@tuesday_v May mga panahong sobrang lapit ko na. Pero mabait ang panginoon. Hindi nya ako hinayaang matuloy na mawala. Please check on your friends. Even the ones who are smiling all the time. Life is hard enough as it is, be someone’s safe space if you can. #worldsuicidepreventionday ♬ original sound - Sqrousevsf©️
I remember how close I got to ending it all. But just as I was about to say goodbye, the sky opened up and I felt a warmth all over my body. I cried my eyes out. I knew then that it still wasnt my time. That the Lord still has a mission for me. I am reaching out to whoever might need this: Life will get hard and you may think you cannot bear it, but God will carry you through. Trust in him.
@tuesday_v Replying to @majel_tamayo ♬ original sound - Tuesday Vargas
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Namatay ang dalawang pusa na rescue ko at naging emotional support ko. Habang tumatagal nararamdaman ko na depress na talaga ako. Wala naman akong mapagsabihan kasi feeling ko walang makakaintindi sa nararamdaman ko.
ReplyDeletePlease find a friend you can talk to. I'm sure meron yan na makikinig sayo. Think positive thoughts.
DeleteGet professional help asap. Yung pagiging dependent pa lang sa animal is a sign na. Remember though our pets would seem to give us comfort. They cannot equate to doctors.
DeleteHugs girl. Please pray and ask for strength.
DeleteMasakit talaga yan lalo at malalambing ang mga pusa. Actually para silang toddler sa kakulitan eh kaya mamimiss mo talaga.
Delete1236 always think that the pain and depression is temporary dahil temporary lang tayo sa mundo. Pero wag natin pangunahan ang Diyos. We dont own our lives. We need God. We need to surrender everything to Him. Sa Kanya ka humugot ng strength. Find Him and u’ll find rest and comfort. Stay strong!
DeleteAndaming may terminal illness na ang iba nga tinaningan na ang buhay, pero lumalaban gusto pa ring mabuhay....
DeleteMay anak ba sya?
ReplyDeleteYes. Malaki na
Deleteyung kapitbahay ko nagbigti dahil iniwan ng asawa :( mas pinili ni wife magmigrate sa america para mag work dahil sa hirap ng buhay.... tapos yung 2 bata iniwan sa probinsya... nakakaawa :( pinag rosary ko nga maski ang tamad ko magdasal :( ngayon nakaburol si guy at super bata pa, 28 lang... sumalangit nawa
DeleteAno kaya ang dahilan ano?
ReplyDeleteNaghiwalay sila ng ex sya, niloko sya. Sinabi nya sa vid
DeletePaki patayan ng internet si momshie. Lahat na lang linalabas sa media pati tangkang pagpapakamatay .. alam ko gusto mo lang to raise awarenes pero OA na promise. Tapos pag nabash ka galit ka.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe may mga taong kagaya mo. If you can't emphatized, just keep your negative comments to yourself. Di ka nakakatulong sa tao. I hope it doesn't happen to you what she's been through.
DeleteIkaw dapat ang patayan ng internet.
DeleteWag mong maliitin ang depression. This is her way of expressing herself and maganda naman ang pagsabi nya. She is telling people as a way of lifting her burden na din
DeleteAko naman, if it helps her. Ibigay na yan sa kanya. Kung kailangan nya ng outlet, I'd rather have that kesa sa news na itinuloy nya. Liit na bagay in the grand scheme of things. Be kind.
DeleteYou have no idea how much Tuesday had helped me battling depression and suicidal thoughts. Manahimik ka.
DeleteOk lng yan, kesa nman sa tulad mong wlang empathy
DeleteWalang empathy. Grabe ka
Delete1:32 kabilang ka doon sa mga tao dyan sa Pinas na hindi nakakaintindi ng sakit na depression hindi ito inaarte lang o simpleng karamdaman sa pagiisip ito lang kung hindi mo kayang unawain sila wag ka na lang magsalita.
DeleteNaiyak ako. I can relate with her, yung tipong nakagawa ka na mga letters. Ready nako mag OD nun (nag ayos pako w/makeup and dress) but for some reason naramdaman ng nanay ko and she kicked my locked door open and napigilan ako.
ReplyDeleteThat was many years ago when I was still a teen. Now I am a mother myself. I still feel bouts of despair but I always tell myself I still have a purpose in life. Important din talaga maging vigilant mga mommy sa behaviors ng kids if may mapansin silang kakaiba. So they can intervene or find help for them.
