Thursday, March 28, 2024

Insta Scoop: Kris Bernal Shares Reality of Taking Care of Baby and Running a Household with Perry Choi without a Yaya

Images courtesy of Instagram: krisbernal

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  1. Hindi ba nya alam na 90% ng pinoy yan kalagayan..at least sya hindi hindi nagwoworry kung san kukuha ng pagkain araw araw

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    1. Mismo. Yung ibang nanay may 2-3 pa alagang bata. Not to invalidate her hardships, kasi mahirap naman talaga, pero ganun talaga.

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    2. SINO MAGSASABI SA KANYA NA GANYAN MAGING ISANG ULIRANG INA!!!!!

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    3. Just because may kaya siya doesnt give you the right to invalidate her feelings. May anak ka ba? Mahirap talaga mag alaga ng bata especially at this age. It really takes a village. Di siya OA po. And to the moms who take care of 2-3 kids by themselves im sure they were struggling too. Show some empathy naman

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    4. Nagpost lang naman sya ng current sifuation nya. Kapag ba may mas mahirap pa ang dinadanas sayo(which will always be the case), hindi na pwedeng magpost sa sarili mong account? Invalidating other people's hardships sobrang toxic soc med trait. -not Kris B. Hindi rin ako fan nya.

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    5. Ms kris lagi nmn po kasi kayo nagpopost ng ganyan.sabhn mo uliran ka pero panay reklamo mo naman.gma bgyan nu n nga ng serye to

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    6. mahirap maging hands on mom and dad lalo na kung may work sila pareho.

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    7. Uy be fair. Una, surely iba kinalakihan niya sa 90% of Filipinos. pangalawa, nakita niyo ba mga sobraaaang daming bata sa labas ng mga bahay nasa KALSADA, o worse, natutulog namumuhay sa kalsada? nagmamaneho ako, grabe ang pagpapabaya ng mga 90% ng mga magulang sa anak nila. naranasan ko na din na despite our privileged backgrounds iiwan lang sa akin ng nanay anak nila na babae na may napakamurang edad parang HELLO nagtitiwala kayo di niyo ako kilala? i mean maayos naman ako pero ako i WOULD NEVER send my daughter to a stranger's or a near stranger's home. dun pa lang alam mo anong "pagaaruga at pagaalaga" binibigay ng iba sa anak nila, at siguro naman may idea kayo na di ganong tao si kris para ganon ang trato sa anak niya. pangatlo, iba ang mga obligasyon ng taong mahirap at walang masyadong social expectations na tulad ni kris. Ako nga eh , ordinaryo lang ako di artista nahirapan ako sa daming dinadaluhang mga events at kailangang maggown magayos. kung dalaga ka kayang kaya, kung breatfeeding ka maggown magparty ka? anong gagawin mo? konting oras pahinga mapunta pa sa social obligation. tumigil kayo di niyo alam pinagdadaaanan ng mga nanay. wala kayong compassion sa ibang tao ako di ako mahirap aminado ako marangya buhay namin pero i have enough EQ na ke mahirap ke mayaman kaya kong ilagay sarili ko sa kinatatayuan nila. isa pa pala may mga taong maraming support system, daming pwedeng magalaga sa anak nila, kapatid o nanay o asawa. silalo na if yujg relatives mga walang high paying or high demand jobs. ako, both sides namin mejo mayayaman at umaariba ang social obligations at work obligations, wala akong maaasahan kundi sarili ko. busy din yung adawa ko sa daming negosyo. so ako umasa talaga ako sa tulong ng yaya. di naman niyo alam circumstance ng mga tao. may mga yubbies na mas domesticated at meron hindi. when people are crying out for help, ang tamang response imbes ibash,extend support and help. mahirap bang makitao?

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    8. Basahin nyo po ang title ng post, SHARES REALITY OF TAKING CARE OF BABY meaning ngayon nya narerealize kung gaano pala kahirap, di naman nya sinabing sya lang ang nahihirapan

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    9. 208PM exactly. no one preps you for life with babies. if i knew id have had them much later.

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  2. Wala ba tong mga kaanak na pwede niyang makuhang yaya/helper? Sobrang OA na nya kasi.

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    1. Hindi lahat may kaanak na puedeng maging helper. My husband and I also had a hard time looking for a yaya for our baby. Just because madali lang for you na makahanap ng relative na willing to be a yaya doesn't mean na applicable sya sa lahat.

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    2. Sorna Kris 10:39.

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    3. 10:39 kung gusto may paraan. Pero kung gutom ka sa atensyon, gagawin mong drama serye buhay mo ultimo paghahanap ng yaya.

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    4. @10:39 gigil naman. I don’t think she came from money, so i suppose it would’ve been easier for her. although it is hard to mix family with ‘business’ in this context. your issues might spread like wildfire

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    5. 10:39 masyado k nmn defensive lol
      Ako Im in UK kaya literal n kami lahat ng asawa ko. Pero kng s Pilipinas ako kahit papano matutulungan at maaalalayan ako ng nanay ko at kapamilya. So si Kris at Perry - wala man lng?

