mga magulang din kasi nagpapalala... may sumugod sa bahay namin minsan yung nanay ng kapitbahay namin. sabi "pinakain daw ng posporo yung anak nya" ng pamangkin ko even if all the children in our neighborhood are testifying that it's not true... sabi ko, tawagin yung anak nya para marinig namin mismo sa anak nya kung pinakain ba ng posporo. pero ayaw nya naghihysterical lang sya... so tinawag ng kapatid ko yung pamangkin ko at pinag sorry "para wala nang gulo" so yung pamangkin ko na 7 years old was resistant.. "wala naman akong ginawa po dun" and all the children were saying, "wala naman talaga po" pero pinagsorry pa din ng kapatid ko ang pamangkin ko para "wala na lang gulo" kasi may magulang talaga na parang ewan hahahaha Vargas din surname guys hahahahaha
2:52 natural lang sa magulang protektahan anak nila, hindi dahil para silang ewan. Sadyang may magulang na protective sa mga anak nila. Baka di ka lang mahal ng magulang mo kaya di ka maka relate
10:17 hindi pagiging woke ang hindi pagdisiplina sa bata- it’s more about learning appropriate forms of discipline, hindi buhat kamay or verbal abuse- which sadly some parents still use.
7:55 mahina lang po comprehension mo... yung magulang na nag accuse sa pamangkin ko was super bida bida... my pamangkin is 7 years old while her son is 15 years old.. so yung pamangkin ko pa na maliit ang nambully??? yung 7 yrs old pinakain ng posporo ang 15 yrs old???? that's why i said parang ewan yung ibang magulang... walang isip parang IKAW!! hahaha and FYI pina PULIS pa ng daddy ko yung teacher ka kumurot sakin nung grade 2 so pinagsasabi mo????
8:53 ALL witnesses testify na hindi naman pinakain ng posporo.. my nephew is 7 yrs old.. and the accuser was 15 yrs old na ayaw pa humarap sa amin tapos yung nanay nag iiyak! that's why i said parang ewan.. some parents are too protective of their kids wala na silang logic and NO hindi acceptable na parents sila kaya ganun... and 15 yrs old is matanda na sa totoo lang para mabully ng 7 yrs old... yung 7 yrs old ko pa na pamangkin ang nag sorry while me as a TITA "no wag ka mag sorry! wala ka ginawa!" and my sister was like " sige mag sorry ka na para matapos na"
10:17 true. Isa jan ang nanay ko. Nagagalit sya samin ng asawa ko kapag pinapagalitan namin yung favorite apo nya, kesyo natutulig na daw ung anak ko kada pag sasabihan namin. Feeling nya nawawala sa isip kapag pinapagalitan. Kahit sya pa sigaw sigawan nung bata nasasaktan sya pero iniignore nya. Mental health namin buong pamilya naaapektuhan sakanya dahil kasama namin sya sa bahay at ilang beses na namin pinagtalunan yan.
Mabuti yan nang masampulan. Gusto ko tong umabot sa supreme court nang maging landmark decision. Ang mga bullies kasi nakikita nila yan sa pamamahay. They might have witnessed abuse at home.
ang teachers na naman ang gagawing excuse. andami na ngang trabaho ng teachers. may mga rules pa na bawal pagalitan ang mga studyante. ang parents ang dapat managot dyan
Malaki siguro ang donation ng family ng bully. Imagine, hindi sila takot sa tatay ng bata na politician. Napaka squammy ng mama ng bully at ang ugali ng bully. May ganito pala sa mga pang mayaman schools. Kaloka.
1:13 I don't think so. May mga edukado din na ganyan. The thing is, they grew up the hard way. They don't call it bullying noon but mga makukulit at maloloko. They probably just ignore or endured them kaya ngayon they expect their children to do the same. Pero times have changed and younger generation are brought up differently.
Buti ngayon ganyan na, biktima ako ng bullying, mga kapitbahay namin. It started when I 14, mga tinginan na may laman but it got worse ng mag-18 ako. Hindi ako tumatambay sa labas, bahay at school lang buhay ko. College ako at highschool sila, kahit kasama ko nanay ko minumura at binabasa ako ng tubig pinaghugasan ng plato. Hindi ako pinagtatanggol ng nanay ko, palagi nyang sinasabi na kasalanan ko yon. I never interacted with those girls, hindi ko sila mga kaibigan. Dumating sa point na pinagbantaan ako ng tatay nung isang girl kasi pinabarangay ko sila. Walang support from my family walang support sa brgy kasi kaibigan at mga kamaganak nila mga parents. Hanggang magkaanak na kami nakita ko classmate ng anak nya anak ko, ayoko na ng gulo nilipat ko na lang anak ko ng school at never na akong bumalik sa compound namin.
