Social media is one hell of a toxic environment. Na pinamumugaran ng may mga squammy attitudes na bashing at hating lang alam. Kasi usually, content creators are there for money kaya famewhore to the max, clout chaser to the brim. In return, andyan ang mga squammy little minds that got nothing to do but bash and hate them. Swak sila for each other. Si Emman kasi did it for her own pleasure, she finds joy and creative outlet in social media. It's a good purpose actually. Kaso regardless of intention, 99 99% talaga diyan sa socmed mga utak squammy na ibabash ka lang at ihahate - irregardless. And if you're the sensitive, emotional, tender type of person. Maapektuhan ka talaga. Famewhores and clout chasers are built for bashers and haters, and vice versa. So kung ikaw ay like Emman na pure of heart, sensitive, vulnerable, creative individual, war shock ang aabutin mo sa social media. The cons outweighs the pros so better not do it na lang. Find other media or outlet that's calmer, peaceful and more makatao. Yung may respeto ba ang galawan ng mga tao. Kasi sa social media. Wala talagang respetuhan diyan. Bardagulan ang labanan diyan. Ibigay mo na yan sa mga famewhores and clout chasers and parang buwaya naman silang iniintay ng mga bashers and haters.
If you want to protect your mental health.. stay away from Social Media, Real Talk na tayo kahit anu pakiusap nyo na be kind sa Soc Med it will never happen...
yung hindi kasi magawa in person, sa internet nagagawa like yung maging confrontational sa isang hindi kakilala o maging very vocal o typical sa mga opinion o expressions nila sa mga tao like manglait, mang-asar, manghamak, mangmaliit, at mang-udyok
Truuuuue. People should learn when and how to pull away from social media. Hindi natin maaasahan lahat ng mga tao to always be kind. Human nature na yun. So tayo na ang tumulong sa sarili natin.
1248 on point...Self -care ..unahin muna responsibilidad sa sarili..You cannot tell the rain to stop, just bring your umbrella or do not go out in the rain..
Totoo, malakas ang loob ng iba na magpost ng negative kasi di naman tunay na name nila nakalagay sa account para walang accountability. Those kind of comments would drag u down.
Stay away from social media especially if you're the emotional and vulnerable type. Emman seemed to be kind, sensitive, prim and proper. Masyadong wild and evil ang social media for her
you cannot tell everybody ‘be kind’ and expect them to follow. lalo na sa panahon ngayon, impossible yan mangyari. solution is… stay away from social media especially if unstable ang mental health or may history na ng mental problem. hindi mo mococontrol ang mga tao pero macocontrol mo ang sarili mo
Agree but the world is generally cruel and it is what it is. Di natin hawak ang ibang tao..sarili lang natin yung may control tayo. Essential ang maging matatag
Oh diba subtle jab sa parent. Yung sinisisi pa ang parent. Yun namatayan na sila sinisisi pa. Alam mo you don't need to rub it in their faces. May mga pagsisisi yan sila for sure. Pero who the hell are you na sisihin pa sila na hindi mo naman sila kilala personally o Kapamilya? Kelangan bang mamatayan ka din to have understanding and compassion?
At 1:08 what makes you think they are not “present parents “? They gave her the ability to live the life that she wants. With guidance and all. If pinaghigpitan naman, it will still make her feel depressed. We all know she has anxiety that possibly lead to her demise. Be kind. So many “present parents” still loose their child to suicide because of peer pressure/bullying/feeling of being unwanted in the outside world. I’ve seen so many suicidal kids as early as 9 and 10 in the US because of bullying in school and cyber bullying! they truly have the best support system at home! Where you are and who you surround yourself with matters. But sometimes it’s how we feel inside that lets us down.
Please be sensitive, namatayan sila. You have a point, yes it is crucial na present yung parents kasi anlaking factor nun sa mental health ng bata growing up. Pero ilugar din ang komento. No parent would want to bury their own child.
Mga tulad mong tao ang dahilan kung bakit marami nagkakaroon ng depression sa socmed. Sana bago ka nag comment, binasa mo muna ang post ni kuya kim kaso PARA SAYO yun at sa lahat ng mga tao na tulad mo.
Give love na lang and pray for the family.For sure Kuya Kim's family has millions of what ifs at for sure they blame themselves for not being with her.RIP little angel.
