When you’re that young, what could possibly motivate you to lie about something so terrible? May a real victim never, ever confide in you. You’re truly despicable. @11:48
1148 walang tangang babae gagawa nito na siniraan na ang ama pati sarili at pamilya sisirain din. Tanga lang ang hindi maniniwala at walang awa lang ang magdududa pa.
Grabe ka girl kasiraan na yan ng pamilya mo, hindi mo na dapat pinag kakalat yan. Yes it happened. We feel you. Pero nakakahiya yung reputasyon ng family ang nakasalalay. Sana you consider man lang. You have many options. You can do therapy, you can confess to a priest, you can go to a peaceful quiet place for a vacation but never mo siraan pamilya mo sa public. I hope my makaintindi sa comment ko. I’m not bashing her.
Girl! Kumulo yung dugo ko sayo kahit anonymous ka. Mas importante sayo ang kasiraan ng pamilya kaysa sa biktima? You're the problem why there are so many victims na dala dala nila yung trauma hanggang pagtanda nila for the sole reason na itatago nila ito for the sake of the family's reputation. I've worked for an NGO supporting victims so I witnessed firsthand how damaged those children were because they were sexually abused at a young age. At dahil sa mga taong kagaya mo na mismong magulang nila kaya hindi nila ito nasabi kahit kanino, even the police. So they just suffered for many years at paulit ulit ang pang-aabuso until private organizations like us intervened. Sana, sana lang..huwag itong mangyari sa pamilya, kamag-anak, o mga taong malapit sayo.
Same thought kaya lang paniguradong may kokontra satin. Pupwede din naman din yang ireklamo sa kinauukulan kung gusto nya. Pagpipyestahan lang sila ng mga tao. Ok lang kung mag isa syang anak. Kasabihan nga, "Dont wash your dirty linen on public". Kung sabagay crime na din yan eh. So ano gusto nya?..tuligsain ang tatay nya at ipakulong o trial by publicity???
9:24 Ka-FP, dirty linen are secrets that are embarrassing or shameful but not necessarily criminal. Sexual abuse is a crime, not just a private family matter. It is not something that should stay secret like the typical "dirty linen." And please, let's not throwing blame or whatever to people like her na ngayon lang naglakas loob sabihin yang ganyang bagay. Remember, she was only 10 when it happened. She probably didn't know it was abuse during that time. Maybe she thought it was just something bad or unusual. Some people like her just found the courage to say it now without feeling shame or hate because they already accepted things and have given forgiveness. It's not about the father anymore, it's about liberating herself. I don't think she wanted the people to crucify the father kaya nga ngayon yung pinili niyang time to talk about it. And why do we care if the father gets the hate in the first place? Why consider the feelings of the offender instead of the victim?
I also dont get why sinabi nya pa sa public i mean what for? Patay na yung tatay niya at kung may trauma pa siya pwde naman pumunta sa psychiatrist or medical professionals and heal in private. Grabe na mga tao ngayon wala na tinitira for privacy, too much info.
8:52 bakit? Iyan ba talaga ang tanging sagot para makamit nya ang peace? Ipagkalat sa public yung nangyari sa kanya? Mapapanatag na ba sya after that? Mind you ptay na tatay nya sana binigyan nya man lang ng konting respeto.
8:14 kaya madaming biktima na ayaw magsalita dahil sa mga tulad mo! Kung mangyare sayo o sa anak mo yang ganyan, iapply mo sa inyo mga paniniwala mong bulok! Hindi masamang mag out ng mga taong mah maling ginawa lalo na kung krimen, at mas lalong walang nakakahiya sa pagiging biktima!!
gets ko po mga nagsasabi ng dapat magsalita ang biktima... tama po kayo... but justice is not a one way street... may karapatan din po ang akusado na ipagtanggol ang sarili... sa sitwasyon ni Jonalyn na patay na ang tatay nya, the best po na tumahimik na sya... or mag confide sya sa few trusted people lang... hindi na dapat isapubliko dahil yung akusado wala na pagkakataon na dumepensa.
kasi hindi lahat ng baho kelangan ilantad for what? sympathy empathy ? for fame? for clout? either you get positive or nega reaction pero if i were her id rather keep my secret privately kasi wala na naman magagawa patay na and you continue to lambast then why didnt you do something 10 yrs ago or 15 or 5 ? why now? may purpose and intention eh.
Juice ko mga tita anong klaseng utak meron kyo!! Dapat sa mga kagaya niyo kinukulong din eh! I would never wish what she went thru to any of your family members. And I would never wish for anyone to have you, mga titang walang utak, as a family.
Haha! Rage bait? Pero if not sige. May point naman. BUT! Ito lang din. Wag agad jump to conclusion! Mabigat na paratang yan. Dapat both sides mapakingaan.
Nyahahah daming na high blood. Inom muna kayo gamot niyo. May point din naman siya kasi ano pa ba purpose neto eh patay na tatay niya? Para paingayin ang pangalan niya? Hindi na dapat. Not necessary. Patay na un involved. Isasama mo pa ang mga tao na makikisawsaw sa nangyari sa'yo. It is sad but the best thing to do is just move forward
Did I read this right??? What kind of mentality is that??? Uunahin mo pa talaga yung kahihiyan ng family mo kesa don sa pinagdaanang trauma na naranasan mo sa sariling tatay mo at a young age. Easy for you to tell since you're not in the situation. I hope hindi yan maranasan ng anak mo if meron ka man pero sana wala ka na lang anak coz uunahin mo pa ang kahihiyan kesa sa kapakanan niya.