I feel you Councilor Vargas because my 6 years old daughter was bullied by her 8 yrs old male schoolmate three times at private school in Puerto Princesa . Besides, the father of the child cursed ( minura) me during our conversation at school.The father was so arrogant during our conversation because the principal of the school is his godmother.
Aside from that, the mother of the child filed a complaint against me at the barangay and she was forcing me to withdraw my complaint against the child at Makabata Hotline.
Good thing he and his parents apologized to me and my child coz if they didn't I will file a case against them.
My daughter got bullied im HS, to think she was at the top of her batch. The bully was envious of her because she was topping in all subjects. She went out of her way to malign my daughter, and even threatened classmates that whoever talks to my daughter will earm her ire. The whole school year was really traumatic to her, but it did not stopped my daughter from finishing valedictorian
Envy kills. It disrupts goals amd friemdships
People who are bullied need not be derailed of their goals in life. And as parents we cheer them up always. But ibang usapan na pag sinaktan na physically, rambol gusto siguro niya
I hate bullies and will never ever side with them... but the way you also described parang medyo nagyabang ka na po. Baka yan din tinuro mo sa anak mo na akala nya ay tamang paraan eh, parang mapagmataas na sa iba. Ganun kasi karamihan sa mga superior intelligence eh, medyo paranoid na ungosan dahil sa parents na competitive din. Just sharing my pov cz ilang beses ko nang na witness ganitong scenario sa school.
school or work environment that emphasizes intense competition can foster bullying behavior. When the focus is on winning and acquiring limited resources, individuals may resort to aggression, toxicity, and unethical behaviors as a way to gain power and social status.
Kahit sa workplace ganyan dn, ayaw maungusan lalo pg competitive yn vying 4 the position dn. Focus on ur goal lng dapat. Bullies want ur position. Eh life is like a trip to jerusalem, mg agawan sa 1 upuan
1:19 tama. Maraming ganyan sa 1st section ng public school. They are highly intelligent kids kaso mga parents nakiki compete din. Same goes sa private schools na mga parents nagpapa sip2x na sa mga faculty teachers lalo na kung malapit na graduation to secure their child's higher placement sa ranking. Kaya ganun na din mga anak. Parents, backoff sana kayo sa ganitong mindset at e blame pa yung iba as bully pag di nakuha gusto nyo.
12.32 Teh, sa post na ito na judge mo na anak ko at ako na nagmayabang. I keep distance sa school affairs ng daughter ko, wag lang sasaktan kasi may proper protocol dyan. My daughter was well loved sa school, yun nambully was from another school and apparently she was the first honor sa school dati, so whem she transferred nagjng second fiddle na lang sa daughter ko. My child comes home crying and frustrated. Many times binabato na siya ng papel at kino kontrata a yun ibang classmates to not talk to my child. But whilst ganyan nangyari my ttake was to just focus on her studies and not to mind the bullying MASAMA PA PALA ANAK KO T AKO MAYABANG?? judgmental ka. alam buong kwento
Conclusion: not only the meek and tthe mild are bullied but also the winning
This is scary as a parent. idont want to be on either side pero I'd rather be the parent of the person being bullied than the parent of a bully because that would mean we've been huge failures at home and as parents. How can parents allow their kids to grow up like that? Only one instance alone where I find out my kid is a bully, I would question my whole identity as a parent and figure out where I went wrong. It always starts at home.
As a parent I taught my kids early on that 1. they have all the love in the world they would ever need (from us, their parents, relatives, and family friends), and 2. they should love themselves enough not to look for love and validation elsewhere. They've been bullied in school but the bullies never got the satisfaction because my kids are not afraid to "lose" friends in school. They know they have more friends among their family (cousins and young titos/titas) and others (those they met outside of school). Most of all, they know that we as thier parents love them with all out hearts even if we discipline them (we don't spoil them rotten). Tinatantanan sila ng bullies kasi they never feel that they're making my kids sad. Di gumagana gaslighting, in fact parang sila pa naga-gaslight kasi iniisip nila kung totoo bang inaasar nila mga anak ko or guni-guni lang nila yun. Lol.
There should be a law that stipulates STERN punishment primarily for the parents AND the school or any institution that tolerates or ignores bullying incidents in their premises. Para sa level pa lang nila iaddress na agad nila dahil matatakot silang ma-penalize.
I will side with the Vargas' fight against bullying. But sana walang ganung pictorial. Kahit sabihing candid pa yan pero obvious na pinag handaan tlaga.
