Wednesday, February 22, 2023

Insta Scoop: Sofia Andres Believes A Ring on Her Finger Is Not All in Her Relationship with Daniel Miranda

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191 comments:

  1. Tulak ng bibig, kabig ng dibdib. The fact na ang haba ng explanation nya means kabaligtaran yan. She’s bothered.

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    1. Dahil kasi sa mga katulad mo!

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    2. she can convince the people but not herself

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    3. Wag niyo na kasi pakialaman. Masyado kasi kayong abangers sa pagpapakasal niya. Ikakaginhawa ba ng buhay niyo ang pagpapakasal nilang dalawa? Lol

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    4. Maayadong invested kasi ang mga Mosang na ito sa relationship status ni Ate mo gurl. Kaya naapektuhan na din siya

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    5. 12:31 Wala naman nag-aabang ikasal si Sofia. Her story happened to be posted dito sa FP kaya napansin; otherwise, Hindi siya maalala.

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    6. 9:10 stop being rude. Hindi na uso ang makitid na utak. She doesn’t have anyone to answer to most especially not you

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    7. to be honest eto yung mga nakakarinding tanong kasi specially sa mga babae. kelan kayo papakasal or bat wala pa kayong anak. realtalk

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    8. No, she’s taking the space to let people know how she feels on top of the pressure of people wanting for to get married, separate, and or social media. Sad if you see it otherwise. For me, it’s refreshing that they’re not pretending to be all happy all the time - just like most relationships are.

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    9. Ok na gurl Libre naman mangarap kahit gising. Wag na in denial

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    10. Ok girl, whatever makes you sleep at night.

      Ito naman kasing mga maritess na ito, talaga bang tanungin about kasalan?! In this day and age, hindi rason ang may anak para magpakasal!

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    11. 4:16 diba! Tapos pag 1 ang anak, kailan susundan. Jusko, kanya kanya yan.

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    12. 9:10 and 11:54 Andami nyong alam, bravo!🙄 You’re the ones who sound bitter, yung ayaw pag may masaya. To me, she sounds and feels at peace. Peace, for those lucky enough to feel it, feels like it overflows and you want others to feel it too, kaya I think siya napasulat and wanted to share. It’s not for narrow-minded people like you and your kind.

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  2. That means Daniel is not ready yet to tie the knot with her. Or not planning. Iba-iba ang tao, even Sofia. A a woman herself, she's waiting for Daniel to ask for it. Yun kasi ang pangarap ng karamihan sa mga babae, if not all.

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    1. Oo nga. On Sofia's case she's like "May anak na tayo so ano pang inaantay mo?"

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    2. Pls don't generalize

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    3. yun ang pangarap ng bawat baby momma. hindi lang inaamin, pero plastic lang magsasabing hindi

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    4. but you see, life is not a fairytale wherein after tying the knot, you keep the guy. Marami pa rin nagpapa annul, divorce , nangangaliwa. A wedding is not an assurance. Yes, it is just a contract. Maybe a contract to protect your rights.

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    5. 12:47 wag mo lahatin. Ako hindi ko pinangarap na pakasalan ng tatay ng anak ko. Hindi lahat pinanganak na partner. Hindi din lahat pinanganak na maging magulang. Kaya wag kang maalam pa sa may katawan. Hindi porke yun ang pangarap mo e pangarap na din ng iba. Mamagaling to. Oo gigil ako. Feeling mo kasi.

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    6. 1247 sorry talaga pero hindi lahat :)

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    7. 1:19 mas marami pa rin gusto kasal and in fairness mas marami nag ste-stay unti death do us part, if it's the right person.

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    8. Hindi lahat ng baby momma gustong makasal sa dad ng anak nila. I got pregnant nung 16 lang ako and until now no regrets na di ako nagpakasal sakaniya. He’s good for nothing basically, mas maayos buhay namin ng anak ko without him.

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    9. 12:47 hindi naman nya nilahat ah.