I'm so glad Tuesday is using her platform to raise hope and give strength dun sa mga napaghihinaan ng loob and mga nawawalan ng pag asa. God bless you all!
dami nyang inalisan show sa gma dahil sa depression nya
ReplyDeleteLagi siyang ganyan kahit dati pa.. yung kung kelan ang init init na ng pangalan nya, ang dami nyang ganap, biglang magkaka episode ng depression at aayawan ang lahat.. galing pa naman ni Tuesday lalo na sa here comes the bride..
DeleteYes. Umalis sya dun sa show nila ni Buboy recently dahil dij sa depression nya
DeleteThat’s exactly what I am experiencing right now.
ReplyDelete2:51 Even on the darkest days, there's a glimmer of hope. Sending prayers to you right now…
DeleteWhat are you waiting for? Let get help!
DeleteTalk to a friend. Pray. Kaya mo yan, wag kang bibitaw
Deleteplease ask for support.
DeleteI hope you'll feel better day by day
Deletestay strong & always pray, Jesus loves you.
DeleteAnong pinagdadaanan nya? Kaya pala wala na dya dun sa podcast. Keep going, Tuesday! This too shall pass.
ReplyDeleteSorry ha, I know your intention is to comfort pero hindi uubra yung template reassurance na "this too shall pass" sa depressed & suicidal people. I'm not bashing ha, just disagreeing. I have 1 suicidal friend who's on medication and I know how it feels :(
Delete1. Naloko ng jowa
Delete2. Nag fail na business naubusan ng pera
3. Nabawasan ng malalapit na friends
12:02 genuine question -- what to say then?
DeleteI just kept quiet lang kasi habang nag chichika ung fren ko baka may masabi akong mali so I thought just being there may help and wag na kumuda ng madami. Like maybe they just need someone to be there and listen. Pero bet ko din naman may masabi na tugma.
6:27 i think sometimes the right response is nothing. Just assure them you are around if they need you
DeleteI felt her pain. She is still not ok. Sana she is getting the help that she needs. Also she needs to forgive kung sino man nakasakit sa kanya (if she hasn't forgiven them yet) baka sakali makatulong for her to heal.
ReplyDeleteIts ok not to be ok. Tama sya check your friends. Wag ngyu lng utangan
ReplyDeleteNakaka tulong ba ma relieve ang depression kapag nag socmed? Yes or no?
ReplyDeleteSiya lang ang makakasagot kung yun ang outlet niya maybe it does help her.
DeleteDepende sa tao. For some, it helps kase yun yung outlet. So short answer, Yes.
DeleteBut then if you go the socmed route, it just means kulang ka sa physical support system.
DeleteThat longing we are all looking for is Jesus. God designed humans to need Him. So if u keep looking for something just go to Him. Life is always hard but it’s a different peace when you have Jesus in you heart.
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteLahat sana makaranas ng healing from all the pain.
ReplyDeleteTuesday, isa ka sa pinaka gusto kong artista. Sobrang napapasaya mo ko, sobrang nakakatawa ka at very talented. Dagdagan pa ang dasal. Kapit lang.
ReplyDeleteMinsan nag open up ako sa mental struggle ko pinagtawanan lang ako sakit daw ng mayayaman yun, kaya kahit struggling ako sinasarili ko na lang.
ReplyDeleteMay mga free services sa ganitong situation. Chagaan lang talaga para makakuha ng slot. Pero kung feeling ko wala kang matakbuhan o makausap, you can search for free services.
DeleteAng alam ko UP-PGH meron. Meron din online ang Ateneo.
Ako naman hindi ako pinansin nung nag-open up ako sa isang pinsan. My advice to you is dont dwell on your problems too much kasi ganyan ang nangyari sakin at nahihirapan ako ngayong ibalik yong dating ako. Nawala kasi yong motivation, yong happines na dapat nararamdaman ko. Parang im down lagi at parang hindi ko na alam yong feeling ng happiness. I always try to smile but it doesnt sink in. If it sunk in it disappears right away. I want to go back to reality that life is about fighting and thats what im doing now. Thanks to my husband who always try to knock some sense into me. As im writing this i realized thats its ok to not accept the bad things that happened to us. What's important is that we face them and live in the moment. Its hard but we can do it.
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