Just basing it on Emman's interview, she never said that her parents were there for her. Malaking part din talaga ang guidance and presence ng parents but we are not blaming them.
We don’t know what’s happening in their family. Based on her interviews hindi siya nakikinig sa parents at siya ang nasusunod sa lahat ng bagay. Palagi niya sinasabi hindi niya iniinvolve parents nya in any of her decisions. Kahit anong pilit ng parents to be part of the world of the child, pag ayaw wala talaga magagawa.
1:08 Agree ...And there is nothing wrong with you..Kapag sila ng post and flexi dapat always kind and positive response .kapag ayaw nila, bully or insensitive ka na
Reminder lang ni 1:08 sa lahat na parents...Nothing wrong with it.At the very least, this incident may be a lesson to parents and fam members..Hiragana sa mga tao, gusto plastikan..GROW UP,PEEPS..We are talking about adults here who made their own choices in either lives
Kinda agree with 1:08 if I am going to base things thru Emman’s interview with Toni and yung podcast na BBB. There were moments sa interview na kahit si Toni hindi na makapaniwala and was asking alam ba ng parents mo? Asan yung parents mo nyan? Maybe hindi nga sila yung typical pinoy family na its a must yung daily interaction ng anak at parents. Pati sa mga interview nya wala siyang nababangit about faith or religion kaya mejo pwede talagang lost si bagets.. minsan kase faith mo na lang talaga panghahawakan mo sa mga oras na hindi mo na naiintindihan nangyayare sayo at sa paligid mo..
Lastly, naaalala ko din yung sabi ng mommy ko. Wag na wag mong iiwan kahit kanino ang anak mo hanggat hindi pa nya kayang magsumbong sayo.
12:12 well baka din kasi her parents were not involved in her life in her younger years kaya di din natin sya masisisi if now na matanda na sya, nasanay na sya na hindi sila involve...sabi nga nya sa interview nya kay Toni,they were busy sa careers nla that is why mostly yung kasama nya nung bata pa sya ay yung yaya nya lang na nag.abuso sa kanya..
Thank u. I find it ironic for those who lost their loved ones in s because of mental health then they’re gonna give advice. Like, u yourself as a parent u didn’t apply your advice nga eh
Where is the irony there? Namatayan nga sila and perhaps social media bullying was one of the triggers. He's just reminding everyone to be kind and compassionate. Kung hirap ka mang maging kind and compassionate PROBLEMA MO NA YUN!
1:24 Try to be more compassionate and kind.He just lost his daughter.Nothing will ever be the same for Kuya Kim and his family.Pls.don’t add on to the pain they’re already going through. My condolences to the Atienza Family.
isa ka sa dahilan kung bakit may mga taong sumasapit sa ganitong sitwasyon, dahil sa panghuhusga mo.. hindi mo alam kung ano ang pinagdadaanan ng pamilya na may pinagdaanan na gaya ni Emman.. sana hindi mo maranasan at ng buo mong pamilya kung anu man ang pinagdaanan ni Emman at pagdadaanan pa ng pamilya nya.
Especially those people who says check up on your loved ones, see beyond their laughters etc.. Come on, if u have done what you’re saying they’d still be here 🙄
1:24 bawat post ni emman laging may reply at comment si kuya kim. maybe mahirap na lang talaga imend yung brokeness nung bata since lahat ng trauma were made on her formative years na busy yung parents nya sa paghahanap buhay..
Sadly 101% sa social media ay puro hate and bashing. Kahit biktima na ng isang pangyayari, ang ibabash pa nila ay yun biktima hindi yun gumawa ng masama. I mean people has gotten worst especially in social media. Sa social media nila nilalabas ang kanilang evil, vicious side na hindi nila masabi harapan o personal. Not that they're automatically evil people. It's just their online persona. Kaya if you're the vulnerable, sensitive type wag ka na magsocial media. Pero kung kaya mong makipagbardagulan then go. Na kung ibash ka o murahin ka eh matatawa ka lang o mumurahin mo din pabalik without being affected then go. Social media all you want. People say words they don't actually mean in social media. Take it with a grain of salt. For me ha, walang seryosohan sa online. What happens online, stays online. Iba ang virtual world sa real world. In fact lahat ng nakilala ko online, hindi ko kinilala offline. And people are just one block away. Wag ka mag load, wala ka ng internet. Ang dali maglaho online. So if you're the type to take things seriously, wag kang mag social media. Take it from someone older than you.