11:49 kulang ka din sa brain cells... patay na pala tatay nya so humarap na yon sa hukuman ng Diyos at may pataw na. sana maging masaya si Jonalyn at magkaron sya ng husband na gentleman at ituturing siya na reyna.
Sya na biktima sya pag mag-adjust? LOL kaya ung mga biktima hindi nagssalita dahil sa mga katulad mo eh. Siguro kung ganyan nangyari sa anak mo ganyan din gagawin mo, papatahimikin sya. Kadiri!
Oh my god! Anong klaseng pag isip yan? Uunahin mo ang shame at ego preservation kesa sa liberation ng tao mula sa trauma? You are so disgusting. Kadiring mindset.
Yung mga g na g dito feeling naman may ambag din sa buhay nitong si Jonalyn. Mga self-righteous, pweh! Both of them has a point. Ang point ni 8:14 is family issue yan so dapat sa therapy na lang niya dinaan hindi thru public. Meron din naman point si Viray dahil baka it's for her peace of mind.
Let her be. Iba siya sa iyo.Karapatan niya magsalita. Kaya dumarami ang mga biktima na nananahimik dahil sa mga tulad mong pagiisip. Instead na tulungan at may simpatiya sa mga victims e ganyan pa ang maririnig sa inyo.
Comments like this- paulit-ulit lang narerelive ang trauma kasi iniinvalidate din ang pinagdaanan nila. They are victims all over again because they were the ones violated and traumatized yet people still expect them to keep silent all because of shame. Well, molesters and their enablers and protectors should be the ones shamed.
Hoy, dapat yung tatay yung mahiya! How could he? Kadiri mga katulad mo na ganyan mag isip. Kaya tuloy ang dami pa dyan takot magsalita dahil sa tulad mo. I myself experienced the same thing. Grandpa and tito ko involved in separate incidents and bitbit ko yung bigat to the point na I almost unalived myself nung teenager na ako. By grace I got back on my feet and I wrote about it anonymously in a national paper and yun naging release ko. Despite being anonymous, I had a cousin who figured out it was me but she respected my wishes just to remain anonymous. I talk about it also sa retreats and through sharing my experience, it has helped me heal. Maybe it her way of setting herself free and finding closure. Talking about it and not keeping it to herself and a few others IS the best way for her to move forward. And through her maybe others too could find the courage to speak up and allow thelselves the path to healing as well. May kanya kanyang path to healing at wag i invalidate yung experience nya and the path she chose.
Kahihiyan lang sa tatay niya. At dapat na-e-expose ang mga sexual abusers or molesters patay man o buhay. Kailangan may awareness ang mga tao na madalas yan mangyari sa mga pamilya at kailangan maging protective tayo lalo na sa mga anak natin.
Not bursting your bubble pero alam mo bang pwede ding di nangyari yan?? Kung baga nasa utak mo lang. May tawag sa psychology yan eh… lalo sobrang bata ka pa. Need investigate si ra maigi yan lalo ilang years na. Tapos innocent pala pinsan mo it’s all in your head, paano NASA utak?
11:51.. sad to say hindi ko yun guni guni..totoong nangyari sya at ang laki ng impact nun sakin.. kahit me asawa ako hindi ako nasisiyahan pagdating sa s_x.
11:51???? U okay? Translation ng sinabi mo “hindi totoo yung nangyari sayo, gawa gawa lang ng childhood memory mo” 40yo na yung tao sasabihin mo imagination lang?
11:51 Malaking impact sa mga bata ang sexual abuse kaya tatatak yan sa memory nila. Tapos pag adult na sila doon nila maiintindihan fully ang mga nangyari sa kanila.
Ako muntikan ma rape ng kalarong lalaki. Sabi sa akin ng pinsan niyang best friend ko (babae), "laro kayo nakahubad sa kwarto." Eh akala ko laro talaga. Pero dahil conscious ako sa katawan ko, sabi ko paulit ulit "ayoko" kahit paulit-ulit ako pinipilit ng babae kong best friend. Yung lalaking pinsan niya nakahubad sabi "Wag mo na pilitin." 9 years old ako nun. Pero pinatawad ko sila and until now nag uusap pa rin kami. Kaibigan ko pa rin yung babae. Madalas ko iniisip if nangyari ba talaga yun. Pero pagkakaalam ko, totoo talagang nangyari yun. Kapag nakikita kami, madalas kami mag reminisce ng childhood namin pero never ko briningup yun. Wala akong galit both sa kanila. Pero somehow I hope na mabasa nila eto.
Bakit kailangan pa irefute? Obviously di ka okay. Wala namang matinong tao mag cclaim na molested sila nung bata specially kadugo niya kung di totoo. Again matinong tao. And Jona seems to be a good person so tingin mo she was only making this story up? You're sick!
this needs to be tackled privately . the voice sometimes wont help you, most of the time will harm you sana nagsalita sya buhay pa tatay or at leadt yrs ago hindi ngayon lang, this has intention
@11:20. Kaya nga may batas tayo innocent until proven guilty dba?? Di guilty muna bago maging innocent. Baka magulat ka ang daming mga tao ganyan made up stories for clout especially nowadays because of… thanks again soc med.
