinigawan, gas lighting nga! Gets nyo na ba
luh kayo lang pwede may opinion? in the first place abusive men and abusive relationships ALWAYS show signs except most women choose to ignore. e di kayo na, balakayojan 🙄 titigas ulo nyo eh.
Kung nagrerecord na siya nung 2021, abay in doubt na siya talaga. Bakit pinaabot pa ng 2025? Ang off lang na ang asawa mo nirerecord ang pag aaway niyo everytime. For her to justify one day na ganito talaga siya.
Sorry Ellen, this advice comes from a place of hurt. It sounds like you're in the 'anger' phase of Kubler Ross' stages of grief. Allow yourself to get through the full cycle, or at least give more context and not just innuendo, before dispensing advice.
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I’ve said this before- domestic abuse is a criminal offense. We should not normalize yang sigawan & murahan. Mahina ang pilipinas sa ganito that’s why nauuso and hinahayaan lang. I am team Ellen because she have evidence. She has a platform to express herself so let her be! Tama na ang pagiging Gomburza nating mga babae. Domestic abuse should never be tolerated. Mapa babae or lalake. You have no right to intimidate anyone. You have no right to belittle anyone. Kung ang partner mo nag checheat, or naninigaw, or palamura… please maawa ka sa sarili mo, just leave!
ReplyDeleteWala namamg pumilit sa kanya na makipagrelasyon kay Derek. Ginawa niya yan in her own volition. Eh di umalis din siya kung sa tingin niya eh agrabyado siya. Ganun kasimple, ganun kadali. Hindi ung iinvolve mo pa mga tao sa social media sa AWAY MAG ASAWA niyo. Kailan pa kailangang maging national issue ang marital issue? Walang pinagkaiba yan sa kapitbahay mong mag asawa na nagsisigawan kahit madaling araw. Wag niyo kami idamay. Dalang dala naman un mga shunga. I've said this before and I'll repeat it again, either hire a marriage counsellor to save your marriage or a lawyer to annul your marriage. At kelan ka pa naging for women's advocate? Jumping from one relationship to another. Di ka nga nababakante girl. Ganda mo. You even called a long time girlfriend of someone you're in a relationship in the past as "losyang". That's putting one woman down. Sorry not sorry di ako madadala sa drama mo
Delete7:22 halatang hindi mo alam pinagsasabi mo? Ni hindi mo alam ang Gomburza. Mga pari yun na naexecute. Anong konek non sa pavictim card at pa women's advocate card niyo ni Ellen
DeleteThat's common sense. 2025 na marunong na magtrabaho ang mga babae at marunong ng lumayas. Marunong ng pumalag sa pang aabuso. Hindi na kailangan ng advice sa isang babae na wala namang tumagal na relasyon. Na obviously naghahanap lang ng simpatya at kakampi. Bakit niya kinontak pa yun mga ex ni Derek kung hindi yan naghahanap ng kakampi
DeletePagrecord ng private conversation is also a criminal offense. Anti wiretapping law
DeleteLol 8:59, Gomburza meaning martyr in this context anubey
DeleteHaha tama ka mars
Delete8:48 100% check
Delete8:48 correct ka jan…..
Delete8:48 💯! Kung si ellen lng naman magiging advocate kuno for womens rights wag na lang uy.
Delete8:48 pm, Hindi si Ellen ang na-una mag share ng problema online, nag respond lang siya kay Derek dahil ng post ang lolo mo sa socmed.
Delete10:36 HINDI illegal ang ginawa ni Ellen. She is part of the convo.
Delete12:52 nyahahaha irregardless. Hindi pwede i record yun unless may permission. Palusot kapa ha
Delete@12:52, they are husband and wife. AND It is legal to record their conversations because she is part of the conversation.
DeleteAno discussion tayo ng mga legalities dito?
848: ano? Ininvolve mga tao sa social media?? Haha.. Involved ka ba talaga? Do the same , your own volition, so get out of whichever platform andun sya.. walang pumipilit ayo and hindi ka kawalan...
DeleteMasyado ka kasing INVOLVED, lagyan mo boundary ang nakikibasa lang sa tsismis at ang pagiging pakialamera..
2:44.. back at you ang nyahahaha kasi walang word na IRREGARDLESS
Delete848.. tyaga mo.. tinatanong kb ni Ellen ng opinion mo? She could not care less about your opinion, my goodness!!!
Deleteif you don't need the advice, then good for you. if you haven't been in that kind of situation, even better. but if you belittle her advice just because you can't relate or you think na unneccessary? My God, you're so out of touch sa married life. I know of conventionally successful, intelligent, and independent women, who are in some ways "abused", but for some reason, cannot leave their husbands. It is so easy to say to "leave, pack up your bags", but if you're in that kind of situation, some people can hardly lead themselves out of the door. It may sound dumb to you, but these kinds of reminders/advice, are actually useful to those who need help/guidance. Pasalamat nalang mo wala mo sa ana nga sitwasyon.