Sadly hindi mo maalis ang kasalbahihan ng mga talangkang pinoy(hindi lahat) na dinadaan sa pambubully na lang ang bitterness at inggit sa likod ng keyboard sa mga taong may mga bagay na wala sila - yaman, achievements, ganda, prestige. Kahit walang ginagawa sa kanila. Yun ang paraan ng pagganti nila dahil sa kapalaran nila sa ibaba. Ang hatakin ang mga nasa itaas anonymously. Damay damay ba sa ibaba. Hindi na sila mababago. Manhid na mga yan. Ang isa mga solution ay ikaw na mag adjust at huwag mag pasikat sa social media
Bullies are everywhere we meet in our daily lives. Sa school, sa bahay mismo, sa workplaces, hindi lang sa online. Bullies gaya ng mga classmates, bosses, schoolmates, relatives, et al. They’re everywhere in the world.
@1:54 Hindi lahat pero super dami! Para silang gremlins. Super mag project sa socmed instead of fixing their issues privately. We paid someone na ma track yung online bully ng pinsan ko. Then nung pinuntahan at ipapahuli, sobrang paawa.
Emman also had a previous attempt and was self-harming before and while becoming Tiktok famous. She's always struggled with her mental health since bata pa. : (
Do not use socmed for validation, if you have fragile mental health, you have no business joining any soc med platform. Counting your soc med followers like they are your most valuable possessions are not an achievement it is a curse to keep up with your make believe soc med persona that will haunt you day and night. If you plan to make a living as a content creator, make sure you have the maturity to handle adulations and backlash. Guide your young children about responsible gadget usage so when they grow up they know their boundaries. Soc med and gadgets are not your free nanny to keep them quiet or less disruptive, be a parent to them and encourage them to join afterschool activities. Your role as a parent is not just to provide and skies the limit, it is also to nurture , educate and teach them limits.
Mas madaling mabuhay showing compassion and kindness. I'm 41, been through so much in life including being SA'd when I was younger. I battled depression and chronic anxiety but never ko dinamay ang ibang tao w my pain. Iniisip ko baka sila din may pinag dadaanan. Yung mga saglit mo lang naeencounter na masusungit, imbis na awayin mo din, don't waste your time na lang. There are battles na best dealt with silently kaysa sinasabayan natin ugali nung taong nagdodown sa atin. They feed on attention. I've learned to just ignore those kind of people kahit sa socmed. I practice socmed detox too every month.
That's why some Filipinos deserve to be poor kasi masama ugali nila. Ang matindi nun hindi pa nila narirealize yun. Inggitera, mayabang, tamad at walang-pakialam sa kapwa - iyan ang average Filipino
For do many years, I never understood people with depression kase it never happened to me. I downplay every story shared. I thought then na I was lucky growing up during the time na wala pang gaano social media. Tinatawanan ko lang ang issue about mental health and stuff. I came out of the closet in 1995. It was so hard then. Binubugbog ako ng mga kuya ko kapag nalalasing sila kase mga friends nila kinakantiyawan sila na yung kapatid nila pompyang with matching palms na pumupokpok. Saan man ako nglalakad with my girlfriend, napapaaway kame sa kalsada kase nga hindi pa accepted nuon. Kaya for me, ang tingin ko sa tao na may depression ay mahinang nilalang. Until nangyare saken. I was home alone. I literally curled up into a ball and cried and cried. That’s when it hit me. Totoo pala ang depression. Totoo pala yun. Narealize ko na di ko naappreciate yun kase nga I was trying to be strong. Kase ganun naman nuong unang panahon. You just have to suck it in. That night when I went home alone, that’s when it hit me. It was freakin scary. I will never want to be in that position again. Nakakatakot siya. I had my phone on my hand, I have hundreds of friends that I can call but I just couldn’t. And now I am a believer. Right now, I check on everyone lalo na if I see na something is wrong. Considering what I do for a living huh. I work in a Club. Nasa nightlife scene ako. I get to here everyone ‘s story. I understand better now. So I will always try to be there when I feel na kailngan ako. Kase most of my clienteles are intoxicated or high. They are at their most vulnerable. So mas naappreciate ko na ngayon. I can not change the world peru at least in my own little ways, I can make an impact. It’s hard sometimes considering two of my valuable guests succumb to taking their lives. But that won’t deter me. I will always try my bestest to listen hoping that I could stop someone from taking their life. Life is beautiful. It will always be. Nakakaiyak!😔
Nagbigay siya ng maanghang na Salita. Doon siya nakatanggap ng matinding bashing. Sa Pagiging opinionated niya, bumalik sa kanya ang sakit ng salita. Vulnerable siya pero nag socmed siya. Naway matahimik ang kanyang kaluluwa.