11:53 hindi naman sinabi agad na guilty yung tatay. Again walang "matinong" tao mag cclaim ng molestation or SA if di nangyare lalo ang accused ay kadugo
11:20 kapal mo. ikaw ang sick. Super sick. Papasa mo pa sa akin sakit mo. Bakit triggered ka? so lahat ng sasabihin sa'yo you'd accept hook line and sinker? Gamitin mo utak mo sayang brand new pa. Wala na un taong inaakusahan niya. Hindi na makakasalita yun o makakadepensa
11:20 si denice cornejo nag akusa kay Vhong Navarro pero di ba? proven innocent si Navarro??? so pwede mangyari yun... pero yung kay Jonalyn ... for her own peace of mind, sana tumahimik na siya... pagchichismisan lang sya ng mga tao eh.
8:38 panoorin mo kase ung interview. Na explain dun. At maganda pagkakalatag nila ni toni.. forgiveness is not a one time thing, its a choice na lagi mong pinipili pag naaalala mo ang ginawa sayo. Kaya mahirap talaga yung naging sitwasyon nya.
8:46 yeah pwede. Pero mas okay pa din na sinabi nya to para may matutunan yung ibang tao. Not all victims can speak out. Some predators pwedeng matauhan at magbago dahil sa pag expose ng kwento na to..
11:45 Nauso? Trend pala yan? What kind of thinking naman ito, kitid at babaw mo 🤦 Ngayon siya naging bukas para ihayag ang experience niya. Sa mga nagdududa sa timing dahil may concert, nashare niya sa interview na merong direktor ng KaH na sinabihan siyang ang dry naman ang reaction niya sa isang live program na bumati ng sariling pamilya, lalo mother niya yun. Ngayon gusto ifree ni Jona ang sarili niya sa matagal na niyang trauma. Alam ng nanay niya, pero wala din ginawa. Lumalapit pa tuwing may kailangan lang, matapos sila iwan sa tatay para sa iba.
Nope. Wrong move. I know it's best to name drop so people would be careful around him, pero aside sa patay na ang tao, you have to protect you family din. Hindi lang siya ang anak. Artista pa siya. May mga pamangkin na nag aaral. It's painful to keep it to yourself, but for me okay lang as long as I don't have to put my sisters and brother to limelight. Na pag tinignan sila ng tao, iisipin ay anak yan nung rapist l. Ganito ganon. Idk if I made myself clear pero basta ganoon. Pero syempre sabihin sa mga lapatid at pamilya pero huwag ibroadcast sa publiko.
Mga tao sakay agad eh. Basta ito guys, innocent until proven guilty sabi nga ng isa dito.. not otherwise. Deds na tatay nya. D na pwwde kunin side nya. And sa mga nagsasabi sino b naman anak magiimbento.. 🤦🏻♂️ Magugulat kayo how people are nowadays, lalo sa soc med era.
Mga comments dito na saying “innocent until proven guilty” - mahiya kayo. Always assume it’s true. Sometimes the young kids are too ashamed/ embarassed/ traumatized to even open up about it. Sadly those people u trust the most you thought won’t do a thing. I fought my rapist in court while in military. The verdict? They let him go to have his “career”. Meanwhile there was dna evidence & we had a strong case. He got away and I was left with trauma forever. Because of our culture ai was ashamed to tell anyone but a psychiatrist. Time let it hurt lesa but it stays with you for life. Sabi pa nga ng psych ko meron sya pasyente na-molest & raped in her teens and it affected her until she have to see her in her 70s. Everyone have their own terms to open up to someone kaya wag maghusga bakit ngayon lang inilabas. Jona was obviously fetl voiceless and powerless through the years until now.
"Always assume it's true." Yan madalas ginagamit ng mga pa-woke and fake (liberal) feminists. Mahirap yan. Kung ganyan ang mindset, maraming makukulong na framed up and inosente. Sorry ah, don't get me wrong. Di ko dina-doubt si Jona Viray agad. Pero sa concrete evidence and court rulings ako naniniwala. Siguro kung kaibigan ko o ka-close si Jona, maniniwala pa ako. Pero she is just a stranger to me. This isn't lack of empathy, it's just logical thinking. Daming nagsasabi ng false claims at marami na rin nafe-frame up na inosente to the point na yung iba pa nga nakakaranas ng death penalty pero pag inopen ulit ang case ang in-investigate ulit after a few years or several years, inosente pala ang akusado pero wala na ang buhay nila due to death penalty. Yung African boy na akala nila rapist namatay dahil sa death penalty pero inosente pala. Recent example pa yung SA claim ng Doordash girl pero yun pala yung girl ang may mali. Let's face it-- daming false accusations sad to say karamihan pa coming from fellow women just to gain attention. :(
It's sad how people here criticized and question her na kesyo bakit ngayon lang nagsalita and for what purpose or intention. Regardless if she's a celebrity or not, victims only speak up when they're ready. Ready meaning nakapagpatawad na sila at hindi na nila sinisisi ang sarili nila o yung ibang tao kung bakit hinayaang mangyari ang nangyari. Victims can speak whenever they want and all we could do is listen. Dapat wala na tayong paki sa kung anong mararamdaman ng may sala because that's something they should carry for the rest of their lives lalo pa kung hindi nila pinagbayaran sa ngalan ng batas.
I think wala naman issue if you say it to friends and other people pero to broadcast it this way like a public notice, it is a whole different thing. It could end up not well kasi and parang madedehado ka pa kahit you really come from truth and a good place
My take: Sana di nalang nya in.out in public. Patay narin naman tatay nya and nag.sorry na sa kanya before he passed away. For the sake of the family and her future nalang and her other siblings. Sana kinalimutan nalang nya and nagpa.counciling sya..wala narin naman syang magagawa kasi nga patay na while sya pwede pa magka.family on her own and whatever she says online, it's forever there. Pag i.search sya andun na yun. Not everything needs to go online kasi nakakasira yan sa family mo or mismo sa sarili mo. Since alam na ng tao..nakakawala ng confidence yan especially if magka.boyfriend ka na or magkaroon ng sariling mga anak.
