Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Letter from a Reader: Dear Sarah

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Dear Sarah,

I watched your show Live here in CA few hours ago. It was very evident that you’re very over-protected and dependent on your parents even at 24 years old. It is very disturbing to watch how your Mom was acting like God knowing His will for you in all things. Gerald was the only brave, sincere, loving and mature man to pay respect to your parents and court you at home, perhaps not as often as your parents wished, but after him, I doubt it if there be another braver soul to face them for you.

The least your parents could say were some kind words of appreciation for his efforts and not judge him on television . Ge always had good words for you and your family during his interviews, it says much of his breeding. I admire you as a performer but I ended up admiring Ge more for his maturity and sincerity. I am a mother of a 19 y/o and raised her God-fearing and with values as well. But I let her learn her lessons on her own, even if I wanted to dictate to her what her decision should be at a particular moment. I trust and give her a chance, and so far, she’s not failed me.

More than half of your lifetime, you’ve already provided, obeyed and shown love to your family, when will you allow yourself to be loved. Being in love is such a wonderful and fulfilling experience in life, and you don’t know when it comes, you learn so much from it, and there’s no such thing as a perfect man that he won’t ever hurt you. For your discernment, I beg you to seek the advise and wisdom from other people like Ms Judy Ann, Sharon, Ms Angeli Valenciano or any other older mentor outside your family that have personally experienced love and lived a happy family life in show biz. You can even ask the guidance of a priest. Your parents are somehow seeing Ge as a competition for your love and attention, that's why they can’t let go. Ge even said in one of his interviews “to understand your Mom bec you’re their baby”.

You have accomplished and done a lot in your career at a very short 10 years. You’re such a great performer, actress, host, endorser and I admire you. But you being in that spotlight, has shown us that at 24, you’re not consistent with your actions and words, afraid to speak on your own convictions especially around your folks. You’re trying so hard to be that perfect image but first you have to be true to yourself, to your own feelings, and views in life ( and not bec your parents said so), then only you can be true to others, to your fans, to your friends, to the man you’ll love someday.

God gave us this beautiful life to enjoy, He also authored love itself and created our hearts to feel such wonderful emotions, without losing our souls. Your parents being so traditionalists wanting you to be courted at home only and not through texts seems out of touch with reality and with the times. Of course, Ge should court you in your house, but they must also allow you to go on dates still with some guidelines because it would be nice to go on a dinner or a movie or just stroll and get to know each other. Besides, this is your chance to experience new things in life that you’ve missed out on. It doesn’t mean you’re going to do the “wrong thing” which parents are afraid of, but with proper discussion about saving your purity/ chastity until marriage, it can be done.

Just look at Nikki Gil and Toni Gonzaga, their respective boyfriends know and respect their boundaries, and it’s admirable and achievable. Texting and calling on cellfone are the ways to communicate now, what are your parents thinking? As much as you’re wanting to to tell your parents that you’d be obedient and try to please them, the episode with them last nite showed how very strict and overprotective they are of you, and that was very evident and made a lot of us very sad for you . Like Ge said, time lost will never be found again, live life, do the things you want to do, say the things you want to say, ( I don’t think he implied be rebellious to your parents and do whatever you like), take risks, be not afraid, trust God and those you love. Enjoy life, there’s more to life than just lots of career, popularity, awards, good family image, ( there’s no such thing as a perfect family even if you're intact), You’ve given so much to your family, to your fans, to your bosses and management. It's time to give time to yourself and what matters most to you.

My heart aches for Ge, he’s matured and appreciates all that he’s learned from knowing you and he might not be the intellectual man that your parents wished for, but it’s very evident he is the more emotionally matured of the two of you. The spiritual aspect is something that the two of you together can grow into and it’ll even be more fruitful .

Sarah, I am in my late 40′s and I’ve never followed a love story like yours and Ge. It reminds me of Sharon Cuneta’s days with Gabby, Richard, and made us relive our hopeless romantic days in our college years when we're in love ourselves. I believe that your team up with Ge was the most genuine so far out of all of them, bec it blossomed after the movie was over. You didn’t really need each other’s help to promote something, and that you each on your own have names established already. That’s why it was very clear and sincere to all of us when Ge started courting you.

Forgive me Sarah for giving you my unsolicited views but I hope this gets to you. Other people will say very nice words to comfort you but you need to know that this is how we see it from the fans point of view , and my intention is for you to learn there are well meaning people out there that truly care for you, your growth as a young, confident, woman with conviction.

Sarah, you and Ge are in my prayers as well as your parents, and the many fans out there who are a bit disillusioned like me, may God’s holy will be done!

Sincerely,
Maria
CA, USA
July 30, 2012 at 10:17 am

468 comments:

  1. to the point....sapul

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    1. di na napigilan at sumulat pa. kaya nag-aaway ang mga magkakapamilya dahil sa panghihimasok ng ibang tao.

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    2. Very well said Teh!!
      *Clap clap clap 👍👌

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    3. Masyadong emotionally invested si Ate. I dont get this pero siguro kilala niya personally si Sarah(?). Kasi I find it weird na mga fans nagiging masyadong affected.

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  2. Clap clap clap!very well said mommy kahit hiningal ako sa pagbabasa!

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  3. Very well said Maria. To her parents: Please let Sarah enjoy her youth.

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    1. She's not even considered as youth already.

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  4. Very well said Maria! I like Sarah as a performer but from what I've seen and read now it only shows how immature she is, She's already 24 but she can't stand on her own. She's not a good example of younger generation how can you idolize someone who can't decide for herself she doesn't know about life. I thought she came from a poor family how come she can't even buy movie ticket or order food from the restaurant, I'm sorry to say this but her family makes her stupid. I feel sorry for this girl

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  5. *slow clap*
    Sana nga mabasa nya, o baka pati mag internet pinagbabawalan sya.

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  6. kaya sila ang nagdedecide para kay Sarah, pinoprotektahan para di DAW masaktan dahil inosente. TEKAAA, e diba kaya nga sya inosente dahil ayaw ng nanay nya na maopen ang mind nya sa reality at maexperience ang normality ng buhay? Pera-pera lang naman kasi talaga yan eh.

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  7. I admire Maria for sharing this. Sana mabasa naman ni Sarah at mauntog sa pader. 24 is not the new 13.

