Monday, March 25, 2024

Xian Lim Shares Reflections on Love's Teaching

 

Image and Video courtesy of X: xianlimfanpage, GMA Network 

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  1. Npka self centered

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    1. 5.22pm He is reserved. An introvert and an only child who was raised by his single mother and grandparents. He is living with his mom, lola and lolo. He was a chubby, giant of a kid who was bullied in school. He has overcome a lot of challenges but his experiences have made him guarded. He doesn't pretend to be who he is not and that takes courage.

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    2. 10:51 K grew up in the same circumstance but she is a happy person

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  2. Ako Lang ba o nakakainis talaga tong si Xian? Trying hard na nga umacting Di pa umayos sa relationship, bingo na Sana sya kay Kim Kasi napakabait at good vibes lagi.

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    1. May nabasa ako na comment na di rin naman daw palaging jolly si Kim, not everything you see on TV is real.

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    2. 8:04 jusme alangan naman 24/7 jolly sya. Tao lang din yon

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    3. 8:04 lol alangan namang jolly pa rin kahit malungkot or depressed. Hindi naman sya robot . Human have different emotions.

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    4. Natural na minsan tahimik or me sumpong kapag pagod

      Ano si Kim Robot?

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    5. Wala namang tao na jolly palagi. Kahit clown nawawala din sa mood

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    6. 8:04 dahil tao lang din si kim chiu. Sarap mong kurutin sa singit teh

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    7. Kailangan po ba dapat jolly? Kung pagod or may pinagdadaanan, kailangan jolly pa din?

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    8. @8:04 Malamang baks. Tao din c Kim katulad natin. May ups and downs din.

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    9. 8:04 which is completely fine kasi di rin naman araw2x ay masaya tayo di ba?
      Okay lang din maghiwalay sila. Kim's friends and family dislike Xian. Mahirap magkarelasyon na walang basbas sa pamilya.

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    10. Tao lang naman din si Kim, she can’t be jolly 100% of the time. And because part of her job ang mag entertain, kaya yun ang need niya iproject sa TV.

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    11. 5:38 Teh ang hirap naman na all the time eh jolly ka, sa tingin mo meron ganun na tao? Na walang pwedeng pagdaanan at araw araw masaya lang? San planeta yun?

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    12. 8:04 natural kasi normal na tao sya hindi sa lahat ng oras masaya. Mas kabahan ka pag nag iisa lang sya tapos jolly at tumatawa pa rin.

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  3. So Ikaw ang dahilan ng pain ni Kim

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    1. 5.42PM they are both experiencing pain. They were a couple for a long time.

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    2. 19:46 parang wala namang pain si Kim. Puro drama lang sa IS.

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  4. Love does not disappear po

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    1. 5.49PM If it doesn't, why do couples break up? Why do marriages end in divorce? Of course love can end.

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    2. Love is not all butterflies kc. Once honeymoon period settles, conscious efforts kicks in.

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    3. 10:45 it doesn't to a lot of couples.
      You're a pessimist if that's what you think.
      At ang mali sa paniniwala ni Xian, basing it na din sa ig breakup post niya when he said "all good things must eventually come to an end"..it is such a negative and wrong mindset.
      All? Must? Eventually?
      So umpisa pa lang he believes inevitable na maghihiwalay sila? Then he shouldn't be in any relationship AT ALL and waste any woman's time.

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    4. May pagkakataon di pala talaga true love at all to begin with. Napasabak lang sa relasyon, akala magkakainlaban din pero di pala. Better off as friends o acquaintances. Lalo mga nagkaanak bago pakasal. O kaya nagkarelasyon to please others sa paligid o para sa ekonomiya.

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    5. it does. Love is not an end all, be all. Napapagod ang tao, napupuno, nagsasawa.

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    6. lahat yata ng nakarelasyon ni kim para sa ekonomiya kaya lagi syang iniiwan,di talaga true love,Kaya wag na kayong umasa kay paulo

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    7. wag nang umasa kay paulo dahil promo promo lang para kay paulo

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  5. Parang si boy naririnig kong nagsasalita eh.

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    1. Oo nga. Parang si boy siya kung magsalita.

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  6. love is 20% feelings and 80% hard work, it needs time and willingness to make an effort para ka lang nag-aalaga ng halaman. kaya di ako naniniwala sa pinagsasabi netong si X, wala na kasing nakukuhang pakinabang kaya himanap na ng iba. 🀒

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    1. 7.28PM you are not being fair. His last relationship lasted for nearly 12 long years. If the two hadn't tried to make it work, they would have broken up sooner. Let's not condemn him because we don't like him.

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  7. Take note na lang sa next girlfriend nyan yang mga sinabi niya na yan ha. If applicable kay Kim yan, for sure applicable din yung saying na yan sa susunod niya na girlfriend. Love disappears pala ha πŸ™„

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    1. 7.30PM Yes, for some it does. If it didn't ppl wouldn't break up and move on. Just because Xian said it, it doesn't make it untrue.