DeleteMaybe advice muna self nya
ReplyDeleteLOL Kaya nga. Ang kalat na ni Ateng
Deletegood advice. women, makinig kayo. you have a choice to walk away. kung ayaw magbago, ayaw ayusin ang problema just because they feel na wala ka na magagawa kasi kasal na kayo, well prove them wrong.
ReplyDeleteThat's basic ABC. Alam na namin Yan. And we're not even asking for advice. Perhaps she should advice herself para hindi siya nagkakalat
DeleteGood advice from chat gpt. Kahiya
DeleteBold of you to assume that all women think it's basic.
Delete12:06 kung hindi ka nga self reliant at walang bumubuhay sa'yo kundi lalake, hindi nga basic yun. You do not have the option to walk away. In short, magdusa ka. Pero sa panahon ngayon dami ng libreng public school. Send yourself to school, work your a$$ off so you can provide for your own keep. Again basic yun unless you're lazy or want things complicated
DeleteIf you want to live like Ellen fine, but not everyone would want to be miserable like her, like you married to be a spy of your husband 24/7? Its simple if you reached a point where theres a need for you to record or gather evidence then its a sign you should get out of that marriage. I dont think Derek stops her or did something to keep her in the house like illegally detain her? She is free and she can choose to leave and do it quietly. The bigger problem that she has is she is too hungry for attention.She lives and breathe social media like she thinks every filipino is invested in her. She should snap out of it fast and see a therapist to cure this more concerning behaviour and delusions.
Delete5:20 pm, Do you have a short term memory. Here is the timeline
DeleteOctober 2025, the birth month of Derek and Ellen baby. She sent an invitation for their child 1st birthday but he refused to attend. He can not set aside whatever differences they have just for the celebration of their baby at wala siya sa b-day ng anak nila.
On November 17, 2025, Derek exposed their martial problems and posted on his social media about 6 stages of marriage, highlighting the 3rd stage: if he married the wrong person . (This is where the married couples problems start to be exposed in social media)
November 18, 2025 Derek denied cheating allegation. Ellen reacted and showed proof of Derek cheating
November 18, 2025. Ellen said, that John Lloyd is a good provider and a "PRESENT" Father.
November 20, 2025. Derek Ramsay disputes Dating Coach's View that his Cursing when Ellen Woke Him Up was a Red Flag, Ellen Reacts
November 20, 2025 Ellen met Derek ex-girlfriend at the event.
November 21, 2020...Ellen explain why she made her expose public and volunteer to become spokesperson of women
And the rest alam ninyo na ang mga post nila.
Makikita naman na everytime nag post si Derek, mag react si Ellen until naging "saga" with several chapters 1,2,3,4 ,5 ang marriage problems nila online
Ayaw kasi mag sorry ni Kuya, defend pa ng defend sa sarili. Subukan kaya ni Derek mag sorry at baka mag sorry rin si Ellen. Basta kailangan may mag sorry sa kanila and they need to see a counselor. Pero kung hindi talaga si Derek mag-change and will continue to entertain other women, marriage life is not for him or them. That's the first step of any broken relationship, infidelity
you don't put out the fire by adding fuel to it, then act surprise when you see that the whole forrest is burning
4:55 no amount of long explanation can justify your idolet's pagkakalat sa social media. Magboboomerang lang yan lahat sa kanya
Delete4:55 no amount of long explanation can justify your idolet's pagkakalat sa social media. Magboboomerang lang yan lahat sa kanya
Delete455 Not siding with either pero mas malala si Ellen. Sino ba namang magrerecord na alam mong wire tapping tapos ipopost mo? Tapos kukuha ka sympathy. Tapos mga exes ng asawa mo kokontakin mo pa. Mala Voltes 5 kayong magvovolt-in. Di uso move on sa ex? Tapos magpapanggap kang spokesperson for womens advocacy. Eh kung 10 ang nakarelasyon ni Derek siguro si Ellen mga 20. Libre naman Google search niyo na lang
Delete6:34 pm, regardless of what you say, he still provokes her.
Delete6:43 pm, some people records out of fear. Some people records out of protection and safety. Some people records because they don't rely on their memory.
May mga lalaki na sasabihin na hindi ko siya sinigawan, it was just a prank. Others will say, parati naman kami nagsisigawan and it is normal to us (which is not true). Or maybe she does not trust him, maybe iba ang sinasabi ni Derek sa parents nila sa totoong situation nila.