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  8. I just really really want to know if her other 2 older sisters have boyfriends or married na.. Ang alam ko si popstar ang nagpapaaral sa 2 sister nya.. Take note, ang isa sa new york at isa sa paris.. Kung talagang may batas at patakaran na dapat sundin sa bahay nila regarding sa mga manliligaw, applicable ba din to sa mga sisters nya??? Paano nila masusubaybayan yung 2 eh nasa ibang bansa? Paano nyo masisiguro na di yun nagpapaligaw sa ibang bansa? Ano yun aantayin pang makabalik sa pinas bago maligawan kasi di ba sabi nyo sa bahay lang dapat ligawan? So kung iisipin natin kung talagang may patakaran kayo sa mga manliligaw sa pamilya nyo bakit kay popstar lang? Kung talagang batas yan bakit sa isang anak lang at di sa lahat applicable? Wag nyong idahilan na dahil vulnerable sya at madali masaktan.. Kasi kung batas at patakaran di ba dapat lahat? At isipin nyo sino nagpaaral sa mga ate nya? Eh too think yung 2 kapatid magagaling ng magenglish at professionals na pag natapos si popstar ni hindi makasagot ng english at kung di pa basahin di marunong maghost? So ano yun? Asan ang fairness sa patakaran at batas? Anong iisipin ng lahat di ba dahil sa pera kaya sila ganyan kahigpit kay popstar sahil pag nawala sya at nagkabf baka magising sa katotohanan na dapat sya ang mas higit na nakikinabang sa pinaghihirapan nya.. Tsk.. Tsk.. Crazy sick in the head family.. Kawawa ang anak nyo! Magising sana kayo..

    Sorry affected lang kasi nakakaawa talaga si popstar brainwashed to the max na halos konting mali lang na wala namang mali actually sa pag-boboyfriend akala mong napakalaking kasalanan na nagawa nya sa pamilya.. Superbrainwashed that ang pamilya dapat ang magpatakbo sa buhay nya dahil wala syang alam at lagi syang mali.. Nakakaawa!

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    1. simple eh kasi xa ngdadala ng pera sa kanilang lahat..yun yon...akalain mo yun Paris at New York ..ang mahal kaya so in my opinion they are protecting her because of the perks she's bringing to the family..takot cla bka mabuntis at mgpakasal magkaron ng sariling pamilya at mapabayaan cla ni S....kc kng protective cla sa lahat ng anak eh bat pagaaralin pa sa ibang bansa??mahirap kaya bantayan..so yun pera pera lang..

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    2. Sana mabasa rin ni sarah comment mo. Sapul rin eh.

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    3. very true!!! dapat mabasa din ito ni sarah!

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  9. Work is good provided you do nor forget to live.

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  10. very well said Maria. I hope this letter could open the eyes of Sarah.

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  11. I so agree with this. Sarah needs to grow as a person and in order to do that, her parents should at least give her a little space. But siguro it's unfair din to take all the blame to her parents. There must be other reasons as to what happened with recent events.

    Sana, Sarah and both her parents can read this letter FP.

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  12. Sana makarating itong letter na to kay Sarah at sa family nya. It's about time. Thanks for posting :-)

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  13. Very well said Mommy Maria!! I totally agree with everything....

    MOMMY DIVINE!!! This is written specially for your daughter, but please find time to read, and I really hope it gets through you!!!

    Give your daughter a LIFE!!!!

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  14. na empress shock namn ako dun sa part na na mention c time giver at ung isa pang starlet, mga v pa ba un??? i dont think so lalo na ung naging dahilan sa pag gunaw ng mundo eh wla na sa itsura nya na fresh pa!! puhleeezzz lng wag na taung mglokowhan!!!

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    1. Actually,so true ang comment mo, hihihi, pa-virgin islands chever pa! Hehehe

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    2. Teh wala kng galit k nikie gill noh? Hindi ka naman bitter sa kanya noh?? Haha im not a fan of nikie i swear.. Pero i swear din, insecure ka sa kanya lol!

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    3. I think they are. Nikki Gil proudly wears her "purity ring" in public.

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    4. Ex k ba ni BC??? Hlata masyado n masama ang loob mo.

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  15. Very well said Ms. Maria. We have the same point of view pero sakin po Tagalog. Haha. Just kidding. I hope Sarah will read this letter. I'm really sad for Sarah G. :( I want her to be GENUINELY HAPPY. Haaay :(

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  16. True :) Sana makarating tong letter kay Sarah at sa perpektong magulang nya.

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  17. i agree on this. kung pinalaki ka ng tama ng magulang mo, you should know what's right and wrong and where to draw the line. you won't enjoy life if you don't take the risk. to her parents,the mother in particular, sana wag dumating sa point na magrebelde yang anak nyo.

    -nuff said.

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  18. i so agree...i hope this letter reached sarah geronimo...as a fan, we just want her to live a happy and normal life. she is a god-fearing person, she will never go wrong. and if she does, experiences in life will make her a better and more beautiful person that she is now...we love you sarah!

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    1. me too.i do admire sarah.pero sa nakita ko lst episode ng sarah g live.i go for gerald nasa kanya sympathy ko!

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  19. Hmmm. Anu kaya magiging reaction ng mader earth ni Sarah G.?? For sure magbabanal banalan nanaman yun! :(( kalokaaa ka mommy divine! As in!!

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    1. kerek..parang mommy dionisia levels din!

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  20. Very true.. I hope sarah and her parents would be able to read this letter

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  21. Wla pakialamanan ng anak. Si GE d namn seryoso nanggagamit lang para sumikat sya ulit. Kapal muks

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    1. Mommy G, is that you? Kaw lang ata nagbigay ng nega feedback. Feeling ko kamag-anak ka ni Sarah! Why the hate?

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    2. Yeah its either mommy g or nagpapapansin na naman na reader. ( yawns )

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    3. may endorsments, magazine features, at upcoming teleserye pa sya teh.laos ba yun?

      Samahan mo nalang si mommy d sa pagpapatayo ng kumbento.

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    4. both sarah & gerald gained fr this but more on the girl.check d ratings of her show kung ano yung mga mataas na ratings.im a fan of sarah as a performer but i strted to admire gerald more after that very insensitive interview of her parents.SI Gerald ang nagamit.

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    5. Di po kailangan ni Ge si Prinsesang walang buto. Stable ang career nyan, di tulad ni Prinsesa, malamang na manlamig dhil sa dami ng natu-turn off na fans.

      The guy may have the reputation as a playboy,but i have yet to hear him say something bad about others in public.

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    6. D naman kailangan ni ge manggamit para sumikat he's already a household name.

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  22. Very well said. sarah give youurself a chance to be happy and from your past relationship,learn from it. Its very normal to love and get hurt.what's important at the end of everything.you had given your best. I'm a fan and forever a fan.it saddens me to see you even if you smile the loneliness in you.just. Enjoy and everything else will follow

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  23. Very well said. I am 21 years old and my parents are also conservatives but they are not like Sarah's parents. I could never forget the words of my father when my mother does not permit me to go out. He said, "Malaki na yan. Alam na niya ang tama at mali. I've done my part as a father. I'm giving her wings so she can fly on her own. If she fails, I will always be there to catch her." :)

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    1. wow te ipahiram mo nga ang father mo ky sarah hehehhe...ikaw ay isang beautiful swan na ngayon dahil sa mga pakpak na binigay ng papa mo heheheh

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    2. ay na touch naman ako sa sinabi ng father mo:) super like

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  24. amen to that.... well said...