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    10. 12:47 hindi rin. Super happy ako sa career ko kaya nung nag propose yung husband ko 1st time, l I rejected him. At that time gusto ko pa kumuha ng postgrad degree. 2nd time, I thought, why not, nothing will change naman, just the status. I never felt different after I married. Walang “omg this is it!!”

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    11. Mas pangarap ko pa kumain ng masasarap na desserts without getting fat pls lang hahahah

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    12. Yung mga nag comment na najontis pero ayaw pakasal sa mga baby daddy, di nyo man lang ba naisip na ni-matali sa tao na yun, hindi nyo kaya. Tapos ginawa nyo pang ama ng mga anak nyo? I mean...poor kids.

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    13. 10:45 it’s the same as “n” years na tayo, andami nang na invest na time, kelan nga ba magpapakasal. Sad no? Parang sa lalake nakasalalay kung kasalan ba talaga ang ending ng mga couple.

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    14. 1:16 poor u for being judgmental. people like are whats wrong with the world.

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    15. 2.00 Do you mean to say you did not wish to be married to the father of your child from the very beginning? Come on! Nobody will believe that. - not 12.47

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    16. 12:47 and 1:16: Pooooor you! Be all and end all nyo ang kasal.

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    17. Same sentiments with 9:55. Brainwashed sila 12:47 and 1:16 na yun ang ultimate goal in life.

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  3. bat parang labas sa ilong haha nagpaparinig na si ate gurl.

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    1. Mahina comprehension mo.

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    2. The fact that she needs to say it means it means something to her. Pwede namang hindi end all and be all ang kasal for her, but its still important. Hindi pa lang dumadating ang chance. Baka ganon…

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  4. Halatang walang ginagawa sa buhay yung mga ganito kahaba mag caption noh?

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    1. Yep, nagaantay lang talaga hahaha

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    2. She’s a mom. Nakakapagod kaya mag alaga ng bata and at the same time maging partner.

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    3. Though I agree with what S said on her IG, I doubt pagod sya kay Z...of course may pagod rin but you’re forgetting she has a nanny to help her take care of Z and also household help to clean the house

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    4. @12.58 Mayaman yan. Maraming katulong. Trust me hindi yan pagod

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    5. At 12:58 grabe nmn yung nakakapagod magalaga ng anak at maging partner.. sa yaman niya malamang may yaya yan, di rin kailangan magkayod kalabaw ang lola mo

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    6. Bat ang daling manghusga ng mga tao ngayon? I know some rich people, hindi man natin sila katulad ng problema sa buhay pero may mga problems at sacrifices din sila. Wag niyo na din ikumpara kung sino ang mas nahihirapan, may papremyo ba? Wala naman di ba? Let’s just be happy pag may nakikita tayong masaya, sobrang dami ng problema sa mundo, hindi lang singsing ang mahalaga sa bawat tao. Nabuntis ako bago ikasal pero kung hindi lang complicated sa family and legal matters, AYOKONG MAGPAKASAL kahit sobrang love namin ang isa’t isa ng partner ko, kaya wag niyong pangunahan ang kahit sino, kung sakali man pangarap ni Sofia ang ikasal and waiting siya sa partner niya, hindi niyo ba naiisip kung gano niyo siya nilulublub sa depression everytime nagcocomment kayo ng masama? Ano bang naaachieve niyo kung madown ang isang tao? Actually para sa lahat to, kahit sa mga kapitbahay o kaibigan niyo, wag pong assuming lagi at wag paladesisyon sa buhay ng iba. Maraming tao ang hirap na hirap ng humanap ng rason para mabuhay pa, please be sensitive.

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    7. May MGA yaya yan.. as in MGA

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    8. 3:17 and 4:46 and sino kayo to invalidate her? Alam nyo kilos at routine nya sa bahay? Sure kayo hindi sya napapagod? Buhay prinsesa?

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    9. Observation/opinion ang tawag dun hindi judgment 7.10

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    10. 9:19 Wala ka lang talent magsulat, sus! To be able to cohesively write what you feel is a joy in and of itself.

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  5. Convince yourself girl. Keep going, almost there, getting close!