Kapag nag aaway ang mag asawa, takbuhan nila mga parents nila. And at first the parents will not believe unless they ask for proofs
4:55 nakalimutan mo sa timeline mo… Ellen recording arguments with husband way before 2025… not siding with Derek but Ellen is malala…arguments are normal, yes kahit pa murahan at sigawan… darating talaga sa point ng mag-asawa ang ganyan. But yung i-record mo tas nilabas mo pa just to prove you are right. Disturbing. Egotistical. At shempre dahil alam nyang nirerecord nya, she is at her best behavior lol maniwala akong di sya nagsisigaw at mura lol
Delete6:43 pm, Can't you understand? Kung pina-pa barrangay ni Ellen si Derek (twice) daw.....it means na GRABE ang awayan nila mag asawa. Other person has to step in for them. Baka may nag advice na rin kay Ellen to records or take a video of them fighting.
DeleteA simple misunderstanding at disagreement will not put the couple in the position with the Baranggay official to intervene. May barrangay records sila.
Example: you have a dispute within your family or relatives or neighbors at pina-baranggay mo, it means na hindi siya na resolve within your means or among the two of you. Kung hindi na ma-resolve ang problema sa Baranggay, it will go to court. Pwede mag endorse ang barrangay for legal cases. Or punta sila sa marriage counselor
@9:28 pm, you are sympathetic to cheater because she exposes him?? And women who expose their abusive partners are also a red flag and can be tagged as worst than their cheater partners??
DeleteGusto mo na lang tahimik ang mga babae at hindi magsalita kahit naabuso sila?
The couple arguments are NOT normal anymore. May normal arguments ba ng mag-asawa na umaabot na sa Baranggay Hall?
9:35 Kaya niya pina Brgy because she wants Derek out of the house, out of his house actually. Si Ellen pag ayaw na niya, ayaw na niya. No rhyme nor reason. Pero syempre gagawa na lang ng palusot later. 2021 pa daw ung mga away nila. 4 years wala siya ginawa kundi mag record?
Delete6:43 nagmomove on na nga sya eh bumabanat pa tong si sad boi. sinagot lang nya with evidence lol
DeletePalitan na ang Gabriela, Ellena na.
ReplyDeleteBakit may pa Team Ellen or Team Derek? Ganun. Doon ako sa kapakanan ng mga bata na naiipit sa pag eexpose ni Mother and her new found Exes Friends.
ReplyDeletegenuine question: bakit kailangan tipunin ni elen ang mga exes ni derek?
Delete9:42 para maghanap ng kakampi. Para ipakita sa iba na tama siya. Ellen. May Tama ka
DeleteHahaha
Delete9:42 Para maprove niya na at may resibo pa. Baka naman gusto pa ni Ellen pa join din ang current partners ng mga Exes para joined forces na.
Delete10:25 tama…. Kailangan siya lagi tama. May something ka din Ellen eh
DeleteEh kung si Derek kaya ang magtipon ng mga exes ni Ellen? Sa kanya kaya gawin yon? I wonder what these men will say. Just curious. Lol
Delete11:22 pm, wrong.
DeleteIf you go back to what Ellen said, nag admit siya ng mistakes niya. She admitted her flaws, wrongs and mistakes
Si Derek ang palagi nagsabi, Ikaw ang may problema... Ikaw, Ikaw ..Ikaw.. Ikaw ang may problema (siya naman pala itong may secret woman)
Kung tama si Derek, eh bakit lahat ng past relationships niya, mga babae nagkaroon depression at umiiyak after ng break up????
Derek is also the first one to expose their marital woes on his social media.
Kung di na sya happy and she felt she was being abused, nakalayas naman na sya kanila. E di okay. Time will reveal the truth naman about derek. Hayaan na natin sya. Bitter ka din ba ellen as opposed sa sinasabi kong di ka affected at cool image about leaving a reationship pag di ba masaya? Very childish naman ang atake mo. May mga anak kayo remember. And if derek is a red flag, you are no different. Hehe
Delete7:21 yeah justify pa more. Pero basag yun pavictim narrative niyo. Walang naniniwala. Ay meron, ikaw pala eheheh
Delete6:36 pm, he is still an absentee father. He left his first child. Derek admitted that he was not there for his first child. (with other woman)
DeleteHe was not around on the birthday of his 1st child with Ellen. kahit may invitation. Ibig sabihin kaya niya tiiisin ang anak niya.
Derek mismo ang nagsabi na kapag magkasama sila sa bahay, binuhos ni Ellen ang oras para sa mga anak nila. It means that she is a hands-on mother to their children.