Naniwala na din ako sa mga commenters dito about celebrities wearing white everytime they file a case, or caught on something, to gain sympathy.
Ang cringe ng all white at stage na photo op.di kelangan ng drama na ganito para makasuhan.mga pinoy talaga ang hilig sa kadramahan Kaya mga Anak either bully or nabubully kse magulang napaka arte din.sana naman natural lang na galit at Hindi mala Movie poster ang drama.
Trueee, Im all for the support of what their son went thru and they have every right to file a legal action eme eme, pero yung pa photo opt na ang scripted?
Akala ko talaga may nangyari masama sa anak nila (like you know) Pwede naman niyang i comfort asawa niya in private, balik may pa picture pa. Agree ako na kasuhan mga bullies total may batas na tayo diyan.
Only in Pinas na may pakulo you wear a white dress pag may appearance sa korte or pag may baby announcement may body parts serye na kaartehan sa socmed . Kaya ka pumunta sa court ang focus sa kaso hindi sa white damit with dark sunglasses. It doesn’t equate that when you wear a white dress/ top you are being truthful. Other countries if you want to appear in court you wear a traditional/ conservative business suit usually dark or neutral color, minimalistic, walang burloloy, toned down ang make up to focus on what is important…at pag announced ng birth of baby walang body serye dahil ang focus yung birth announcement at condition ng mother hindi picture na Installment ng katawan ng baby. Maraming kaeklatan. But kung dyan kayo masaya go, pero you all look and act ridiculous🤡
yung puna ng puna na ang cringe daw kasi naka white, ikaw ba yung nanay ng bully or yaya? hindi madali ang lumantad na na-bully ang anak! ps. hindi ako kamag anak ng mga vargas
With this case of the Vargases and that Yasmien Kurdi, nahahighlight and school bullying. Dapat mapagusapan ang responsibilidad ng mga magulang ng bully at ng school also. Dapat rin may measures and policy changes rin plus codified law.
Dapat talaga automatic na yung magulang kasuhan pag may ginawa anak nilang masama. Responsibility nila yun disiplinahin. Marami magulang rin na nagagalit pag napapagsabihan ng ibang tao anak nila.
This should have been handled by the swim coach and swim club. The bully should have been given warning and if repeated offenses should be kicked off the team.
Kaya I homeschool my child especially na she has an invisible disability. She’s a super bibo child, but I noticed way back in preschool na she would come home quiet and sad. She never told us anything, but I saw during a school event that every time my child would try to join a bunch of her classmates, they would give each other a knowing look and then they would all pretend that they couldn’t see her and would not answer her or respond to her, and then they would all laugh and run away from her, hand in hand with each other. Nadurog puso ko. From the knowing looks, alam mong it wasn’t the first time they did it to my daughter.
When we asked the teachers, they gave us a flippant, “We just usually leave (name of my daughter) in her corner at the back of the classroom.” It didn’t even answer our question nor our concern, but it made it clear to us that the actions of the teachers sent a message to the other kids that my daughter was to be “othered.”
My daughter went to a very expensive school in Makati.
Nung 80's mga bus mates ko binully ako so ayoko na pumasok kinabukasan so my dad umakyat sa school bus namin at pinagalitan yung driver at kundoktora at sinabihan na bakit nila hinahayaan mga kids na bully-hin ako at pati mga kids pinagalitan ng dad ko at sinabi ng dad ko na pupuntahann nya mga parents nila pag inulit pa nila so ayun since then tumigil na mga kids mang bully at yung isang ubod ng maldita na name nya Angel sabi sa akin mabuti pa bati na lang tayo sabay bigay sa akin ng pencil case nyang sanrio na Little twins star lol natakot yata sa daddy ko.
So ayan parents. We can sue the bullie's parents. If the school leave us with no choice, we must. Dahil grabe na ang pambubully. The parents nung bully even some are proud pa sa anak nilang bully especially kung laging pasok sa honor list ang anak nilang bully. Pati teacher turns a blind eye e. Seek nalang to pao or tulfo for those mga hamak na parents lang at walang kilalang someone influential.
Ganyan kami Walang ginagawa a ng school na concrete Hindi kaya mag expel ng bata Nagtatanong pa sa brgy officials kung pwede magsuspend Dapat deped yan kaso wala rin silbi deped sa bullying sa totoo lang Even Ang DSWD lalo na kasi bata to bata daw kaya walang magagawa kahit kayang makapatay ng bata. Yung anak ko pinaghahampas ng badminton racket walang ginawa ang deped at school na concrete MAYABANG PA MAGULANG
Medyo unsure ang sympathy ko since politician ang involved. I don’t think may maglalakas loob mang bully sa anak nila. So my question is, why are they doing this?
