Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Letter from a Reader: To the Prejudiced Readers of Fashion PULIS

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Dear Fashion PULIS,

I am an online writer but honestly, I don't know where to start. I am quite surprised that I am sending you this letter because in all honesty, gossip has never been my kind of thrill. In my world, I have my fair share of criticisms from people---some I know and most I don't know at all. This is the reason why I strayed from reading gossip columns and stories. But one time, I stumbled upon your blog and I find myself engrossed.

I believe that you are the first Blogger who writes about gossips and do it in such a way that is not incriminating. You provide entertainment without sounding biased or prejudiced. At the end of your story, you leave it up to your readers to take a stand. The part I appreciate the most is that you never drop names, which is what journalism is supposed to be. Incredulous as it may seem to others, I do believe you uphold responsible journalism.

But FP, I am sending this letter because I want to share my opinion with my fellow FP readers who seem to have the prejudiced mindset so well. Every time you write a story, some of my fellow readers would often comment negatively and bash other readers (like me) who try to be as unbiased as possible.

Take for example the issue with Megastar. As I don't know the whole story, my instinct would be to dig deeper and look for details from my fellow readers' comments. What I've found are mostly negative comments on her "MAKING PATOL" to her fans which truly caught me off-guard.

I was saddened that most readers have this kind of mindset. I mean, how can we think negatively of her for replying to her bashers when apparently, she was insulted? How can we say she's lowly and has no class when she's only fighting her attackers? Pardon me, but don't we just sound like Adolf Hitler? Tayo---mga non-celebrities, non-showbiz, unknown audience, mga readers, MAY KARAPATAN TAYO NA PAGSALITAAN SIYA NG HINDI MABUTI PERO HINDI NIYA PWEDENG GAWIN SA ATIN YUN? We can talk ill about her, but she doesn't have a right to do so because she's a celebrity, an actress and the wife of a senator?

From the day we were born, weren't we taught by our parents to observe fairness and equality, that all humans are equal in the eyes of God? I am not a religious person but after reading all these comments, it makes me think that perhaps, we are trying to play God because for most of us who are readers of your blog, we tend to think that it's okay to speak our minds about the subject of your blind items but these subjects aren't allowed to react to what we have to say.

Hindi ba, mas una sa pagiging celebrity, artista, politician, ay ang pagiging TAO NILA KAGAYA NATIN? Like us, they are humans who have the right to speak their minds and fight back if needed. Honestly, this is not just about Megastar, my fellow readers may think binayaran niya ako para magsulat nito but I don't care. Noon, ang paniniwala ay mas may karapatan ang mga kalalakihan kesa sa kababaihan. Until now, we still live on that but this time, ang paniniwala natin ay mas may karapatan ang mga fans kesa sa mga celebrity or artista. Sandali lang, porke ba't sikat sila, pag-aari na natin sila? May karapatan ba tayong diktahan o pagbawalan sila na gawin ang gusto nila?

I just hope that we can have an unbiased point of view. After all, not everything we hear is right so it pays to know both sides of the story. So please, let's start listening. Yes, we may hear it but we may not have listened. Listening only comes with understanding so sana, maging unbiased tayo at bigyan sila ng karapatan na ikwento ang istorya nila.

I'm sorry for the long letter but if you took time to read this, thank you for hearing me. I just hope that in the end, you actually listened.

Yours truly,
Lei

Note: Letter edited for brevity and space

294 comments:

  1. Si negastar itech!!!!!

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    1. mmmm.... again, she is affected! you cant conttrol criticisms....

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    2. obvious naman si mega itoh noh! eh wala naman yatang magtitiyaga na ipagtanggol sarili nya kundi sya rin.

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    3. Sa ganang akin lang mga FP readers, fan ako ni Mega but honestly if i am her, i will not make patol to all the things they say against me...

      Masakit mainsulto but again luge sya kasi me pangalan sya at lahat naman ng nag iinsulto sa kanya eh naka anonymous...

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    4. I don't think this is S because, pardon to the letter sender, S is articulate. Having said that, wala tayong magagawa, kung pipiliin lang ni FP ang mga comments na objective or unbiased ang opinion, sigurado wala pa sa sampu ang posts na mababasa natin. Kagaya ng uneducated voters sa 'Pinas kaya nananalo ang mga hindi dapat manalo sa election, mas maraming Bashers na nagkalat.

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  2. Ang reply ko jan eto: Intelligence is the art of choosing between necessary and unnecessary enemies.

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    1. Nadali mo 'day. apir apir apir at wisik wisik wisik! Aba eh baka wala ng pumapansin sa kanya sa kabila kaya papampam na lang sa twitter at kahit sino na lang papatulan. Falling Star Syndrome ang drama?

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    2. Most public figures enjoy fame, fortune and power,along with endless perks, which we, ordinary folks don't. But they can't always have their cake and eat it, too. Everything comes with a price. And the bashing and loss of privacy are just small sacrifices for all the privileges that they enjoy. Kundi ba naman, why do you think may mga willing gawin ang lahat maging artista lang or "magpapakamatay" /papatay para lang manalo sa election?

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    3. ganda ng FALLING STAR SYNDROME mo teh! like na like

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    4. Correct. But I think Sinotto mo lang yang sinabi mo.

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  3. equality indeed. :))

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  4. Intelligence is the art of choosing between necessary and unnecessary enemies ika nga ni Paulo Coelho. dagdagan ko pa from spidey, with great power comes great responsibility.

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  5. teh mega is that chu?

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  6. Dear, have you ever heard of being the bigger person? Life's not fair, people will insult you. You have to choose how to fight back, with dignity or stooping down to your haters or enemies. Obviously, the megastar chooses stooping down.

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    1. always easier said than done when you are not in the same position. I wonder how people like you would react if you are on her shoes.

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  7. Aminin mo. Ikaw yan Negastar noh?

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  8. I think people shouldnt take the comments here too seriously and personally -- positive or otherwise, comments were just made by people based on what they feel or think of issues/the BI's....readers should just take them in stride....let them just be that...mere comments/opinions -- we can choose to ignore them and just be entertained, if you need to find value in them at all....

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    1. super mega agree me sa yo teh! Swak na swak! Dapat ganun ka rin lei, writer k pa namang naturingan.

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    2. I agree. This blog is meant to entertain, don't take it too seriously. Even some stars react this way. Would you believe maraming mga stars pa nga ang gustong napi-feature sila sa FashionPulis because of this blog's reach? Positively or negatively written bi about them, okay lang, because in the end, it's still publicity. That's a fact, and that's how they thrive.

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    3. tama ka dyan anon 1:33. kung hindi dahil kay FP, hindi ko makikilala si time giver. bilang malayo ako sa Pinas. dito ako updated sa showbiz. at nakakatuwa ang mga nicknames ng mga commenter sa mga bi. si time giver ang all time favorite na bi ko kase legend na sya d2 hahaha. at nakakatawa ang mga comment dito. doon sa pep. grabeh mga comment dun di marunong ang moderator

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    4. PLANGAK!!Super agree!

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  9. Thank you Letter sender! You have a point there! May tama ka! Bato bato sa langit ang tamaan wag magagalit!

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    1. minsan kc sobra kung magsalita mga andito, parang mga perfect, parang alam na alam nila kung ano talaga ang nangyari, maglalike at dislike lang sa isang cover, kung makapanglait ganun lang, iyong kuha laitin mo hanggang gusto pero pati yong tao..