7:21 Ellen is not one to talk about exes lol Just look at her exes too. Mas maramj syang failed relationship actually. Si JL, nasira image while with her lol. Yung Baste, may gf/partner pala. Pati yung BF ng friend nya Gwen, google nyo na lang. makalat din sya sa ex lol
Delete6:35 pm, a cheater is always a cheater. A red flag is always a red flag
DeleteMy mother was married to an alcoholic narcissist with a mean temper. In the public eye, may father curated an image na mabuti syang tao and people would always side with him. Sadly, housewife lang nanay ko and she couldn't just walk away. I really questioned her kung bakit sya nag asawa ng ganyang lalake. He only gave us trauma and PTSD.
ReplyDelete8:28 society was more rigid before, and women had fewer options. Yung lola ko was pressured into marriage by her own family kasi hinipuan siya ng manliligaw at "nakakahiya" daw kung hindi sila ikasal. Kaya mas kokonti ang empowered women noon kasi grabe talaga yung pagjudge and shame. Buti nagbago na and women have more freedom now.
DeleteSana ok na mama mo bhe
DeleteWith ALL that effort?? For what? Dump and move forward. As simple as that.
ReplyDeleteKaya nga. Like what she did in the past. That's what she do best. Leave and move forward. Dito dami na niyang hanash. Mukhang di niya maamin sa sarili niya na hindi siya pang wife material. Na pang temporary lang siya
DeleteCorrect my god. toxic din tong si Ellen eh.
DeleteParang self pity naman yung sabihan mo sarili mo ng "hindi ako wife material." Harsh.
Delete1:28 some women are hindi pang wife material. Hindi sila for the long haul. Gusto lang un umpisa. Getting to know. Honeymoon phase. Nagsasawa. May nakikita na mali. Ayaw magtiis. Ayaw ayusin un differences. Wala namang masama sa ganun. Ganun sila eh. Yun nga lang know thyself. Umpisa pa lang kilalanin mo na sarili mo para hindi ka na pumasok sa mga sitwasyon na kumplikado gaya ng kasal. Ako mas gusto ko na ako yun naghahabol. Ako yun nagkakagusto. Pag nagustuhan ako parang natuturn off ako. Nandidiri ako. Mas gusto ko un unrequited love. Dun ako fascinated. Eh ganun talaga. Ano ba tawag dun? May tama ako LOL o iba lang talaga ako. iba iba naman kasi talaga ang tao at preferences at upbringing. Again, know thyself
DeleteAnd some people here are still defending derek. I've never been a fan of ellen. I'm old-fashioned and ellen's wild nature doesn't sit right with me. But again, I'm on her side. Derek has always had a manipulative vibe. Yung parang claudine vibe na bait-baitan infront of the cam but nasty in real life.
ReplyDeleteI remember the netizens would hound andrea for that short term relationship w/ derek thinking she was the problem since the past ones lasted for yrs. And now people are realizing she's smart for cutting it short.
As andrea would say -
"Keep calm and let karma finish it"
Lmao. Who would have thought it's ellen who would finish it for her 😆
Nah. We're not siding with Derek. But we aren't siding with Ellen either. A big no-no. Useless ang pagkakalat niya other than to gain sympathy and to prove to everyone na mali si Derek at tama siya
Delete1:52 anon: you're forgetting derek posted abt their marriage first. So was she supposed to just stay silent?
Deletenot siding with Derek and Ellen. Both red flags. Both puno ng pride and ego. But with what Ellen is doing, posting so-called receipts, gathering exes, feeling women advocate, mas worse sya lol she needs to think and reflect. Di lang naman si Derek ang may failed relationship.. sya din naman…twice naka-away nya yung father ng kids nya bago mag one year old.
Delete1:52 hindi mo ba alam na naunang nagpost c Derek online? Feeling sadboi pa nga at hindi nya raw namura c Ellen, ever. Eh di nilabasan ng Audio Recording ni Ellen na minura sya. 🤣
Delete7:52 what are you talking about? Go to Ellen’s Instagram and look at her reposts. Balik ka dito after a ?
Delete@1:52 am, May record naman si Fashion Pulis. Go back to previous post to this date November 15, 2025. Makikita mo si Derek ang nag umpisa lahat at ini-expose niya ang problema nilang mag asawa. Dyan nagsimula lahat. At eto naman si Ellen, parati nag react sa asawa niya.
DeleteHindi alam ng mga tao na nagkaroon ng miscarriage si Ellen, until Derek told it on his interview.