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  25. very well said :)

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  26. sari-saring emosyon ang nararamdaman ko habang binabasa ko ito,inis,awa,halos maiyak ako ,sana mabasa to ni sarah...salamat sa iyo maria ;))

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  27. very well said. I hope Pop Princess @SGeronimo25 would start fighting for her right to love already.

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    1. Hehehe tinag mo talaga si sarah? Sana mabasa nya yan sa mentions nya, hehehe joke

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  28. a beautiful letter but i doubt if sarah could even read this. baka nga pati reading any article hindi niya magawa because of her parents! sana someone close to her maipabasa ito sa kanya :(

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  29. May point ka tlga teh! tumuuh!!

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  30. Gingawa kceng maria clara ng nanay nia si Singapore eh! Sarap putukin ng nunal ni mudra! Takot lng cla na bka mag asawa agad si singapore at mawawalan na cla ng anda! Dba sa kanya nagtratrabaho erpats nia? Kawawang sg, d man lng maka experience ng totoong date! Ung makamuod man lng ng sine o kumain sa labas na hindi nakabintot ang nanay at tatay nia. Kaya cguro nagawa din nia na malihim ung sa kanila ni rayver dhil ganun magulang nia. Tsk tsk tsk

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  31. This letter should be read also by the parents...

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  32. i am totally agree with these ms. maria!.. 101% very well said....sabe nga sa kanto,, "mahirap tlga mag palaki ng magulang" ..ang lahat ay may hanganan..walang masama sa pag hagad ng mabuti para sa isang tinatanging anak.. ngunit hinde lahat ng alam nating tama ay MABUTI!.

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  33. Corrected by! Dapat hindi na sila masyadong nakiki-alam sa buhay ni Sarah. Even though they still have a say on the matter, that doesn't mean that they should command Sarah and her ways.

    Baka mamaya maging 40-year-old virgin yan!

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  34. very well said! bravo! :)

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  35. Only Sane & Merciful mothers like you know best !!!

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  36. Bakit hindi po ntn i-post ang number po pra mpbgay ke mommy D nang m-train mo sya with the right parenting style

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  37. Very well said.. Sana mabasa ni Sarah to para malaman nya kung ano ang views ng mga taong totoong nagmamalasakit sa kanya..

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  38. you said it all. we can't add anything more to make it clear to Monster Mom. All she needs now is a gallon of comprehension & be drowned in deep Realization.

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  39. EPAL mo Mrs. Letter Sender!!! Kaloka ka! Charotera! Hahaha :)))

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    1. Hello Devine, nag babasa ka pala ng FP

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    2. hay naku momi D,matulog ka na.yang iyebags mo.

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    3. mommy D ,,IKAW ba 'yan???....

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    4. ahahhaha! ganyan daw sa Camp Divine, kelangan basahin nya muna at check ko karapat -dapat mabasa ni kawawang prinsesa. ahahahah

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  40. Maria's daughter is so lucky..galing ng nanay na to!!!

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  41. Stardom will either make or break an artist. In the case of SG, it's not her but her mother who got hit by the disease of being a lucky slacker multi-millionaire. She should undergo counseling & you, Maria, should be the one to facilitate

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    1. corrected by. Dpat my one-on-one session w/Maria si divine

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  42. Tse!!! Mukha namang promo from start to finish.. Yeah movie was done and finish pero thes 2 people needed to be in the limelight and the best way is thru a makebelieve love affair..sobrang pakilig lang last week and din eto na nangagago ng fans.. Disappointed

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    1. bitterald. palibhasa di ka kasi tao. sila tao silang marunong ma-inlove teh. bka ung mga idolo mo ang "MADE"

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    2. Ashrald ako before all this hoola.. Should have opened my eyes long before.. There is no bussiness like SHOWBUSSINES!!!

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    3. buti nga umatend pa si gerald last week. tingin ko din promo nalang un last week, even ung sa concert ni princessa.. kasi ang pangit naman kung mag bi-birthday tapos sabay hinto ng panliligaw. feel ko ang sincerity ni ge, pero naalangan na sya before sa birthday concert. kudos to ge, for being a man at prinotektahan nya pa din ang image ni princessa.. kaya nga diba si princessa na ang lapit ng lapit ke ge dun pa lang sa bday concenrt... siya ung bitaw ng bitaw ng mga salita at tahimik lang si ge.

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  43. this is such a heart warming letter. I hope Sarah can read this...

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  44. Ask advice from Sharon? On how not to get pregnant outside of marriage? Please. Obviously a fan of Gerald. Responsible parents do not tell other parents how to raise their own kids.

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    1. Agree! It irks me pag may nag mamarunong na magulang. Kanya kanyang style yan. What worked on her kids may not work on others. Kaya nga you have to adjust your parenting style sa ibat ibang bata.

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    2. Wala namang magmamarunong na magulang kung walang tatanga tangang ibang magulang. Madalas yung mga taong nag sasabing KANYA KANYANG STYLE YAN, sila yung mga tipo ng magulang na may mga sablay ding relasyon sa mga anak nila. Na yung mga anak nila kinikimkim ang saloobin. Tapos yung mga magulang na di rin kilala sarili nilang anak. Pathetic.

      Oo, hindi nga ethical pakialaman ang pag papalaki ng anak ng iba. Bakit, bawal mag suggest? Siguro takot kayong magising na lang bigla yung anak at mag take ng suggestion ng ibang magulang na mas may utak at mas may sense.

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    3. I'm sorry but to whom was the letter addressed again? Kaya nga "Dear Sarah", 'di ba? Masyado kang self-centered at defensive Mommy D.

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    4. Ikaw na rin nag sabi na unethical makialam ng pag papalaki ng anak na iba. Tapos ngayon expert ka na rin pala kung kung sino and sablay na magulang. Isa ka pang nag mamarunong dyan. Paki alaman ba yung parenting style ng nanay nya. Mag anak ka tapos palakihin kung panong pag papalaking gusto mo. Hindi yung pagpapalaki ng ibang nanay, hoy!

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    5. Tama din naman yung mga anak iba ibang ugali. Of course, alam ng nanay nya kung ano makakbuti sa kanya.