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    2. negastar kaw yan noh? lol

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  10. Everdearest Lei,

    For your information, mas malala pa ang mga puti manlait sa mga celebrities at politicians on twitter. Pero they never made PATOL. Kung napanood nyo ang isang episode ng Real Time with Bill Maher sa tv, binanggit ni Bill Maher kung gaano ka ruthless mag criticize ang mga tao na as in sagarang pambabastos pero bakit mo nga naman papatulan yung mga yun dahil pointless. Haters gonna hate.

    Hindi mo mako- control ang mga twitter users. PERO PEDE MONG MA CONTROL ANG REACTION MO.

    OO andun na tayo, tao lang si Sharon. Pero naman grabe pumatol.

    Ang bottomline dito ay kung paano i-handle ni Sharon (un)gracefully ang mga bashers. Hindi nya ma control ang emotions/reaction nya.

    Wala bang nag aadvice kay Sharon? Walang pumipigil? Bakit? Dahil ba sya ay isang megastar? Di ba tao lang din sya sabi mo nga Lei?

    Yung nanay ko at mga kapatid ko nga pag nag post na ako sa facebook ng negative mag eemail agad sa akin at pagsasabihan ako na masagwa ang post ko at babalik sa akin yun. Ika nga ng Nanay ko "You are what you post" Yun lang yun

    Nananawagan ako sa mga tunay na nagmamahal kay Sharon. Sa kanyang pamilya, mga kaibigan at fans na advice nyo sya na wag na lang pansinin ang mga haters sa twitter.

    O ayan, may malasakit ako kay Sharon

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    1. That's true! Haters are haters kya dpat deadma na tlga sya sa knila..I pity her kc wlang maka-control sa knya to make patol :( at khit si donya margaret ay alam yan!!!

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    2. Napaka unhappy siguro ng childhood ni ateng Lei na yan! Apir!

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    3. agree...one time nakipag-away ako sa FB, sabi ng mommy ko kung gusto kong makipag-away wag sa social networking site dapat harapan kung talagang matapang ako.

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    4. Ay like Ko tong post mo.

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    5. koreknez...ung ibang artista na binabash dedma lang naman or kung sasagot cla in an intellegent way d tulad ni sharon na parang taga-kalye kung makapatol. Letter sender, try mo kaya basahin mo mga sagot nya lalo ung mga words na ginagamit nya, may 'bastos, demonyo, eskwater, etc... gawain ba yan ng may pinag-aralan at iniidolo ng marami?

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    6. Anon 12:26, like na like ko yan sinabi mo!!!

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    7. nagagalit pa nga ako noon sa nanay ko pag pinagsasabihan ako. na realize ko rin naman na ako din ang nasisira sa ginagawa ko. at tama sya at mga kapatid ko. i saved myself from further embarrassment

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    8. Lei, were you hugged as a child? Hahahahaha! Joking aside, i get your point. But why take the commenters here seriously? Life is not fair, and you can not please everybody, kese hoda artista ka o hindi meron at meron masasabing hindi maganda ang tao about you. Bakit ka magpapaapekto sa nega comments dito? Chillax!

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    9. matagal-tagal na din akong bumibisita sa FP pero kahit kailan eh hindi ako nainis or napikon sa mga nababasa kong comments dito, actually I find it entertaining pa nga eh, ang mga comments dito make this blog so famous, aside from the BIs. Tutal hindi naman tayo magkakakilala dito personally so don't take this seriously, kung sensitive ka, di ito ang site na para sayo.

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  11. Wehh? Ok ka lang marse?

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  12. As the saying goes " you cannot please everybody", lahat naman ng public figures may haters eh...it's really up to them if dedmahin nila or patulan nila...at ang mga diehard fans kahit gaano pa kadaming negative issues ng idolo nila, eh ipaglalaban talaga nila yon...sa tagal ba naman ni Megastar sa showbiz, di pa sya nasanay sa ganyan?

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  13. I agree and disagree with what this reader has to write.
    I agree there are so many rude people who are quite insensitive towards the feelings of others.
    There are many people who join Twitter who are very uneducated.
    But for me, if Sharon can't stand the heat in the kitchen, then get out!!!
    She keeps on complaining about these people yet she still continues to have her Twitter account. It's given you will read good and bad comments. If you feel that you could not handle it, then do not put yourself in a spotlight for criticism. She practically dug her own hole by continuing to have that account. A lot of actresses just do not read the tabloids for the ultimate reason that they don't want to hear nasty things and lies about them. Sharon should do the same.
    The public does not own Sharon but the public will always have something to say about a public figure.

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    1. halata naman troll kayo ni mega.
      lahat long playing ang comment!

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  14. Hi Mega, napadaan ka. Fan mo koh! I love you Mega!!!

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  15. si Shawie din ang unang pumasok sa utak ko. Mukhang sya nga yang letter sender. Pede na sa MMK ang story ni Shawie

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    1. Wow.. Perfect example ng kakitiran ng utak, for me mali si sharon, pero wag naman taung ng*ng* sa pagcoxoment. Ung may sense lang

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  16. Well, pansin ko lang na ang mga kampi kay Piolo ay mga girlaloo. Ang mga kampi naman kay Mega ay mga bekinese. So, take it from there. Bakit kaya?

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    1. As the saying goes, "Ang magnanakaw, galit sa kapwa magnanakaw". But then again, "Birds of the same feather stick together". I wonder which is which.

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  17. i think people reacted negatively not bcoz she fought back, it was how she insulted people that was really unnerving. sino ba mga fans nya majorly? pro kg makapagsalita sya against poor and normal people pra syang gift to mankind, asawa paman din ng isang public servant.

    and if you follow the conversation, yung actual na basher nya in her latest twitter meltdown was only 1 person then when she started being mean and feeling almighty may mga nagreact who in turn inaway na din nya making it looked like a pinagtulungan sya. but actually isa lng tlga kaaway nya initially.

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  18. Pahabol lang doon sa mahabang comment ko. Panawagan ko sa mga kaibigan at pamilya ni Sharon. Kayo ang mas may sense sa panahon na hindi nakakapag isip ng maayos si Sharon. Napapaisip lang ako kung takot ba kayo sa kanya na baka magalit sya kung pagsasabihan nyo na wag na mag post sa twitter? Nagsisisi nga sya sa pagpatol pero jinujustify pa nya. Lalo lang nyang hinihila pababa ang sarili nya.

    Sa lahat ng mga tunay na nagmamahal sa kanya hindi pa huli ang lahat. Sa una magagalit yan dahil pinagsasabihan nyo pero sa bandang huli mare-realize din nya ang kahihiyan sa pagpatol at pasasalamatan pa kayo later on.

    Ang tunay na nagmamalasakit, tatanggapin ang galit ni Sharon dahil sa malasakit. At kayo ang nasa tamang pag iisip or judgment.

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  19. "..We can talk ill about her, but she doesn't have a right to do so because she's a celebrity, an actress and the wife of a senator?"

    You said it yourself. As a celebrity, she has to maintain a certain image. Was it a good example to lash out to the haters? She could have just done it in a subtle way, block her bashers or issue an official statement. But no, she chose to respond like an angst teenager. Did it helped solve the issue? It just got worse, like adding fuel to fire.

    Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned ~ Buddha

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    1. She said, sharon is a celebrity, not a Role Model...

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    2. duh! she is a role model din noh! bakit ba siya kinukuha na endorser kung hindi siya role model. chura neto! mag isip isip ka nga!

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  20. to fight back is okay and normal.but to bash one person all the time,which is piolo in this case is just plain mean.pag may basher automatic kay piolo and sisi?baseless accusation na pag "hater" nya piolo fan.and in case they really are,does it follow na sisihin c piolo?

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    1. agree!!! may her soul burn in hell as in now na!!! charot!

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    2. that's what i don't understand. wala namang ginagawa si piolo kay sharon tapos sisiraan niya si piolo. what kind of thinking is that?

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  21. This Sharon Cuneta "The MEGA PATOL STAR" saga is giving me so much entertainment! Sharon has never entertained me like this before and I am enjoying it. Right here in the comfort of my chair. Hindi ko na kelangan pang mag hintay sa Linggo ng latest chika. Yun edit na. Ito, parang Cristy Fermin lang. Per minute ang chika sa twitter!

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  22. amen. wag maging masyadong mapanghusga. thank you letter sender. sana maunawaan yan ng iba.

    -krykrykryy

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    1. teh never ka nanghusga in your entire life? a pot calling a kettle black. chweh!

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    2. makaviolent reaction teh? tinamaaan ka lang kaya defensive. chweh !

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    3. AnonymousNovember 7, 2012 4:38 AM

      patola ? chweh!

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  23. FP, betchicola ko nagbabasa si Shawie ng blogness mo. Sana mabasa nya lahat ng comment ko ahihi!

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    1. The way Sharon behaves and conducts herself, I'm 1000% sure na nakatutok sya sa page na to at wala ng tulugan kakacomment and kakabasa ng mga comments dito. And that's a no brainer.

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  24. I totally agree with the letter sender. FP, if I were to compare ung mga nagcocomment dati nung 1st time ko to read your blog impressed ako kc they comment with class and sense. Pero now it's different. it's like I'm reading comments from PEP sometimes na....

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    1. don't you get it? nandito na ang mga readers ng PEP. there goes the neighborhood!!!

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  25. LEI, have you not heard that FREEDOM of SPEECH is legal in the Philippines? Just as the same way, you are free to air your opinion...
    as FP has published it.


    --BAKLANG MANICURISTA

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    1. bravo! parang pulitiko ang sagot!

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    2. but Philippine Constitution per se, FREEDOM is not absolute. It is not even legal, it is a right of people but it always come with a price.

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    3. anon 8:40 anong point mo? hallerr? maliwanag naman sagot diba?
      ...mali pa statement mo! kelan di naging legal ang freedom of speech?

      bagsak sa law exam! balik sa row 4!


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    4. 12:19, Tumpak ang argumento mo! Bar Topnotcher, FP Edition!

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  26. FAN ako ni MEGA, siya nga mismo teh nag sorry eh. alam nya kasi mali ang pumatol sa mga bashers. lets all move on. UNLESS, me lalabas na pictures and text from KC's PHone! hahahaah

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  27. very well said. there are some people kase na mashadong fault finder. intelligence is ALSO the art of choosing the necessary and unnecessary things to say to others.

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  28. You have a point, unfortunately, being the celebrities that they are, and that is the profession that they pick, they are prone to having these attackers or haters. The thing is, take the case of the megastar for example, she diligently replied back to her haters. What's worst is when I read her timeline, she even said something like kasalanan ito ng mga fans mo Piolo pertaining to her dropping the big secret. Hindi naman controlado ni Piolo yung mga yon. And how sure is she that those are Piolo fans or baka tripper lang? Bottomline is, di na nya dapat pinatulan because as a celebrity, people looked up to her. Every little thing that these celebrities will do will always be magnified, whether they like it or not. Yes, they have the right to fight back these haters, but as to how they will fight back will reflect on the kind of person that they are. So kung patulan mo yung ganong klaseng tao, sino talo di ba? Meron namang Block sa twitter. Masyadong hot-tempered si Mega lately, dapat chill lang. :-) Si KC nga, panay Italy lang ang tweets, di ba, good vibes lang.

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  29. Miss Sha, sabi ng do not make patol, di ba ? So what is the meaning of this letter ? Sumulat ka pa ng pagka haba haba. Relax ka na lang. Don't waste your time making this supposedly anonymous letter. Halatang ikaw ito. The more you defend yourself, the more you strike us as making patol. Sarhan mo kaya ang FB at twitter account mo para walang problem, di ba ?

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  30. yes lei, public property sila.
    does that answer your question?
    halerrrr?

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    1. are you out of your mind? kindly get a dictionary amd find the meaning of "property". halerrr!

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    2. anon 3:09... naiintindihan mo ba ang phrase na public property?
      INDAY BADIDAY days pa yan teh!

      bagsak ka sa klase!
      sige balik ka sa row 4

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    3. anon 3:09

      mag review ka muna.

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    4. oo nga . wla na kasi si ate inday.
      wala na mag explain kay miss dictionary ng phrase na public property...

      teh, bata kapa? baguhan sa showbiz?

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    5. You mean "figure" not "property", right? Kasi kung ganun, so pag-aari mo- pag-aari nating lahat si NEGASTAR?

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  31. wow sa dinami dami ng na BI dito si mega talaga ung example.

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  32. helooo ..
    she is held into such high position... ang mag react ng ganon ka BONGGA, eh out of character sa status nya. hence , madami ang nang echos! kung si annabilbil yun gumawa nang ganon..deadma na lahat.divah? sanay na eh

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    1. Tama ka anon 1:02AM. Hustler na si Bisaya. Very smart pumili ng aawayin. Sosyal ang bruha! Artista ang pinapatulan. Wala syang panahaon sa mga nega sa twitter. Hindi na nya kelangang i-vocalize ang hate nya sa mga patay gutom hahaha. Iba kase mang away si Anabil nakakatawa

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    2. Korek k dyan anon1:02am & anon1:17am... at least c annabel mga artista ang pinapatulan at hindi ang fans n katulad ntin... C annabel never kong nbasa or nbalitaan n nanlait ng mga fans...

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    3. Anon 2:06 si Anon 1:17 ito. Oo tama ka dyan. Mabait yang si Bisaya at hindi plastik. Mabait sa mga fans. Masipag sya dati sumagot sa mga fans sa twitter. Sinasagot din naman nya yung mga nega pero matatawa ka na lang kase nakakatawa talaga sya mag reply. Imbis na magalit ka matatawa ka na lang

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  33. Mega/Lei...inookray ka ng tao ngayon kasi yung tinweet/sinabi mo ay ang layo-layo sa loving at humble image na kinikilos at pinapakita mo sa tv. Ang plastic mo pala! kami ay nagulat na ang yabang yabang mo! Oo nasaktan ka pero dapat ba ganun ka kabastos?Naisip mo din ba yung nanay ni Piolo na inookray mo?! May narinig ka ba sa kanila?! Yun lang ang haba na nito,hello!