It seems that Ellen is more private, while Derek wants to get the world involve in their family life. Kaya he gets what he wants. Ang dami tuloy marites na nakikisawsaw
Private pa si Ellen ha ng lagay na yan hahaha
DeleteNo matter how modern our times now, the patriarchal system is still dominating in our country. Like kahit toxic na ang relationships ninyo mag-asawa. Ang pamilya mo pa mismo ang mag advice sa yo na habaan mo pa ang pisi for the sake of kids or image etc. It's time for us women to break this toxic cycle. We shouldn't tolerate any form of dis-respect from our spouse, okay na yon you forgive him once, pero twice no out na dapat. Sana lahat nang babae kayang gawin yong ginawa ni Ellen, pero hindi eh, some are still dependent sa mga husband nila so ang ending, tanggapin nalang kapalaran nila, ang lungkot lang.
ReplyDeleteEllen, it’s easier for you because you have your own money, house, support system etc., but for the rest of us, it would be like a camel going through the eye of a needle.
ReplyDeleteAnd??? That still doesn't make it impossible for the rest of us db? Mahirap pero hindi imposible.
Delete9:34 own house? Wala pa siya house kaya nga si Derek pinaalis nya sa bahay ni Derek at don siya nakatira now. Smart girl dba?
Delete6:48 may bahay nman yan si Ellen dati pa. May magazine nga about dyan. Lol
Delete6:48 am, she has her own house. Baka gusto lang niya ng mas bigger house because he has two kids. Or maybe siya nagpapa-gawa ng dream house for her family
Delete6:48 am, Super, duper na mayaman ang family ni Ellen. They own a chains (several) building hotels across the Philippines at sila ang owner ng "Temple of Lea" in Cebu (a greek design palace which is a tourist destination) . Temple of Lea is considered the Taj Mahal of Cebu.
DeleteI'm pretty sure she has her own house and can afford to have more. Hindi lang siya showy or hindi niya ipinagkalat kung gaano kayaman ang family nila. Hindi alam ni Korina Sanchez na mayaman si Ellen, she found out about it when when they had a shooting in Temple of Lea in Cebu.
During Korina Sanchez interview, she asked Ellen directly if she is rich. Ellen did not answer the question but told Korina that she grew up in a comfortable life.
Ladies... long courtship will minimize this kind of situation. Get to know to him. Vet him. Make him prove his worth. Men secretly desire a woman that they have to earn.
ReplyDeleteAlso, don't fall in love with any man.. fall in love with the QUALITY OF LIFE that a man can give you - drama-free and peaceful. Also lumalabas lang ang tunay na kulay ng lalake kapag buntis ka na lalo pag nagsilang ka na...
Also, wala talaga template. So women should be kinder and less judgy to each other. - Ante nyo na nagmamagaling nyahahahaha!
Maganda nga live in na lang muna. Para kung ayaw na eh di mag alsa balutan ka na lang. Wala ng legalidad. Wala ng mga papeles kelangan na i-file. Madeds ka man wala siyang makukuha sayo kahit piso. At kung ano mang pera at ari arian mo na dala at naipundar, sa'yo pa din. Wag ka lang pumayag na gawin kang unli palahian. Dahil pag naghiwalay kayo ikaw lahat sasagot sa gastos ng bata o magmamalimos ka pa ng suporta
DeleteOkay kasi siya na mismo nag sabi nung buntis siya sobrang inintindi siya ni Derek. So ano ba talga Ellen?
DeleteGirl hindi mo makikilala ng husto ang tao kahit mag long courtship pa... minsan nga kahit mag kasama na kayo sa bahay di mo pa rin sya kilala. Just be more judgy, insightful sa mga kakasamahin. Di purkit kinilig ka na dapat push mo na.
DeleteIn courtship - people always put their best foot forward. Hindi mo pa rin makikilala ang tao.
DeleteIn co-habitation or living together, hindi mo pa rin makikilala ang tao, lalo na kung pareho kayo busy, except siguro if both of you stay in the same house for 24/7 for 6 months.
During COVID pandemic, ang daming married couples and live-in partners nag-break up kasi hindi nila kilala ang isa't isa
Start as friends, dyan mo makilala ang tao. How is he as a person? How he treats himself? how treats his family and siblings? How he treats ordinary people? How he treats his work? May goals ba siya or walang ambition? May trabaho or wala? Tamad ba siya sa bahay or neat freak sa bahay? Possesive ba siya or hindi? Jealous type ba siya or hindi? Dreamer ba siya? Or a builder? Family oriented ba ito? Pet lover? red flag ba ito??etc
Maganda ba ang morals at values ng tao ito? Dyan mo makikita kung magiging mabait siya asawa or mabait na tatay sa anak ninyo
Baka magulat ka na lang, you married a swindler, a hoodlum , a drug dealer or addict or member pala ng mafia.
9:41 am, Both of them are well off and can provide a quality life for their family. Ang problema lang kung magkasundo sila sa ugali at hobbies. Kung hindi, l
Deletemag crack ang relationship nila. Tapos wala pang core foundation as friends because they started as lovers.