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    1. true 9:20. kawawa naman sya. bat naman kasi may papost pang ganyan c ateng. napaghahalata tuloy. hihi. naku realtalk lng tayo sofia, mas iba pa rin pag may ring. chuserang froglet.

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    2. Why so nega? The post is full of positivity.

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    3. 9:20, 9:10 Siya pa kawawa sa lagay na yan? Kahit di siya pakasalan ng sampung Daniel Miranda, I bet mas exciting buhay ni Sofia that both of yours combined.

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    4. 9.20 Whether you convince yourself or not the door for marriage is not up to you. I think she knows this and she accepted it.

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  6. Ok in short the guy is not ready since he hasn’t proposed.

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  7. Looks like you’re just convincing yourself and seeking validation.

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    1. Baks malay namin natin nga its not about the ring but the perks that comes with it. *kaching

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    2. designer bags.. travel here and there?

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  9. Sana di na lang sya nag explain. Kasi if you’re truly happy it will show naman. And usually yung mga quiet sila yung OK. but then again remember… humans are not designed to be happy.. we are designed to survive and reproduce 😉

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    1. Peg ko dyan si Sara Labahati. Never nagparinig or naginarte na pakasalan na sya ni Richard

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    2. Yayks ignorant statement. lumang belief system na yung last statement mo girl

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    3. 12:48 why naman? Kung 2 kayo sa relationship 2 kayo dapat magdedecide sa next step sa relationship nio, hindi ung maghihintay ka lang kung kailan ready na yung lalaki. Baka sa case ni SL hindi nya din gaanun kagusto pa mahpakasal dati.

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  10. Ang haba ng hanash ni Sofia. 😂

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  11. Gusto ni girl na makasal na pero si boy d pa sure kay girl.

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    1. may prenup naman din.

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    2. how old pa pala c boy? is the girl older ba?

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    3. 10:04, this year mag 28 na si boy si Sofia mag 25 age wise pwede na sila.

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    4. hala mas older pala si boy?! akala ko c girl mas older

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  12. Happy for them. Ewan ko nga din kung may sense pa maging legal wife dito sa Philippines kung ang laws naman is so unfair sa mga misis and mga bata. And Sana palagi soft na ganyan yun mukap ni Sofia, she looks fresh and pretty.

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  13. She’s trying to pacify herself for not having the ring upto now, ayaw ni guy magpakasal un na un, iba pa rin ang kasal lalo na may anak kayo, iba yung may pinanghahawakan ka ano man mangyari kay Daniel

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    1. Nagssave face sya sa madla na okay ako masaya ako sa status namin, promise cross my heart

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    2. 2023 na 9:46 pero ganyan ka pa rin mag isip. Hindi nadedefine ang relasyon sa kung gaano katagal kayo magkasama, sa kasal o sa proposal. Case in point nalang si Tom at Carla lol

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  14. Daming hanash. Don’t us! Daniel haven’t proposed yet that’s all. Be real for once gurrrl.

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    1. Nega ka na nga wrong grammar pa.

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  15. Marriage one of the worst decision
    The guy is young naku kumukulo pa ang dugo nyan mag explore since unplanned ang pregnancy mo

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  16. Marriage one of the worst decision
    The guy is young naku kumukulo pa ang dugo nyan mag explore since unplanned ang pregnancy mo

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  17. Subtle pressure kay guy oy!!

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    1. Either ma-pressure si guy and ask for her hand or walk (or run) away!

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  18. Yikes! Kakahiya sa family ni guy. Why the need to post such?

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    1. Both sides. Hindi dahil mayaman si guy. Talagang bata pa si Sofia kaya hindi nagiisip ng kung ano dapat ang ipost and not.

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    2. True. Di na nahiya sa alta fam ng bf nya

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    3. Baka ma markahan syang red flag ng mga Miranda-Lhuillier if she’ll continue with that attitude

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    4. 11:34 hindi na yan bata. She should know better by now

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    5. Kaya nga, yung future sis in law naman ni Daniel never nag ganyan ganyan sa social media.