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  34. yayyy, nice letter, Row 1 na row 1 ang dating!at dahil sa smartness and brightness mo, pwede ka na rin sa platform, katabi ng flower pot ni maam. pero nice talga ang writing, love it, yan gusto ko paglaki ko, maging writer.

    iam_b

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  35. Sharon, sure ka ba na fans lahat ni Piolo yon? Baka magulat ka isa don katulong namin. Si Juday dati ang idol. Ngayon si Katheryn Bernardo na at Daniel Padilla ang idol. Aba FP adik sa facebook at twitter ang katulong namin. Updated yun. Mas magaling pa sa akin mag post yun hala

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  36. I am more interested sa mga comments actually, natatawa ako, yang mga nega na yan ang naging life ng BI ni FP. I think nasa Tao lng yan, if u can't take all this kanegahan, so, don't read it. Mas naging malawak ang chismis IQ ko kahit na malayo ako sa pinas, d ko na kilala ang mga baguhan. Pero by d power of google, nakikilala ko ang mga characters ni FP. So, keep it coming guys!.... lee of vegas

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    1. lee of vegas, so you thrive on negative energy? i pity you.

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  37. Mukhang maraming free time c mega ah! Ang haba nman nitong letter. Kala ko ba marami kang projects. pataasin mo muna ang single digit na rating mo, wawa nman c MVP , lugi sa binayad sa u.

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  38. Mabuhay ka lei! :) wish there were more educated and classy people like you. nice to know people like you still exists. God bless you!

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    1. langhiya... iisa lang ang nag cocoment dito... pare-pareho ang ip address...ANUVAYAN? staff mo ba to mega?

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  39. Sweetheart, it's true we must all roll with the punches. You have a point, it's very unbecoming of people to bash her for lashing out at her bashers but it will all boil down to this : Who did the attacking first? Up until the whole breakup was hyped up, til it died down, (and even until they keep on hyping it up), we didn't hear a peep from Piolo, did we? Why then did Sharon keep on attacking him? I know we are not to inflict any kind of unnecessary suffering to anyone but please, if you don't already know, SHE DID THIS TO HERSELF.

    If she tried to be civil enough to keep her mouth shut, fans won't be lashing out at her like this and she won't be tempted to retaliate. I get that she's being a mother, and she's being protective because that's how a parent usually is, but one thing she forgot was to be a GOOD EXAMPLE, not only to her children, but to her followers, her fans, the people who watch her, and who read her tweets. I can only hope she's smart enough to know the irony on this : she brought herself to where she is right now, she should know very well how to live with it -- niceties, criticisms and all.

    If she ever lashes out at me for saying this, I won't mind. Because you know what, I'm not the one being paid to watch what I do, live up to an "image" and manage the public's expectations. SHE IS.

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    1. I agree with you Anon 1:40am

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    2. Super agree. And that's what being celebrity is all about. You live in a fish bowl. Everything you do is seen 100x as compared to a "common tao". If you want to stay in showbusiness you have to choose what will be right and wrong for you. And lashing out on fans, who once put you there in that pedestal or crowned you as "megastar" is the "wrong" way. If you remained quiet, people might have sided with you and took pity for you and your daughter. I am a mom too and I choose my battles especially when it concerns my kids. But if I choose to fight with some of my kids' kaaways, I really doubt if it will make the front page...because ergo, am not a celebrity :)

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    3. Very well said... Ü

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  40. Dear Mega... If you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen..Or should I say if you can't handle your bashers delete your tweeter.. Thanks!!

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  41. At last. someone shares my views. We have the right to give our opinions,bad or good, but better if it's without hating, without the negative, hurtful words. Most of us, "non-celebs" have a very strict set of standards for our celebrities because we think we own them---public property. On the other hand, We can call them names that we don't wanna hear others calling us as such and it should be okay because we are not celebrities. We don't have "the prize" to pay.

    For us as long as you remain anonymous (or hiding in your username) making comments, the least you can do is to try to be objective because otherwise, you are just one coward troll polluting the cyberspace.

    Piolo, Sharon and the rest of the celebs are human first before becoming celebrities. JUST LIKE ANY OF US HERE. What hurt you, must hurt them too.

    Kahit respeto na lang natin sa may-ari ng blog na walang sawang gumugugol ng kanyang oras mabigyan lang tayo ng kasiyahan. We may not be all professionals but we can always act like one.

    Again, just my 2 cents and in no way that I impose it to anyone but I hope there will be more who will do the same.

    Thanks FP and more power.

    -Night Monster

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  42. Hindi na kasi talaga dapat pinapatulan yun. Ganon ang gusto ng bashers to get your attention at pag nagalit ka u think makakaramdam yun ng guilt? Matutuwa yun kasi pinatulan mo sila so ang mangyayare rereplyan ka din nila edi wala ng katapusan yan. Ang daming celeb dyan mapa local at international. Im sure lahat yun nakaka experience ng bullying online pero hindi na nila pinapatulan kasi its just a waste of time. Tuloy mo lang buhay mo noh. Simple lang naman kasi solusyon dyan ignore and block lang. Tapos.

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  43. Bad publicity is still publicity.. right Mega? since your show is sinking slowly but surely..

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  44. Mega, SO WHAT??????????? So what kung gay si Piolo or not? Who cares???!!!!!! Mas interesting pa sa issue na yan ang pag unfold ng pagkatao mo. Gusto mong i-prove sa lahat ng tao at ipahiya si Piolo sa sikretong diumano'y tinatago nya. Yan ba ang gusto mo? Ok, granting na ibunyag nyo yan ng pamilya mo sa publiko, whats next? ano ang makukuha mo dito? you are dragging your daughter KC sa ka-cheapan mo. Bakit di mo na lang gayahin ang anak mo na may dignity?!

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    1. isa ka pa eh! kaya lalong gumugulo usapan eh!...
      HINDI nga BADING SI PIOLO! HINDI...HINDI...HINDI
      wag mo ipilit! i-babash kita!


      ---DELUSIONAL GAY

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    2. hahahah love it delusional gay!

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  45. so quiet lang tayo sa anong sasabihin ng mga public figures? gosh..this is a democratic country.... ok lang sila kung ano ang sasabihin nila good or bad? then yung tao bawal mag criticize? where is equality....kung hindi kaya ni negastar ang ganitong sitwasyon dapat mag quit na sya sa showbiz......

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  46. Negastar, kung maka react ka , parang aping api kayu. I'm not fan of Piolo, but he deserve also respect. May nanay din sya na masasaktan sa mga pasaring mo. No matter how his relationship with your daughter ended, ang mahalaga they both move on. At the end of the day we are responsible for our own actions, forgive ourselves & ask forgiveness it may not be personal but in prayers & in deeds. Piolo may not tell the world his sexual preference karapatan nya yun.

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  47. Dear Letter Sender,

    You're right - you do not know the whole story. I suggest you backtrack on the previous BI's before you bash the bashers.