My apo was being bullied from kinder until grade 2. That time I was out of the country, then nagbakasyon ako. Before ako lumuwas for my departure, dumaan talaga ako sa school ng apo ko and intentionally, I passed by my apo's classroom. Tinaon ko talaga na recess nila.I knew how they look like because they are twins. Chubby and much taller than my apo. I looked at the twins seriously and spoke that next time, they will bully my apo, I will go to the police and will come straight to their house, to let their paents know, what they're doing to my apo. From time to time, I'm asking my apo if the twins. continue bullying him or they stop. Sa awa ng Dios, they stopped, and became closed friends to my apo. Lola being a lola. My daughter is a timid nanay.
apaka OA, samantalang nung panahon namin mga ganitong problema, principals office or guidance counselor lang ang katapat..papanain lang etong couple na ito haha
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Nice move.dapat masampulan ang mga magulang na takot disiplinahin mga Anak.
ReplyDeleteNaku maraming woke ang magagalit diyan kasi hindi daw dapat pinapagalitan at dinidisiplina ang mga bata makakasama raw sa mental health ng mga bata.
DeleteI SUPPORT THE VARGASES!
DeleteGrabe, yung pambubully sa anak nila. May sexual harassment pa!
I also fully support the Vargases. The mother of that bully should be punished. Those friends 9fvthe bully should also be punished.
Deletemga magulang din kasi nagpapalala... may sumugod sa bahay namin minsan yung nanay ng kapitbahay namin. sabi "pinakain daw ng posporo yung anak nya" ng pamangkin ko even if all the children in our neighborhood are testifying that it's not true... sabi ko, tawagin yung anak nya para marinig namin mismo sa anak nya kung pinakain ba ng posporo. pero ayaw nya naghihysterical lang sya... so tinawag ng kapatid ko yung pamangkin ko at pinag sorry "para wala nang gulo" so yung pamangkin ko na 7 years old was resistant.. "wala naman akong ginawa po dun" and all the children were saying, "wala naman talaga po" pero pinagsorry pa din ng kapatid ko ang pamangkin ko para "wala na lang gulo" kasi may magulang talaga na parang ewan hahahaha Vargas din surname guys hahahahaha
DeleteIba naman yung kanila Te, sila mismo nakakita na binu bully anak nila. Saka bakit niyo pinag sorry edi sana nagpa pull up kayong cctv
Delete2:52 natural lang sa magulang protektahan anak nila, hindi dahil para silang ewan. Sadyang may magulang na protective sa mga anak nila. Baka di ka lang mahal ng magulang mo kaya di ka maka relate
Delete2:52 AM may mga witnesses sila sa ginawa sa bata
Delete1017 Kulang ka lang sa comprehension kaya akala mo ganun ang message ng mga woke.
Delete2:52 may mga ibat ibang incident na and nakita nila mismo at ng iba hindi ito parang ewan na incident
Delete10:17 hindi pagiging woke ang hindi pagdisiplina sa bata- it’s more about learning appropriate forms of discipline, hindi buhat kamay or verbal abuse- which sadly some parents still use.
Delete7:55 mahina lang po comprehension mo... yung magulang na nag accuse sa pamangkin ko was super bida bida... my pamangkin is 7 years old while her son is 15 years old.. so yung pamangkin ko pa na maliit ang nambully??? yung 7 yrs old pinakain ng posporo ang 15 yrs old???? that's why i said parang ewan yung ibang magulang... walang isip parang IKAW!! hahaha and FYI pina PULIS pa ng daddy ko yung teacher ka kumurot sakin nung grade 2 so pinagsasabi mo????
Delete8:53 ALL witnesses testify na hindi naman pinakain ng posporo.. my nephew is 7 yrs old.. and the accuser was 15 yrs old na ayaw pa humarap sa amin tapos yung nanay nag iiyak! that's why i said parang ewan.. some parents are too protective of their kids wala na silang logic and NO hindi acceptable na parents sila kaya ganun... and 15 yrs old is matanda na sa totoo lang para mabully ng 7 yrs old... yung 7 yrs old ko pa na pamangkin ang nag sorry while me as a TITA "no wag ka mag sorry! wala ka ginawa!" and my sister was like " sige mag sorry ka na para matapos na"
Delete10:17 true. Isa jan ang nanay ko. Nagagalit sya samin ng asawa ko kapag pinapagalitan namin yung favorite apo nya, kesyo natutulig na daw ung anak ko kada pag sasabihan namin. Feeling nya nawawala sa isip kapag pinapagalitan. Kahit sya pa sigaw sigawan nung bata nasasaktan sya pero iniignore nya. Mental health namin buong pamilya naaapektuhan sakanya dahil kasama namin sya sa bahay at ilang beses na namin pinagtalunan yan.