Ang sakit how his daughter ended. Napakasakit nito sa mga parents lalo kasi 19 y/o lang sya and she chose to that to herself. As a parent parang ako yung gumuho ang mundo at nag doubt bigla sa sarili ko sa nangyari sa batang ito. Sa mga parents be sure na ma guide palagi ang mga anak. Kailangan nila palagi ang presence ng parents. Walang makakatumbas non. Alam mo yan sa sarili mo. Even us adults always long for our parents. Edi ganun din ang mga anak natin. Prayers for her soul at katatagan para sa mga naiwan nya.
Palagi sinasabi kasalanan ng parents kasi they weren’t there for the child. Madami tayong hindi alam about their mechanics. May friend ako sobrang spoiled ng kids na now in their early 20s. Then nadiagnose with depression ang isa. Sabi ng dr ang trigger ay ang dad. Pnalayas ang dad. At kahit pnalayas ang dad wala pa din naman nagbago. Then sabi ng dr wag maghover masyado ang mom which she did din. Eventually yun 2 kids stayed in a house na sila lang magkasama at ang parents nasa ibang house nila para nga daw hindi matrigger. So technically pinalayas nila ang parents pero bnibigyan sila ng allowance. Bnibigyan sila 50k each per month with unli cc access pa. What I’m saying is ang dali magsabi na hndi kasi present ang parents but hindi natin alam ano ba talaga ang mechanics bakit ganun. Mukang very independent si emman. Kung ano gusto nya yun ang masusunod. May post pa nga na nagcomment si kuya kim sabi nya: i’m so excited to see you. Until the very end sya pa din ang nasunod.
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Condolence po Kuya Kim and family
ReplyDeleteSocial media is one hell of a toxic environment. Na pinamumugaran ng may mga squammy attitudes na bashing at hating lang alam. Kasi usually, content creators are there for money kaya famewhore to the max, clout chaser to the brim. In return, andyan ang mga squammy little minds that got nothing to do but bash and hate them. Swak sila for each other. Si Emman kasi did it for her own pleasure, she finds joy and creative outlet in social media. It's a good purpose actually. Kaso regardless of intention, 99 99% talaga diyan sa socmed mga utak squammy na ibabash ka lang at ihahate - irregardless. And if you're the sensitive, emotional, tender type of person. Maapektuhan ka talaga. Famewhores and clout chasers are built for bashers and haters, and vice versa. So kung ikaw ay like Emman na pure of heart, sensitive, vulnerable, creative individual, war shock ang aabutin mo sa social media. The cons outweighs the pros so better not do it na lang. Find other media or outlet that's calmer, peaceful and more makatao. Yung may respeto ba ang galawan ng mga tao. Kasi sa social media. Wala talagang respetuhan diyan. Bardagulan ang labanan diyan. Ibigay mo na yan sa mga famewhores and clout chasers and parang buwaya naman silang iniintay ng mga bashers and haters.
DeleteIf you want to protect your mental health.. stay away from Social Media, Real Talk na tayo kahit anu pakiusap nyo na be kind sa Soc Med it will never happen...
ReplyDeleteTHIS.
DeleteYes I agree and the parents be mindful sa mga anak nyo don’t blame social media
DeleteAgree
Deleteyung hindi kasi magawa in person, sa internet nagagawa like yung maging confrontational sa isang hindi kakilala o maging very vocal o typical sa mga opinion o expressions nila sa mga tao like manglait, mang-asar, manghamak, mangmaliit, at mang-udyok
DeleteStay away from your triggers.
DeleteTruuuuue. People should learn when and how to pull away from social media. Hindi natin maaasahan lahat ng mga tao to always be kind. Human nature na yun. So tayo na ang tumulong sa sarili natin.