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    6. Ang hirap humanap ng Yaya sa panahon ngayon cguro. Pero if I were her noh, kakaying ko lahat as long as si hubby ay provider sa lahat. While ako alaga sa anak at household. Yan ang buhay dito sa Europe eh,ikaw lahat.

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    7. You are calling her madrama, OA, papansin etc just because you don't like her. I bet, if it's your idol that posts stuff like that, we wouldn't hear a single bad comment from you.

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    8. Hindi naman lahat ng kaanak mdali makasama sa bahay and hindi din naman lahat willing to deop whatever they are doing para magyaya for a long time.

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    9. Hindi lahat may malapit or willing na tumulong. Mama ko helped nung baby pero nung naglalakad na di na kaya maghabol tas cellphone lang binibigay para di malikot kaya in the end kami pa rin nag aalaga.

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    10. 1025, middle class lang kami pero wala kami kaanak na pwede maging helper namin kasi nga mga kamaganak namin kahit paano may maayos na work, nakapagtapos, or may businees. Mahirap talaga mumuha ng helper.

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    11. 4:21 sorry ms kris pero my idol anne curtis is not like that.even angelica panganiban na talagang tutok sa pag aalaga ng anak nya.

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    12. 1021 AM By your bitter reasoning wala na K 99% ng mga mayaman magreklamo kasi may kaya sila while iba struggling. Alam mo tao din ang mayaman. Marami din silang struggles. And they're entitled to complain and no, not someone like you gets to silence their voice. You can troll people here and give your opinion and im telling you ang nega ng mindset mo at baguhin mo. Pag dumating panahon at yumaman ka din at nagkastruggles ka din saka mo malalaman anong sinasabi niya. Makarma ka sa ginagawa mo.

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    13. 232 AM wag mo naman ikumpara. sa europe lahat disposable. pati nga bote din na halos di huhugasan kasi may disposable liners. tapos walang traffic or may fast delivery. IBA pati bahay may dishwasher, washing machine,dryer. ang dami daming services AND meron ding 1yo pa lang may day care na kayo. LAHAT yan wala sa pinas. yaya system pa din dito. ultimo stroller niyo sa europe ang gaganda at may kwenta. dito magstroller ka bako bako daan kargahn mo na lang baby mo mas pagod ka pa sa stroller. pinakabiggest difference, yung work-life balance. dito minsan hanggang linggo may work asawa mo. the work never stops tignan mo so fp maski sunday may bagong chika. sa ibang bansa mon to friday work minsan and Europe in particular 4x a week lang ang work may govt support pa may binibigay na extra money na napakalaking halaga kumpara sa atin ZERO. may LEAVE ang parents sa europe, maternity and paternity leave. ang paid leave diyan up to 6 months, sa daddy 2 months yata? dependa where you are. sa europe may siesta. dito magsisiesta ka sa gitna ng araw? ibang iba ang life napakalaid back dito hustle like slaves esep esep din. it is apples to oranges. dito pagkain niluluto pa, diyan baby food de bote. dito mga bata kinakarga, diyan mga bata pinapabayaang umiyak iba iba kutura saka paniniwala. mas mahirap dito pag walang yaya. pag may yaya na maayos mas madali ng di hamak. diyan mga technological advances sa mga gamit pang bata ang dami dami. dito walang ganyang mga devices, o doble presyo. malaki patong. dito mga negosyante na di sobrang yaman maaring maliit pa kinikita sa mga service industry workers niyo diyan. yung yaya diyan sa europe earns more than dmall business owners here.. naalala ko dati breast bump 10k sa USA dito grabe p20k to p30k di naman super yaman si kirs bernal, nararamadaman niya din yang ouch ng gastos..

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    14. 229AM. sa pinas dati napakamura at napakadali kumuha ng yaya mga yaya dati din mas di matatapang mas wala pa silang rights kaya di kasing tapang ng mga yaya now. so mga nanay dati di lahat marunong magalaga ng bata. lalo na pag negosyante ang amo, the wife usually busy sa work as in iwan sa yaya completely mga bata. dati di nga uso bfeeding uso ay formula kaya talagang di connected moms sa anak nila busy sila kumita ng pera kasi di naman lahat mayaman dati saka kakastop lang ng war.

      everyone knows if may baby ka now, ander ka sa yaya mo at palasunod ka lang sa yaya mo. yung panahon ngayon, mga yaya sinisigawan mga amo, amo pa magsosorry. GANYAN ngayon di mo lang alam at sahod mga yaya ngayon p12,000 and up. despite ganyan, madalas ka pa rin iiwanan. unless p20,000 to p30,000 pasahod mo, medyo uncertain yung standing sa yaya mo libre lahat pa, libre travel, libre pamasahe etc.. ako nung nagkaanak ako, kami lang tumutulong magalaga sa anak namin. di domesticated ang mga parents namin, at busy pa sila sa social lives and work obligations nila. busy din hubs ko kumita ng money lalo na may new baby mabigat.i was on my own kung walang yaya. but even then pag bago yaya ko babantayan mo eh. wala akong tulog kaya natuto na ako kumuha ako midwife na kakilala so mas kampante. yung mga nakuha ko sa hospital nurse when i gave birth, maski 24/7 binabantayan ko pa kasi di ko naman kilala di ako natututulog 24hrs eh kakaopera o kakapanganak mo lang hina ka pa .