DeleteMabuti yan nang masampulan. Gusto ko tong umabot sa supreme court nang maging landmark decision. Ang mga bullies kasi nakikita nila yan sa pamamahay. They might have witnessed abuse at home.
ReplyDeleteAng cringe lang ng photo na nagyayakapan at umiiyak.
Delete1025 un din sasabihin ko. bkit parang may pa poster ng new movie hehehehe
Delete10:25 it shows how bitter you are with such a simple photo. Ew
DeleteBakit bitter eh cringe din nung nakita ko. Unnecessary yung photo.
DeleteYes kailangan naka white!
ReplyDeleteAt may post na aping api..
DeletePero dito sa distrcit nya saQC wala naman yan ginawa masyado..
That’s your take?
DeleteJusko ano ba dapat kulay? Neon pink?
DeleteYes. Strategy yan pang goody goody. Looks at maris before naka white long sleeves at naka glasses pa. 🤣 After nun hubadera na uli.
DeleteYan lang ang pinansin mo sa article na toh?? Ang kitid mo naman.
Delete9:51 gusto mo naka red or purple. Or are you a bully too?
DeleteYour comment is just so ignorant and out of depth.
DeleteWow, anong klaseng mga comments yan? Sana walang ma bully na mahal nyo sa buhay.
DeleteHow about the school? Are they being made liable as well?
ReplyDelete1003, yeah, they should include the school as well, even instructor/s handling the lessons.
DeleteTHIS THIS THISSSSSSSSSSSS! standing ovation dyan teh
DeleteNot school. Swim club
DeleteSame question. What measures does the school have to prevent bullying
Deleteactivity na yan outside the school.
Deleteang teachers na naman ang gagawing excuse. andami na ngang trabaho ng teachers. may mga rules pa na bawal pagalitan ang mga studyante. ang parents ang dapat managot dyan
DeleteDapat ganyan kasi ang daming spoiled brat na bata ngayon
ReplyDeleteBlame those idiotic parents who tolerate such behavior.
DeleteSadly it's also the shows that children watch. Bullying masquerading as comedy minsan.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true! It's being normalized in children's shows.
DeleteMalaki siguro ang donation ng family ng bully. Imagine, hindi sila takot sa tatay ng bata na politician. Napaka squammy ng mama ng bully at ang ugali ng bully. May ganito pala sa mga pang mayaman schools. Kaloka.
ReplyDeleteBaka nakapangasawa lang ng mayamang Afam.. eme
DeleteNot school. It's their son's swim club
DeleteThe mother of the bully is obviously not well educated.
Delete10:25 nagawan mo na agad ng story na nakapangasasa ng afam!? So ang tingin mo sa mga nakapangasawa ng foreigner ganyan? What a pisstake
Delete1:13 I don't think so. May mga edukado din na ganyan. The thing is, they grew up the hard way. They don't call it bullying noon but mga makukulit at maloloko. They probably just ignore or endured them kaya ngayon they expect their children to do the same. Pero times have changed and younger generation are brought up differently.
DeleteHope justice will be served to set an example to all bullies out there.
ReplyDeleteGood. Something must be done na talaga about bullying.
ReplyDeleteI enroll nyo din ang anal nyo sa martial arts classes para maka laban
ReplyDelete*ANAK SORRY
DeleteButi ngayon ganyan na, biktima ako ng bullying, mga kapitbahay namin. It started when I 14, mga tinginan na may laman but it got worse ng mag-18 ako. Hindi ako tumatambay sa labas, bahay at school lang buhay ko. College ako at highschool sila, kahit kasama ko nanay ko minumura at binabasa ako ng tubig pinaghugasan ng plato. Hindi ako pinagtatanggol ng nanay ko, palagi nyang sinasabi na kasalanan ko yon. I never interacted with those girls, hindi ko sila mga kaibigan. Dumating sa point na pinagbantaan ako ng tatay nung isang girl kasi pinabarangay ko sila. Walang support from my family walang support sa brgy kasi kaibigan at mga kamaganak nila mga parents. Hanggang magkaanak na kami nakita ko classmate ng anak nya anak ko, ayoko na ng gulo nilipat ko na lang anak ko ng school at never na akong bumalik sa compound namin.
ReplyDeletena shock ako sa sinabi ng nanay mo. hugs for you..
Delete10:46 AM meron talagng magulang na mas importante pa ang social status kesa sa wellbeing ng anak
DeleteSo sad. I hope you heal from that trauma.