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    2. Next gf na rumored wife-to-be din daw

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  8. Still reeks Nega after all these years of trying to clean up his image.

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    1. 7.39PM What crimes has he committed for which he should be condemned for life?

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    2. 1040 it’s ok Xian. Tulog na

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    3. 10:40 there's no smoke without fire. All these years there has been talk of his attitude.
      On videos with Kim's family, you'll never see any interaction between him and her siblings or dad, puro pics lang. Not once has he been with Kim's friends, it's always Kim with his nonshowbiz friends. Si Kris Aquino na forever tactless, nagparinig din. Sir Deo's msg to Kim speaks volumes.
      Just goes to show that there IS something wrong with him.

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    4. 12.55am In one of his interviews with Tito Boy, TB said Xian was perhaps the most misunderstood celebrity which says a lot. He doesn't fit the mould and ppl don't like that. Contrary to the gossip, the two families got along well and Xian interacted well with them. There are plenty of pics plus videos over the years that show that. Xian has support of fellow actors and industry insiders who have positive things to say about him. As to Sir Deo's comments, let's not speak ill of the dead when they're not around to explain or defend themselves. Xian deserves the benefit of the doubt.

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    5. 12.23AM you go to sleep. Stop being judgmental

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    6. 10:40 oa mo, crimes agad? lmao

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    7. 2:33 point out where i've spoken ill of someone who passed away. Just because a person is gone, doesn't mean that he can't be mentioned at all. He wrote those words and one doesn't even have to read between the lines coz it was straightforward.

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  9. the problem is, Xian Lim is trying to be deep, when in fact he isn't, and he can't be deep LOL

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    1. 8.09PM Xian is consistent throughout the years. Yes, he seemed tense, but that's how he is in most interviews. Not everyone will like or understand him and he knows that.

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  10. Basta since nawatch ko ung treatment nito don sa impersonator ni Kim ekis na talaga sya sa akin. Kahit ano pa sabihin nyo kay Kim she’s the better person sa kanilang dalawa.

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  11. Love does not cause pain Xian, you do. Pafeeeling deep ka pa jan. Kung nagdisappear na yung love mo, why fight for it? You just wasted kim’s time eh wala ka nanaman palang love na!

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    1. Love does not disappear, nalipat lang sa ibang tao. Ganun yon!

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    2. love nya kay kim nag dissappear

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  12. bakit laging kay Xian ang sisi?baka may Nagawa din si kim kaya di nag work ang relationship

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    1. Ang ingay kasi nya.

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    2. Baka lang di ba? kaya lang mas obvious na sya. Kasi una siya kagad ang nanlamig at may nalink agad na girl.

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    3. Dahil nagpaluto pa siya ng steak.

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    4. sus si kim din may laging pahiwatig sa showtime

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  13. I don't like him anymore. Ang nega na ng arrive nya.

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  14. Obviously it wasn't love.

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    1. alam nya ba talaga ang love, mukhang sarili lang nya ang mahal nya hahaha user lang ang peg

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  15. There's nothing wrong in what he said. Love can fade and dissapear and when it does, it's painful.

    He continues to be misunderstood and maligned for simply being himself. He's clearly affected by the breakup and is not faking. Stay strong Xian, like love time does heal.

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    1. Affected? Eh laging nakadikit sa Iris. I doubt affected yan πŸ™„

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    2. ganyan talaga pag may bagong nagpapatibok ng puso

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    3. 12:57 eh ang idol mo rin hindi mapigilan ang kilig kay Paulo. Ang bilis naman ano? Yan ba ang may pain? Yan BA ang affected sa break up? Eh kung makabungisngis at maka-tili parang sya lang ang nagmamay-ari ng planet earth.

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  16. I can feel na d rin sya bet ni boy abunda interviewhin kasi madalas sya kina cut

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    1. 10.23AM Tito Boy is one of Xian's hosting mentors actually. Look back to old interviews - they have a mutually respectful relationship.

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  17. I watched the interview and I liked what both he and Jennyln Mercado said. Xian admitted again that he is an awkward person and was not at all arrogant or fake. Give the man a break people. No one is perfect.

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    1. the problem is, he is not likeable at all. I think there's something about him. Minsan napi feel ng mga tao yan. Wala syang Karisma

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    2. 7:05 pero nung sila pa ni Kim, reel or real, todo tanggol kayong mga KimXi trds at tanggap na tanggap nyo ang isang Xian Kim na kinukutya nyo ngayon.

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  18. 8:09 hahaha benta sakin to. Truth!

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  19. Stop invalidating his feelings. It's his lived experience he's talking about. Just as his ex has shared about hers. Let them be.

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  20. Tumaas lalo respeto ko kay Kim. Paano niya natagalan to.

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    1. 11:00 parang baliktad yata. Panong nakatagal si Xian Kay Kim? Kung yung first ka-loveteam nga nagsabi na boring na daw dahil walang ibang mapag-usapan.