Before entering a married life, alam ninyo dapat what makes each other angry at kung paano e-diffuse ang anger na yun. If they don't have that patience - get out of the relationship or work with a counselor. Kasi there's something in you that needs to change before you commit yourself in a married life. You and your partner need a lot of dose of patience when you enter a married life. Patience with your self, patience with your partner and patience with you children and patience with whatever circumstances you both have.
@3:10 quality life has little to do with money. yes we all need money, but the quality of life that I was referring to was drama-free and peaceful. a man who is stable, reliable, restrained, with a spirit of generosity can elevate a woman's life in ways that you can't even imagine... your heart will burst with joy, you don't know what to do with the overflowing love that he is giving you.
Delete@7:55 many people like you don't even understand what courtship means.... this is not pa cute stage... this is the right time to give a man money problems and all kinds of problems. because that is the only way for him to reveal his true colors.
sus hindi din. daming pretentious na tao, kahit long courtship kung magaling umakting waley rin. magdasal ka nalang talaga na sa mabuting tao ka mapunta.
DeleteGrabe un mga hindi kino-consider un mga salitang sinasabe ni derek sa recording. Talagang naka focus lang sa sumigaw, nagmura. E si ellen nga tong ayaw makipagusap ng maayos e kaya nafrufrustrate yun isa. Wag kayo makipagrelasyon if you cannot humble yourself to fix a problem with your partner. Mga babae, d kayo prinsesa. Hindi lang kayo ang dapat makatanggap ng respeto, mga lalake din. 2 way yan. Pero mga tagapagtanggol ni ellen 1 way lang.
ReplyDelete💯💯💯
DeleteMahirap kay Ellen, aping api na siya sa itsura niya.
DeleteEllen said na di naman din sya perpekto pero Derek also has a choice na to walk away kesa mag sisigaw mag mumura and terrorize his whole household. Derek said himself many times sa mga posts nya na Ellen is Annoying. Alam nya pinasok nya, so he could've handled himself better as well
DeleteSi Ellen nag-admit siya ng mistakes niya.
DeleteBut Derek NEVER admitted that he was also wrong. (wala or kulang ng self-reflection ang lolo mo). He always say, ikaw ang may problema.. Ikaw..Ikaw.. Ang dami naging ex-girlfriends ni Derek, lahat ng mga exes niya ay "mali"?? At si Derek parati ang Tama???
Couples cannot solve their problems, IF either of them or one of them do not see that they are in the wrong.
Kailangan lang dito mag sorry ni Derek kasi hindi siya faithful - "infidelity". Nag-entertain pa ng iba ang lolo mo while he is already in a relationship.
truth!
Delete7:07 why does he have to admit it to a stranger nobody like you? Ano ka ba niya? Haha
Delete3:59 pm, Asaan ba ang listening and reading comprehension mo? At hindi mo nakita, narinig at nabasa ang post ni Ellen??
Delete@3:59 pm, Read and listen to Ellen and Derek post. Maiitidihan mo naman kung sino sa kanila ang umaamin sa flaws nila at kung sino rin ang pilit na ipagtanggol ang sarili at ayaw umamin sa cheating nola
DeleteWhat happened to taking a break from SM? lol
ReplyDeleteNatulog daw siya. Yun na un break niya LoL
DeleteHahahah right? Kairita na yung kadaldalan nya sa socmed. Tanggalan ng internet yan! 😂
DeleteSo from the beginning ba ng relasyon nila ginagawa na ito ni Ellen dahil alam nya merong mali sa relasyon nila or just when Derek shows the real him na? Nung tapos ng honeymoon stage nila which is stage 1.
ReplyDeleteSeems like may namasdan na si E 2021 pa lang, prior to them getting married. She started recording by that time na e. So she's also at fault bat nya pinakasalan si D, knowing what she knows. Baka may savior complex to si E.
Delete@5:07 exactly. Plus hero complex biruin mo nakipag collab pa sa mga ex para daw siya ang spokesperson. 🤣 like what the heck is that.?
Delete5:07 am, mali po kayo. She started recording after marriage somewhere in December. Baka sunod sunod ang pagtatalo nila at mataas ang boses ni Derrick. Maybe she started to fear him and started recording.
DeleteThey got married November pa, but they got engaged in March pa.
True. Nagiging bitter yong mga ex if they pool together to gang up on him. Nagpapagamit sila kay E na red flag pagdating Sa relationships. Huy, if na hurt kayo dati kay D, lessons learned. but to join in this circus? Dont be like E na makalat
DeleteI would not take any advice from Ellen lol puro failed relationship, short-term and messy.
ReplyDeletehahaha true, kala mo talaga may nagtagal kay gurl kung maka advise eh
DeleteSus tama ka na! Oa ka masyado pabida
ReplyDeleteYou should never get to the point that you will have to screen shot or record. If you feel something is off.. RUN....
