Grabe, kawawa naman si Yasmien! Nabasa ko yung sa anak nya and pati psychological bullying ginawa. One instance was forcing her kid to say 10 things na annoying about herself. Isipin mo how mean those kids had to be to even do tha
I had a couple bullies in high school. I was considered 'pretty' back then, but timid. My bullies were mukhang tipaklong. It was only in the latter part that I realized they stepped on me because of jealousy. Ang crush nila, crush ako. Ako naman, walang alam sa lahat.
Taga NEU ka no 11:30? LOL May ugali din naman kasi si ate mo kaya inaway ni Katrina Halili dati during Starstruck days pero yeah, hindi dapat na-bully. Baka inggit sa kanya.
Madalas mabully yung mga batang nagpapakita ng confidence na may kayabangan ang dating. Tapos babae pa so parang unusual yung ganun. Meron kasing confident na hindi mayabang ang aura. The other kids will see this as a threat.
maganda naman ginawa ni Yasmien na inalis niya sa school na may bullies yung anak niya. Traumatic ang naging experience ng bagets sa kanyang dating school. Marami din kasi inggit sa mga magaganda at mga anak ng artista kaya target sila ng bullying.
I think ang mga batang nambubully comes from a family where violence is prevalent, true love is inexistent, absence of peace and harmony from the people they are living with. Those facts can't be change or controlled. Ang binubully nila are those kids na they think kayang kaya nila kaya dpat ang mga bata that grows within a loving and harmonious family must be briefed na outside their home they should be ready, brave and strong or mentally and emotionally stable to withstand adversities caused by situations or people in the surroundings. Nakita ko kc yan sa pamangkin ko. Becoz she has a very loving family and live in our compound with loving cousins and relatives, parang nasha-shock siya sa outside world. Need pa ipa-intindi na hindi parehas ang atmosphere in and out of the house becoz iba-iba ang upbringing ng mga tao.
This is one possibility, kasi ang mga bata hindi pa sila marunong ng internal regulation and pag label ng emotion, so they process what is happening to them at home by acting it out. Pero may mga bullies din na they do this because yung mga bullies sa typical na school hierarchy ang nasa itaas.
Some bullies come from well off family. Mayabang ang parents and ganun din ang anak. Alam nya na may pera sila and angat sa buhay kaya feel nila pwede nilang laruin ang mga tao sa paligid nila. Sadyang masama ang budhi.
While this is true, possible rin na walang violence at home but more on neglect. Yung tipong hindi nagkakausap, nakikipagkwentuhan sa mga bata. Kaya they act out when they can.
Either way mga bata ang victims dito, really the parents should be accountable. Kaya tama lang ipaglaban nina Alfred.
my daughter also got bullied by classmates and worst by the teacher. she was doing good in school kaso nadadamay sa mga pasaway na kaklase. she drank 27 different kinds of medicine without us knowing. nabasa ko na lang sa messenger nya buti daw naagapan namin at na flush. a day late wala na kong aabutang panganay. as an ofw mom sobrang sakit. buong flight naiyak ako.
@3:02pm have you experienced ma bully? if not keep your mouth shut! Very traumatic ang ma bully, dadalhin yun ng bata hangan pag tanda nya. Sana ma experience mo, baka mag bago ang pananaw mo about bullying 😏
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ReplyDeleteIto na yung simula,.sunod2x nayung lumalaban na Parents na para sa na bully na mga anak..
ReplyDeleteYasmien was my schoolmate back in HS and she was also bullied kasi maganda talaga sya. Mga nang bubully mga mukang tipaklong. Go Yas, teach them!
ReplyDeleteHahaha…. Kaloka. Ganun nga minsan. Kung sino pa mga di kagandahan, sila pa bully.
DeleteGrabe, kawawa naman si Yasmien! Nabasa ko yung sa anak nya and pati psychological bullying ginawa. One instance was forcing her kid to say 10 things na annoying about herself. Isipin mo how mean those kids had to be to even do tha
Delete12:17 Mapapaisip ka na lang kung bakit may mga ganyang bata. Saan nila nakukuha yung lakas ng loob mang-bully??? Malamang sa bahay or sa internet.