6:10 tama, pero iba na ang mentalidad ng mga tao ngayon, mas ibubulgar o ibibida ang baho ng pamilya, dahil mas papalakpakan at pupurihin ka, kasi nga wala nang kahihiyan ang tao ngayon, lalo na soc med. Bakit pag siniwalat mo ba ang baho mo, may maitutulong ba ang mga tao? They will only judge you at gagawin kang pulutan sa mga umpukan at mga tsismisan. Magiging usap usapan iyang dark secret ng pamilya niyo up to the 4rth generation
11:37 bakit ngayon lang? Dahil may gagawing concert sa nov 8. Kailangan talaga, at the expense of exposing dark secret kuno ng pamilya, gagawin para mapag usapan at panoorin ang concert😔
Actually parang mas Gen Z yung mga nagcocomment ng masahol about dito. The way they react nakakasuka. Ang daming alam feeling mga logical na mataas. Yung takbo ng mga utak oddly scary
nung bata kami yung kuya ko hinihipuan ako akala nya siguro di ko matatandaan kasi sa ngaun parang di sya guilty :( nasa 50's na kami ngaun never ko itong binanggit kahit kanino.
This is so sick.i have no empathy to any molester regardless of age.they deserve a painful death.
ReplyDeleteBefore you react wildly dapat hear mo both sides. Innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent!
DeleteWhen you’re that young, what could possibly motivate you to lie about something so terrible? May a real victim never, ever confide in you. You’re truly despicable. @11:48
Delete11:48 Studies show most children don't report until they are adults.
DeleteHow could she have reported it then when she was TEN and her dad was most likely the breadwinner of the family?
11:48 No woman would go out and tell the whole world she was molested only for her credibility to be questioned.
DeleteSomebody check 11:48's hard drive
Delete1148 walang tangang babae gagawa nito na siniraan na ang ama pati sarili at pamilya sisirain din. Tanga lang ang hindi maniniwala at walang awa lang ang magdududa pa.
DeleteGrabe ka girl kasiraan na yan ng pamilya mo, hindi mo na dapat pinag kakalat yan. Yes it happened. We feel you. Pero nakakahiya yung reputasyon ng family ang nakasalalay. Sana you consider man lang. You have many options. You can do therapy, you can confess to a priest, you can go to a peaceful quiet place for a vacation but never mo siraan pamilya mo sa public. I hope my makaintindi sa comment ko. I’m not bashing her.
ReplyDeleteMahiya ka naman sa pinagsasabi mo te.
Deleteyuk ka
DeleteI cannot believe may katulad mong mag isip. Kawawa ang mga taong uunahin pang isipin ang kahihiyan at reputasyon ng iba kesa sa ikabubuti ng sarili.
DeleteGirl! Kumulo yung dugo ko sayo kahit anonymous ka. Mas importante sayo ang kasiraan ng pamilya kaysa sa biktima? You're the problem why there are so many victims na dala dala nila yung trauma hanggang pagtanda nila for the sole reason na itatago nila ito for the sake of the family's reputation. I've worked for an NGO supporting victims so I witnessed firsthand how damaged those children were because they were sexually abused at a young age. At dahil sa mga taong kagaya mo na mismong magulang nila kaya hindi nila ito nasabi kahit kanino, even the police. So they just suffered for many years at paulit ulit ang pang-aabuso until private organizations like us intervened. Sana, sana lang..huwag itong mangyari sa pamilya, kamag-anak, o mga taong malapit sayo.
Deletena gets kita dai, may concert kasi accla sa november kaya watch na tayo
DeleteSame thought kaya lang paniguradong may kokontra satin. Pupwede din naman din yang ireklamo sa kinauukulan kung gusto nya. Pagpipyestahan lang sila ng mga tao. Ok lang kung mag isa syang anak. Kasabihan nga, "Dont wash your dirty linen on public". Kung sabagay crime na din yan eh. So ano gusto nya?..tuligsain ang tatay nya at ipakulong o trial by publicity???
DeleteIsa kang MANGMANG! 8:14
DeleteDAPAT LANG MALAMAN NG BUONG MUNDO KUNG GAANO KASAMA ANG TATAY NIYA.
DeleteWho are you to invalidate her feelings and her decisions na magopen up sa public? It not your story to tell.
DeleteYan na naman tayo sa mga banal banalan atittude niyo eh kaya hindi umaaaenso pinas eh. Mas marunong pa kayo dun sa tao.
Delete9:24 Ka-FP, dirty linen are secrets that are embarrassing or shameful but not necessarily criminal. Sexual abuse is a crime, not just a private family matter. It is not something that should stay secret like the typical "dirty linen." And please, let's not throwing blame or whatever to people like her na ngayon lang naglakas loob sabihin yang ganyang bagay. Remember, she was only 10 when it happened. She probably didn't know it was abuse during that time. Maybe she thought it was just something bad or unusual. Some people like her just found the courage to say it now without feeling shame or hate because they already accepted things and have given forgiveness. It's not about the father anymore, it's about liberating herself. I don't think she wanted the people to crucify the father kaya nga ngayon yung pinili niyang time to talk about it. And why do we care if the father gets the hate in the first place? Why consider the feelings of the offender instead of the victim?
DeleteKaya walang naglalakas ng loob magsumbong because of the people like you.