DeleteThis! Hindi naman pare-pareho yung isip ng mga tao ngayon. Kaya mas maganda ikaw na mismo umiwas sa napakatoxic na social media 😔
DeleteMahirap talaga. Kung ganun din lang na napapakiusapan ang mga tao to be kind and they will follow, eh d wala na gera sa mundo.
Delete1248 on point...Self -care ..unahin muna responsibilidad sa sarili..You cannot tell the rain to stop, just bring your umbrella or do not go out in the rain..
DeleteTotoo, malakas ang loob ng iba na magpost ng negative kasi di naman tunay na name nila nakalagay sa account para walang accountability. Those kind of comments would drag u down.
DeleteTotoo ito. Social media is a dangerous place for teens. It is literally designed to incite hate, anger, and sadness.
DeleteStay away from social media especially if you're the emotional and vulnerable type. Emman seemed to be kind, sensitive, prim and proper. Masyadong wild and evil ang social media for her
Deleteyou cannot tell everybody ‘be kind’ and expect them to follow. lalo na sa panahon ngayon, impossible yan mangyari. solution is… stay away from social media especially if unstable ang mental health or may history na ng mental problem. hindi mo mococontrol ang mga tao pero macocontrol mo ang sarili mo
DeleteMy condolences. Stay strong! 🙏🏻 lets be kind. Lets be good.
ReplyDeletePara sa iyo yung comment ni Kuya Kim. Sana d mo lang binasa. Inintindi mo din.
DeleteAgree but the world is generally cruel and it is what it is. Di natin hawak ang ibang tao..sarili lang natin yung may control tayo. Essential ang maging matatag
ReplyDeleteEmotions at actions lang natin maccontrol natin.
DeleteBeing a present parent is TRULY CRUCIAL.
ReplyDeleteyou really needed to kick a dying horse? what the heck is wrong with you?
DeleteOh diba subtle jab sa parent. Yung sinisisi pa ang parent. Yun namatayan na sila sinisisi pa. Alam mo you don't need to rub it in their faces. May mga pagsisisi yan sila for sure. Pero who the hell are you na sisihin pa sila na hindi mo naman sila kilala personally o Kapamilya? Kelangan bang mamatayan ka din to have understanding and compassion?
DeleteAt 1:08 what makes you think they are not “present parents “? They gave her the ability to live the life that she wants. With guidance and all. If pinaghigpitan naman, it will still make her feel depressed. We all know she has anxiety that possibly lead to her demise. Be kind. So many “present parents” still loose their child to suicide because of peer pressure/bullying/feeling of being unwanted in the outside world. I’ve seen so many suicidal kids as early as 9 and 10 in the US because of bullying in school and cyber bullying! they truly have the best support system at home! Where you are and who you surround yourself with matters. But sometimes it’s how we feel inside that lets us down.
DeleteHala, I'm sure they did everything they can. Since 13 pa nga daw nadiagnose may bipolar at nasa LA actually yung anak for treatment
DeletePlease be sensitive, namatayan sila. You have a point, yes it is crucial na present yung parents kasi anlaking factor nun sa mental health ng bata growing up. Pero ilugar din ang komento. No parent would want to bury their own child.
DeleteHuy. Simula nagka muwang ang mga tao meron ng depression. Hindi lang yan basta basta pagbabantay ng magulang. Hindi lang yan sa mga bata nangyayare
DeleteIilang comment pa lang may ganito ka ng mabababa.
DeleteWow! Close ka sa mga parents to say na hindi sila naging present?
Delete2:40 at 2:46 tumigil kayo sa pa-woke nyo. This is a message to ALL parents. This is a result na may matututuhan ang lahat.
DeleteKakasabi lang be compassionate and kind
DeleteAnd how sure are na they are nor?
DeleteMga tulad mong tao ang dahilan kung bakit marami nagkakaroon ng depression sa socmed. Sana bago ka nag comment, binasa mo muna ang post ni kuya kim kaso PARA SAYO yun at sa lahat ng mga tao na tulad mo.
DeleteKung ang anak mo ay Alam mong may mental health issue at 19 pa Lang, pababayaan mo ba mag Isa Yun mamuhay sa Ibang bansa pa?
DeleteSad to say but original poster only spoke the truth.
DeleteSome things are better left unsaid.