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    15. Mahirap maghanap ng kasambahay o yaya ngayon. Minsan makakakuha ka nga pero nenokera pala. Mas delikado ang yaya dahil ipagkakatiwala mo ang bata tapos madidiskubre mo may saltik pala at minamaltrato ang baby.

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    16. No its not orange to apple comparison. Sa europe ganyan din ang first few months.

      Nasa bahay ang nanay mg isa while working ang tatay. Nagluluto din kami kasi mas healthier kpag fresh produced. At 4mos kung ang nanay balik work, kahit pa may daycare, nanay pa din mgaalaga after kumayod ng whole day.

      May pera si Kris, which kami din may sahod while on maternity leave.

      Maganda ang gamit ng bata. Im pretty sure afford din ni Kris lahat ng gamit namin dito.

      Si Kris kasi ang kinocompare dito na while she’s struggling not having a yaya. It is absolutely possible and doable. Konting tiis lang for your baby.

      Yang sinasabi mong apple to orange, ay siguro sa mga mothers na middle class or even less.

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    17. Pinagsasabi mong 4x a week ang work so ok lang sa mga nasa EU walang yaya. Kris is not working at all. She has all the time of her day to her baby.

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  3. Welcome to motherhood! This is what most mothers experience. Walang yaya or helpers.

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    1. I hate it na normalized yung mothers without support, na dapat kayanin nila lahat on their own.

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    2. Sorry, but in developed countries, that's the norm. It's possible because the government makes it possible to do so. People's taxes go to the proper avenues like subsidized daycare, longer paid maternal leave, parental leave (which can be shared by the spouses or can be used by just one-- usually the mother), safe ipen parks, safe indoor playplaces, accessible public facilities and services, etc. Don't get me wrong,
      it's still exhausting, but it's manageable because of said factors.

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    3. no need yaya o helper kung ung FATHER active sa pagtulong s nanay!

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    4. 12:40 I’m not saying we should normalize mothers with no support. I am saying that is what MOST MOTHERS experience. KRIS BERNAL should be sensitive that she is not the only one experiencing this. And she’s pointing out that she can’t be on social media for weeks bcoz nagpapakananay sya, what a brat!

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    5. Welcome to my life in America. The only difference between me and this woman is I have to go to the office 9-5. I have to find $$ to feed my family and pay bills. This woman’s only problem is taking care of the baby and household coz she has all the money in the world. That should be easy peasy!

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    6. 2:27 Di ko alam sa ibang tao, pero nag struggle din ako dito sa US na walang yaya, na balik trabaho na ako in 8 weeks after C section, at I had to pay $290 a week for daycare. Hindi ako subsidized ng gobyerno, because hindi ako qualified. There are services available but they are not free. Pero di naman ako si Kris Bernal na kelangan mag announce ng struggles.

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    7. Oh well, welkam to da pelepens

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    8. Trot! Isang napakalaking problema ang yaya at helper sa pinas, which is ironic, dahil anf dami nating export na DH and kapag mga kabayan natin namasukan as helpers sa ibang bansa maayos sila magtrabaho.

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    9. Hindi naman masama maghanap ng yaya

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  4. Wala ka namang career, magpakananay ka na lang muna dyan sa condo mo. Kala mo naman napakalaki at dame nyo para imaintain.

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    1. 10:47 mahirap po mag alaga ng bata kahit isa lang..grabe makaalipusta..

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    2. Matabil dila mo beshy pero bet ko yang ganyan. Ang sarap supalpalan minsan ng mga mapag inarte sa buhay gaya ng ate mong si kris.

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    3. What a nasty person you are.

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    4. Haha! Oo nga gusto mo ng baby eh di gampanan mo pagiging nanay.
      Gusto na sigurong umawra kaso walang yaya haha

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    5. What may be easy for you may be hard for others. Ang tindi ng gigil nyo kay Kris. Pwede naman scroll through and look the other way na lang kaysa magleave pa ng nasty comments about the person. Eh sa yan ang pinagdadaanan nya. Sabi nga di ba if you have nothing good to say remain silent.

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    6. 1252 I agree sayo pero ok na rin na here sa fp ganyan magcomment ang iba kesa sa page tlaga ni Kris. Mas maiistress pa yun.