DeleteI also dont get why sinabi nya pa sa public i mean what for? Patay na yung tatay niya at kung may trauma pa siya pwde naman pumunta sa psychiatrist or medical professionals and heal in private. Grabe na mga tao ngayon wala na tinitira for privacy, too much info.
Delete8:52 bakit? Iyan ba talaga ang tanging sagot para makamit nya ang peace? Ipagkalat sa public yung nangyari sa kanya? Mapapanatag na ba sya after that? Mind you ptay na tatay nya sana binigyan nya man lang ng konting respeto.
Delete8:14 kaya madaming biktima na ayaw magsalita dahil sa mga tulad mo! Kung mangyare sayo o sa anak mo yang ganyan, iapply mo sa inyo mga paniniwala mong bulok! Hindi masamang mag out ng mga taong mah maling ginawa lalo na kung krimen, at mas lalong walang nakakahiya sa pagiging biktima!!
Deletegets ko po mga nagsasabi ng dapat magsalita ang biktima... tama po kayo... but justice is not a one way street... may karapatan din po ang akusado na ipagtanggol ang sarili... sa sitwasyon ni Jonalyn na patay na ang tatay nya, the best po na tumahimik na sya... or mag confide sya sa few trusted people lang... hindi na dapat isapubliko dahil yung akusado wala na pagkakataon na dumepensa.
DeleteTo whoever you are, mahiya ka Sa mindset na meron ka.
Deletekasi hindi lahat ng baho kelangan ilantad for what? sympathy empathy ? for fame? for clout? either you get positive or nega reaction pero if i were her id rather keep my secret privately kasi wala na naman magagawa patay na and you continue to lambast then why didnt you do something 10 yrs ago or 15 or 5 ? why now? may purpose and intention eh.
Delete8;14 mahiya ka at mangilabott kasa pinagkukuda mo dyan. Apaka stupid ng comment mo
Delete11:15, bigyan respeto ang yumaong ama??? Binigyan ba sya ng respeto nito nung hinalay sya nung sampung taong gulang pa lamang sya?!?!
DeleteJuice ko mga tita anong klaseng utak meron kyo!! Dapat sa mga kagaya niyo kinukulong din eh!
DeleteI would never wish what she went thru to any of your family members. And I would never wish for anyone to have you, mga titang walang utak, as a family.
Haha! Rage bait? Pero if not sige. May point naman. BUT! Ito lang din. Wag agad jump to conclusion! Mabigat na paratang yan. Dapat both sides mapakingaan.
DeleteDisgusting comment. Her Dad ruined their family when he looked at his own flesh and blood with lust. Wag sanang mangyari sayo o sa mga anak mo
Deleteandami pa ding conservative kuno talaga sa Pinas. kayo ang dahilan bakit madaming abuse na nangyayari. my gaaaaad mga enablers!!!!
DeleteDisgusting mentality
DeleteNyahahah daming na high blood. Inom muna kayo gamot niyo. May point din naman siya kasi ano pa ba purpose neto eh patay na tatay niya? Para paingayin ang pangalan niya? Hindi na dapat. Not necessary. Patay na un involved. Isasama mo pa ang mga tao na makikisawsaw sa nangyari sa'yo. It is sad but the best thing to do is just move forward
DeleteDid I read this right??? What kind of mentality is that??? Uunahin mo pa talaga yung kahihiyan ng family mo kesa don sa pinagdaanang trauma na naranasan mo sa sariling tatay mo at a young age. Easy for you to tell since you're not in the situation. I hope hindi yan maranasan ng anak mo if meron ka man pero sana wala ka na lang anak coz uunahin mo pa ang kahihiyan kesa sa kapakanan niya.
Delete11:49 kulang ka din sa brain cells...
Deletepatay na pala tatay nya so humarap na yon sa hukuman ng Diyos at may pataw na. sana maging masaya si Jonalyn at magkaron sya ng husband na gentleman at ituturing siya na reyna.
8:14 are you even real? nakakadiri yung mentality mo girl.
DeleteHuh? Kahihiyan ng family? Sana hindi ginawa yan ng tatay niya sa kanya.
DeleteSya na biktima sya pag mag-adjust? LOL kaya ung mga biktima hindi nagssalita dahil sa mga katulad mo eh. Siguro kung ganyan nangyari sa anak mo ganyan din gagawin mo, papatahimikin sya. Kadiri!
DeleteVictim blaming? Kelan ka ba pinanganak? Your way of thinking is so ancient. Parang kasalanan pa ng bata na inabuso sya.
DeleteOh my god! Anong klaseng pag isip yan? Uunahin mo ang shame at ego preservation kesa sa liberation ng tao mula sa trauma? You are so disgusting. Kadiring mindset.
DeleteYung mga g na g dito feeling naman may ambag din sa buhay nitong si Jonalyn. Mga self-righteous, pweh! Both of them has a point. Ang point ni 8:14 is family issue yan so dapat sa therapy na lang niya dinaan hindi thru public. Meron din naman point si Viray dahil baka it's for her peace of mind.
DeleteLet her be. Iba siya sa iyo.Karapatan niya magsalita. Kaya dumarami ang mga biktima na nananahimik dahil sa mga tulad mong pagiisip. Instead na tulungan at may simpatiya sa mga victims e ganyan pa ang maririnig sa inyo.