DeleteGive love na lang and pray for the family.For sure Kuya Kim's family has millions of what ifs at for sure they blame themselves for not being with her.RIP little angel.
DeleteJust basing it on Emman's interview, she never said that her parents were there for her. Malaking part din talaga ang guidance and presence ng parents but we are not blaming them.
DeleteWe don’t know what’s happening in their family. Based on her interviews hindi siya nakikinig sa parents at siya ang nasusunod sa lahat ng bagay. Palagi niya sinasabi hindi niya iniinvolve parents nya in any of her decisions. Kahit anong pilit ng parents to be part of the world of the child, pag ayaw wala talaga magagawa.
DeleteOo nga, yung nga Bullies sila yung totoong nag pa Trigger kay Emman...
Delete1:08 Agree ...And there is nothing wrong with you..Kapag sila ng post and flexi dapat always kind and positive response .kapag ayaw nila, bully or insensitive ka na
DeleteReminder lang ni 1:08 sa lahat na parents...Nothing wrong with it.At the very least, this incident may be a lesson to parents and fam members..Hiragana sa mga tao, gusto plastikan..GROW UP,PEEPS..We are talking about adults here who made their own choices in either lives
DeleteLots of Snowflakes here =p
DeleteKinda agree with 1:08 if I am going to base things thru Emman’s interview with Toni and yung podcast na BBB. There were moments sa interview na kahit si Toni hindi na makapaniwala and was asking alam ba ng parents mo? Asan yung parents mo nyan? Maybe hindi nga sila yung typical pinoy family na its a must yung daily interaction ng anak at parents. Pati sa mga interview nya wala siyang nababangit about faith or religion kaya mejo pwede talagang lost si bagets.. minsan kase faith mo na lang talaga panghahawakan mo sa mga oras na hindi mo na naiintindihan nangyayare sayo at sa paligid mo..
DeleteLastly, naaalala ko din yung sabi ng mommy ko. Wag na wag mong iiwan kahit kanino ang anak mo hanggat hindi pa nya kayang magsumbong sayo.
11:06 truth based on being a tsismosa.
Delete9:29 nasa LA siya kasama nanay niya
12:12 well baka din kasi her parents were not involved in her life in her younger years kaya di din natin sya masisisi if now na matanda na sya, nasanay na sya na hindi sila involve...sabi nga nya sa interview nya kay Toni,they were busy sa careers nla that is why mostly yung kasama nya nung bata pa sya ay yung yaya nya lang na nag.abuso sa kanya..
DeleteSad but so true
Deletewe don't know the situation ng pamilya nyo Mr. Atienza pero sana nandun kayo para sa anak nyo when she needed you for support and love. RIP Emman.
ReplyDeleteThank u. I find it ironic for those who lost their loved ones in s because of mental health then they’re gonna give advice. Like, u yourself as a parent u didn’t apply your advice nga eh
ReplyDeletetama na muna 1:24, they just lost a daughter wag mo muna pangaralan pls lang. hayaan mo na if that's how they grieve.
DeleteWhere is the irony there? Namatayan nga sila and perhaps social media bullying was one of the triggers. He's just reminding everyone to be kind and compassionate. Kung hirap ka mang maging kind and compassionate PROBLEMA MO NA YUN!
Deleteanong klaseng tao etong si 1:24.. nakakaloka ka mag isip.
DeleteHuwag mo silang husgahan. Hindi mo alam ang pinagdaanan nila as a family. Hindi ganun kadaling bagay ang mental health concern.
Delete1:24 Try to be more compassionate and kind.He just lost his daughter.Nothing will ever be the same for Kuya Kim and his family.Pls.don’t add on to the pain they’re already going through.
DeleteMy condolences to the Atienza Family.
isa ka sa dahilan kung bakit may mga taong sumasapit sa ganitong sitwasyon, dahil sa panghuhusga mo.. hindi mo alam kung ano ang pinagdadaanan ng pamilya na may pinagdaanan na gaya ni Emman.. sana hindi mo maranasan at ng buo mong pamilya kung anu man ang pinagdaanan ni Emman at pagdadaanan pa ng pamilya nya.
DeleteTrue. Everything starts from home.
DeleteMay anak ka 1:24? If not, remember your comment pag meron na.