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    6. eto na nmn ang mga small-minded tards ni SG. hindi mamulat ang mata sa katotohanan. hayst

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    7. AnonymousAugust 1, 2012 2:37 AM hi po mom ni sarah! kamusta po? di pa po ba kao quota sa earnings ng trophy daughter nyo? and sabi sa post ni AnonymousAugust 1, 2012 1:56 AM "madalas". bakit po? affected po kayo? sige po. bye po :)

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    8. Ok lang- 95% ng readers sa article na ito sinu-support si SG. Pabayaan na ang 5% na yan, In general wala talagang mali sa letter niya for SG. Very personalized. Halata namang para humirit lang para may makitang mali.

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    9. anong responsible parents don't tell others ka dyan? eh para saan pala ang parenting books at magazines? shonga.

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    10. sana nga kung equal ang treatment ni mommy and daddy sa lahat ng kids... bakit si SG lang ang pinag babawalan at hindi ang siblings?


      read AnonymousAugust 1, 2012 12:20 AM comment above.

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  45. One day, Sarah might accidentally see this blog and read this letter, naiimagine ko na its either matanda na syang dalaga or she married a guy hindi ka-level ni Gerald. I pity you Sarah....

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  46. I pity you Sarah, you may have all the success in your career but you will never experience complete happiness, not even for a while because you have a selfish mother who wants you all by herself...

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  47. I agree with the letter. Amen.

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  48. very well said! i cant help but to compare toni and sarah's situation when it comes to falling in love. both were raised by a conservative and strict parents. but at the age of 23, they allowed toni to be in a relationship na but with certain restrictions like toni and direk paul still have a curfew and are not allowed to travel together. sana naman mommy divine will let sarah follow what her heart desires.

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  49. Huge number of pips appreciate your letter Maria. We're hoping & even praying for a miracle to happen wherein the recipient of that letter will come across the changes we want (for her future). Let's take into consideration the nature of SG's mother. We shouldn't underestimate the insanity of mommy D. She won't buy the content of that letter. Believe me, I know her & that will not give her even a piece of guiltiness.

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    1. hahahah! napatawa at napagulat at the same time ako sa comment mo. parang knows mo tlga si Divine

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    2. haaay.. there is no cure for "self induced" insanity. lalo na siguro kung may perang involved. di baleng tawagin syang baliw, kung nakahiga naman sya sa pera. mainggit na lang daw tayo. haha..

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  50. The more that narrow-minded Tards will rant now that this letter has reached FP. They call themselves ASHRALD but only support S which is ok but i should remind them to change their fan name then. Gerald indeed how shown nothing but kindness & sincerity to Sarah. Fans are blinded by their beliefs that SG's family are all kind including the Mother. I'd suggest, Maria that you let them realize how sensible your letter is & it only speaks the truth!

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  51. I admire your braveness. Hope Sarah will be blessed with that too!

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  52. im praying for sa&ge.. God bless to both of them.. they deserve the happiness they want..

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  53. Your letter will determine who amongst our Ashrald members are pro-couple and pro-Sarah.

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    1. the narrow-minded tards here are the Pro-Sarah-Ashralds. i can't believe they even call themselves Ashrald?!?!

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    2. its not even about being a couple or having a boyfriend, i think this particular incident has brought about the FREEDOM and HAPPINESS that a person should have... kahit na pa POP-STAR princess sya or NORMAL na tao lang.. we have the right to EXPERIENCE LIFE AND LOVE whether or not it comes with PAIN and/or CHALLENGES. SG's life is too sheltered that she not allowed to experience a normal life. Diba nga ang mga artista strives to experience a normal life.. eh parang opposite naman ang parents ni SG

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  54. without pain, how can you feel love?
    without sadness, how do you know happiness?
    without tears, how can you tell you have achieve joy?

    life is full of trials and challenges, and these are the things that makes your achievements worthwhile.

    like each of us, I hope your parents find enlightenment from GOD. You're parents were lucky to have found each other and learned to love each other, but even with each other, I'm sure they have experience heartaches and heartbreaks and learned from it.

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  55. This is such a beautiful letter... Sana makarating sa kanya. at matauhan ang magulang nya.

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  56. I agree with u, Ms.Maria. Sarah, YOLO! It's about time u decide for youself and be independent. Mommy Divine, stop being selfish. i would never ever wanna have a Mom like her. Or be a mother like her. I dont wanna be the cause of my daughter's heartbreak.

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  57. FREE Sarah G!!!! Good job on this!

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  58. Nice one! I couldn't agree more! :)

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  59. at first, it was admirable how sarah was very obedient with her parents rules, but now, I feel like sarah is very coward, she has a mind of her own and decisions. There are times where you should make your own decisions and stick by them. Gusto ng parents ni sarah and sarah herself na ipaglaban sya ng lalaking magmamahal sa kanya and follow her parents rules, pero si sarah ba ipinaglaban nya ang feelings nya whether its for Gerald or kahit sino man.
    I wish that sarah and Gerald end up together. Pero I don’t think sarah deserves Gerald with the amount of love and respect Gerald showed Sarah and her parents.

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  60. Maria mind your own business and don't give unsolicited advice! love, mommy divine

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    1. Love mommy divine? Eh ikaw nga si mommy divine, pero ifernes nagbabasa ka pala ng fashion pulis ha.

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    2. yes, Sarah has a private life, but if u really love her like you say you do, at least show some concern..

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  61. I agree with you. I was never a fan of Gerald as an artist, but he sure showed sincerity not just a suitor but as a person as well. Each of us shouldn't be treated alike but at the age of 24, shouldn't Sarah be capable of deciding?

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  62. me, my aunt and my mom were all crying dhil sa ngyari sa knila.. d pa kmi mkamove on.. never kming nagkaganito sa isang artista or loveteams.. were all like crazy because of what had happened.. khit ganun ngyayari sa knila we still love and support sa&ge coz we dont know what's the prob/cause.. we dont know them personally, we just know them as a celebrity, so dear people dont judge anyone of them..hope its not the end of their story.. super kilig cla and i feel wat they have is real.. i pray na sila pa rin till the end.^_^..

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  63. Kase nga sg allowed her mom to treat her that way. Bkit sa kanya lang mahigpit? Sa ibang mga kpatid ba? I guess ginagawa syang milking cow. Si devin naman, di talaga type si ga. Type na type nya talaga para sa anak nya ay si jlc Kawawa tuloy si sg.

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    1. hindi siguro si JLC angd type ni mommy, baka ung anak ng politician ang type ni mommy (cam-sur)

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  64. this letter is self-serving and downright judgemental..what in six months of courtship na digest na niya character ni Sarah or even her family?! ohh pleazzz..bottom line here is bitter siya kasi hindi nangyari gusto niya for both Sarah and Gerald. But who knows naman the whole truth kundi sila lang the rest are haka-haka, assumptions, speculations etc. hindi naman niya alam buong pangyayari and yet hinusgahan na niya si Sarah and her family. Sino tayo to say her family is not admirable?! just because hindi nag katuluyan si Sarah and gerald ganon na tingin niya?! ang babaw naman niya

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    1. Hoy mommy D, matulog ka na! Wag mo na ipagtanggol kabaliwan mo. Palayain si Sarah! Hep-hep, hooray!