    That's all. Thank you! :)

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  48. I agree with the letter sender. Tanggalin nyo na lahat kay Megastar - ung pagiging filthy rich niya, asawa ng senador at artista. Ang maiiwan na lang is ung pagiging asawa at nanay niya. kung kayo kaya lumugar sa posisyon niya at araw-araw nilalait ka, ung asawa mo at lalo na ung mga anak mo, hindi ka ba lalaban? Sinasabi lagi na plastic siya pero di ba natin naiisip na kapag pamilya na ung tinitira, di niya kayang "maging plastic" na kunwari di niya dinadamdam ung panlalait sa kanya at pamilya niya? kasi nanay siya at kahit sinong nanay na matino, di kayang tiisin kapag ung anak mo na yung pinagtutulungan. you would argue na dapat di na lang siya mag twitter or wag patulan? naku, get a life people. kung ung aso ko na sinipa ng kapitbahay ko pinabarangay ko, ung pamilya ko pa? ignorance is bliss talaga tama pero alam na niyang may basher ung anak niya eh magkukunwari pa siyang kunwari walang nangyayari? tao din siya and obviously, emotional. how many can say here he/she could fully compartmentalize his/her feelings? di naman tayo di makina na kapag- pinondot mo, mawawala na ung sakit or galit.

    tingin ko, kung ibabash nyo na rin siya, reveal yourself. unfair eh. tama, as part of the Mob, ang daling sabihin na it comes with the territory na sikat siya kaya she needs to bite the bullet and live through her daily bashing kasi 1 billion bayad sa kanya. but hello, at the end, we are all humans kaya dapat magpakatao tayo. tignan niyo mamaya ung nanay, anak o kapatid nyo at imagine kung kaya mo kapag sa kanila ginawa un.

    Di ako fan ni mega. i dont like her voice na sobrang mahangin, ayoko ung acting niya. di ko din gusto ung idea na ang dali niyang magpalit ng allegiance sa sponsor pero i admire how in her own way she drops her shield to protect her children. she and my mom was very different but at the same time, pareho din.

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    1. ATEH...HANNOOO PRHOBLHEMA MOH? ayan mahangin din ang boses ko.
      para bati tayo? hahahaha ... mas malaki topak mo kesa sa letter sender!

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    2. Dude don't get too dramatic. In print naman ang discussion dito eh. Iba ng usapan pag me physical damage na involved. Sa twitter you can choose to ignore eh. Kung di naman totoo ang bintang sa anak nya why bother reasoning out with bashers? Para lang nyang kinausap ang hangin as if naman makikinig ang haters sa kanya. Naghahanap lang kasi siya ng sakit ng ulo, period.

      I'm no fan of both sides, the point is everyone's moved on why can't she? Bat galit na galit pa rin siya eh me 1 Billion na nga siya? Naghahanap ba siya ng raise? Dapat nga masayang-masaya na siya because her daughter has a blooming lovelife eh. Why reopen old scars? I rest my case.

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    3. Sometimes, a mother should also allow her children to fight their own battles.
      As a Mom, she can strengthen her child enough to face her own war and battle.

      Let us not forget that everything is about her daughter's decision to be in that relationship, to stay in that relationship and to end the relationship. Let's not always put the blame on the other party, her daughter was after all a consenting adult when she took that risk of loving her ex.
      At the end of the day, a mother can only support but most of the time, the most loving gesture, even if it pains her is to let your daughter own up to her decisions, learn from what has transpired and to heal from all the pain on her own time and terms.

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    4. Pag tinanggal mo ang lahat kay Mega, hindi na siya public figure. Hence wala na siyang bashers. Ginamit mo ang sarili mong ina as comparison, pwes gamitin rin natin dito. May bashers ba ang nanay mo? Palagay ko wala.

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    5. Oo karapatan na ipagtanggol ang anak at pamilya but not to d point na bumaba ka sa level mo at mang-accuse na ang lagi nambabash eh fans ni piolo. Haleeer sure ba sya na puro fans un ni piolo??? Sya lang naman lagi nagsasabi nyan. D nya lang kc ma-accept na may mga tao rin na ayaw sa kanya.

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    6. girl, inum ka muna ng tubig. baka gutom lang yan.

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  49. I'm so proud of myself for the self control I possess. LoL. Di man ako celebrity pero andami kong gustong patulan sa Facebook na feeling artista, sikat, narcissistic, mahahangin. Di hamak na mas nakakairita yung mga walang magawa sa buhay na pati pagtinga, pag utot, matutulog na, magmumumog pino-post. Tse! May araw din kayo. But for now, I-eenjoy ko muna ang mga kaganapan sa "The World According To The Falling Megastar"

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    1. Korek and super agree! Hay naku ako din may mga times na pag gusto kong mag comment sa mga vain na tao sa Facebook at Twitter mega control nalang ako sa sarili ko para di ako magmukhang nega.

      Yung tipong lahat nalang pinost sa Facebook hanggang sa mapuno na ang timeline ko super nakaka irita kaya ginagawa ko ina unfriend ko or block sa akin kesa ma stress ako ;-)

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    2. Sinabi mo pa! Ang daming nagpo-post sa FB kulang na lang gawing diary. Mga tipong every 10 minutes me update sa buhay nila. Pa-star lang ang peg! Parang mga walang social life nakakaawa. Nakakaloka lang!

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    3. Super agree!! Ako rin anonymous 4:49 AM, unfriend or block na lang ginawa ko sa mga walang magawa sa buhay sa FB...Ang dami talaga na nila... sarap lang patulan pero not worth it talaga..

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    4. hahaha! nkakarelate ako sa inyo sistahs! kainiz nga cla! mas celebrity pa cla kung maagpost kesa kay parish hilton! one word lang masasabi ko sa knila EPAL! ndi ko mapost sa FB kc yang word na yan bka nga sbhin nega akiz... atsaka ndi ko rin cla maunfriend kc relative & frends tlga cla...tiis muna..hahahhah..

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  50. Bigyaaaan ng jacket!

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    1. hahahaha!!!!! di ba pedeng chicharong baboy na lang? mas masarap yun. ang jacket mainit bilang tropical sa Pilipinas

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    2. so lahat ba ng umaaway sa celebrity automatic fans ng karibal mo?

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    3. LOL! Yan ang mga banat!

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  51. naglalaro sa isip ko si Vice Ganda ino-okray si Sharon. sample nga FPers kung anong dialogue ni Vice sa kadramahan ng buhay ng nag iisang negastar

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    1. MAY nag TEXT!

      umuwi ka na daw...

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    2. anon 3:29,la ka magawa? pinapahaba mo pa ito, wala naman sense hinihingi mo!tulog ka na!

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  52. This message is written in good faith.

    First of all, I would like to acknowledge the effort of Lei for sending his/her open letter and FP for generously sharing by posting it.

    I have been a reader of Fashion Pulis for 2 years now and I find the BIs very stimulating. Aside from the fact that it kills the boredom brought about by the routine work in the office, it also sharpens my intellect in a way that it requires me to be aware of what’s the latest in fashion world, general knowledge, and showbizlandia which I think is a prerequisite in order to post a meaningful comment if not giving clues to the persona in the BI, may he/she plays a protagonist or antagonist in the story. Reading the BI and the comments and leaving my own comment/s generate ENTERTAINMENT, which truly is the sole purpose of FP in posting essential subject matter for daily consumption of his readers who exhibit the same interest as he has. Sadly, some aren’t gifted enough to envision the same purpose.

    What I like the most in this blog is that appraisals are being posted to acknowledge good deeds and negative comments from readers keep the balance. Showbiz personalities must be aware of their social and ethical responsibilities. Fans/followers are at near distance to remind the erring celebrity - thus COMMENTS and NOT CURSE should be constructed. I think it is a common sense for celebrities if they haven’t been briefed by their handlers to behave in a norm acceptable to the general public including their fans spending time, money and effort to guzzle whatever their idols are endorsing. We are the target market of these showbiz entities. Hence, as a cost-efficient consumer, we must feel satisfaction for every cent that we’re spending on them.