DeleteYou’re not bashing her, you’re degrading her. Gusto kitang murahin. Grabe yang mindset mo. Parang matagal mong di nagamit utak mo ah. Purol na purol eh
Deleteeto yung ayaw kong maging tyahin or kamaganak
Delete9:05 ang sama mo
DeleteComments like this- paulit-ulit lang narerelive ang trauma kasi iniinvalidate din ang pinagdaanan nila. They are victims all over again because they were the ones violated and traumatized yet people still expect them to keep silent all because of shame. Well, molesters and their enablers and protectors should be the ones shamed.
DeleteHoy, dapat yung tatay yung mahiya! How could he? Kadiri mga katulad mo na ganyan mag isip. Kaya tuloy ang dami pa dyan takot magsalita dahil sa tulad mo.
DeleteI myself experienced the same thing. Grandpa and tito ko involved in separate incidents and bitbit ko yung bigat to the point na I almost unalived myself nung teenager na ako. By grace I got back on my feet and I wrote about it anonymously in a national paper and yun naging release ko. Despite being anonymous, I had a cousin who figured out it was me but she respected my wishes just to remain anonymous. I talk about it also sa retreats and through sharing my experience, it has helped me heal.
Maybe it her way of setting herself free and finding closure. Talking about it and not keeping it to herself and a few others IS the best way for her to move forward. And through her maybe others too could find the courage to speak up and allow thelselves the path to healing as well. May kanya kanyang path to healing at wag i invalidate yung experience nya and the path she chose.
nakakadiri ang mindset mo. hindi ikaw ang na molestiya. omg nakakadiri yung ganitong comments
DeleteKahihiyan lang sa tatay niya. At dapat na-e-expose ang mga sexual abusers or molesters patay man o buhay. Kailangan may awareness ang mga tao na madalas yan mangyari sa mga pamilya at kailangan maging protective tayo lalo na sa mga anak natin.
DeleteI cant believe na mas inuuna ng karamihan dito ang reputation ng family kesa sa nararamdaman ng victim.
DeleteAko din nung 5 yrs old ng 3 ko pinsan.. akala nila di ko matatandaan pinagagagawa nila.. 40 yrs old na ko ngayon
ReplyDeletetotoo yan, kahit maliit ka pa noon maaalala at maaalala mo pa rin
DeletePraying for your complete healing and peace. GOD loves you.
DeleteOh my!! Hugs sissy.
DeleteNot bursting your bubble pero alam mo bang pwede ding di nangyari yan?? Kung baga nasa utak mo lang. May tawag sa psychology yan eh… lalo sobrang bata ka pa. Need investigate si ra maigi yan lalo ilang years na. Tapos innocent pala pinsan mo it’s all in your head, paano NASA utak?
Delete11:51.. sad to say hindi ko yun guni guni..totoong nangyari sya at ang laki ng impact nun sakin.. kahit me asawa ako hindi ako nasisiyahan pagdating sa s_x.
Delete11:51???? U okay? Translation ng sinabi mo “hindi totoo yung nangyari sayo, gawa gawa lang ng childhood memory mo” 40yo na yung tao sasabihin mo imagination lang?
DeleteYou are a brave woman.May God heal and set you free from your trauma.God bless
Delete11:51 Malaking impact sa mga bata ang sexual abuse kaya tatatak yan sa memory nila. Tapos pag adult na sila doon nila maiintindihan fully ang mga nangyari sa kanila.
DeleteAko muntikan ma rape ng kalarong lalaki. Sabi sa akin ng pinsan niyang best friend ko (babae), "laro kayo nakahubad sa kwarto." Eh akala ko laro talaga. Pero dahil conscious ako sa katawan ko, sabi ko paulit ulit "ayoko" kahit paulit-ulit ako pinipilit ng babae kong best friend. Yung lalaking pinsan niya nakahubad sabi "Wag mo na pilitin." 9 years old ako nun. Pero pinatawad ko sila and until now nag uusap pa rin kami. Kaibigan ko pa rin yung babae. Madalas ko iniisip if nangyari ba talaga yun. Pero pagkakaalam ko, totoo talagang nangyari yun. Kapag nakikita kami, madalas kami mag reminisce ng childhood namin pero never ko briningup yun. Wala akong galit both sa kanila. Pero somehow I hope na mabasa nila eto.
DeletePatay na yun tatay niya. Hindi na din marefute un sinasabi niya.
ReplyDeleteBakit kailangan pa irefute? Obviously di ka okay. Wala namang matinong tao mag cclaim na molested sila nung bata specially kadugo niya kung di totoo. Again matinong tao. And Jona seems to be a good person so tingin mo she was only making this story up? You're sick!
Deletethis needs to be tackled privately . the voice sometimes wont help you, most of the time will harm you sana nagsalita sya buhay pa tatay or at leadt yrs ago hindi ngayon lang, this has intention
Delete@11:20. Kaya nga may batas tayo innocent until proven guilty dba?? Di guilty muna bago maging innocent. Baka magulat ka ang daming mga tao ganyan made up stories for clout especially nowadays because of… thanks again soc med.
Delete11:53 hindi naman sinabi agad na guilty yung tatay. Again walang "matinong" tao mag cclaim ng molestation or SA if di nangyare lalo ang accused ay kadugo
Delete11:20 kapal mo. ikaw ang sick. Super sick. Papasa mo pa sa akin sakit mo. Bakit triggered ka? so lahat ng sasabihin sa'yo you'd accept hook line and sinker? Gamitin mo utak mo sayang brand new pa. Wala na un taong inaakusahan niya. Hindi na makakasalita yun o makakadepensa
DeleteIf you don’t believe her, that’s you. But, it’s her story to tell.
DeleteDisgusting magisip ng ibang tao. What is happening to the world???