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    2. ayan kna nmn Mommy D. kaya si SG saan-saan ngpupunta pag nag-aaway keo eh. pakielamerang frog

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    3. defensive ka teh?

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  65. lagot ka Maria, Pagbabawalan ka na ni Mommy Divine na manuod sa concert ng anak niya dahil sa sinulat mo.

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  66. Hindi to mababasa ni sarah. Hawak ni divine ang phone at laptop n

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  67. Si Maria Cristine Reyes pala sumulat nito...

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    1. ahahahahha! sobrang napatawa mo ako. ahahahhah

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    2. si Maria Cristine Reyes-Cruz pla. ahahah

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    3. Does she even speak straight english?

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  68. I'm sure IDOL ni FP si Sarah pansin ko lang sunod-sunod ang article nya about her. Bakit FP are you a fan?

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    1. He's just reminding the public how ruthless some mothers are. Slavery is not the solution to poverty.

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    2. AnonymousAugust 1, 2012 3:17 AM - tomoh! sad to say may slavery pa pala sa pinas and they are on tv pa.

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    3. Oh! You're reminding us how ruthless some mothers are, but we're reminding you that not all that's written and said are the NAKED TRUTH. I'm sure there's a story behind and only the characters involved knew. We don't know the REAL REASON. Most of us are playing the GUESSING GAME (Assuming Mode)

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  69. Very well said. Sarah's parents are just afraid that Sarah will fall deeply in love with a man to a point of marrying it. Of course, mawawala na milking cow nila!

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  70. for me..sana wala nang turan kung sino ang may kasalanan dahil wala namang nakaalam kung anu talaga ang totoo,,,kung para talaga sila sa isa't-isa,magiging sila pa rin in the end...personally,,,kahit anu pa ang pagtanggol na gawin ni sarah at ng mga fans niya kay mommy devine...may katotohanan namn ang mga sinasabi ng press..noon pa 'yan,,,

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  71. That's not the point of Maria's letter. She just wanted Sarah to experience life regardless of the pain and hurt it may cause. The greatest thing she could do for herself and for us is to see herself free by making her own decision despite the refusal of her parents. She's already of age. SO what if they won't end up together..At least, she experienced how to be in a real relationship; this will make her stronger ever! This story happened with RC, it happened again.. Until when she will sacrifice her happiness?! It's like she's never been in the OUTSIDE WORLD...

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  72. Hay. I pity sarah. With all her success, when you look at her she has sad eyes. Kawawa naman. She can have the world on her feet pero di nya maenjoy. She can't enjoy her money, her youth, her fame. I love that she's so humble but sana naman pagbigyan mabuhay ng sarili nya un tao.
    At tama yun na if alam mong pinalaki mo ng tama, alam na ng anak mo ang dapat at di dapat gawin. Its not an issue of virginity or whatever, she can do everything responsibly. As long as its not detrimental to her.
    I wonder baka natatakot si mommy na 1. Mawalan ng anda 2. Marealize ni sarah na super kinakawawa sha at mag rebel and hate them.
    Oh well. I'm not a fan but I wish sarah happiness.

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  73. I wanted to finish reading the letter, I swear, but the lack of paragraphs makes me stop. :(

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  74. sa experience kasi natututo ang tao. palagay na natin na mali wrong person si GA for SG, ok lng yun pra maglearn sila both, ndi lng si GA. kng mali ba ang dumaan sa trials, di san pinagbawal na ng Panginoon ang problema sa buhay! hinahayaan nga nya mangyari ang problema to build character sa isang tao, to learn faith. eh kng laging sheltered to the point na halos ndi na nakikihalubilo sa ibang tao, sobra nmn yun! ndi na pagmamahal yan, slavery na yan. pagsisisihan ni SG na sinayang nya ang oras nya, you dont start living until you start spreading your wings. aantay pa ba sya na maging 30 to start magbf?! kaloka!

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  75. Naku po haharangin na ito ni Mommy Divine kasi baka mabrainwash ang anak nya! Nakakalokah ka Mommy Divine huh, tingnan mo naman ibang tao pa ang nagpapamulat ng mata ng anak mo!

    Maria, salamat dahil may isang tulad mo na nagvoice out ng saloobin mo! Sana talaga mabasa ito ni Sarah kasi kahit sino ang hingan mo ng opinion, sinasabing sobra na talaga ang ginagawa ng parents nya, particulary the mom. Nakakaawa kasi 24 years old na inosente pa rin hanggang ngayon. Hindi naman sha pinoprotektahan para wag masaktan eh, dahil nasasaktan na sha sa ginagawa ng magulang nya! Sana makahanap naman si Sarah ng magpoprotekta sakanya sa magulang nya!

    Kakagigil talaga mommy nya, affected ako!

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  76. hay naku,ang problema talaga si sarah..ang tanda na pero parang walang buto..following your heart doesnt mean being disrespectful to your parents.itong nanay at tatay nmn nya,d ko malaman if sobrang pagmamahal ba sa kanya o sa milyones ni S kaya ayaw pakawalan.24 na pero di pa rin kayang magdecide for herself..anuvehh.nkakadisappoint lang.oa na masyado.overrated.kung wala di wala,kung ayaw di ayaw.tseeeh!last comment ko na talaga to sa super oa na lovestory na to..hmppp!hahahahahahah.

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    1. parang hindi si Sarah ang problema. Ikaw! Super OA din comment mo! Hmpf!

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  77. sa kalungkutan ng karamihan,ay may ilang nasisiyahan--eksampol: cristine reyes..hahaha

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  78. ang gusto lang iparating ni maria kay sarah is,,,sana ma-experience niya ang normal life na nararanasan ng iba kahit strict pa ang parens...at yun din ang gustong iparating sa kanay ni gerald when ge gave sarah a clock...mahalaga ang bawat oras,,,kaya dapat e enjoy mo,,,dahil pag nawala na baka pagsisihan mo,,,"time lost may never be back again"...gerald knows at everybody knoews na hindi na e enjoy ni sarah ang kanayang kabataan,,,kahit hindi pa si gerald ang guy,,sarah should try,,may kasabihan nga,,,"it's better to have love and lost than never to have love at all"...at least hindi siya habang buhay magtanong sa sarili niya,,,what if na try ko??...kaya wala namang bitterness sa letter na to,,,more on concern ka y sarah...baka someday,,,bungi pa makatuluyan niya sa sobrang ater ng magulang na wala naman sa lugar,,,

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  79. kung yung rules sana ng magulang nila applicable sa lahat ng mga anak nila,,wala sigurong maraming magre-react,,,dahil yun ang rules nila as parents...pero ang malaking tanong bakit kay sarah lang?...dahil vulnerable siya?...dahil nasa showbiz siya??...cshowbiz or non-showbiz daming manloloko...ewan ko bah anung klaseng utak merun ang pamilya ni sarah,,,kala mo naman royal family,,,

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  80. I don't think anyone has the right to intrude into the private lives of Sarah Geronimo and her family, much less into family decisions. Sarah may be a public figure but she needs to live a private life too. Leave them alone, people!