DeleteI feel you Councilor Vargas because my 6 years old daughter was bullied by her 8 yrs old male schoolmate three times at private school in Puerto Princesa . Besides, the father of the child cursed ( minura) me during our conversation at school.The father was so arrogant during our conversation because the principal of the school is his godmother.
ReplyDeleteAside from that, the mother of the child filed a complaint against me at the barangay and she was forcing me to withdraw my complaint against the child at Makabata Hotline.
Good thing he and his parents apologized to me and my child coz if they didn't I will file a case against them.
you should have filed a case still. nag sorry lang yun para i withraw mo, pero minura mura ka pa and sya pa nag complain sayo? the nerve
DeleteGood! Hopefully this is the end of it!
ReplyDeleteDami bully sa school mga anak ng kunsintidor n magulang
ReplyDeleteMy daughter got bullied im HS, to think she was at the top of her batch. The bully was envious of her because she was topping in all subjects. She went out of her way to malign my daughter, and even threatened classmates that whoever talks to my daughter will earm her ire. The whole school year was really traumatic to her, but it did not stopped my daughter from finishing valedictorian
ReplyDeleteEnvy kills. It disrupts goals amd friemdships
People who are bullied need not be derailed of their goals in life. And as parents we cheer them up always. But ibang usapan na pag sinaktan na physically, rambol gusto siguro niya
I hate bullies and will never ever side with them... but the way you also described parang medyo nagyabang ka na po. Baka yan din tinuro mo sa anak mo na akala nya ay tamang paraan eh, parang mapagmataas na sa iba. Ganun kasi karamihan sa mga superior intelligence eh, medyo paranoid na ungosan dahil sa parents na competitive din. Just sharing my pov cz ilang beses ko nang na witness ganitong scenario sa school.
DeleteTotal bully kung lahat ng classmates gusto i-hate din yun kalaban sa klase
DeleteSABI NI AI:
Deleteschool or work environment that emphasizes intense competition can foster bullying behavior. When the focus is on winning and acquiring limited resources, individuals may resort to aggression, toxicity, and unethical behaviors as a way to gain power and social status.
Kahit sa workplace ganyan dn, ayaw maungusan lalo pg competitive yn vying 4 the position dn. Focus on ur goal lng dapat. Bullies want ur position. Eh life is like a trip to jerusalem, mg agawan sa 1 upuan
Delete1:19 tama. Maraming ganyan sa 1st section ng public school. They are highly intelligent kids kaso mga parents nakiki compete din. Same goes sa private schools na mga parents nagpapa sip2x na sa mga faculty teachers lalo na kung malapit na graduation to secure their child's higher placement sa ranking. Kaya ganun na din mga anak. Parents, backoff sana kayo sa ganitong mindset at e blame pa yung iba as bully pag di nakuha gusto nyo.
DeleteSame din anak ni Yasmien Kurdi, leader ng grp & pinag kakaisahan. So not only the.weaklings r bullied but also even ang mga achievers
Delete12.32 Teh, sa post na ito na judge mo na anak ko at ako na nagmayabang. I keep distance sa school affairs ng daughter ko, wag lang sasaktan kasi may proper protocol dyan. My daughter was well loved sa school, yun nambully was from another school and apparently she was the first honor sa school dati, so whem she transferred nagjng second fiddle na lang sa daughter ko. My child comes home crying and frustrated. Many times binabato na siya ng papel at kino kontrata a yun ibang classmates to not talk to my child. But whilst ganyan nangyari my ttake was to just focus on her studies and not to mind the bullying MASAMA PA PALA ANAK KO T AKO MAYABANG?? judgmental ka. alam buong kwento
DeleteConclusion: not only the meek and tthe mild are bullied but also the winning
Has the school or coach been informed of this? I think they should also be liable.
ReplyDeleteAnd the school.did nothing
ReplyDeleteswimming club
Deletedid not happen at the school
DeleteThis is scary as a parent. idont want to be on either side pero I'd rather be the parent of the person being bullied than the parent of a bully because that would mean we've been huge failures at home and as parents. How can parents allow their kids to grow up like that? Only one instance alone where I find out my kid is a bully, I would question my whole identity as a parent and figure out where I went wrong. It always starts at home.