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    7. Pamilk ka na ng baby Kris 12:52

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    8. 12:47 at 12:27 masama ugali niyo.

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    9. 1240 AM Agree. Moms deserve support. It takes a village to bring up kids. sa US meron silang free services govt provides, dito wala If may yaya ka and may pera, ok lang. pero pag wala talagang kawawa ka dito. Free public spaces pa lang dito pupunta ka mall para paglaruin anak mo to climb jump etc sa ibang bansa daming libre and safe every few blocks. di ka na lalayo. tapos ang quiet ng life sa usa, walang sobrang daming events pupuntahan or kamaganak na nakaka stress din kasi pag madaming tao.. dun pa lang sa kakain sa labas tapos dito tipong last yun mom kumain. yung anak namin ng asawa ko responsibiliadad namin dalawa pero dati sa kainan, laging ako at yaya ko lang nagtutulungan magpakain. Eh pinahahalagahan ko yung yaya, so usually pinapauna ko laging kumain kasi matampuhin sila minsan or kasi talaga namang mas pagod sila sa amo. It felt so lonely ako lang lagi nagaalaga ng anak namin. sa dinami daming kamaganak walang nagextend ng help. ako lang saka yaya tumutulong. kaya dumating sa point na nagdadala ako assistant sa yaya ko. high power families kasi both sides namin so di talaga domesticated. ang dami dami pa naming events tipong every week minsan sabay sabay pa 3 to 4 in one weekend. kakapagod. ok lang kung pupunta ako as i am to those events? HINDI. im expected to go to those events looking like a put together mom, nakaayos, dressed nicely, nakaheels din usually. alangan magrubber shoes ka formal events. wala kang takas sa hirap pagod at expectations.

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  5. Wala kaming kamag anak ng ex ko sa abroad. Nakayanan ko naman at kakaanak ko lang when he decided to vanish like Houdini. Hang in there bukas makalawa gumigimik na anak mo. Yes ako na ang Marvel character super hero but my point is it is not the end of the world.

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    1. Nobody called you a superhero though

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    2. It is not the end of the world pero it does not mean na hindi sya nahihirapan. Porket nakalabas kana sa situation invalidated na ang experience ng iba because you supposedly had a worse experience.mayabang ang dating ante at hindi nakakainspire.

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  6. When you thought that motherhood and pregnancy are just about another instagram post and getting dressed for photographs… lol. Reality bites really hard. Stop whining and suck it up. There are mothers and single moms who are even working from home without a yaya. And they do not complain as much as this snotty brat.

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    1. THIS!!! Thank you for saying it.

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    2. BEST COMMENT!

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    3. Agree, nailed it!

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    4. Agree!!! Kala nila madali hhahaha

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  7. Laki ng problema nito

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  8. Uy wag ganon. Mas mabuti pa i share mo kng san ka may nakukuha agad na yaya na maayos at mbuti sa bata.
    Sa panahon ngaun mahirap tlgang makahana. Lalo na at nagtratrabaho ka pa kht work from home pa to.

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  9. Welcome to reality accla. Ganyan talaga kapag may anak ka na. Uunahin mo talaga anak mo kesa mag-social media.

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  10. Yung kapit bahay namin may anim na anak na bata pa :) :) :) Stay at home mom na walang yaya :D :D :D So tell me again how hard your life is??? ;) ;) ;) Penoys... just be grateful of what you have :D :D :D Hindi puro reklamo sa buhay ;) ;) ;)

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  11. FTM here. Buti nakakaya pa nya siya lang mag-isa. Nung ako 2mos palang muntik na mabaliw, kaya sa mga bashers jan na nagsasabi nag-iinarte lang siya, baka hindi pa kayo nagkaanak kaya gnyan kayo makahusga?

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    1. Hindi rin. 2 anak ko at walang katulong since birth nila nakayanan ko naman neh. Ganyan ang motherhood. Wag mag inarte pls 🙄

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    2. Hugs 1140AM. isa pa palang big factor yung bata. Kung ang bata madaling alagaan, may ganon eh. Kung lalake usually mas mahirap. if someone turns out special needs (much later malalaman if mental issues like autism or adhd etc) even harder. may babies na mas kalma talaga. Yung anak ko ilapag ko lang gigising. kailangan nakatayo ka naghehele. while mga anak ng friends ko natutulog madaling patulugin. Yun pala pag laki ng anak ko sobrang galing na bata. lahat ng pasukin niya he excels. pero sobrang parusa nung baby siya. ang demanding and sensitive. yun pala sobrang active ng utak and advanced kasi. street smart and books smart, athletic pa.

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    3. 8:55 magpasalamat ka nalang at nakaya mo mag-isa. Pero sorry sa pag-uugali mo mukhang di ka pa nanay.

