1053 He will be understood by anyone who has experience death in the family. Para sa'yo na mababaw pa ang karanasan sa buhay, tumahimik ka na lang. People may grieve differently pero ang Suma tutal ay they still grieve.
Nasa social media nga lahat ng kababawan at pagpapapansin. Tapos un isang magulang ayaw mong mag post sa social media niya ng kanyang grief. Ang sama mo
Yun nga. Yung first pic is more than enough. As much as i understand his situation pero di ako agree dun sa issue nya sa priest. Masyado lang. Wala naman masama kasing nasabi in the first place tapos parang need i-pacify yung situation by apologizing dahil kilala yung na trigger.
You never know, that must be his way of coping. Let him brag as a parent sa social media na criticism lang inabot ng anak nya na naging authentic lang naman..at maybe hindi nya na all out before, ang suportahan anak nya
1:05 you obviously need more understanding on mental health. If you thought na ok lang i-undermine ng priest ang mental health issue dahil physically healthy ang isang tao, you are part of the problem.
Like your unsolicited advice . Paki ba njnyo seriously? He’s grieving. Ppl have different ways. Wag kang makialam. Hope this happens to you and makialam mga tao.
1:05 when you are guilty, everything triggers you. Kahit malayo sa sitwasyon mo pero may isang salita na denominator, triggered ka agad. He should forgive himself, not everything is about him/his situation. sorry i know he is grieving but be also sensitive to others, he becomes a silent bully already.
And also, 1:05am it is just right to call out the priest. Because brain chemical imbalance do really exist and its not right for the priest to say that. Because in the philippines over used and depressed word pati yung pari need to be educated
What else needs to be protected? It is part of his grieving and wala na nga yung tao. Maybe he thought that if he was more proud of his daughter before
1:49 tama naman yung priest.. dami nyo nagsasabi na depressed maski hindi diagnosed... overused na yung term na yan at ginagamit na for simple sadness. if you really want to educate people, stop using clinical terms like depressed, narcissist, bipolar, autistic.. my former colleagues used to "joke" that i'm autistic just because i stutter maski doktor nagsabi normal ako... puro kayo educate educate eh kayo mismo ayaw magpa educate ipokrita
Sorry sa mga super talino jan pero obvious naman yung point nung priest. We all do get “depressed” lalo na kung may nangyaring big na hindi maganda. To describe it as just sad is not enough. Parang ang gusto nyo palabasin na depression is such a a special term na hindi dapat ginagamit but it is a common word. So matrigger din ba tayo kung may naulat na may namumuong tropical depression or yung great depression in history? If nag pa psychiatrist ka and sinabi na you are suffering from clinical depression then use that term para malinaw. Depression and clinical depression do not mean the same..kaya nga may clinical na added kasi iba ang meaning pag meron yun.
Depression is a broad term for low mood, while clinical depression is a specific, severe mental health condition known as major depressive disorder. The main differences lie in general sadness versus a diagnosed medical illness, symptom duration, and how much it affects daily life.
If you search depression vs clinical depression, ito ang lumalabas so they are 2 different things. So walang mali if you use the word depressed. Hindi mo need maging clinically depressed para lang magamit yung word na depressed.
I hope you and your wife will one day find the courage to move forward and put the things in a good, safe place. But for now, feel all the feelings. Praying for your healing and full acceptance 🙏
Biyenan ko ganyan din. Pinapalinis lang kwarto ng hipag ko, who died at 55 years old from an illness, pero walang binabago sa kwarto. Hintayin na lang daw siya mawala din bago may baguhin sa room 😞.
Whatever floats your boat Kuya Kim and fam. Pero mas better e donate nalang mga yan. They're gathering dust as we speak, literally. Mas mapapakinabangan pa yan ng iba or mas deserving like the cameras.
Some things should be kept private and out of social media.
ReplyDeleteWala ka ng pakialam don. If it's his way to grieve. Pasalamat ka na lang kung di ka pa namamatayan ng kapamilya
Delete1053 He will be understood by anyone who has experience death in the family. Para sa'yo na mababaw pa ang karanasan sa buhay, tumahimik ka na lang. People may grieve differently pero ang Suma tutal ay they still grieve.
DeleteNasa social media nga lahat ng kababawan at pagpapapansin. Tapos un isang magulang ayaw mong mag post sa social media niya ng kanyang grief. Ang sama mo
DeleteWhat some things? Your comment? Yeah I agree
DeleteYun nga. Yung first pic is more than enough. As much as i understand his situation pero di ako agree dun sa issue nya sa priest. Masyado lang. Wala naman masama kasing nasabi in the first place tapos parang need i-pacify yung situation by apologizing dahil kilala yung na trigger.
DeleteYou never know, that must be his way of coping. Let him brag as a parent sa social media na criticism lang inabot ng anak nya na naging authentic lang naman..at maybe hindi nya na all out before, ang suportahan anak nya
Delete1:05 you obviously need more understanding on mental health. If you thought na ok lang i-undermine ng priest ang mental health issue dahil physically healthy ang isang tao, you are part of the problem.