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    1. True! Whatever S decides to do, she'll learn from it.

      And my two cents: if the guy won't fight for you, no matter how impossible things seem, then it's clear the guy's not really into you.

      I would like to believe that S is worth all the trouble.

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    2. If that's the case why did you read the post and even write the comment,.. Meaning nakikialam ka din at naintriga ka, its a matter of intruding pa rin,

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    3. yes, Sarah has a private life, but if u really love her like you say you do, at least show some concern..

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  81. Mangaamit c GE! Paran Kay bea dati di tinuloy kse dami issues

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      Is that you, di nya tunuloy ang kay bea kasi hindi pa ganun kalalim ang love... Hindi naman kaylangan gamitin ni Ge si sarah kasi wala naman sila movie e, and sikat si Ge, tinagalog ko na lang kasi baka hindi mo naintindiham yung sulat.

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  82. Bagay p nmn ang Name nyong Dalawa : DIVINE MARIA
    O devah! all-kind & admirable lang ang peg!

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  83. Hindi ito mababasa ni Sarah kasi bawal din siya mag internet. Pati nga daw pagtext may limit. Sa pagiging overly traditional ni Mommy Divine hindi niya hahayaan mabasa ni Popstar yan.

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  84. i'll just pray for you Sarah since i'm sure Maria's msg will not reach you. At the peak of nega issues, i doubt if your mom will let you read even one issue. Prayer is more powerful anyway. I'm pretty sure that God will show you the right way to Freedom & Love.

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  85. Obviously, ang dami mong oras teh!

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  86. Iba ung kay Bea kc di sila tanggap ng madlang people...E, eto nmn, tanggap2x sa knila, wla n ung problema ngayon ke G kc truth prevailed! this happened with Rayver before.nangyri n nman..this time, hindi na lalaki me fault e..na kay Sarah, kc hinahayaan nya srili nyng mabrainwash..manindigan nmn xa..ano n nmn xa ngayon??! iiyak na feeling nya, sya naagrabyado??!! e sinu bang masokista???hind bat xa??kc SPINELESS XA..feeling 3yrs old na kelangang subuan at lagyan ng diaper!! She is the one who is making herself MISERABLE!!!

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  87. Si Divine kasi feeling prophet, sasabihin daw sa kanya ng Diyos kung ito na ang tamang lalaki sa anak niya. So what kung masaktan si Sarah? Charge it to experience! That's life! Nakakainis na din si Sarah kung tutuusin. wala ka bang sariling pagiisip? kapatid mo nasa Paris, marunong mag english (although wala ako naintindihan sa sinabi niya) pero ikaw hindi ka makasagot ng english. ikaw naghihirap pero hindi ka pwede sumaya? kaya i dont blame Rayver..pamilya mo parang kulto!

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  88. OA naman ang mga reaction.let them be......sarah is just showing how stupid she is,she's 24 .what if she decided na makipag BF and it lasted only for a short time,tama si mommy,di ba,, knowing G"s record when it comes to girls,denied na naging GF si bea,when naging sila...G is still young and still searching,and i dont think talagang type niys si S

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  89. Di seryoso si GEge kse tumigil sya agAd meaning wla sya isang salita.

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  90. I juz admire maria for doing that,but d question is?does it makes any difference?sarah is such an obidient daughter and had been brought up and shaped according to divines belief of having a perfect relationship. I myself can relate to sarahs situation,i was brought up in a conservative way ,no boyfriend or suitors allowed until i finish my university,d only difference ,I was provided with everything i want. i was so rebellious that time. I made a way how i will enjoy my youth, i make takas everytime my parents asleep and a lot more.Iam in my 40's and still had regret and missing my youth..i feel so sorry s for her, because she doesnt know how beautiful life is,I hope she can find d way to fight for her freedom and happiness.I juz pray that d lord above touches Divine hearts to be more considerate on sarahs feelings...to gerald i hope he finds the courage to stay behind sarah no matter what, a lover? or a friend maybe?

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  91. No Mother will allow some bad things to happen to her child. Especially her daughter. I am not Divine so don't bash me. Speaking from a Mother's point of view, she may have good reasons why she's acting that way. Remember "Mother knows best" mas kilala ni Divine si Sarah dahil sa kanya galing ito isa pa hindi naman natin alam kung ano mga nangyayari sa loob ng bahay nila. Iba iyong character ng tao pag naa sa labas ng bahay ang totoong kulay lumalabas sa loob ng bahay kasi wala kang inhibitions because kilala ka ng mga tao doon. Let's not judge Divine because she knows what kind of person Sarah is.

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  92. The only thing that's wrong here is that the parents love Sarah too much and Sarah loves her parents too much as well.But as they say too much of everything is wrong. I admire Sarah more. No one, I repeat no one in this generation can be that selfless.Yung uunahin yung iba kesa sa sarili niya. ok nang siya ang nasasaktan wag lang ung family niya. But again too much of everything is bad. I hope she also learn to love herself..

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  93. Ang issue dito:
    Bakit ang example ng sender ay si Time Giver? Inosente din tong sender na 'to.

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  94. Sad to say this but "S" is the source of income of their family. Her parents should work thier assess and not to depend to her.

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  95. do you even know what the real story behind this? kung mala comment eh parang alam na alam nyo ang mga pinag dadaanan ng mga taong involved. kung alam nyo lang baka isuka nyo pa si ge.,!

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  96. Dear maria,

    Its not about love or concern, it is about milking the sarah cow until she bleeds and dries. It's all about the moolah.

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  97. Nakialam talaga?????!!!!! Ganun ka affected much si Maria!!!!!??? Mag focus nlng sa pagbabago ng ating mga sarili at tulungan ung mga abot ng ating mga tulong at kakayahan. Wag ng maconcern sa isang celebrity much!!! Kung Pangea at poorita na mamamayan ang me ganyang problema e Hindi mo pagaaksayahan ng panahon!!!! Nagkataon lang na tulad ka din ng ibang mga Pilipino na biktima ng entertainment sa telebisyon at naaattach sa mga personalidad na nakikita mo dito! Hala kalma na, Maria!