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    6. hindi na yan bata mamsh late 20s na si girl

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  19. If it doesn’t bother you or it doesn’t matter to you, you wouldn’t spend time talking about it. It is okay to want, to ask, to demand.

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    1. uthfully she is sound pathetic na. Why are you explaining to the world. Nagtrigger yan nung nagpropose ung kapatid ni Daniel. Mega tantrums si ate mo. The more you are pressuring the guy believe me the more will not marry you. If you are confident about love either romantic, filial and so so you will not explain to the workd. Who cares!

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    2. valid accla. kaso tingnan mo hanash ng mga mosang, haha. dami din hanash na insecure, overexplaining. di alam saan lulugar.

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  20. Is she trying to convince herself on not having a ring yet

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    1. Sa true! We have a friend na sinasabi ayaw nya pakasal kasi bata pa daw sya pero in reality kasi kabit sya and nakikipaglive in sa isang legally married guy but separated. The guy has the money to do annulment but it seems hes bit prioritizing it. Nauna pa ung kakilala namin magprosess ng annulmeny kasi gusto na talagang kumawala. Painful and hard lesson to swallow: Ladies if the guy wants to do it he will no buts! If he will out a ring on it as early as knowing you for a month he will! Look at chris and alodia. Anyway go lang sofia keep telling yourself that

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    2. Who needs enemies when you have a friend like 1:47? Alam ba ng “friend” mo that you call her “kabit”?

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    3. 147 agree! Jusko, lalo na personal mo maririnig ang mga ganyang paeklat na kesyo hindi nagmamadali ikasal kasi busy pa sa buhay, when in reality eh wala nman tlagang balak yung guy. As in makikita mo sa mukha na nag eexpect nman tlaga at bitter sa mga nauna sa kanilang na engage. 😂

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  21. Ok whatever floats your boat Sofia.

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  22. I think she's insecure.

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  23. so it's like a parinig post na you should marry me Daniel na parang hindi! hahaha! she's pressuring the guy. let things flow naturally, kung kayo kayo and kung hindi oh edi stay happy with your kid and love urself more,yun yun!

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  24. Parang di naman namen tinatanong. Nag assume ka lang tinatanong ka Sofia. You don't need to explain.

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    1. Di tinatanong pero alam niya. Avid reader siya dito sa FP. Haha

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    2. Mukha nga baks 11:46. Mukhang nababasa nga siya. Note to myself nya yata yanm trying to convince myself I am okay HAHAHA. With subtle parinig kay BF

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  25. Sa case nila na financially stable, kung gusto ay may paraan, pag ayaw may dahilan.

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  26. Kung di kaya ng isa mag commit, medyo nakakatakot. Minsan kasi tinotolerate na lang kasi wala ng magawa…

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  27. Ang bastos lang din kase ng mga marites sa Pinas na isyo pa rin to. While I believe in marriage, it’s just inappropriate to ask people when are they getting married. Same din sa question na kelan ka magbubuntis or kelan ka mag aasawa.
    Look at Carla A. , married pero wala pang isang taon hiwalay na kaagad.

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  28. Sa haba ng caption, weh? Pakatotoo nalang kasi, ok lang naman. Ang dating kasi nagpaparinig e.

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  29. The first sentence on the third paragraph says it all. "Don't worry, I know that the time will come". So umaasa ka nga. Wait mo na lang talaga. Hahaha

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  30. Sina Aubrey Miles nga at hubby nya tagal bago nakasal. Pero all these years they've been so devoted, only to each other, as husband & wife. Wala man sa papel. Sana si Sofia mabigyan lalo ng guidance & discernment para maging happy within kahit anong sabihin ng ibang tao

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    1. Also Sarah and Richard Gutz. May anxiety yata si Sofia. 😅 For sure todo flaunt yan pag may ring.

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  31. Girl is looking for validation. Alam namin pressured ka. Pray lang, malay mo

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  32. Dahan dahan Sofia, ikaw din. Matulad ka kay MW. Di porket may anak at pinakasalan akala mo yun na yun.