ReplyDeleteAy Ang galing naman ng AI na nag sulat nito 🙄 manipulative talaga.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂 teacher na pala si Ellen
DeleteHindi naman perfect ang grammar. Si Ellen nagsulat niyan, hindi AI.
Delete1:25 you obviously don’t use chatgpt.
Delete1:25 am, kasi hindi perfect ang grammar ko?
DeleteI'm all for women standing up for themselves in a relationship. But excuse me, Ellen - you are not the eight person to advocate for this. Please take a look at yourself and reflect. What you have done is not right. Second time in a tow to break up with someone before the kid turns one. Look at your nasty social media posts, look at you justifying yourself by talking to his past girlfriends - these are not the actions of someone in their right mind. Go back to Bali and reflect if you must. Please do not have a baby in your next relationship. Post partum depression is real.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman nasty yun because she never started it. She was responding to him kasi na-una nag post si Derek.
DeleteI agree. Who would talk to ex girlfriends nag sanib pwersa pa. And weird lang
Deletedi porke naunang nagpost ang guy e may excusr. n. asyang MAGKALAT. yes makalat sya.
Delete3:20 pm, It was the exes who reachsd ou
Delete5:57 bitter pa rin kung sino ang nag reach out. Do you think someone like A or S mag re reach out pa? They’re happy and thriving in their lives. Magbabasa lang yan and go on with their day. And E, if may nag reach out pala; todo post kaagad? Kakampi lang hanap? So immature ka girl. Mayaman ka naman. Move out and move on and be happy.
DeleteRed flag naman talaga si Derek (and even Ellen). Nakaka-off lang na pinost pa nya ung private convo nil ni Derek for everyone to feast on. Sa korte nalang dapat nya pinakita yan.
ReplyDeleteKung abused ka bakit ayaw mo pa din umalis sa bahay ni derek?
ReplyDeleteWhen two red flags marry...ayan ang ending...red flags pa din! 😭
ReplyDeleteIf two red flags ends up in a marriage...ang ending maroon 🤐
Delete3:02 am, Two red flags? Sila ang mga tao na allergic sa peace of mind at mahilig sa adventures at thrill-seeker kasi exciting daw. 🤪 👻
DeleteAng ending sobrang sakit pala sa ulo't at damdamin.🤯😵💫☠️
Ellen recorded when D was shouting and swearing provoking him sh kalmado lang because gusto nya palabasin na sya ay hindi nagmumura . That act of provocation from e is not ok with me. Planado nya para magmukhang ganyan si D although tutuo naman pero si E kaya hindi ganyan?
ReplyDeleteYes tinanong nga nya why are you shouting?? Epal
DeleteEllen is a redflag also
ReplyDeletenah, she just exposss him
Delete2:22 nah it doesnt change the fact that she’s a red flag too
DeleteIf you reach to a point that will need you to document your encounters with your partner is the sign to break up. Trust is not there anymore if you keep recording your fights. Man what kind of a partnership is that??? And then use it later on against your ex. That is not a true partership.
ReplyDeleteEto ang best advice for you Ellen ----- listen to your friends ( Im sure merong kahit isa nagsabi huwag mo pakasalan si Derek) , take seriously red flags in men, yan ang dapat advice mo sa ibang babae, as for you well , as they say, ginusto mo yan , kakakilala lang kasal agad , fault mo din kaya di rin ako maka sympathize sa yo
ReplyDelete7:56 am, Some people are risk takers kahit alam na red flag ang tao. Nakikipag-date pa rin. Tapos magpapa-kasal pa ang iba, Only to end up in a martyrdom. Sinabi ko na ito before, if you knew that the person is a red flag but continue to date him or her, cheating and abuse is expected. Do not try to blame others for your own heart break. you made that decision to be with that person.
Delete💯% agree sa inyo! she was gloating pa before e ano ka ngayon girl?
DeleteMagbilang ka na lang ulit ng butil ng bigas lol
ReplyDeletesus bat naman of all people makikinig ako sa advise mo? eh failed relationships mo, kalat mo pa. if ever dun ako sa may successful marriage/s at hindi sa’yo. napaka palengkera mo pa.
ReplyDeleteexactly!!!
Deletehaha sa true! main character syndrome 😂
Delete8:48 TRUE
ReplyDeleteshe forgot to add “dont marry a red flag” as the number one advice
ReplyDeleteAgree. Alam na ng lahat. Sya now lang nalaman.
DeleteDon't marry a red flag. Unfortunately, most women don't listen to this advice until they experience it themselves.