Deleteang samang tao mo 1:24
DeleteEspecially those people who says check up on your loved ones, see beyond their laughters etc.. Come on, if u have done what you’re saying they’d still be here 🙄
DeleteNot only are you so rude, your timing is horrible.
Delete11:30 They're not saying it to be high and mighty. They're saying it to help others
Delete1:24 bawat post ni emman laging may reply at comment si kuya kim. maybe mahirap na lang talaga imend yung brokeness nung bata since lahat ng trauma were made on her formative years na busy yung parents nya sa paghahanap buhay..
DeleteShowing such grace over unimaginable grief. So sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteIndeed
DeleteSadly 101% sa social media ay puro hate and bashing. Kahit biktima na ng isang pangyayari, ang ibabash pa nila ay yun biktima hindi yun gumawa ng masama. I mean people has gotten worst especially in social media. Sa social media nila nilalabas ang kanilang evil, vicious side na hindi nila masabi harapan o personal. Not that they're automatically evil people. It's just their online persona.
ReplyDeleteKaya if you're the vulnerable, sensitive type wag ka na magsocial media. Pero kung kaya mong makipagbardagulan then go. Na kung ibash ka o murahin ka eh matatawa ka lang o mumurahin mo din pabalik without being affected then go. Social media all you want. People say words they don't actually mean in social media. Take it with a grain of salt. For me ha, walang seryosohan sa online. What happens online, stays online. Iba ang virtual world sa real world. In fact lahat ng nakilala ko online, hindi ko kinilala offline. And people are just one block away. Wag ka mag load, wala ka ng internet.
Ang dali maglaho online. So if you're the type to take things seriously, wag kang mag social media. Take it from someone older than you.
For those who think they need medical help, GO FOR IT!
DeleteTHERAPY+MEDICATION & FAMILY+ COMMUNITY + SELF-MANAGEMENT ARE INTEGRAL TO HEALING.
Tumfak 1:53!
DeleteSadly hindi mo maalis ang kasalbahihan ng mga talangkang pinoy(hindi lahat) na dinadaan sa pambubully na lang ang bitterness at inggit sa likod ng keyboard sa mga taong may mga bagay na wala sila - yaman, achievements, ganda, prestige. Kahit walang ginagawa sa kanila. Yun ang paraan ng pagganti nila dahil sa kapalaran nila sa ibaba. Ang hatakin ang mga nasa itaas anonymously. Damay damay ba sa ibaba. Hindi na sila mababago. Manhid na mga yan. Ang isa mga solution ay ikaw na mag adjust at huwag mag pasikat sa social media
ReplyDeleteThis what I thought too
DeleteHindi lang yan, rampant na kapag iba ang opinion mo sa kanila aatakehin ka na!
DeleteBullies are everywhere we meet in our daily lives. Sa school, sa bahay mismo, sa workplaces, hindi lang sa online. Bullies gaya ng mga classmates, bosses, schoolmates, relatives, et al. They’re everywhere in the world.
Delete100 percent agree
Delete@1:54 Hindi lahat pero super dami! Para silang gremlins. Super mag project sa socmed instead of fixing their issues privately. We paid someone na ma track yung online bully ng pinsan ko. Then nung pinuntahan at ipapahuli, sobrang paawa.
DeleteEmman also had a previous attempt and was self-harming before and while becoming Tiktok famous.
DeleteShe's always struggled with her mental health since bata pa. : (
Do not use socmed for validation, if you have fragile mental health, you have no business joining any soc med platform. Counting your soc med followers like they are your most valuable possessions are not an achievement it is a curse to keep up with your make believe soc med persona that will haunt you day and night. If you plan to make a living as a content creator, make sure you have the maturity to handle adulations and backlash. Guide your young children about responsible gadget usage so when they grow up they know their boundaries. Soc med and gadgets are not your free nanny to keep them quiet or less disruptive, be a parent to them and encourage them to join afterschool activities. Your role as a parent is not just to provide and skies the limit, it is also to nurture , educate and teach them limits.
ReplyDeleteMas madaling mabuhay showing compassion and kindness. I'm 41, been through so much in life including being SA'd when I was younger. I battled depression and chronic anxiety but never ko dinamay ang ibang tao w my pain. Iniisip ko baka sila din may pinag dadaanan. Yung mga saglit mo lang naeencounter na masusungit, imbis na awayin mo din, don't waste your time na lang. There are battles na best dealt with silently kaysa sinasabayan natin ugali nung taong nagdodown sa atin. They feed on attention. I've learned to just ignore those kind of people kahit sa socmed. I practice socmed detox too every month.