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  98. I agree na sana bigyan si sarah ng freedom to love and experience hurt...kahit di si gerald yung guy...someday may darating na guy na para talaga sa kanya

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  99. OA naman ang letter na to. It is her family and they are her parents. It is nobody's business whatever understanding they have within the family.

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  100. I've been avoiding reading and posting on the BIs lately because this blog has been turning into a soap for these 2 but this is ridiculous. Who cares really! Maria, get a life. Instead of worrying over a 24 year old who makes 10x more than you do, worry about yourself and why you have the time to write this long letter to a blind item blog. You're disturbed? Your letter is disturbing. At your age, you should be doing more. The letters ranting and complaining about telecoms and other business establishments are more reasonable than yours because they speak from first hand experience. You're merely speculating over 2 celebrities with whom you are not privy with their personal lives save for what their PR people cook for the public (unless you're part of that machinery, then I stand corrected). Save the arm-chair analysis for something more substantial like our power crisis and the ongoing massacre the Chinese are perpetuating on our corals. These issues ARE disturbing. You're preoccupation over a loveteam at your 40s? THAT IS disturbing.

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  101. TRO PARA SA MGA MAPANGABUSO AT MUKHANG PERANG MAGULANG!

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  102. Para namang walang life tong 40 year old na nag submit pa ng open letter. Wala kang ibang hobby teh?

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  103. I agree with you Mrs. Maria!

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  104. for those people saying na walang backbone si sarah. think again. we don't see the whole picture. we don't see how they are at home. we're not privy to their conversations or confrontations. may iba-ibang way of showing "backbone" ang tao. and i think sarah is a very strong and resilient person.

    did you guys even see the whole Sarah G Live show last sunday? she has her own way of handling things. it may not be how WE want her to handle it pero it showed that she was really trying. Anong gusto nyong gawin nya on national tv? diss her own parents? she was very civil, smiling despite the obvious hurt in her eyes. and it was very obvious how she stopped her mom from saying more about Gerald. kung wala syang malasakit or pagpapahalaga kay gerald, she could've just let her go on. maaaring kulang sa paningin nyo, but it is her way.

    and anak tayong lahat, alam nyo na kahit gaano kasama ng ginagawa ng magulang natin, we're still the first people to defend them from others. ginawa yon ni sarah that night.

    please, let's stop judging sarah. stop crucifying her.

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  105. very well sAid. is it true that sarah's siblings are
    in the US studying? freedom for them

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  106. Regine during her prime, was a much bigger star than Sarah. She did experience far worse intrigues (with crush ng bayan A, kabit ni king of soul...). But never, as in never, can i recall Mang Gerry his father, or any member of her family speaking out, stepping into the issue or launching any form of gimmicks (to mask the issue/s). They have remained silent and respectful of what Regine will do or how she will handle the issue/s. Look where she is now? Still around, still relevant, still bankable, more mature, happily married and contended mother.

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  107. Nakita ko a ang sarah g. Live last sunday, sino nga ba ang ganun katapang na lalaki oara harapin ang kasing higpit na magulang ni sarah? Ano bang batas ang pinagsasasabi ni mommy divine na kung sa bahay naman pla naakyat ng ligaw? Sarah, hindi sumuko sau si Ge ikaw ang unang sumuko sa kanya kasi pinaglalaban ka nya matagal na, pero ikaw nagawa mo ba sya ipaglaban? Sa relasyon di lang isa ang lumalaban.

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  108. Bravo Maria! very well said. from the start, i'm a supporter of Sarah. but in this point, na kay Ge ang sympathy ko! sorry for the term pero, ang tanga-tanga na lang ni Sarah kung papakawalan niya pa si Gerald na ginagawa lahat ng gusto niya at gusto ng pamilya niya just to prove na malinis ang intentions niya!

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  109. Thanks Maria for telling what the public really feel. This letter sums it all. I hope Sarah would get to read this and her parents too. Sarah, let go! Enjoy life and allow yourself to love and to be loved (aside from your parents/family). Don't be afraid to commit mistake because that's what life is. Love life including its imperfections.

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  110. Ciguro nga pra magkaproject,dati naman di cya sikat,nung madikit lang ky S sumikat ng husto.....Pero liked ko talaga loveteam nila...sana eh mabasa ni S ung letter na yan...at maisip niya na sobrang OA na ginagawa ni mudra...cya nagpapaaral sa mga kapatid nya, BIGYAN NAMAN ng KONTING KALAYAAN>>>>>SANA me maglagay sa lahat ng tabloid para mabasa ni mudra at mauntog!!!!!!!!

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  111. i'm d same with Sarah. I grew up with over protective parents and relatives. di pa nakatulong ang situation na i fell in love with a guy na ayaw nila, but i fought for the relationship. dahil sabi ko ako namn ang makikisama. ako ang nahihirapan pg di ko sia kasama. for 9 yrs i went out with the guy. it was difficult balancing both. love life and my relationship with my parents and relatives. i dont want my family to get disappointed with me and i dont want to break up with my boyfriend. my bf and i were always careful. dapat wla kaming magawang puedeng mg bigay ng chance sa parents ko na pg hiwalayin kami. wla kaming masyadong freedom when it comes to dating. di oras ang labas namin. pg sa bahay namn ang punta nia, di pa rin kmi mkagalaw ng maayos kc may mga matang nakabntay. for 9 yrs, it was like that. di mn kami nagkatuluyan ng bf ko as he left this world too early. looking back, i had no regrets. i was able to experience love, pain, joy... lahat ng emotion. it made me who i am today. kahit mahirap, ibalik mn ang oras, i will still do same. kakausapin q pa rin 1 on 1 ang tatay ko na ala mommy divine. hihingi ng permiso na gusto q nang mgka bf. i want this guy and no one else. hehe... To sarah - alam ko mahirap talaga. lalo nat masunurin kang masyado sa parents mo, but u know its good to experience everything while kaya mo pa. heartaches, normal lang yan. it's part of growing up. if u feel na sincere si Ge sa'yo why not give him a chance. at least later di ka puro what ifs... kung career ang pumipigil sa nu, well... it's up to the both of u kung ano ang mahalaga sa nu. sayang nga lang kc, when u were together, i can say na both of u may kinang sa nung mga mata. im not really into love teams, but the 2 of u captured my heart kc iba ung kilig nu. ang sweet nung tingnan. I am hoping that both of u can patch up things. good luck sa nu ni Ge. More power career and love life sana :)

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  112. Ive read Ge is going to Turkey with brother and to meet his dad. He also plans to go to Israel, the Holy land.He needs time for herself and his family.I hope he prays for Sarah and the family and that everything will end up happily.