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    4. @8:15 ano gusto mo resibo na dalawa na anak ko? 😂 girLL

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  12. Masyado lang tone deaf lol sa sobrang will to be relatable, nagging cringe tuloy.

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  13. Dati hanash nya about being petite. Puro abt body figure. Ngayon naman about not having a yaya. 😅

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    1. Ang bigat ng problema niya noh sis?! Haha Ako pera eh.

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    2. True sizt. Hahaha. Pag may yaya na yan balik body image na naman hanash nyan. She's so shallow.

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  14. Pangalawang anak niya na ba to? Parang nung pandemic period pa siya naghahanap ng yaya.

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  15. That's normal in the states, girl! Wag masyadong oa.

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  16. Thats motherhood iha! Sa pinas lang naman uso yung paalaga sa yaya 24/7!

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  17. I know ganyan naman talaga dapat ginagawa ng husband/father kaso in real life rare ang tulad ni Perry. Maswerte si Kris sa kanya.

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    1. True. At least focused si Kris sa baby niya who is around 6 months old. Pwede niya sabayan si baby matulog while hubby takes care of thr household. I didn't have that luxury bec my husband didn't know how to cook.

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  18. mukhang tulog ang anak niya habang kumukuda siya. eh kung sinabayan ba naman ng tulog ang anak imbes na mag-inarte, eh di nabawasan ang issues ni tsang.

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    1. Mom of 2 here. We don’t have a yaya as well and working from home. If her child is already 6 months old, supposedly long stretches na ang sleep nya sa gabi with 1-2 feedings na lang. I am not invalidating yung feelings nya pero oa naman yung wala pa din syang tulog hanggang ngayon “literal”.

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    2. 2:13 e kaso, inuuna pa ang pagpapampam sa socmed kesa magpahinga. Josko dami hanash ni accla. Mahirap tlga magalaga ng bata, true, pero yung ipost mo sa socmed yung mga issues mo, papansin na yan anteh

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    3. 4:35 true! Actually, mawawalan ka talaga ng time magsoc med kasi dapat ang focus mo is yung baby and sarili mo to recover. Pwede naman sila maghire ng help para sa household chores then sila mag asawa magalternate magalaga sa baby. Doable and madali solusyunan problema nya. Kakaloka.

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  19. Then don’t have children

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  20. Was this post also meant to show na pretty pa din siya kahit exhausted and puyat? Mukhang ineffortan muna na iedit eyebags eh. Naalala ko tuloy nung vinlog niya mga bags niya. Parang ang daming gustong iprove nitong babaeng to.

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    1. Yes ako dn naalala ko tuloy..and the bags mostly sa sister nya..check mo sis lol.

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  21. Kami nga ng asawa ko dito canada never talaga nagkayaya. Sa tatlo naming anak kaming dalawa lang nag alaga walang umalalay kundi ang isat isa. Working pa siya nun. Kaya wag kang mag inarte diyan kris! Magpakananay ka!

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    1. hindi naman kasi siya taga canada, at siguro hindi siya sanay sa gawaing bahay. we cannot invalidate na nahihirapan siya. easy to say magpaka nanay - hindi ba pagpapakananay ginagawa niya? iniwan ba nya anak nya, hindi pinakain, ect.

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    2. Did you wish you had help and that things were easier for you back then?

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  22. Natural nag anak ka eh

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  23. Welcome to real world!

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  24. Hhmmn i wonder bakit hindi sya makahanap ng yaya? For sure madami mag apply sa kanya, ikaw ba naman magwork para sa isang artista

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    1. Mahirap talaga makahanap ng mapagkakatiwalaan. Hindi pwede basta basta kalang kukuha.

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    2. Mahirap maghanap. Nung buntis ako may nakuha kami pero buntis din pala so eventually she left din. Nag agency kami, sablay naman, bale ng bale pero di kami pumayag na malaki yung bale kaka start tas nangutang pala sa ibang help sa subdivision. Daming eme na uuwi daw may sakit tatay, asawa, anak, etc (lahat na yata ng ka pamilya) di rin kami pumayag na umuwi kasi kaka start lang pero eventually pumayag kami umywi dahil boboto sa nearby province lang naman, ayun di na bumalik tas tangay pa baby supplies namin like wipes, shampoo, etc. Ending we decided kami na lang magpapalaki. Mahirap pero kaya naman. Tulungan lang talaga.

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  25. problem nya is walang mahanap na yaya & mahirap din coz maliit dw condo nya san mag-stay ang yaya.rich people’s problem

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    1. 233AM based on this di yata gabon kayaman si kris bernal. ang hirap to be thought as rich tapos youre actually not. hindi nagegets ng iba na she has budget issues, she has to keep up appearsnces etc

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  26. Baka mura ang sweldo,coz nung single pa sya no maid/assistant sya ciz sayang ang bayad dw.

