Monday, December 26, 2022

FB Scoop: Andrew Schimmer Advises to 'Give Everything and Anything for Love'


Images courtesy of Facebook: John Andrew Schimmer

51 comments:

  1. magtira din para sa sarili lalo na kung di pa kasal. mahirap pag binigay lahat lahat, nakakasira ng mental health.

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    1. Case to case basis naman yan. Ang sinasabi niya mabuhay ng walang regrets kung maari. Eh kung nakatagpo ka ng manloloko eh ibang usapan naman un.

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    2. yun nga ine explain nya, na regrets and words left unsaid are also bad for your mental health. Kung mahal mo partner mo dont forget to say "i love you" everyday, dont wait dahil nakakasira din ng bait magsisi sa huli.

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    3. Ang sinasabi niya ay kung mahal mo ay ipakita mo ang pagmamahal.

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    4. It doesn’t matter kung kasal sila or hindi. May mga kasal nga diyan na hindi close sa isat isa.

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  2. magtira ng pagmamahal sa sarili.

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  3. I knew it, he has regrets, its the same reason i still havent moved on from the death of my father because of those regrets. Coz after someone is gone, you'll suddenly understand and realize things...hindi talaga maiiwasan kasi tao lang pero yung guilt kasi dumadagdag ng sobra sa pain.

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    1. I lost my Father too and I made him proud in every way. But there were still some regrets no matter what. They say you will always have regret when you loves ones.

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    2. True. Ang hirap. Ako naman, There were things i could have done for my mother when she was sick. now i can’t have her forgiveness na. Regrets makes grieving so hard. Ang sakit na nga, ang bigat pa sa loob.

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    3. Lahat naman tayo ay may regrets kapag namatayan tayo ng mahal sa buhay. Masakit talaga at ang hirap maging masaya kapag may mga okasyon dahil may kulang palagi.

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    4. I can relate to this. When i lost my mother last yr, daming regrets. And you'll carry them forever.

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    5. Same, ilang years ng patay daddy ko, regrets khit maliit na mga pangyayari, bagay, hindi k na maibabalik yun.. Sana habang buhay pa ang tao, give it all mo, lalo na sa mga taong mahal mo..

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  4. I respect that he is grieving, pero everyday may post. Mute muna dude

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    1. Dude nakakatulong yan sa kanya to cope. Pati ba naman madalas pag post masama para sayo.

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    2. The prob is on you. That's his way to cope tas gusto mo pa ipa-mute, sino ka?

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    3. San ang respect sa comment mo?

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    4. Ganyan din pinsan ko, namatay kapatid nya maya't maya post. Siguro ganun ang way nila na mai release ang lungkot na nararamdaman nila. Hayaan mo na. Hindi ka naman nape perwisyo ng post nya eh

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    5. he needs the views pa rin.

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    6. Bastos mo naman. Pwede mo naman iignore ang post nya or di mo inopen ang link nito sa fp

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    7. Shut up and mind your own business. Kapag ikaw namatayan wag kang magpopost lol

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    8. Coping mechanism niya accla.

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    9. If you genuinely respect, sana hindi mo na binanatan.

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    10. Mas marunong ka pa sa kanya kung paano siya mag-cope.

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    11. Iba iba po tayo ng coping mechanism and that’s how he cope. Recently lang din kami namatayan kaya I understand him.

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    12. Thats how he copes. Let him be.

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    13. Iba iba ng coping, wag mong pangunahan. I have a friend na ganyan din kasi hindi sya umiiyak sa madaming tao hindi nya maexpress gusto nya sabihin pero palagi syang nagpopost sa social media nun namtay asawa nya t young age din. Let them be, baka ganun sila mag-cope. Wala naman pumupilit sayo basahin un post tapos rereklamo ka.

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    14. What about you unfollow him

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    15. He felt better there, everyone is different let him cope that way

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    16. It may not be the right thing to do but that's his way of coping eh. Ang sana lang hindi niya sinasama yung wife niya inside the casket. Kasi it can be disturbing for other people

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    17. Minute mo na sana. Wala ka ng sinabi. Alam mo naman grieving yung tao. Gosh makabash lang talaga mga tao

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    18. Or kung hindi kaya, kahit iprivate muna nya para sya lang nakakabasa ng mga posts nya.

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    19. It's his way of coping. Hayaan mo sya.

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    20. 10:43, puwedeng mag-skip ang ibang tao ng posts nila kung nadi-disturb sila. Kung iyan ang way niyang mag-handle ng situation niya, let him be.

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    21. Panay kayo cope cope nung walang socmed di nkkcope mga tao?

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    22. 2:08, ikaw rin, noong wala kang cell phone at internet, ano ang ginagawa mo kapag may gusto kang kausapin at alamin? Ganoon pa rin dapat ang gawin mo ngayon.

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  5. Ang masasabi ko lang be strong for your kids at take care of yourself
    I can see the kids they look relieved at at peace, mahirap makita ang mahal sa buhay na nahihirapan

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  6. Different strokes for different folks. May mga tao na hindi vocal dinadaan na lang sa gawa. Hindi lahat pare parehas kaya tigilan na rin natin mag advise sa iba. Yung iba hanggang salita lang walang action.

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  7. Now, he can finally give time to care of himself. He has done beyond because of love. Too rare for someone who can do such in a span of a year. His body shows that he is bot healthy and that death is just an inch for himself. Goodness! It’s about time for his well being.

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  8. Pause muna sa social media. Grieve in private na lang. Mas rerespetuhin ka ng mga tao. My two cents lang

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    1. Mas importante na mag-cope siya sa paraan na gusto at kaya niya, hindi para sa ibang tao.

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    2. Marunong ka pa sakanya. Saksak mo sa dibdib mo ung two cents mo.

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    3. Sa tingin mo naghahanap sya ng validation and respect from people at this point? You can keep your two cents.

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    4. Wala kang pake sa gusto nyang gawin, nakikibasa ka lang

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  9. Hindi pala sila kasal

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    1. It doesn't matter kung kasal o hindi. Kapag mahal mo ay mahal mo.

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    2. Just stating a fact baks. No need to be defensive. Obvious naman na mahal nya.

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  10. Tama advise niya. I have a lot of regrets for not showing my loved ones how much I love them. Now, that I have my own family, I make sure to freely express my love for them.

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  11. Sometimes it's the only way to cope with pain and sorrow. You need to talk about it and let it all out.

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  12. 12:18, what part of his post do you not understand ? Read deeper and try to comprehend.

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