    To critique is a form of art – it can breed and solicit different emotions and reactions, but I resolutely believe that if you have a strong foundation of values, you will never go astray. As it is, it all depends on the person being criticized or held up in a messy circumstance. WHETHER YOU DEFINE THE SITUATION, or THAT SITUATION WILL DEFINE YOU.


    Lots of Love,

    FP Fan

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  53. im sure never ending itong debate reg this issue. i do share the same sentiment with letter sender na parang walang right bumwelta ang artista. if you'll look at the comments dun kay Mega, it's as if sya ang nag umpisa ng gulo..di naman kasi natin alam kung ano sinabi sa kanya ng mga bashers.

    since we have freedom of speech, i just hope we use it properly instead of just saying stupid hurtful things..pangit, mataba, maitim etc.

    definitely pwede tayo pumuna ng iba. though when u criticize dapat nasabi rin thoroughly why this and that in a dignified manner. Kasi kung puro immature na patama lang e i think abuse din yun of the right we have been given.

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  54. Sharon may you learn from this thing:

    1. don't make patol

    2. get yourself busy

    3. seek counseling

    4. i think you are depressed

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  55. Hoy Sharon panay ang turo ng mataba mong daliri kay Piolo. Baka nakakalimutan mo yung apat na natitira nakaturo sayo

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    1. so bading din si sharon?

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    2. so nakipag shower din si ate shawie kay Mr. bardingarzi "M"?

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    3. you mean tinuturo niya sarili nya na baklita din?

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  56. Ito na lang.... pagandahin nyo si Mahal si ate Shawie ang kamukha

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  57. its very obvious, if this is not mega, then its one of her people doing the cleaning of her name. weel,keep tring gu. pero aminin na kasi na buking na ang totoong pagka tao ni mega.

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  58. sikat na sikat ka na FP, affected si mega sa presence ng blog mo kasi di nya napigilan na mag send ng open letter. akala ko ba sabi nya dami syang work, eh bakit panay pa pagbabasa ng blog mo ginagawa.

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  59. ate shawie, mas ok kung sa gym ka na kang magbabad.

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  60. try harder mega, linisin mo ng husto name mo, malay mo me maniwala sa yo.

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  61. just respect each other's opinion. may tama ka. may tama rin yung iba.

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  62. respect begets respect. there's a much better way to deal with haters and bashers: keep calm and stay classy. i rest my case :)

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  63. mapagpatol naman talaga sya at it doesn't help na sarili nyang fans sumbungera na bawat may magpintas sa idol nila ni-relay sa kanya. may isa syang tweet may isinumbong fans nya na sa pex hindi lang daw fans ni piolo nang ba-bash sa kanya pati fans ni maricel, nora at vilma at pasalamat daw sila wala silang twitter account. anong ibig nyang sabihin? ngayon gusto nya nsman mag provoke ng galit sa mga vi, maria, guy fans na di naman aware sa nangyayari sa pex. she's only inviting new enemies. dahil pinaalam ng mga intrimitidang fans nya sa idol nila ngayon baka sa pex magsabog ng lagim dun si nega star. tigilan na nila pambubuyo sa idol nila alam naman nilang pikon yun. at binanggit nya na buti wala si guy, maria at vi ng twitter, talagang mabuti nga dahil yung tatlong yun kahit may personal problems yun never pumatol sa fans. at hello, yung vi-nora fans nagaaway pa rin ngayon pero di naman affected yung mga idols nila at dedmakels sa bashers. maybe that's why after all these years bongga pa rin career ni ate vi, si ate guy naman gumaganda uli ang career at same with maricel nagiging visible uli sya. si sha na hindi naman nawala sa limelight pero yung star power nya nag dim at lalo mag didilim kung di sya titigil sa kakapatol sa bashers at namg po- provoke ng new detractors. di na normal yung twitter rants nya, she should seek medical help.

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  64. Somebody needs to take a chill pill.

    FP isn't as fun without the bashing.

    Hey, FP! Maybe you can start another blog for PC people like the email sender? :)

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  65. natatawa ako sa mga nag po post with ANONYMOUS..ur giving advise to sharon and lambast her...before you lambast her..think before what u have achieved and what u have and tell it to sharon straight to her face...i have twitter and facebook....these 2 sites are not for bashers who have no heart and good minds...so stop advising sharon to delete her twitter..but instead tell it to the bashers that making their lives worthwhile is the first thing that they should do..

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    1. Ok I've been happily married for 6 years, 6 figures salary(US Dollar), live in a nice house, cars, jewelries, boats, RV's everything you can think of.. So what now?

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    2. jason. natawa ka pala eh. so?

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    3. na-achieve ba kamo? achievement na sa akin yung wag magpapatol sa mga bagay bagay na wala kang control.

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  66. I think Lei's point naman is we should also be responsible in posting. Hindi porket naka anonymous tayo eh balahura na tayo mag post dito. Its okay to negate but don't be rude. Ang prob kasi sa mga nagco-comment dito may halong pagiging rude ang tone.

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  67. ang gossip walang FACTS at gawa-gawa lang tulad ng mga bayarang reporters/PR. ang napa-publish dito sa FP me basehan, di ba with matching pictures pa kung minsan...

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  68. But at the same time, you are responsible for what you write. The reason people are reacting to Sharon is because of WHAT she was writing. Yes, I agree TAO lang silang nasasaktan BUT then you have to understand when they entered showbiz they become the public's domain. Nung nagartista sya alam nya that she will be under scrutiny of the publics' eyes. Kaya nga sya naging sikat di ba?
    Now, as a public figure, a senator's wife and a mom of 3 girls, do you think it is OK for her to be reacting in a manner that is so degrading and unbecoming of a WOMAN who people looked up to? Kung matalino si Sharon (like she claims it to be and ang mga bashers nya eh walang pinagaralan according to her), she would know how to respond to her bashers. Oprah Winfrey, Kris Aquino, President Obama are criticized openly in social networking sites but did they ever react how Sharon react? They may have had but it was in way that was intelligible and responsible. It eventually made their critiques shut their mouths.
    Whether you like it or not, the public/fans will always be a part of a celebrity's life. They can either break or build him/her. Gusto mo ng privacy? eh di wag ka mag artista. Gusto mo ng respeto? Ipakita mo na karesperespeto ka.
    Clearly, Sharon or any celebrity needs to be the bigger person here and set an example to others of what class, breed, and character is supposed to be like. Granting that Sen. Kiko will run for the Presidency, will you vote for him? Maybe not, not because he is incapable of becoming one BUT perhaps you don't want a First Lady with a lousy character and presents herself with no breed at all.

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    1. true, think about what kris A did sa isang poser/basher nya sa Twitter, Kris A ask her to change her name kc medyo ndi maganda kay kris A ung name,..the poser changed her name, ganun lang, as simple and classy as that. ngaun poser got many followers and im one of them, she criticize, she appreciate as well kung deserving ung isang bagay or tao.. for me twitter is not exciting if i dont follow her..hahaha.. bottomline is u have to choose ur battle and kris A did so.

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  69. I agree with Lei. Pamilya na ang pinaguusapan kasi. People are attacking her family, people that matter to her. Kayo ba pag pamilya niyo na ang sinasaktan, you will just sit down and watch? Ang mag react dito malamang hindi maayos ang buhay. I salute you Sharon. When you said na ang importante para sayo ay nasa isip ng mga mahal mom buhay na pinaglaban mo sila kahit na ikasira mo pa ito, humanga ako sa yo.