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  27. Akala kasi ng iba for trends sa socmed and forda content lang ang mag anak hahaha! Ayan ano kayo ngayon? Hirap diba? Padede at puyatan yan. Then work kapa.. lalo sa abroad di uso yayey!

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  28. May mga super yaman na pamilya na di kumukuha ng yaya at kasambahay. Maghulos dili ka sa kaartehan mo, Kris. For sure di ka naman siguro pinanganak na may yaya or katulong pero naalagaan ka at mga kapatid mo ng magulang mo. Besides, nag-anak ka syempre responsibility mo alagaan anak mo at hindi ibang tao kahit na may bayad pa.

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  29. So ongoing pa pala ang yaya serye ni kris anez? 😅🤣 sa totoo lang isa si kris sa mga artista na feeling super relevant niya. As in! Sa interviews pa lang niya with BA at TG, ramdam mo yung sa utak niya mala-marian at angel siya. Na lahat ng sasabihin niya online ay magpapasabog sa algorithm ng social media. Kaya mo yan kris! Ipa-edsa mo kasi ang billboard na naghahanap ka ng yaya. O collab ka kay ivana para mas malaki reach at marami makaalam na naghahanap ka ng yaya. Hindi lalapit ang pampers at EQ plus para kunin kang endorser sa ganyang paraan.

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  30. Never ko naging bet itong merlat but my gulay naman people don’t have to be sooo mean. If may something off man sa kanya, it doesn’t take out the fact that motherhood without a yaya can be draining. Not bec you know someone who’s thriving at handling their kids and household without help doesn’t mean it’s not real for her. Iba iba tayo estado sa life.

    Nahihirapan nga daw siya yet people call her OA. Mahirap din talaga humanap ng yaya and it is a handful without. It gets better over time habang palaki yung bata

    I know bec I have 3 young kids below 7, my youngest is 3 mos old and I’m a working mom too. Wala rin kaming mahanap na yaya, saan saan na ako nagpost, nagpapahanap. Lol gusto ata nila maging yaya ni small laude.

    There was a time hubby and I got no yaya for a year nung 2 pa lang babies ko and during pandemic. Di ko rin alam pano ko nakaya. Full time working kami non but i stayed at home to work. Mygash, was breastfeeding a baby, attending online school with a preschooler, doing household chores while working. Baby sits on my lap while i have meeting and the 2 of them stay with me in a my work room. Kapag nasa meeting ako, had to be on mute bec umiiyak or noisy bata ang background. Thank you sa work ko na yun. At sa hubby ko din bec we are a team.

    Dami ko dada, lilipas din yan KB. While its hard wala kayo help now. You can outsource the other stuff bec you have the resources at your disposal


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    1. Ma arte talaga help ngayon. Ayaw mag yaya, mas gusto kasambahay o kaya nakahanap ka nga, sablay naman.

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  31. Daming drama, you should be thankful na unlike other mothers na struggling may be financially or have to endure health issues.

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  32. Dapat to putulan ng internet e

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  33. sabayan mo lang ng tulog yung anak mo kris. ganyan ginagawa ko dati.

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  34. Bakit ang daming galit kay Kris sa post nya? Totoo namang mahirap mag alaga ng baby. Mapupuyat ka, laging nagmamadali kumain or maligo, etc. Pls dont invalidate her feelings. Iba iba tayo ng kakayanan. She is just sharing her experience. And hindi rin ganung kadali maghanap ng yaya or helper na mapapagkakatiwalaan ah….………

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    1. Feeling nila nagrereklamo si Kris. Naiinis sila becasue they didnt have conveniences Kris has during their own motherhood. Ganyan yan, mga nagpuproject. "Eh, kinaya ko nga eh, magdusa ka ka ng todo dyan mag isa." When in truth, when they were in the same situation, they wished they had people and resources to make thing easier for them.

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    2. 455AM agree. buti ka pa may empathy. mas mahirap magnanay kesa magdoctor. and men will never even experience this. it is physical exhaustion. lalo na if yun baby mas makulit. i have a child na ang dali alagaan versus yun isa na grabe. easier to care for double of child A than a single child B na makulit. pag nagreklamo med student mumurahin kaya nila din na magtiis ka? mga tao talaga misogynistic and treat mothers without value or respect. yung mga nanay di lang naman for themselves yan theyre also producing productive citizens for the country kung gano ka ganda outcome ng anak niya magbenenfit din naman iba tulad kung maging engineer teacher, doctor, etc? tapos di niyo alam if may post partum blues si kris and obviously malayo to sa lifestyle or training niya as a celebrity.

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  35. Sa yaman ng asawa mo, di mo na kailangan magwork and rather stay at home muna in the meantime to take care of your baby. Babies need their mom on the early stage of postnatal. That is necessary for their develpment and nourishment but of course di nasusunod kasi may mga moms na kailangan bumalik na sa work or have to work for a living. Ang oa nito, parang kala nya sya lang nakaka experience nito.