ReplyDeleteAs a parent I taught my kids early on that 1. they have all the love in the world they would ever need (from us, their parents, relatives, and family friends), and 2. they should love themselves enough not to look for love and validation elsewhere. They've been bullied in school but the bullies never got the satisfaction because my kids are not afraid to "lose" friends in school. They know they have more friends among their family (cousins and young titos/titas) and others (those they met outside of school). Most of all, they know that we as thier parents love them with all out hearts even if we discipline them (we don't spoil them rotten). Tinatantanan sila ng bullies kasi they never feel that they're making my kids sad. Di gumagana gaslighting, in fact parang sila pa naga-gaslight kasi iniisip nila kung totoo bang inaasar nila mga anak ko or guni-guni lang nila yun. Lol.
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DeleteWell done parenting 12:32! Kudos to you
DeleteThere should be a law that stipulates STERN punishment primarily for the parents AND the school or any institution that tolerates or ignores bullying incidents in their premises. Para sa level pa lang nila iaddress na agad nila dahil matatakot silang ma-penalize.
ReplyDeleteThis should happen more often. Bullying should not be ignored. If legal action is what it takes para matauhan mga tao, then 100% go do it.
ReplyDeleteI got and I feel you esp for the child.. pero why naman ganyan picture nyo ang cringe parang movie pictorial 😁✌🏻
ReplyDeleteI will side with the Vargas' fight against bullying. But sana walang ganung pictorial. Kahit sabihing candid pa yan pero obvious na pinag handaan tlaga.
ReplyDeleteNaniwala na din ako sa mga commenters dito about celebrities wearing white everytime they file a case, or caught on something, to gain sympathy.
Need ba talaga parang balisang balisa sa picture?
ReplyDeleteAng cringe ng all white at stage na photo op.di kelangan ng drama na ganito para makasuhan.mga pinoy talaga ang hilig sa kadramahan Kaya mga Anak either bully or nabubully kse magulang napaka arte din.sana naman natural lang na galit at Hindi mala
ReplyDeleteMovie poster ang drama.
Trueee, Im all for the support of what their son went thru and they have every right to file a legal action eme eme, pero yung pa photo opt na ang scripted?
DeleteMay generalized anxiety disorder ang asawa niya. I’m sure sobrang na atake siya jan at kinocomfort ng asawa niya wala masama jan.
DeleteAkala ko talaga may nangyari masama sa anak nila (like you know) Pwede naman niyang i comfort asawa niya in private, balik may pa picture pa. Agree ako na kasuhan mga bullies total may batas na tayo diyan.
DeleteOnly in Pinas na may pakulo you wear a white dress pag may appearance sa korte or pag may baby announcement may body parts serye na kaartehan sa socmed . Kaya ka pumunta sa court ang focus sa kaso hindi sa white damit with dark sunglasses. It doesn’t equate that when you wear a white dress/ top you are being truthful. Other countries if you want to appear in court you wear a traditional/ conservative business suit usually dark or neutral color, minimalistic, walang burloloy, toned down ang make up to focus on what is important…at pag announced ng birth of baby walang body serye dahil ang focus yung birth announcement at condition ng mother hindi picture na Installment ng katawan ng baby. Maraming kaeklatan. But kung dyan kayo masaya go, pero you all look and act ridiculous🤡
Delete👍👍👍 Right advocacy for your bullied son and to the other bully victims.
ReplyDeleteTama yan. Kaya bully ang anak eh.
ReplyDeleteyung puna ng puna na ang cringe daw kasi naka white, ikaw ba yung nanay ng bully or yaya? hindi madali ang lumantad na na-bully ang anak! ps. hindi ako kamag anak ng mga vargas
ReplyDeleteWith this case of the Vargases and that Yasmien Kurdi, nahahighlight and school bullying. Dapat mapagusapan ang responsibilidad ng mga magulang ng bully at ng school also. Dapat rin may measures and policy changes rin plus codified law.
ReplyDeleteBakit acting na acting naman yung 2nd photo. Anyways, good job parin. Sampolan yang mga bully na yan.
ReplyDeleteDapat talaga automatic na yung magulang kasuhan pag may ginawa anak nilang masama. Responsibility nila yun disiplinahin. Marami magulang rin na nagagalit pag napapagsabihan ng ibang tao anak nila.
ReplyDeleteThis should have been handled by the swim coach and swim club. The bully should have been given warning and if repeated offenses should be kicked off the team.
ReplyDeleteSupport ko to
ReplyDeleteBkit parang photoshoot yungndatingan nang pix
ReplyDeleteAno yung 2nd pic nilang mag asawa? Parang pictorial lang ng teleserye ah.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteOa nga akala ko may TV show
DeletePag dinaan mo sa eskwela di ka papansinin, worse sisisihin ka pa. Kaya tama yan, kasuhan ng matauhan yang mga bully pati mga magulang
ReplyDeleteMga may anak na bully mas competitive pa anak a ffire-up lalo g mga bully na anak. Bigyan yan leksyon ga magulang na kunsintidor
ReplyDeleteOutfit na white = check
ReplyDeleteSunglasses na black lang ang kulang
Good move. Nagmana mga yan sa parents nila kaya bully na lumaki.