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  33. What if ikaw na lang ang mag propose hahaha malay mo

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  34. Bhieee, di ka namin tinatanong. Nag aasume ka lang dahil bitter ka when the bro of Daniel proposed to Ella. Tapos sayo, di napopropose si guy eh mas matagal ata relationship niyo kesa sa kapatid ni Daniel. Seriously, why post kung ka bothered. Girl, wag kami. Hahaha. Halatang sinuyo ka ni Daniel because sumama loob mo na di sayo nag propose?

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  35. "May anak na tayo, bat di pa tayo magpakasal kase?" - Sofia

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    1. Sa pagkahaba habang sinabi, ito talaga yung TLDR lol

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  36. If it's meant to be, it will be.

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  37. nakakhiya to cringeee hahaha

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  38. Haba ng sinabi. Parang wala naman nagtanong.

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  39. grabe kayo kay mareng sofia!!! maka-invalidate kayo ng feelings ng kapwa natin babae sobra!

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  40. Be real sofia, nabuntis ka, wala sa plan nyong DALAWA yan, you're young and the guy is also young nasa 20s pa lang kayo pareho, the guy is young and rich kung ako din e ang dami pa pwede magawa at makilala, yung nangyari sa inyo is gf bf stage pa lang na nagka baby di naman kayo long term bf gf engaged na level pars magpa kasal agad

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    1. si sarah lahbati sobrang patient at finally naging mrs, gutierrez din.
      ganun din si sophie albert. who knows? maybe sofia will be part of the lhuillier clan eventually. dapat diyan iron-clad prenup na nakafile sa tamang lugar! hehe

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    2. 11:05 sa lahat ng comments dito, sa iyo yung pinaka nasa realidad lang

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  41. Diko binasa. Basta atleast hindi pa sakal si guy .. uhm uhm....nom nom

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  42. Confidence is silent. Insecurities are loud.

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  43. who wouldnt feel bad and insecure in her shoes? who wouldn't want a commitment of forever, a tangible one I mean? Who wouldn't want to say yes if asked? Who wouldn't want to hear the words will you marry me? But reality is, we have to wait. Patiently wait. Count our blessings and don't let the immature guys feel pressured. Who are we to say man up and put a ring on it?

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  44. I think insecure lang to kase wala pa sha ring, so she’s convincing herself na its ok. Yun nga kapatid ni Daniel engaged na, so it really matters talaga. Although may point sha, di naman basehan yun kung mahal sha or hinde. Pero di ko alam bat yung vibes na nakukuha ko from her post is iba. Not sincere, more on pasaring sa mga nagtatanong sakanya bat dipa sha pinapakasalan.

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    1. I agree! And understandable naman. If i were in her shoes, maiinsecure din ako if my brother’s baby daddy got engaged before me na may anak na. i think part din yan kaya sila nagka problem (nag break?) recently

      And yes iba nga ang vibes. Trying to save face i guess. I bet if daniel proposed this instant, yes agad si girl hahaha

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    2. *** baby daddy’s brother haha
      -2:18

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  45. Yeah, keep telling yourself that, Sofia.

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  46. Wag na muna kayong magpakasal kung di pa talaga kayo ready. As long na mabuti kayong parents that’s what matters. Ang mga sawsawerang NEGAtizens ganun lang yan, tatanungin kelan kayo magpapakasal at kapag kasal na tatanungin kung kelan maghihiwalay. Hayyy

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  47. Easy easy lang naman mga ka fp ✌️
    At least nag mature naman ang mindset ni Ateng Sofia

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  48. i think Sofia isnt happy but she needs to constantly count her blessings and remind herself that it is ok not to have a ring.my interpretation of her post is more like a message to her daughter. that it is ok even if she doesnt have a ring as long as she is able to keep their family together to keep the guy present in their lives. What is the point of pressuring the guy if that will just push him away because clearly, he isnt ready to take that leap. I always believe that love is hard work, love is a commitment that no matter how tough the situation is, you will stick with each other. You may not know what the future holds but that trust and commitment to make it work will give you the courage to take that leap. Soo I hope people cut Sofia some slack, the pressure should be on the guy. It is not her fault that guy isnt ready to make the leap despite all the sexy time he did.