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    2. 9:13 FYI, niligawan ni Xian si Kim. HIndi pinilit ni Kim ang sarili niya ok. Kung na bore si Xian sa realtionship nila, hindi na dapat niya pina abot ng 11 years, sa 2nd year pa lang, kumalas na siya. Kaya lang the who pa lang siya and ang dami niya ng isuues that time kaya stick muna siya ke Kim. What a waste of time...

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  21. Tingnan nyo na nga lang paano tinatro ni X ‘yun look a like ni Kim. That speaks volume kung ano siya.

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  22. Wow ang sipag ni Xian mag comment ah hahahah.. The mere fact na hindi lang 1 o 2 lang horror stories about him speaks volume. Maraming hindi magandang kwento from his co workers or even sa tao lang sa paligid nya.

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    1. 11.58AM Pure gossip. People throw stones at things that shine. Think about that.

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  23. So if for Xian Love causes pain, then avoid Xian's love because you will experience pain.

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  24. So dont weep, for me its getting steep.

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  25. I wonder how many people commenting here actually know Xian, to be judging him like he put Kim through the wringer when they decided to break up. Bear in mind that it was Kim who said in her break-up message that "love is not enough". Such is the power of social media, that public opinion operates like a bandwagon. This may be an unpopular pov, but you wouldn't wish the bashing that Xian is going through on your friends & family. Just because he rarely responds to haters does not mean he is fair game to be maligned.

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    1. 12.59AM Bingo! The reactions are truly irrational. They're using Xian as their favourite punching bag. For what gain? Miserable people.

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    2. 12:59, nasa FP ka, gossip site ito. Ikaw kilala mo ba si Xian or si Kim? Pwede mag comment ang mga tao dito sa mga celebrities kahit kilala nila or hindi.

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    3. Agreed sa iyo baks

      Comment section itoπŸ’―✔️

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  26. Sana magka work sila ni Bea Benene.

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    1. I know why…. Its possible… nasa Viva na rin si Bea Binene

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  27. In a way, xian coming into kim's life was a blessing. Yun yung time na nagka maja-kim issue and hindi nagmukang loser si Kim habang nagmamahalan openly si maja at ge because Xian came into the picture and na appreciate naman ang bagong tambalan. Kimbaga, naalalayan din sya ni xian.

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    1. 1.11AM Agree. Xian and Kim's friendship and team up was beneficiL to both, but especially Kim however, many Kimeralds didn't accept it.

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    2. ay hindi tama timeline mo. single si kim nun.

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    3. Yes, single si Kim nung nilgawan ni Xian. Nung naging mag LT, biglang nakilala na si Xian na bago lang sa showbiz.

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  28. At a certain point “ Love disappears” ????

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  29. Can someone research how many stories about Xian since the break-up there have been and how much engagement they attained? There's too muchinterest in someone who is supposedly irrelevant since he ended his romantic relationship with Kim Chiu. Why the fascination?

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    1. kung gusto mo malaman, e di you do the research, mukhang sobrang curious mo eh πŸ˜„ wag mo kaming utusan

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  30. Paring mali ang idea ni Xian on what love teaches. Love allows one to endure pain for “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth."

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  31. I think he was referring to butterfly feelings that fade away after some time.

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  32. We don’t know their story but it was a 12 year relationship. Kung walang ka-kwenta-kwenta silang mga tao di naman sila tatagal ng 12 years. Nobody forced them to stay that long in a relationship. When Xian was showering Kim with flowers, trips, and lavish proposals for Star Magic Ball, we all swooned at his sweet gestures. We watched their vlogs on their trips. And yet it didn’t work out- so let them heal. Maybe there’s a better person for each of them.

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    1. True

      Destiny at nagsisimula.na kay Kim sana beautiful endingπŸ’πŸ’πŸŽŠπŸŽŠ❤️❤️

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    2. 9:21 with whom? With Paulo? Ang mangarap at magising haha juicemio search mo mga past gfs ni Paulo. Hindi si Kim ang tipo nya.

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    3. 8.43am Amen to this!

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    4. 9:21 PM

      Meron ka pang type ni Paulo ganito maganda matalino etc.

      Hindi naman lahat ng lalake hanap matalino shunga ka

      Daming matalino na babae na intimidate ang lalake kaya hanap average lang

      Kung maka type ha ha ha ha
      Mas okay naman siguro si Kim kesa sa iyo hindi man excellent MAABILIDAD naman πŸ’–❣️❣️πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’˜❤️

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  33. love ends. that is just a simple truth. the fiery passion at the beginning will start settling down to simmer then later, parang friends na lang kayo.

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  34. Xian maybe misunderstood person, but definitely he is a nice person, raised by her equally mabait na nanay, & living with his lolo at lola..

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  35. It's obvious nman, Kim never treated Xian as a boyfriend

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