ReplyDeleteSame school ba sila?
ReplyDeleteMakikita mo talaga sa photos nila na sobrang staged! Nakakakilabot sobrang cringed!!!!
ReplyDeleteCRINGE. The photoshoots are unnecessary
ReplyDeleteJusko kala ko for Lenten special yung photo sa kaliwa. Sana wala ng ganito. Parang self-promotion ang atake.
ReplyDeleteKaya I homeschool my child especially na she has an invisible disability. She’s a super bibo child, but I noticed way back in preschool na she would come home quiet and sad. She never told us anything, but I saw during a school event that every time my child would try to join a bunch of her classmates, they would give each other a knowing look and then they would all pretend that they couldn’t see her and would not answer her or respond to her, and then they would all laugh and run away from her, hand in hand with each other. Nadurog puso ko. From the knowing looks, alam mong it wasn’t the first time they did it to my daughter.
ReplyDeleteWhen we asked the teachers, they gave us a flippant, “We just usually leave (name of my daughter) in her corner at the back of the classroom.” It didn’t even answer our question nor our concern, but it made it clear to us that the actions of the teachers sent a message to the other kids that my daughter was to be “othered.”
My daughter went to a very expensive school in Makati.
Nung 80's mga bus mates ko binully ako so ayoko na pumasok kinabukasan so my dad umakyat sa school bus namin at pinagalitan yung driver at kundoktora at sinabihan na bakit nila hinahayaan mga kids na bully-hin ako at pati mga kids pinagalitan ng dad ko at sinabi ng dad ko na pupuntahann
ReplyDeletenya mga parents nila pag inulit pa nila so ayun since then tumigil na mga kids mang bully at yung isang ubod ng maldita na name nya Angel sabi sa akin mabuti pa bati na lang tayo sabay bigay sa akin ng pencil case nyang sanrio na Little twins star lol natakot yata sa daddy ko.
So ayan parents. We can sue the bullie's parents. If the school leave us with no choice, we must. Dahil grabe na ang pambubully. The parents nung bully even some are proud pa sa anak nilang bully especially kung laging pasok sa honor list ang anak nilang bully. Pati teacher turns a blind eye e. Seek nalang to pao or tulfo for those mga hamak na parents lang at walang kilalang someone influential.
ReplyDeleteGanyan kami
DeleteWalang ginagawa a ng school na concrete
Hindi kaya mag expel ng bata Nagtatanong pa sa brgy officials kung pwede magsuspend
Dapat deped yan kaso wala rin silbi deped sa bullying sa totoo lang
Even Ang DSWD lalo na kasi bata to bata daw kaya walang magagawa kahit kayang makapatay ng bata. Yung anak ko pinaghahampas ng badminton racket walang ginawa ang deped at school na concrete MAYABANG PA MAGULANG
Ang cringey ng may payakap photo ha. Nawawalan tuloy ng sincerity ng gusto nila mangyari at staged tuloy dating.
ReplyDeleteMedyo unsure ang sympathy ko since politician ang involved. I don’t think may maglalakas loob mang bully sa anak nila. So my question is, why are they doing this?
ReplyDeleteArtista ang tatay ng bully
DeleteSorry we need to hear both sides of the story. Kilala ko si Alfred bully din yan nung grade school.
ReplyDeletenever tolerate bullies salot sa lipunan mga yan dapat sampulan at lahat ng na bully get justice
ReplyDeleteWhat's the context?
ReplyDeleteMy apo was being bullied from kinder until grade 2. That time I was out of the country, then nagbakasyon ako. Before ako lumuwas for my departure, dumaan talaga ako sa school ng apo ko and intentionally, I passed by my apo's classroom. Tinaon ko talaga na recess nila.I knew how they look like because they are twins. Chubby and much taller than my apo. I looked at the twins seriously and spoke that next time, they will bully my apo, I will go to the police and will come straight to their house, to let their paents know, what they're doing to my apo. From time to time, I'm asking my apo if the twins. continue bullying him or they stop. Sa awa ng Dios, they stopped, and became closed friends to my apo. Lola being a lola. My daughter is a timid nanay.
ReplyDeleteapaka OA, samantalang nung panahon namin mga ganitong problema, principals office or guidance counselor lang ang katapat..papanain lang etong couple na ito haha
ReplyDeleteAnd look at what happened to you
DeleteYung apo ng mayor sa amin feeling may ari ng buong munisipyo
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