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    1. granted na pinagtatanggol nya pamilya nya pero sure nga ba sya na sa side ni piolo ang nambabash sa kanya, eh kay piolo nya nalang lagi un sinisisi eh. D na nga nagsasalita ung tao and speaking of family, c piolo ba walang pamilya na nasasaktan? Sagutin mo to!

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    2. true anon 10:56... bakit si annabil if galit siya sa mga bashers or certain person isang napakahabang tweet lang para sa lahat and thats it..nagtwetweet back na lng siya sa mga supporters niya and ang sa mga bashers? DEADMA...parang mas may pinag aralan pa yata si annabel kaysa sa iyo sharon...

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  70. Nega, ako hater mo. Ibig ba nun sabihin idol ko si Piolo? Automatic? So lahat ng haters mo ay idol si Piolo? Di ba pedeng askad lang ako sa kayabangan mo?

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  71. dito lang sa FP ako madalas nag-re-reply at sa PEP, madalang pa sa patak ng ulan sa tag-araw. ingat na ingat akong mag comment para hindi makasaling ng personal sa damdamin ng BI o ng mga followers niya. pati grammar ko in english inaayos ko o di kaya ay tina-tagalog ko na lang. KASI ayokong ma-bash! masakit yun! nakaka-alta presyon. kaya nga, lahat tayo, sana THINK BEFORE YOU POST. mapa celebrity man, fan or a mere reader/follower ng columns or blogs.

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  72. You have a point Lei, but look at it from another perspective. As celebrities, they are beholden to their network, companies that get them as endorsers, and of course the fans. As such, they are expected to behave with dignity because not doing so would affect the products they endorse, their shows or movies, and ultimately, their network.

    True, as human beings they need to defend themselves, but that can be done without losing their dignity. In other words, there's no need to get nasty. In the case of megastar, she has a politician husband, is an endorser of Lucky Me, and is a contract star of TV5. She was paid handsomely by Lucky Me and TV5, and should give them their money's worth by being a positive role model.

    But most of all, she should realize that her actions have a backlash on her children. They will suffer hearing criticisms about her and for any child that is painful.

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  73. Dear "online writer"???!!! Di mo na nakayanan to finish your monologue 100% in English ano?! Ahahaha. It's ironic that you speak of tackling things in an unabiased manner, but you have clearly taken the side of the Tabaching Star! She has been in the industry long enough to know that criticisms are part of the territory and its up to her to decide of its worth having in exchange for her status a celebrity... No need to defend her, she a "BIG" girl na! Ahaha

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  74. I agree, Lei, na pag nainsulto ka, natural na magreact ka. Kung anuman ang consequence ng reaction ko, though, I have to live with. Kung may matutuwa, may matutuwa. Kung may magagalit, magagalit. Yan tinuro sakin ng mga magulang ko. Hindi yung humingi ng simpatya galing sa kung sinoman na "Huhuhu, binabash ako ng fans ni Piolo..." pagkatapos kong laitin yung "pagkasquatter" nila.

    Tama ka rin na tao lang ang mga public figures tulad ni Sharon kaya tama rin lang na wag nilang maliitin yung mga hindi sumasangayon sa kanila.

    Bilang writer, alam mo na responsibilidad mong mailabas ang buong kwento ng isang istorya. Isa lang tanong ko sa'yo: Hinusgahan mo agad yang mga haters ng idolo mo pero alam mo din ba ang tunay na pinanggalingan at kwento kung bakit ganun nalang ang "galit" nila?

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  75. To November 7,2012 3:24am: masyado ka madami sinasabi pa... sim-ple lang yan " if you cant stand te heat, get out of the kitchen!" Ginusto ni Negastar yan kaya she has to live with it! Wala naman nagpipilit sa kanya to stay around diba especially during these times when her glimmer as a star is fading! I hope this sheds some perspective for you!

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  76. KC is a grown up woman and she can defend herself. Bakit ba lagi ipinagdidiinan ni Sharon ipinagtatanggol lang nya anak nya? Patunay lang talaga masama ugali ni Sharonna na matagal nang tsismis.Ka OA an ang patweetums nya sa tv na nakakasuka. E ngayon laos na sya kaya gusto nya lang mapagusapan sya.

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  77. Naku Shawie idol pa naman kita dati, kami ng mom ko. Pero simula nang mgtweet ka ng, "Pacensya na d ko kasi naranasan maging squatter!" Masyado ka naman naging mapangmata. I am not a fan or was never a fan of piolo, pero napahanga nya ako dahil despite the sexuality rumors, totoo man o hindi, never nya pinatulan mga negative criticisms. Kasama sa limelight ang mapag-usapan, you can choose to just stop tweeting and ignore everything. If I was in your place hindi ko sila papatulan, in the first place sinabi mo Shawie na hindi ka nila maabot at mapapantayan dba? So why stoop that low? And as for you Lei, isip-isip din. Think before you click!

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    1. I agree with you.. She stoop down her level.. It only showed what her kind.. arrogante kala mo nakagraduate..hahaha
      Wag iboto yan si pagong..kikong pagong.. hahaha

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    2. teh, naka graduate na po si mega. sa america pa.
      ke kiko ka me galit noh?

      di ito usapang politics. pang showbiz po ito teh...

      sige balik ka sa row 4

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  78. Long ago, "may class" ang mga nagco-comment dito. Nang sumikat na 'to, napansin ko parang BEX lahat kasi sound alike na sila, and then sila-sila lang naman nag ookrayan. Medyo kairita, so ni-lay off ko muna tong blog na to....punta ako ngayon sa pp, at ang tawa ko, di lang 6-feet-under ang crassness at rudeness ng comments, talagang pusali language talaga at tawa na ako ng tawa. Balik FP ako ngayon kasi mas level up "kuno" dito ang taste. Kaso yun nga....MOB mentality. Pag may nagsimula ng nega...all the way down nega na. Review nyo..

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    1. so, can we just police ourselves? let's do away with rudeness to maintain the "class" status of FP commentators. can we? let's all be objective! but where will fun be and the laughter before we hit our beds/pillows at midnight?

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  79. Isa ka pa! No one is forcing you to read the dialogues in this BI. We all have the prerogative to give our comments as we see fit... anyway, what's posted on this site is being moderated by the administrator to make sure that things dont go overboard. So dun ka na lang sa kung san ka masaya and leave us be! Have a good life!

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  80. Ok review nyp.Asan na comment ko?

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  81. Sigh. Kaya nga at the end of every article ni FP nakalagay ang "enter your comment" meron magiging biased may hindi may iba na iququestion if totoo ba yun or whatever! But comment nila yun, opinion, criticism... Wag masyado didibin if may nag disagree sa post mo! the end of the day pareparehas naten nageenjoy ang FP!

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  82. FP, ikaw ba yan.bakit di napublish comment ko.yung anon 10:21 napublish.di yan hawa hawa .kanya kanya opinion yan. ikaw, ireview mo yung thread na to, me interjection ng maka sharon. ano ba to

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  83. Maging unbiased daw Tayo life itself is unfair comment ko pa kaya? Yung iba kasi saten masyado sineseryoso pag may nagdisagree sa comment nila hanggang pag tulog yata up to the next day inis dun sa nagdisagree sa kanila! Hihihi! Sad naman for you! Two words: move on!