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  36. 3 anak ko. no Yaya abroad kami. sacrifice having a kids in a good way. because you're watching them grow.

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  37. Ewan ko ha, pero tingin ko mababaw lang to for me. Oa lang tlga si Kris. Magtulungan na lang sila mag asawa, or baka ndi siya tinutulungan sa baby or gawain bahay kaya gumagawa na lang ng vid

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  38. I’m also a mother pero hindi ko kinukwenta ang pagod ko pagdating sa anak.

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  39. Pahelp ka sa mga lola ng anak mo

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  40. Hindi kasi pang aura aura lang yung magka baby.ano akala mo sa anak mo designer bag??? Tsaka parang hind ka naman sanay sa puyatan nung may career ka pa sa showbiz. Arte yarn?

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  41. My baby is just 4 months old pero natutulog sya 6-8 hours straight night until morning na yun. Sinasabayan ko sya matulog sa gabi. Sapat na tulog na din yun para sakin. During day time, while baby is napping gumagawa ako ng gawain bahay, kinakaya ko naman mag-isa. Focus ka lang muna kasi sa baby, saka na lakwatsya at pagpapaganda at sexy.

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    1. Good job momma

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    2. And wag rin ipriority mag soc med. Whats a few weeks na hindi udated.

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    3. 1:34 thank you. May enough sleep na ako, may time pa ako minsan magcomment dito. Time management lang and prioritize the baby first.

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  42. Nakakainis yung mga celebrities na kaka-anak lang eh feeling nila expert na sila at napaka-bida bida. Halata namang gusto lang ng endorsement deals dahil wala ng career.

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    1. True..gaya nyan pati pagpapaligo sa anak video p.hindi naisip na girl c baby.

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  43. Hala nka-ilang post na sha looking for a yaya. Wla bang nagtatagal sa kanila?

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  44. Tama na mga sissies…lalo mapupuyat c sis kris kakasagot sa mga comments nyo.

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  45. Aanak anak tapos rerekla reklamo. Touch some grass gurl. Mas maraming ina ang mas hirap pa kesa sayo

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    1. Hindi sya nagrereklamo. She's sharing the reality of motherhood. Kaya mga nanay napapabayaan to carry it all on their own eh, mga taong tulad mo. Ineexpect ng ibang tao na kayanin ng nanay ang lahat. When they should have a village behind them. Pregnancy, chidbirth and motherhood literally changes the brain. Dagdag mo pa lack of sleep. Kaya may mga nanay nababaliw.

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    2. 934AM and salbahe mo. wheres the empathy? madaming nagOOFW din pinili nila yun dapat ba imock sila pag nagstruggle? yung mga athletes who choose hard paths that bring honor to our country, will you mock them? support people and you may be supported too. naalala ko yung kwento ng top chess player na Pilipino, sabi niya, sa atin, kapwa mo Pinoy papabagsak sa yo. Pagkalipat na pagkalipat niya sa USA, ramdam niya yung gaan ng buhay ang daming support and community helping him get to no. 1 kaya tuloy umaasenso buhay sa ibang bansa, dito hindi. Keep it up, dadating ka din sa point you will experience weakness , whether ill health, or old age or motherhood mismo, you will reap what you sow. sow a culture of negativity and crab mentality you reap that. sow a culture of support you will reap it. di mo narearealize you spout out poison, you bveckme posion. ako reaction ko lagi is to help and to support any way i can except if taking advantage or exploiting so ganon din ako sa people around me i benefit kasi bumabalik talaga yung goodness you send out to the world. if there is anything ive learned mindset/attitude determines success the most. si kris, di mababawasan pagkataon nya sa pangbabash mo. pero ikaw?your venom is being internalized by your mind and heart.

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    3. 2:17 Kris , is that you? galit na galit? hahahahahaha Puso mo teh! Nasa FP ka oi, matuto kang makabasa ng comments na hindi sang ayon sa opinyon mo!

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  46. Omg kaawa awa naman sya. Sana makahanap na sya ng yaya para di sya napapagod mag alaga ng anak nya. Ayoko syang napupuyat.

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  47. It gets worse when the baby learns to walk. accident prone na yan. Dati wini wish namin sana makalakad na para di kami ng karga ng karga. mali ang akala namin.

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    1. Hahahahaha I feel you. Tas either they're up and running or sleeping. Walang in between.

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    2. Really?!? Omg sabi nila newborn stage is the hardest. But no, they lied! Mas mahirap ung 4 months where baby can’t crawl and sit yet, they demand more time and attention. Karga kami ng karga. 😭

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    3. 6:45 pm at least pag karga pwedeng nakaupo o kaya naka sling. Pag naglalakad malingat ka lang may kung anu anong ginagawa. Minsan harmless; minsan hassle na may ikakalat, iaabot, sisirain; minsan dangerous like aakyat kung saan saan or mga susubukan like daliri sa electric fan, saksak ng objuct sa outlet, etc. Be prepared and safety proof your home.