DeleteI had a couple bullies in high school. I was considered 'pretty' back then, but timid. My bullies were mukhang tipaklong. It was only in the latter part that I realized they stepped on me because of jealousy. Ang crush nila, crush ako. Ako naman, walang alam sa lahat.
DeleteTaga NEU ka no 11:30? LOL May ugali din naman kasi si ate mo kaya inaway ni Katrina Halili dati during Starstruck days pero yeah, hindi dapat na-bully. Baka inggit sa kanya.
DeleteMadalas mabully yung mga batang nagpapakita ng confidence na may kayabangan ang dating. Tapos babae pa so parang unusual yung ganun. Meron kasing confident na hindi mayabang ang aura. The other kids will see this as a threat.
Deletemaganda naman ginawa ni Yasmien na inalis niya sa school na may bullies yung anak niya. Traumatic ang naging experience ng bagets sa kanyang dating school. Marami din kasi inggit sa mga magaganda at mga anak ng artista kaya target sila ng bullying.
ReplyDeleteI think ang mga batang nambubully comes from a family where violence is prevalent, true love is inexistent, absence of peace and harmony from the people they are living with. Those facts can't be change or controlled. Ang binubully nila are those kids na they think kayang kaya nila kaya dpat ang mga bata that grows within a loving and harmonious family must be briefed na outside their home they should be ready, brave and strong or mentally and emotionally stable to withstand adversities caused by situations or people in the surroundings. Nakita ko kc yan sa pamangkin ko. Becoz she has a very loving family and live in our compound with loving cousins and relatives, parang nasha-shock siya sa outside world. Need pa ipa-intindi na hindi parehas ang atmosphere in and out of the house becoz iba-iba ang upbringing ng mga tao.
ReplyDeleteThis is one possibility, kasi ang mga bata hindi pa sila marunong ng internal regulation and pag label ng emotion, so they process what is happening to them at home by acting it out. Pero may mga bullies din na they do this because yung mga bullies sa typical na school hierarchy ang nasa itaas.
DeleteSome bullies come from well off family. Mayabang ang parents and ganun din ang anak. Alam nya na may pera sila and angat sa buhay kaya feel nila pwede nilang laruin ang mga tao sa paligid nila. Sadyang masama ang budhi.
DeleteWhile this is true, possible rin na walang violence at home but more on neglect. Yung tipong hindi nagkakausap, nakikipagkwentuhan sa mga bata. Kaya they act out when they can.
DeleteEither way mga bata ang victims dito, really the parents should be accountable. Kaya tama lang ipaglaban nina Alfred.
my daughter also got bullied by classmates and worst by the teacher. she was doing good in school kaso nadadamay sa mga pasaway na kaklase. she drank 27 different kinds of medicine without us knowing. nabasa ko na lang sa messenger nya buti daw naagapan namin at na flush. a day late wala na kong aabutang panganay. as an ofw mom sobrang sakit. buong flight naiyak ako.
ReplyDeleteI am do sorry to hear. Blessibgs to you and your family. 😟
DeleteI'm sorry you had to go through that.
DeleteSorry penoys but bullies are created at home :D :D :D
ReplyDeletehindi lang sa mga bata kahit may mga edad na may bully rin
ReplyDeleteDapat kastiguhin mga magulang ng bully. Paanong nagpalaki sila ng bully??? Bully sa society.
ReplyDeleteSawsaw suka Yasmin
ReplyDeleteIf you are aware of current events, this woman is also fighting a bullying case for her daughter.
DeleteOh please!!! You had your 15 minutes of fame teh. Give the spotlight to others naman.
ReplyDelete3:02 words are powerful. sana di bumalik sayo yan pag anak mo nabully.
Delete@3:02pm have you experienced ma bully? if not keep your mouth shut! Very traumatic ang ma bully, dadalhin yun ng bata hangan pag tanda nya. Sana ma experience mo, baka mag bago ang pananaw mo about bullying 😏
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