DeleteThey will still try to be in the relationship, be optimistic about the person and the situation and go through with it. Pero ang ending...still the same. It is already embedded in history books. It never change kahit ilang generations pa yan. Ganun pa rin ang ending sa red flag
Para mag change ang red flag kailangan e-overhaul nila ang sarili nila. Kaya mahirap yun
Guys, meron naman martyr na tao. Meron mag asawa na kahit nam-bababe ang lalaki at nagkaroon ng anak sa ibang babae, pinapatawad at tinatanggap pa rin nila ang guy kasi mayaman. Some women just live with it.
DeleteMy problem with anyone recording their confrontation with someone else is that is is not giving the real story. because the person recording knows it’s being recorded so of course she will be cool and calm in the situation. it’s very manipulative. and i dont like this guy one bit, but im not a fan of Ellen’s behavior as well.
ReplyDeleteBut the past relationships and how they treat their exes is a great indication if they will be good for you or not.
DeleteHindi naman basta-basta nagbabago ang ugali ng tao if they will find the right person, ganun pa rin sila. Nagbago lang ang mukha ng ka-relasyon but their behavior, attitude and personality is still the same.
2:32 they’re both problematic people based on their relationship histories so honestly i dont know who you are alluding to. your statement is applicable to them both 🤷🏻♀️ they’re both terrible people
DeleteAnyone starts recording if the person feels uneasy with the situation or unsafe or natatakot or nagkakaroon na ng trauma.
Delete6:06 as if santa naman ung Ellen they deserve each other, parehong questionable characters. a narcissist and a manipulator. inuhanan lang nya si yung Derek
Delete6:06 si ellen, recording dahil takot? you think hindi aalma si ellen kay derek? What makes you think tahimik lang si leen sa away nila? Sa recordings of course tahimik siya kasi she was baiting him. She needed him to get to this point na yelling para may justification siya kaya nga naipabaranggay niya. Toxic si Ellen
Delete1:28 pm, ang dami palang sympathizer ng cheater dito? Takot sa sariling multo
Delete6:52 i am not 1:28 and also nakiki maritess lang. I dont like D kasi sa history talaga, mukhang na depressed mga exes niya sa kanya. Pag di niya na feel, break na. Tumatagal pero no plans for marriage. Until E came along. So mukhang natamaan si kumag. Pero baks naman, parang blinded fan ka naman ni Ateng E. If you listen to the recording, he sounded so frustrated. And she seemed like she wanted a reaction talaga. It is not about tolerating a cheater; it is about someone manipulating the situation also. I agree sa iba dito na toxic din si E. In other words, red flag din!
Delete2:19 am, Mag asawa pa sina Derek at Ellen, may video sino-surprise ni Ellen si Derek and tried to wake him up, but when Derek opened his eyes nag-mura siya sa video.
DeleteOkay pa ang pagsasama ng mag asawa. Hanapin mo ang video na yun. Mahilig talaga mag curse ang lolo mo. The guy is obviously a manipulative and a red flag
Not all women are victims. Neigbor namin nakaka awa kasi ang asawang babae magaling mag manipulate and ginagamit ang mga anak as leverage. So si guy oo nalang ng oo sa Misis para di mahiwalay sa anak.
ReplyDeleteNakakapagtaka lang, alam na ng buong bansa na red flag yan si D even before they got married. Bakit parang now lang nya nalaman? Saka kala ko ba hindi ka nagchcheck ng phone kasi maganda ka?
ReplyDeleteHouse of Failed Dragons 🐉 kaya Huwag maniwala sa zodiac eme astrology eme. Yan ang kinahinatnan!
ReplyDeleteWahahaha ahahaha korak
DeleteWahahaha ahahaha korak
DeleteSI ANGELICA ANG NAGWAGI 😃
ReplyDeleteIf you were not in an abusive relationship before just shut up. Makalat kung makalat, but Derek needs to be exposed! Yung umabot kana sa pag rerecord kasi nag se self doubt kana. Saka ive experienced na idedeny na minura ka or idedeny na di ka sinigawan, gas lighting nga! Gets nyo na ba
ReplyDeleteluh kayo lang pwede may opinion? in the first place abusive men and abusive relationships ALWAYS show signs except most women choose to ignore. e di kayo na, balakayojan 🙄 titigas ulo nyo eh.
DeleteKung nagrerecord na siya nung 2021, abay in doubt na siya talaga. Bakit pinaabot pa ng 2025? Ang off lang na ang asawa mo nirerecord ang pag aaway niyo everytime. For her to justify one day na ganito talaga siya.
DeleteSorry Ellen, this advice comes from a place of hurt. It sounds like you're in the 'anger' phase of Kubler Ross' stages of grief. Allow yourself to get through the full cycle, or at least give more context and not just innuendo, before dispensing advice.
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