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    4. 1257AM oo tapos ultimo magcr ka tatakbo. kaya need bumili talaga yun play fence. wala ako non kaya hirap ako. tipong mid stream titigil mo cr break kasi kung san pumunta anak mo.

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  48. Isn’t that how motherhood and having a family should be? It doesn’t make you any special darling.

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  49. Ang OA, I have 2 kids and working full time, get over yourself! you wanted a family learn how you should live your life & deal with it.

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    1. Oa? the way you speak bakit nanay ba are NOT working full time? unless dala mo anak mo sa work mo you're both working full time. ano kala mo pagiging nanay is a walk in the park? if your kids are school age may bus kaya diyan. na safer. dito maghire ka ng driver pwede naman bus driver pero mahal na irresponsible pa dito. diyan transit system also works dito dare mo pa bus anak mo magisa? may yaya na nga dito kinikidnap or ninanakaw pa bata. iba yung nakaiwan anak mo di mawawala. sa pinas mga mahal na malls na nga, may yaya pa, ninanakaw mga bata. ang dami daming kwento dito nalingat nanay wala na baby niya sa stroller. foreigner with filipina mom. di kasi sanay sa mga modus...

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  50. Totoo naman sinasabi nya, kawawa naman sobrang busy. Nawala na tuloy yun fake nyang eyelashes

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  51. parang ginagawa na ni Kris na drama-rama yung paghahanap ng yaya 🥴 medyo oa na siya. and madami naman agencies for yayas diba.

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    1. yun agencies mismo loloko sa yo. papadala yaya tapos pag may naghahanap na bago kukunin yaya mo sa yo. kwento ng nga yaya ko yan. tinetext sila. i paid agency yearly fee to keep them from getting my yayas bec alam ko eto modus nila. kaya yayas ko have been with me decades. also agency fees were p10,000 to p15,000 nung panahon ko (no guarantee yan na matino makukuha mo) that was in early 2000s.magkano na kaya ngayon? maids sa mga kilala ko p10,000. yayas siguro p15,000 to p20,000? dati prominent fam na taga BSM p20k lang. walang sinabi sa sahod now ng mga yayas.mapili pa sa work yan.

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  52. Off tangent, but as we push for wider reach of education, alongside social media, yayas will become a rarity. Girls and women will be exposed to more opportunities and aspirations. And it'll be all for good.

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    1. yes, and by then ok lang magbabago yung services and lifestyles ng mga tao.

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    2. We live in the Philippines kaya malabo yan. Hindi ingrained sa kultura ang learning and public education is in such a sorry state. Kasambahay nga namin may domestic issues yung 15yo nya sa province and had to stop schooling. We said isama na yung kid dito samin para mabantayan na din nya at kami na bahala sa basic na gastusin (food, toiletries, etc) basta mag aral. In short all she has to do is study, ayaw mag aral and ayun, andito lang and no plan to enroll. 🙄

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  53. Ang haba ng mga reply ni “Kris” dun sa mga di naawa sakanya. Oh welcome to motherhood! May oras ka pa nga mag fake lashes and filter sa pic. And just in case you’d think na di ako nanay. I am a mom of 3 working 6 days straight sometimes. Living abroad, hubby and i worked our asses off. Di disposable lahat dito, di ka poor so im sure you have most of the stuff i had when my bubs were smaller.

    I had an easy life, had yaya until i left Pinas pero di ako nag reklamo na ako na lahat pati household chores when i got married and had kids. Di ko need ng trophy but my point is, kayanin mo. Walang yaya? So? Manood ka nga ng mga documentaries.. be thankful. Ewan.

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  54. daming mahadera dito. yun pa lang sabi nila na two sila magasawa tulungan. magtanong ka sa pinas ilang lalake nagaalaga talaga ng babies sa pinas. also yung 9 to 5pm na job mo, eh dito gigising mga nanay 7am if may work ka kasi magprepare ka pa.sa grabe ng traffic. ano ba kala mo ginagawa ng nanay na housewife dito? natutulog buong araw? mas madaming never ending work sa bahay kesa sa office hello. and yung office is a break from taking care of another human being totally dependent on you. if you can afford day care mayaman ka pa nga. and day cares diyan train the kids to care for themselves dito ulitmo preschool di man lang kaya magpotty training. dami pang utos. sa day care niyo ba madaming bring this bring that? dito lingo lingo o araw araw daming utos bring kung ano, cut this cut that. sa europe sila nagtrain ng ganyan iba CULTURE kasi nga may yaya lahat expectation so demanding lahat. dito ultimo pakain sa bata ikaw mismo magtrain. diyan alam ko day cares train them. dito maski may yaya ka, ikaw magtuturo sa yaya.

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  55. Welcome to parenthood. Ginusto mo yan. Hindi ka automatically entitled magka yaya. Thats life girl!

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