Delete11:20 si denice cornejo nag akusa kay Vhong Navarro pero di ba? proven innocent si Navarro??? so pwede mangyari yun... pero yung kay Jonalyn ... for her own peace of mind, sana tumahimik na siya... pagchichismisan lang sya ng mga tao eh.
DeleteTrue 1207. Maayos naman takbo ng career ni Jona. Hindi din siya clout chaser na gagawa ng kwento para lang iangat ang sarili niya.
DeleteEh bakit nung namatay tatay niya may pa I Will Miss You pa
ReplyDeleteTsk ang babaw naman ng kaisipan mo ghorl
DeleteMaybe because mas matimbang yung love and forgiveness sa puso niya? Many people hurt us but we still say good things to them, right?
DeleteAs harsh as it may sound pero lakas makahypocrite
Delete8:38 panoorin mo kase ung interview. Na explain dun. At maganda pagkakalatag nila ni toni.. forgiveness is not a one time thing, its a choice na lagi mong pinipili pag naaalala mo ang ginawa sayo. Kaya mahirap talaga yung naging sitwasyon nya.
Deleteyes tapos siniraan mo sa public. she should have just talked to God for forgiveness and strength.
DeleteKse po ate may busilak syang kalooban di tulad niyo. May puwang pa rin ang love and forgiveness sa puso nya.
DeleteTBH, she could be lying or true dun and natnggap nya. You cannot pass judgement agad dahil sa salita lang.
DeleteRelationships arent black or white.
DeletePwede naman magpainterview without bearing it all.
ReplyDelete8:46 yeah pwede. Pero mas okay pa din na sinabi nya to para may matutunan yung ibang tao. Not all victims can speak out. Some predators pwedeng matauhan at magbago dahil sa pag expose ng kwento na to..
Deletesa ngalan ng upcoming concert sariling pamilya ilalaglag
Deletematutunan? mag advocate for others pero wag na buksan ang matagal ng sarado! May intention kasi . di maganda to expose this in public
DeleteBakit ngayon pa sinabi kung patay na ang Tatay? at bakit kay Toni ? Eh for the views din naman yan Jona.
ReplyDeletebakit hindi kay Toni?
Deleteyes . bat ngayon lang nauso kasi molestation . tagal na dapat non pa sya nagsalita
Delete11:45 Nauso? Trend pala yan?
DeleteWhat kind of thinking naman ito, kitid at babaw mo 🤦
Ngayon siya naging bukas para ihayag ang experience niya.
Sa mga nagdududa sa timing dahil may concert, nashare niya sa interview na merong direktor ng KaH na sinabihan siyang ang dry naman ang reaction niya sa isang live program na bumati ng sariling pamilya, lalo mother niya yun.
Ngayon gusto ifree ni Jona ang sarili niya sa matagal na niyang trauma. Alam ng nanay niya, pero wala din ginawa. Lumalapit pa tuwing may kailangan lang, matapos sila iwan sa tatay para sa iba.
Kanino mo gusto? Sayo? Pakialmera ka masyado teh.
DeleteMaglalabasan na naman po yung mga banal banalan at boomer dyan oh 👀
ReplyDeleteYung mga commenter na mas marunong pa dun sa taong involve 🤷
ReplyDeleteNope. Wrong move. I know it's best to name drop so people would be careful around him, pero aside sa patay na ang tao, you have to protect you family din. Hindi lang siya ang anak. Artista pa siya. May mga pamangkin na nag aaral. It's painful to keep it to yourself, but for me okay lang as long as I don't have to put my sisters and brother to limelight. Na pag tinignan sila ng tao, iisipin ay anak yan nung rapist l. Ganito ganon. Idk if I made myself clear pero basta ganoon. Pero syempre sabihin sa mga lapatid at pamilya pero huwag ibroadcast sa publiko.
ReplyDeleteAgree
DeleteMga tao sakay agad eh. Basta ito guys, innocent until proven guilty sabi nga ng isa dito.. not otherwise. Deds na tatay nya. D na pwwde kunin side nya. And sa mga nagsasabi sino b naman anak magiimbento.. 🤦🏻♂️ Magugulat kayo how people are nowadays, lalo sa soc med era.
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DeleteAng bait mo para magpatawad, child molesters only belong to h**l
ReplyDeleteMga comments dito na saying “innocent until proven guilty” - mahiya kayo. Always assume it’s true. Sometimes the young kids are too ashamed/ embarassed/ traumatized to even open up about it. Sadly those people u trust the most you thought won’t do a thing. I fought my rapist in court while in military. The verdict? They let him go to have his “career”. Meanwhile there was dna evidence & we had a strong case. He got away and I was left with trauma forever. Because of our culture ai was ashamed to tell anyone but a psychiatrist. Time let it hurt lesa but it stays with you for life. Sabi pa nga ng psych ko meron sya pasyente na-molest & raped in her teens and it affected her until she have to see her in her 70s. Everyone have their own terms to open up to someone kaya wag maghusga bakit ngayon lang inilabas. Jona was obviously fetl voiceless and powerless through the years until now.