DeleteTheir SM, their rules. You don't have to look
DeleteTHIS
DeleteLike your unsolicited advice . Paki ba njnyo seriously? He’s grieving. Ppl have different ways. Wag kang makialam. Hope this happens to you and makialam mga tao.
Delete1:05 when you are guilty, everything triggers you. Kahit malayo sa sitwasyon mo pero may isang salita na denominator, triggered ka agad. He should forgive himself, not everything is about him/his situation. sorry i know he is grieving but be also sensitive to others, he becomes a silent bully already.
Deletewell this is what social media made people do. also to each on their own for coping mechanism. you do you boo.
DeleteAnd also, 1:05am it is just right to call out the priest. Because brain chemical imbalance do really exist and its not right for the priest to say that. Because in the philippines over used and depressed word pati yung pari need to be educated
DeleteWhat else needs to be protected? It is part of his grieving and wala na nga yung tao. Maybe he thought that if he was more proud of his daughter before
DeleteDapat kasi feeling depressed ang sinabi niya hindi depressed lang para hindi ma-misinterpret na clinical depression yong sinasabi niya.
DeleteIkaw at ang mga nag-agree ay masama ang budhi!
DeleteThey are in the public eye, that’s his way of coping. Maraming regrets siguro kaya ganyan.
Delete1:49 tama naman yung priest.. dami nyo nagsasabi na depressed maski hindi diagnosed... overused na yung term na yan at ginagamit na for simple sadness. if you really want to educate people, stop using clinical terms like depressed, narcissist, bipolar, autistic.. my former colleagues used to "joke" that i'm autistic just because i stutter maski doktor nagsabi normal ako... puro kayo educate educate eh kayo mismo ayaw magpa educate ipokrita
DeleteSorry sa mga super talino jan pero obvious naman yung point nung priest. We all do get “depressed” lalo na kung may nangyaring big na hindi maganda. To describe it as just sad is not enough. Parang ang gusto nyo palabasin na depression is such a a special term na hindi dapat ginagamit but it is a common word. So matrigger din ba tayo kung may naulat na may namumuong tropical depression or yung great depression in history? If nag pa psychiatrist ka and sinabi na you are suffering from clinical depression then use that term para malinaw. Depression and clinical depression do not mean the same..kaya nga may clinical na added kasi iba ang meaning pag meron yun.
DeleteDepression is a broad term for low mood, while clinical depression is a specific, severe mental health condition known as major depressive disorder. The main differences lie in general sadness versus a diagnosed medical illness, symptom duration, and how much it affects daily life.
DeleteIf you search depression vs clinical depression, ito ang lumalabas so they are 2 different things. So walang mali if you use the word depressed. Hindi mo need maging clinically depressed para lang magamit yung word na depressed.
let a grieving father be. it's just his way of coping. wala naman syang shinare na masama, just memories.
DeleteWatch the Netflix documentary na fineature yung mga rooms ng anak na namatay na.
DeleteOo kase ikaw dapat umalis at wag maginternet
DeleteI think any parent would. Helps keep memories alive.
ReplyDeleteThis is so heartbreaking. i wish him strength
ReplyDeletei feel so sad for him :(
ReplyDeleteI hope you and your wife will one day find the courage to move forward and put the things in a good, safe place. But for now, feel all the feelings. Praying for your healing and full acceptance 🙏
ReplyDeleteHow come?
DeleteI'm not 12:09, but I don't understand your question 1:26AM
DeleteYou don't really move forward. You just learn to live with the fact.
Delete12:23 yes you are right, I thought they mean the same thing. Thanks for pointing it out. 12;09
DeleteNakakalungkot to, yung gamit at room nya parang naghihintay sa owner na di na babalik.
ReplyDeleteBiyenan ko ganyan din. Pinapalinis lang kwarto ng hipag ko, who died at 55 years old from an illness, pero walang binabago sa kwarto. Hintayin na lang daw siya mawala din bago may baguhin sa room 😞.
DeleteLosing someone specially this young will forever be her parents "what if?" & "Could have been." Its really heart breaking..
ReplyDeleteRich girl
ReplyDeleteCommon knowledge naman na mayaman talaga sila.
DeleteTake your time to heal... It's a process but there will come a time na you'll be ready din.
ReplyDeleteThis is unhealthy
ReplyDeleteWhatever floats your boat Kuya Kim and fam. Pero mas better e donate nalang mga yan. They're gathering dust as we speak, literally. Mas mapapakinabangan pa yan ng iba or mas deserving like the cameras.
ReplyDeleteHirap pa sila na i-let go kasi dun sila nakakakuha ng comfort. Ganun talaga, iba iba ang tao, Baka ikaw kaya mo gawin mo pag ikaw ang namatayan.
DeleteWishing you peace
ReplyDeleteAll these material stuff didn’t actually satisfy the soul. Let it be a lesson to all of us. This earthly life is so temporary
ReplyDeleteComment not needed. It's a typical room of a teen
DeleteA rich teenager. Troubled by the ways of this world.
Delete8:13 feeling wise mo naman shut up ka na lang
DeleteMakalat din pala sya. Parang ako lang.
ReplyDeleteHow do you continue living after losing someone? 🤧🤧 so sad.. All her stuff waiting for her to return 😪
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