ReplyDeleteThat's why some Filipinos deserve to be poor kasi masama ugali nila. Ang matindi nun hindi pa nila narirealize yun. Inggitera, mayabang, tamad at walang-pakialam sa kapwa - iyan ang average Filipino
ReplyDeleteFor do many years, I never understood people with depression kase it never happened to me. I downplay every story shared. I thought then na I was lucky growing up during the time na wala pang gaano social media. Tinatawanan ko lang ang issue about mental health and stuff. I came out of the closet in 1995. It was so hard then. Binubugbog ako ng mga kuya ko kapag nalalasing sila kase mga friends nila kinakantiyawan sila na yung kapatid nila pompyang with matching palms na pumupokpok. Saan man ako nglalakad with my girlfriend, napapaaway kame sa kalsada kase nga hindi pa accepted nuon. Kaya for me, ang tingin ko sa tao na may depression ay mahinang nilalang. Until nangyare saken. I was home alone. I literally curled up into a ball and cried and cried. That’s when it hit me. Totoo pala ang depression. Totoo pala yun. Narealize ko na di ko naappreciate yun kase nga I was trying to be strong. Kase ganun naman nuong unang panahon. You just have to suck it in. That night when I went home alone, that’s when it hit me. It was freakin scary. I will never want to be in that position again. Nakakatakot siya. I had my phone on my hand, I have hundreds of friends that I can call but I just couldn’t. And now I am a believer. Right now, I check on everyone lalo na if I see na something is wrong. Considering what I do for a living huh. I work in a Club. Nasa nightlife scene ako. I get to here everyone ‘s story. I understand better now. So I will always try to be there when I feel na kailngan ako. Kase most of my clienteles are intoxicated or high. They are at their most vulnerable. So mas naappreciate ko na ngayon. I can not change the world peru at least in my own little ways, I can make an impact. It’s hard sometimes considering two of my valuable guests succumb to taking their lives. But that won’t deter me. I will always try my bestest to listen hoping that I could stop someone from taking their life. Life is beautiful. It will always be. Nakakaiyak!😔
ReplyDeleteKaya napakainportante Ang support system.
ReplyDeleteNagbigay siya ng maanghang na Salita. Doon siya nakatanggap ng matinding bashing. Sa Pagiging opinionated niya, bumalik sa kanya ang sakit ng salita. Vulnerable siya pero nag socmed siya. Naway matahimik ang kanyang kaluluwa.
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteAng sakit how his daughter ended. Napakasakit nito sa mga parents lalo kasi 19 y/o lang sya and she chose to that to herself. As a parent parang ako yung gumuho ang mundo at nag doubt bigla sa sarili ko sa nangyari sa batang ito.
ReplyDeleteSa mga parents be sure na ma guide palagi ang mga anak. Kailangan nila palagi ang presence ng parents. Walang makakatumbas non. Alam mo yan sa sarili mo. Even us adults always long for our parents. Edi ganun din ang mga anak natin.
Prayers for her soul at katatagan para sa mga naiwan nya.
Sorry for your loss, Kuya Kim and family
ReplyDeletePalagi sinasabi kasalanan ng parents kasi they weren’t there for the child. Madami tayong hindi alam about their mechanics. May friend ako sobrang spoiled ng kids na now in their early 20s. Then nadiagnose with depression ang isa. Sabi ng dr ang trigger ay ang dad. Pnalayas ang dad. At kahit pnalayas ang dad wala pa din naman nagbago. Then sabi ng dr wag maghover masyado ang mom which she did din. Eventually yun 2 kids stayed in a house na sila lang magkasama at ang parents nasa ibang house nila para nga daw hindi matrigger. So technically pinalayas nila ang parents pero bnibigyan sila ng allowance. Bnibigyan sila 50k each per month with unli cc access pa. What I’m saying is ang dali magsabi na hndi kasi present ang parents but hindi natin alam ano ba talaga ang mechanics bakit ganun. Mukang very independent si emman. Kung ano gusto nya yun ang masusunod. May post pa nga na nagcomment si kuya kim sabi nya: i’m so excited to see you. Until the very end sya pa din ang nasunod.
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