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  49. Girl we dont need that lengthy explanation, it’s obvious that you are pretty much bothered.

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  50. Andaming bashers dito. Ok na yung d muna pakasal. Dami jan naghihiwalay lang din after ilang buwan after they get married.

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  51. As someone who's not married, gets ko siya. Pero sana quiet na lang kasi syempre maraming masasabi mga tao.

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  52. I’m actually more curious who composed her lengthy caption.

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    1. lol, baks why? hindi pa mukhang siya ang nagsulat?

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  53. Convince yourself more, Sofia. Malay mo naman, kundi ka marinig ni Daniel baka yung Universe marinig ka. Kapit lang.

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  54. The design is very manifesting. Hehe

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  55. Hypocrite. At one point, in every girls life, pinangarap natin yung makasal muna bago ang pagbubuntis at kapag may baby na kayo mas lalo kang maghahangad na ikasal na kayo. Unless nalang kung parehas kayong walang pera at hindi nyo pa talaga priority yun dahil ang dami nyong ibang gastusin pa.

    Sa situation nila, parehas naman silang nakakaalwan lalo na si Daniel pero wala pa ding kasalan.
    1.) Either hindi nila napag usapan ng maayos yan nung nagbubuntis pa si girl. Ang priority is si baby hanggang nasanay na si boy na ganon ang set up.
    2.) Namanhikan na ang parents pero napakiusapan ang side ni babae na wala munang kasal dahil nag aaral pa si boy.
    3.) Ayaw pa talaga ni boy at suportado ng parents sa decision niya na yun dahil di rin bet ang magiging daughter in law.

    For me, yun lang yun. Pampalubag loob nya nalang yan. Yung kapatid nga kasal/ikakasal na ata tas sila na me baby na, ni kahit fiancee eh hindi pa din ata. Walang duda sa pagmamahal niyan sa anak. Unang apo pa ata yan kaya for sure, mahal na mahal yan. Ikaw lang ata ang sabit sa equation, girl. Hahahah chz

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  56. Hindi ba? Di ba and happy boy na parang nag hiwalay sila? Di ba you were putting her down when Daniel’s brother proposed? That will make anyone feel pressured even Daniel not just Sofia! Why can’t y’all be happy for anyone?!!

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  57. Nag propose kasi brother ni guy sa girlfriend pero silang may anak na wala pa rin.

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  58. Ang bata pa ni Daniel. Parang si Joaquin D. din lang na di pa sigurado. What can you expect, they haven’t finished sowing their wild oats yet. To be realistic, baka in 10 years wala na sila, o baka naman she’s like Mylene D. na very independent at ayaw ikasal?

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  59. Hirap talaga dito sa Pilipinas. Yung ideology ginagamit against sa iba. As if ang perfect ng buhay nila. Hindi pinapakasalan, down yung babae, bakit kelangan pa insultuhin? Wala ba sa kamag anak mo ang unmarried mother? For a country na nag aask ng better goverment, sana be a better and compassionate people din.

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    1. She’s the one being hypocrite by posting that. Nag rereact lang naman ang mga tao sa pinost nya PUBLICLY.

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    2. truth. saka hindi naman dahil kasal, perfect na yun. mas marami nga nagloloko pagkatapos. nakakatakot din para sa babae. no need ipilit.

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    3. The comments are too harsh. Akala mo naman ang gaganda ng buhay nila kumpara sa buhay ni Sofia. Hello?! Kung ako ganyan kaganda at ka luxurious ang buhay at me super cute na anak, ano pa hihilingin ko?! Kaya dapat wag syang ma bother sa sinasabi ng iba.

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    4. 2:58 tell that to sofia. duh!

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    5. 2:58 a ring on my finger. 😊

      Actually, two rings. Engagement and wedding ring, signifying that the father of my child wants to commit to me for the rest of his life.

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  60. She sounds defensive, masyado kasing kinain ng influencer lifestyle si girl at too concered with what people think of her. She should toughen up and understand that her man is still young and not ready for marriage yet.