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  84. for me being a public figure means you are owed by the public, whatever you do whatever you say the public has also something to say and do. As a public figure you have the responsibility to take care of your image WALANG NAGSASABI NA BAWAL MONG GAWIN ANG MGA BAGAY NA GUSTO MONG GAWIN as long as you get out of the public eyes. Do it privately. THAT'S THE CURSE OF BEING FAMOUS.

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  85. I can't wait for her husband to bid for a president seat.. This woman will be all lovey dovey to those people whom she called publicly the "squatters"

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    1. sa kabilang classroom ka ... mali ka ng post...
      pang badingarzi lang toh... bawal ma mulitika

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  86. Kiko, hindi mo marendahan ang asawa mo? hahayaan mo na lang na mapahiya ng ganyan? anong klase kang asawa?

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    1. teh... showbiz ang pinaguusapan dito...
      puro kabaklaan lang.
      wag mo isali ang politics...

      sige balik ka row 4

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    2. ay may bitterness si anon 11:32AM...

      si mega ang topic. wag mo sa sali si kiko matsing...

      malayo pa eleksyon teh!

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  87. anon 10:41 maghintay ka lang kase binabasa lahat ng moderator/FP ang comments. So far, wala pa akong posts na hindi in-approve. dapat nga may loyalty at gold status award ako d2 kay FP. lol

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  88. Lei you are taking too much coffee and writing too long email.
    Instead of depending or trying to look for reasons on mega star
    Why don’t you access yourself..

    Your life with so damn boring and taking others comments seriously.
    By the way your idol could have done better instead of replying to her bashers…
    She should have deleted her account and act as a senator wife ..
    Do her part and involve on charitable work or projects.

    It only showed what her kind... mal-edukada..
    You know what before I don’t care on mega star..
    But when I saw her tweet maligning people including squatters blah blah..
    She seems like squatter girl when she tweeted that..no class all arrogance..
    Maledukada bayun.. She needs to choose her battle.. palibhasa wala ginagawa hinahighblood tuloy..

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  89. Karamihan kasi dito puro salita lang. Megastar na yan no matter what, sobra naman kasi makapag comment, manlait. Tumaba lang balewala na lahat ng nagawa nya? Pumatol man sya sa mga bashers and maybe she reacted in a way na hindi expected coming from her, lahat naman pag galit or pag nasaktan nakakapagsalita ng masasakit but ang dapatnatin isipin ung she owned up that mistake of making patol, she said sorry and said na she will try not to make patol again, we must learn to accept her apology, maybe now she learned a lesson. We should all have forgiving heart, maari na may mga artista na pinili na lang ignore or block all the bashers but must we all compare? May mga ina din na different ang pagtatanggol nila sa mga anak nila, but i wish meron akong ina na kayang gawin ang lahat para ipagtanggol ako:(. Anyways tanung ko lang sa lahat? Do we get inspired sa mga artista kasi magaganda at gwapo sila? Sexy? Payat? Pero pag mataba or tumaba na balewala na? we must all learn to accept who she is, kung paano sya magalit, magtampo, tumawa etc. and if i hope she learned now all the lessons she needs to learn,. naiinis na kc ako eh, kaya diko na mapigilan mag comment, para kasing lahat ng andito mga perfect lahat. we must learn to accept na tao lang si mega, nagkakamali pero natututo din. She needs to go through that para matuto sya at para malaman nya na she needed to pick her battles. pero bullying her saying shes fat etc. it pains me to read, ewan ko pero i feel for her. I hope she reads this, of all the people na judging you mega, i just want you to know na meron pa ring mga tao na naiintindihan ka at you will always inspire me. Nagkakamali ka man, alam ko may natutunan ka and use that to make you more stronger. Stay strong and we and of course I will always wait for your come back movie, then everyone will realized why you are the megastar. Of all the negatives you hear and people say bad things about you, i know masakit, pinagdaanan ko na din ang cyber bullying etc., stay with all the people that really loves you and stay true to who you Are.


    -someoneAgainstBullying-

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  90. Naaliw ako kasi sa 5th paragraph, sinagot mo ang sarili mong tanong: as a public figure, she has the moral obligation to be gracious, to excercise restraint. Sya lang ba ang binabash? Ang iba, like rhian ramos, hndi sumasagot. Instead, ung fans niya ang umaaway for her. Ang nakakainis kasi kay NEGAstar, she tweets insults and belittles her detractors AND in the same breath (so to speak) eh may pa God bless God bless kemeroot pang nalaman, napaghahalatang plastikada. And believe me, I dug deep dun sa nag re-ignite ng issue at nabasa ko ung tweet na nagsimula ng lahat (by that bea0907 na ever since has been deleted pero u can still read sharon's response). Nagtanong ung Piolo fan kung ang tinutukoy ba ni Sharon dun sa "PPP" was Piolo. Ano'ng reaction ni NEGA? Mahabang reply na kinailangan pang i-TMI para lang ma-send. Conclusion: overreaction. At hindi pa nakuntento. Sunud-sunod ang tirada. Conclusion: overreaction again. Palibhasa kasi, feeling nya lahat mahal sya at nagugulat sya na may mga taong hindi sya gusto. Haller, si God nga may hater, sya pa kaya?

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    1. Nagtanong talaga yung basher teh kung si Pp yung tinukoy nya!? Goodnrss you are like Piolo- a big liar!

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  91. I actually agree with Lei. Not only with the Sharon Cuneta's case but with other actors involve in BIs as well. I am not a fan, mind you. However, I do believe that as a person (a normal and functioning human being), one retaliates when insulted too much. It is not being lowly, it can be a lapse of judgment for not controlling but it is human nature. Half of those reading this will have to agree that they will fight for their family and for themselves.

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  92. Tumpak, isang aparador na plastic si Shawie. Mga tatlong drawer ng Orocan ang katumbas sa timbang at kaplastikan

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  93. Ang iba dito sinasabing who are we to judge her(Sharon) pero si Sharon pag may nagbash sa kanya squatter agad ang pinagbintangan my gosh what a hypocrite woman. Cry me a river.

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  94. Eveybody... Next time you bash the Nega Star please specify your work and lifestyle kasi palagi na lang niyang pinagbintangan mga squatters eh... ...masyadong judgemental ang lola niyo..


    Your's truly,
    A happily married woman living life to the fullest from USA...

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  95. Sobra nmn kc ung ibang nagcocoment dto.parang mga perpekto at walang bahid dungis.parang kung hindi cla nakapanlait manghihina cla.magpakatao nman kAyo paminsAn-minsan!

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  96. Hay naku kahit ano pang sabihin nyo jan..basta ako...once a sharonian will always be a sharonian! And i am a second generation Sharonian :)

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  97. magalit ka kc dun sa nagbabash sau..bkt ke piolo eh hnd nmn c piolo ngaaway sau?hmp!

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  98. tsimple lang ang dapat gawin dito. let's just practice good manner and right conduct dito sa FP. tutal, tayo naman ung target ng letter sender diba? irelevant na ung ibang bashers ni mega. let's just all do our part to make reading FP's BIs a generally pleasing for everyone.

    and FP, sana more BIs sa mga non-celebrities.. ung parang dati. hihi, ang saya lang pag lahat kami bagsak sa exam! kopyahan ang peg!

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