ReplyDelete"Always assume it's true." Yan madalas ginagamit ng mga pa-woke and fake (liberal) feminists. Mahirap yan. Kung ganyan ang mindset, maraming makukulong na framed up and inosente. Sorry ah, don't get me wrong. Di ko dina-doubt si Jona Viray agad. Pero sa concrete evidence and court rulings ako naniniwala. Siguro kung kaibigan ko o ka-close si Jona, maniniwala pa ako. Pero she is just a stranger to me. This isn't lack of empathy, it's just logical thinking. Daming nagsasabi ng false claims at marami na rin nafe-frame up na inosente to the point na yung iba pa nga nakakaranas ng death penalty pero pag inopen ulit ang case ang in-investigate ulit after a few years or several years, inosente pala ang akusado pero wala na ang buhay nila due to death penalty. Yung African boy na akala nila rapist namatay dahil sa death penalty pero inosente pala. Recent example pa yung SA claim ng Doordash girl pero yun pala yung girl ang may mali. Let's face it-- daming false accusations sad to say karamihan pa coming from fellow women just to gain attention. :(
DeleteIt's sad how people here criticized and question her na kesyo bakit ngayon lang nagsalita and for what purpose or intention. Regardless if she's a celebrity or not, victims only speak up when they're ready. Ready meaning nakapagpatawad na sila at hindi na nila sinisisi ang sarili nila o yung ibang tao kung bakit hinayaang mangyari ang nangyari. Victims can speak whenever they want and all we could do is listen. Dapat wala na tayong paki sa kung anong mararamdaman ng may sala because that's something they should carry for the rest of their lives lalo pa kung hindi nila pinagbayaran sa ngalan ng batas.
ReplyDeleteTime to file a case and let the court decide :D :D :D
ReplyDeletedid u read? case against who? the dad has passed on
DeleteI think wala naman issue if you say it to friends and other people pero to broadcast it this way like a public notice, it is a whole different thing. It could end up not well kasi and parang madedehado ka pa kahit you really come from truth and a good place
ReplyDeleteMy take: Sana di nalang nya in.out in public. Patay narin naman tatay nya and nag.sorry na sa kanya before he passed away. For the sake of the family and her future nalang and her other siblings. Sana kinalimutan nalang nya and nagpa.counciling sya..wala narin naman syang magagawa kasi nga patay na while sya pwede pa magka.family on her own and whatever she says online, it's forever there. Pag i.search sya andun na yun. Not everything needs to go online kasi nakakasira yan sa family mo or mismo sa sarili mo. Since alam na ng tao..nakakawala ng confidence yan especially if magka.boyfriend ka na or magkaroon ng sariling mga anak.
ReplyDeleteIf that happened to you, yeah, we can understand if that's your take. But..it happened to her and that's her take. So deal with it.
DeleteEnabler ka!
DeleteHa? Ang haba haba ng sinabi mo pero nonsense. Nakakahiya mga taong tulad mo. Yun naman ang take ko.
DeletePray mo teh wag manyari sayo or kahit kaninong member ng family mo yan. Easy for you to say that kasi wala ka sa posisyon niya.
DeleteVictim blaming malala to 🤦 walang gamot sa taong katulad mo.
Delete6:10 tama, pero iba na ang mentalidad ng mga tao ngayon, mas ibubulgar o ibibida ang baho ng pamilya, dahil mas papalakpakan at pupurihin ka, kasi nga wala nang kahihiyan ang tao ngayon, lalo na soc med. Bakit pag siniwalat mo ba ang baho mo, may maitutulong ba ang mga tao? They will only judge you at gagawin kang pulutan sa mga umpukan at mga tsismisan. Magiging usap usapan iyang dark secret ng pamilya niyo up to the 4rth generation
Deleteang daming victim blamer grabe anong klaseng mga nilalang kayo
ReplyDeleteEven in prison, the lowest ranked criminals are the child sexual abusers.
ReplyDeleteChild sexual abuse is a crime! Break the Silence!!!
BAKIT NGAYON LNG?
ReplyDeleteKC PO AKALA NG BIKTIMA MAS MA I INTINDIHAN AT MAUUNAWAAN NIO NA SILA NGAYON
KC PO KUMUHA PA SILA NG LAKAS NG LOOB TAPOS I BASH NIO LANG
YOU BASHERS ARE PUTTING SOMEONE AT RISK FOR DEPRESSION
WHERE IS COMPASSION OR EMPATHY?
Pag patay na di na pedeng sabihin? lahat ng baho sisingaw
ReplyDeleteKaya maraming child r@p!st dito at kadugo pa kc mapag patawad daw kau at people dont speak up about abuse
Time to name those monters, they shd be judged
11:37 bakit ngayon lang? Dahil may gagawing concert sa nov 8. Kailangan talaga, at the expense of exposing dark secret kuno ng pamilya, gagawin para mapag usapan at panoorin ang concert😔
DeleteLet's all remember and learn a very important lesson from Gisele Pelicot's case- VICTIMS SHOULD NEVER BE ASHAMED.
ReplyDeleteLakas talaga magvictim blaming ng mga boomer at so called banal 😩 kadiring mindset po*t*h 2025 na pang ancient mindset pa din po sila 🤮🤮
ReplyDeleteActually parang mas Gen Z yung mga nagcocomment ng masahol about dito. The way they react nakakasuka. Ang daming alam feeling mga logical na mataas. Yung takbo ng mga utak oddly scary
Delete8:23 how sure are u that they are boomers? do you see their age mentioned anywhere? you’re an ageist and that’s also an awful mindset. 🙄🙄🙄
Deletenung bata kami yung kuya ko hinihipuan ako akala nya siguro di ko matatandaan kasi sa ngaun parang di sya guilty :( nasa 50's na kami ngaun never ko itong binanggit kahit kanino.
ReplyDeleteYou didnt tell anyone, and you keep it to yourself. Baka wala lang yun sa kuya mo, pero ikaw itong bitter
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