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  61. Kapit lang Sofia, baka next year ikaw nman. But enough na with this hanash kasi ang haba at usually kapag ganito, bothered ka tlaga.

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  62. Grabe ang nega nyo naman mga classmates. Mahalaga masaya silang pamilya.

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  63. Naguluhan ako sa thoughts ni ate gurl. Sinimplehan na lang nya sana. Sofia, you don't owe anybody an explanation. When you're happy it will show. Don't mind the opinion of other people. What they think about you does not define who you are. Pursue whatever it is that makes you happy.

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  64. Naku ha, nag paparinig na si girl. May anak na kasi, so kasal na talaga kulang kaso si guy masyado pa bata so baka di pa talaga ready matali. For sure gusto pa nyan mag explore sa pagiging young nya, naipit lang dahil sa unexpected pregnancy.

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  65. Na trigger nanaman si ate 2nd time around... I saw Nicole A on her ig reels nandun si ate sophia sa bachelorette nung vern influencer.. siguro na feel nnamn nya na kailngan nya i validate feelings sya towards kasal.

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  66. Triggered nnaman si ate kasi umattend sya nung bridal shower ni vern... bakit daw hindi pa sya next

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  67. The context of this post is... napressure si mareng Sofia when Daniel's brother proposed kaya sila nag away for a time. But she soon realized na it would still be worth her time to wait for a proposal since she has much to gain from it if ever, so pasensiyahan nalang kay Daniel. It's obvious naman she's convincing herself and the public there are plenty of good reasons to wait. Kakasabi lang nya she shouldn't address it but she did LOL

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  68. Okay na yan mahirap maging Maggie Wilson the second

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  69. parang yung mga babae na sinasabi na ayaw daw nila ng flowers pag valentines pero kaya lang pala sinasabi yun kasi di naman nakakatanggap haha

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  70. Funny how Sofia puts the pressure on him by this post

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  71. If I know di pa sila pwede ikasal kasi masusukob sa kapatid ni Daniel. Wag nega!

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    1. May point,pero engaged pa naman not sure when date ng wedding nila kaya pwede pa.

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  72. We all know that it still matters.

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  73. The design is very nag paparinig. Haha! Then what’s stopping him? He’s done with school already, he’s rich enough to settle down with family. Mahal na mahal naman niya si Sofia (Feel ko lang), she’s close to his family. Yun nalang talaga kulang, si guy lang may ayaw

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  74. Note to self ang dating. Yung tipong sarili niya kinukumbinsi niya. You don’t owe anyone an explanation kung feeling mo secured ka.

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  75. Mahirap naman kasi sagutin ang tanong na kailan ka or kailan kayo magpapakasal kung ikaw mismo eh hindi tinatanong ng BF mo.

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  76. "He still hasn't put a ring on it so blah, blah, blah."

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    1. It’s because of people like you that she feels the need to explain

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    2. 4:38pm Basically yun naman ang gist ng sinabi na mareng Sofia.

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  77. Ahh galing pala sa bridal shower kaya nag tantrums nanaman. Parang yung time na nag propose brother ni Daniel sa gf, tantrums din sya.

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  78. Tingin ko naman siya na yung the one nung guy.

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  79. I feel bad for her.

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  80. It sounds like he loves her naman, but she's not "the one". If she was, it would have been an easy choice considering there's a baby na.

    Prepare yourself Sofia.

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  81. I don't like her pero bigla akong naawa kay Sofia sa post na 'to.

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  82. Are you trying to convince the ppl following you or those who will read your post, or yourself?

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  83. bka nman dw ksi mabasa to ni guy at marealize na pkasalan siya. girls have that tendency na kinkimkim naten ung nramramdamn ntn or hinanakit towards our partner to the point that we cant take it anymore at ayan ngpost ka ng mala novelang caption. bka si guy is laid back lng ayaw muna mgpakasal.

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  84. The message is clear.

    She wants to get married but Daniel
    is not ready so she needs to be happy with their current arrangement.