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  113. sakto!!!perfect!!!sapul!!!bulls eye!!!
    salamat Ms Maria.
    FP,ikaw na!always stays relevant and most of all the truth that showbis industries deprive from the people for the sake of profit.

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  114. Bravo Maria! very well said. from the start, i'm a supporter of Sarah. but in this point, na kay Ge ang sympathy ko! sorry for the term pero, ang tanga-tanga na lang ni Sarah kung papakawalan niya pa si Gerald na ginagawa lahat ng gusto niya at gusto ng pamilya niya just to prove na malinis ang intentions niya!

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  115. Sana hipuin ni Lord ang puso ni divine...at paligayahin naman ang anak nya,kayod kalabaw na ginagawa ng anak,mahigpit pa din...kkbusit!!!!!!

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  116. In short, meessage should be C'MON POPSTAR.. Learn to stand up for yourself and what you believe in. You're old enough to make your DAMN DECISIONS. Stop trying to be perfect because NO ONE IS. You need to grow up, need to face your parents and say MOM, DAD I'm NOT A KID ANYMORE. DEAL WITH IT. I don't trust GE (I think SG deserves better, though i'm not her fan) but who am I judge right? So kung feel nya maging sila.. then no one should stop her. Her parents need a SERIOUS PUNCH in their faces for raising SG like this.

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  117. "I am a mother of a 19 y/o and raised her God-fearing and with values as well. But I let her learn her lessons on her own, even if I wanted to dictate to her what her decision should be at a particular moment."--- Thing is -the letter sender's daughter is not a superstar. It is easy to let her be. Walang pressure kasi wala syang image to project. Sarah is married to the public. Madumi ang showbiz/politics tsaka maraming gamitan. Sharon Cuneta? Really? Alam nyang pinagsususpetsahan kasarian ng bf ng anak nya ng buong mundo pero she turned a blind eye. Yung nagkahiwalay, tsaka nya tine-threaten yung mga fans ni Fafa sa twitter eh pwede naman nyang pigilan noon pa. Angeli Pangilinan? Her son Gab verbally abused Rachel Anne Go (inamin ni Gab sa Pep.ph, look it up). Yan ba ang Christian upbringing? Lumalabas parang mother of the year pa si Annabel Rama nyan.
    Matanda na si Sarah, mapera pati. E di makipag-bf sya. Wala namang baril na pumipigil sa kanya from seeing someone. Masyado silang madra-drama.

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  118. "Shielding" Sarah in an OA way wouldn't actually teach her how to really "live" her life! At 24 she should at least know how to say yes or no, decide for herself, and stand for her OWN wants, needs &decisions.

    Her parents wouldn't be with her forever, and when that time comes I have a feeling that Sarah won't be that confident and wouldn't exactly know what to do next since she's brought up to be super dependent to them all her life!

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  119. Eh di wag tangkilikin show/concert/movie ni SG para wala ng pera ang mommy d nya since pera naman ang reason kaya ayaw bigyan ng freedom si SG.

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  120. Sana lang, after several years, S.G. won't be saying: "Sana pala pinaglaban ko si G., sana pala ginawa ko ang dapat kong gawin, etc. etc." Walang regrets on her part. But the first thing that S.G. should do is ask her parents about her earnings!!!

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  121. goosebump ako... God bless Sarah & Gerald Anderson! All the best!

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  122. ganda ng message, sana talaga umabot at mabasa ni SG to..

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  123. NG and TG pure?? Echos lang yun mga teh! May nakakakita nga out of town Si ng & bc sa subic as in super PDA dw sa may beach at night. One room pa sa hotel. So ano gnawa nila tingin nyo? Hay showbiz!!!

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  124. wow! very well said! so inspiring..i love this letter..i am a mom myself and i think her mom is too controlling of her daughter..sometimes we should allow our children to fail coz thats where they will learn in life..her mom is just too bitter and selfish..i feel sad for her and gerald as well..

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  125. if we express dismay towards S&G's situation, it is not because we are prying into their private lives,it's because we care for them.

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  126. Even if not with Gerald and even if we don't really know how Sarah is treated by her parents, the way Sarah acted last Sunday showed a very troubled and emotionally abused young woman. Her behavior is a sign of someone who is emotionally abused, she looked so guilty as if she was made to believe that she is a terrible person. She will see herself as someone worthless and when has had enough of her parents' abuse will go with the next person who makes her feel important, who may be her mother's worst dream!

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  127. Totoo bang may kapatid syang nagaaral sa abroad hmmmm!

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  128. gimik lang yan ng abs... masyado kayong affected. baka may bagong teleserye o movie yan sila.

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  129. i am not a fan of sarah pero sana walang maoffend sa sasabihin ko. I really feel the concern of her parents. Nakikita naman natin na nagpapasa-pasahan lang ng mga babae sa showbusiness. like si Jen, kung sino-sino na ang tumikim, andyan si Bianks at lalong lalo na si Pinochio. Iniisip lang ng parents nya na hindi siya matulad sa kanila. Kahit na liberated itong bansa natin, mas maganda talaga if VIRGIN ka bago ikasal. Ako, virgin ako nang ikasal ako dahil pinaghigpitan ako ng mama ko and sobrang happy sa akin ng husband. Although bilib ako sa mga lalaking tinatanggap ka ano pa man ang past mo, pero diba mas malinis sa konsensya mo na buong buo ka nakuha ng mahal mo?

    Gege is a playboy. No doubt about it and ayan ang nakatatak sa utak ng parents ni sarah. Pag ang bata nagrebelde sa magulang dahil pinaghihigpitan sya nito, ung bata na ang may problem. Di ba pwedeng mabuhay ang isang tao ng walang lovelife? She's still young naman. Sister ko nga 32 na nagasawa at 33 she gave birth, naka-2 pa sya. And virgin din siya dahil ganon nga pagpapalaki samin ng mga magulang namin.

    I know some of you will not understand dahil madami ditong beki or liberated person. Hindi ako hypocrite. Fact talaga na mas masarap sa pakiramdam ng isang babae na virgin ka bago ka ikasal. Now, I know most of you will disagree cos fact is, 90% of you here are not virgin anymore ng ikasal. Pero diba minsan sumagi sa isip niyo na sana buong-buo niyo nabigay sa asawa niyo ang sarili niyo? Yung hindi lang tira na??

    Now sa trust about her child, maybe she knows na patay na patay si sarah kay gege na pwede nyang isuko ang bataan. Prevention is better than cure diba nga? So i guess yan ang dahilan ng mama ni sarah. and i salute her for standing for what she believes in.

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