    I don’t think may nanay na hindi gustong maging asawa. Kung talaga ngang happy sya, hindi ganito kahaba ang post.

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  85. In 5 years girl, kung hindi pa siya mag propose, ikaw na lang mag propose kay daniel ok lang naman yun.

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  86. The amount of hate for Sofia of the nega commenters here. I’ll bet 90% of them are women too. Ano bang kasalanan nya sa Inyo?

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  87. This is painful to read. This is one of those na it's best to keep quiet...

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  88. May cousin ako na ganito situation. Lalake unh cousin ko at naawa ako sa girl kasi ayaw tlga s kanya ng tita at tito ko. Sabi ng Tita ko never nilang ipapakasal anak nla s Kanya. 5yo na ang Bata d pa din sila Kasal. Mostly dependent din kc ang pinsan ko s parents nya at mama's boy. Sila pa din ng girl pro d pa din Kasal and no plans at all daw. So wait lng ba c guy na c girl mag give up?

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  89. For me lang, it's better not to get married. If I can go back in time, I won't get married at all. Learned this after years of being married and feeling like there's no way out.

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  90. Para sa mga mahihilig mag hanash A ring on your finger does not impose LOVE, TRUST, SECURITY OR ASSURANCE. A ring on your finger is still and will always be just something to symbolize an emotion at a present state. Marriage is not even about the present emotions you gather for that person. It is way more complicated that you think. Being married is a life sentence and that is true. You are completely tied to that person for life and it can be debilitating. One can lose its sense and wit and at times it can lead to worst consequences that just losing your values and principles. That's why before getting married THINK HARD...HARDER...HARDEST if you must and it is a MUST.

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    1. Totoo! Marriage is overrated. It demands you stay together because you are legally tied, but it never assures love and respect. Papel lang talaga ang kasal. Wala sa pinirmahan kung anong klaseng pakikitungo ang magaganap sa loon ng kasal. I think it is very SMART of the couple not to rush into it. Everyone should not rush into it, kesehodang may anak na.

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  91. bakit ba kasi kasal lagi ang basehan? yes it's the right thing to do, kasal muna bago ang lahat pero applicable pa ba sa panahon ngayon na parang ang dali makalimot ng vow? i was married, then nagka-anak but eventually iniwan ng asawa after makita ng ex k ang responsibility ng pagaasawa. ayun boom! umalis.

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    1. For me di naman. Altho marami dito sa FP na mukhang traditional. Pero si Sofia din kasi, mukhang atat at sabik sa singsing.

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    2. Mas safer kasi in terms of legality. You are entering a contract with another person na legally recognized. Mas madaling ienforce kesa sa common law partner.

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  92. bata ka pa Sofia. enjoy mo lang at wag pa pressure. what matter is nandyan anak mo at supported ka ng partner mo. you don't need a ring/ wedding kung ok naman kayo. be contented with what you have. yung iba nga dyan, wife nga pero battered naman or kasal nga pero babaero naman yung husband. be patient and know your worth.

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  93. Agree ako sa commenter who read this as, this isn't Sofia's ideal situation BUT she is willing to accept the current arrangement because that's the cards she was dealt. And honestly a potential marriage to Daniel in the future is still a better outcome for her than meeting someone new. Yun nga lang, she meant this post to parang address the marites but because her English isn't too good, naging dead giveaway na sarili niya yung kinoconvince niya.

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  94. Getting married is a commitment. It is hard work yes but it shows also the importance the guy puts into the relationship- that he will be there through thick and thin. And it also protects their child legally. Kaya para sa mga nagsasabi na hindi basehan ang singsing, syempre hindi talaga. A ring is just a ring and importante is yun kasal, giving the girl your love and commitment and recognizing her as an official member of the family. Kung hindi importante ang pagpapakasal, bakit ikakasal un kapatid ng lalaki. Why can his brother take the leap at siya hindi. Kung ikaw ang babae, mahuhurt ka talag, you will ask yourself, bakit ano pa ba ang kulang. I know a lot of people will say its just a piece of paper, well yes, a very powerful piece of paper that gives you the right to protect your family and your assets.

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