Kalimitan away bata, sumsawsaw mga magulang. Kaya lalong gumugulo, at yun mga bata naman nagiging palaaway din. Minsan na ttrigger ng mga competitive parents ang mga anak nila to not be humble but rather strike back
12:39 need talaga e discipline ang mga bata but 7 & 8yrs old? Kung HS mga yan gets ko pa. For me, it's also away-bata na parents mismo ngpasimuno. Why? Dahil mga competitive mga parents, ayaw din nila malamangan mga anak nila. - not 12:28
We should all remember that kids mirror what they experience at home, their parents’ and family dynamics affect them a lot and even the movies/games etc that they are exposed to. Kaya may effect tlga lahat sa young minds mula pa nung maliit sila. Nanurture lalo habang lumalaki. What they see or feel at home will be their basis when they go out of the world. This should be a reminder for all of us.
2.03 Korek! Competitive ang mga bata, mas competitive pa parents lalo na kun may social standing na ayaw maungusan. Dapat competition will foster sportsmanship, hindi eh. Nag labu-labo na kasi pare-parehas kelangan mas magaling sa isa. Hangng umabot na sa 'bullying' as alleged by both camps
Tutal pare-parehas kayo claiming to have been bullied, mag usap na lang kayo
Hindi aabot yan ng demanda kung ung magulang ay dinisiplina na lang ung anak, kaya nagdemanda kase di nga inaayos ung bata. Traumatized na and ung magsyota eh parang wala lang. Ang nagkakaso last resort na yan. Hassle yan eh di ba. So ganon kakalalim ung trauma sa anak ng mga Vargas para magdecide magkaso.
That's the issue nga eh. The parents of the bully don't bother to discipline their own kid. Vargas' son was not taught to strike back. I've seen these kids grow, they were taught with humility and kindness. Especially from the very hands on mom Yasmine.
Zero tolerance ang bullying. This family panay post, the other family gumalaw na in a legal way. Demandahan ang gusto nila hindi dapat mag hanap ng kakampi sa mga marites. Bullied anak ko, buong school staff kasama sa meeting. Kinailangan pa magpa therapy ng anak ko dahil lang yung magulang ng bata pinagtatakpan ang anak nila instead na turuan ng tamang asal.
See!! Sa mga sumuporta sa mga naka all white shirt na couple (pra ma hypnotize kayo w/c worked 🤦🏻♂️), I knew all along sablay choice nyo because that guy has a shady image! Ito na nga! Pumatol sa bata at dinamay na nga magulang!
The legal action stems from a pattern of conduct where the respondents' minor child repeatedly pushed and held the Vargases' son underwater during swimming training sessions. These bullying incidents, by way of drovning the Vargas couple's child, occurred several times despite efforts, reminders and appeals made by the Vargases to the parents of the bully to tell their child to stop and to manage the minor's conduct. "Mayroon pa ngang ginava yung bully na hindi talaga appropriate at sobrang sakit sa kalooban namin. Kinadyot niya yung anak ko sa malaswang paraan at nung nakita ng misis ko at sinabi sa nanay, tinawanan pa ng nanay at sinabi, 'He's just dancing!'," Vargas said. "Every time we go to the parents to try to resolve these issues, we were either dismissed or gaslighted," he added. The situation reached a breaking point during a swimming competition at the Rizal Memorial Sports Complex last February. In the event, Vargas and several other people personaly witnessed the minor pushing his child at the side area of the poci during warm-up period, almost injuring his son right before the competition.
At 12:43 Kahit ako man ang nanay na namin argumentative, nakita na stimuli ang anak ko sa side pool tapos pinagtatawanan pa ng mga kaibigan niyo, kahit 8 years old kapa, I will tell you what you did is wrong. Ang mali ni Alfred, public official pa naman, nanduronng bata.kaya guys, disiplinahin natin ang mga anak natin bago disiplinahin ng ibang tao.
Anong konek ng shady image na pinagsasasabi mo? Anak mo kaya mabully anong gagawin mo? Vargas couple will not push for legal action if responsableng magulang itong parents ng bully. Magtatanggol ka narin lang sablay pa. hahahaha kaloka
Feel ko competitive ang dalawa bata. Ayaw mag patalo. Pikon din sila sa isa’t isa. They hate each other kaya umabot sa nag aasaran ang dalawa bata. Nanakit ang isa mananakit din yung isa hanagang sa lumaban na both magulang at umabot sa kasuhan.
These behaviours are learned at home… sa family, parents or sa mga bagay na exposed sila. Kasama na rin jan ung toxic mentality na “wag kang magpapatalo”, “wag kang magpapaapi” etc kaya in return, we don’t raise strong kids, we raise bullies. Laging gustong the best kahit sa anong paraan pa. Laging feeling victim kya gustong gumanti or ayaw palamang. Mga laging feeling nasa tama.
1:57 may point ka. It may have happened but definitely there’s a reason why. Politiko ung isa, may image na pingangalagaan. Most probably tama ung narration na ilang beses na sila inapproach pero walang ginawa kaya umabot
Bakit daw sya pinagduduro? Malamang may nangyari. Saka hindi naman one time lang. Repeated several times. Kaya nga nakailang approach sa kanila yung kabila.
I am a pre school teacher, the best foundation for young children is the power of play. Play is actually a child’s primary way of learning. A toddler who has rich, varied play experiences is more likely to develop strong cognitive, emotional, and social foundations that support success in school, relationships, and overall well-being.
May resibo. Lagot. Di kaya yung anak ng kabila eh nagkwento ng mali sa magulang? May mga witness yan imposible naman sila ang ang starring sa teleserye na to. May mga extra dyan, mga uzi. Walang coach o teacher o classmate ba na nnandun?
She never stated why she and her eight-year old son was harassed and traumatized by that incident last February. The way she responded to the query "bakit di mo pinangalanan.naunahan ka tuloy." makes me think this is a perpetual victim. We all have narcissistic tendencies, walang exceptions. Sa observation ko sa mga bullies and their primal caregivers, pinagsasabihan naman daw nila ang mga bata. Kaya lang, children are extra sensitive especially boys, they are neurologically fragile. They absorb everything including their parent's baseline. If the parents don't know how to regulate their emotions, what can you expect from a child, who is not used to see the difference.
Sabi sa Feb post dinuduro siya at pinahiya sila ng anak in public. Given Alfred's govt position and in any case, even a normal individual, would not do this randomly. Usually, may trigger. So baka eto na rin yung sinasabi naman nila Alfred's side na di tinatake seriously yung complaints nila..
Not a mom yet pero I think papatulan ko rin yung bata kung paulit ulit binubully ang anak ko at wala rin makuhang help sa parents para idisiplina yung bata.
so bakit ka nga pinagduduro? What triggered the Vargases? Don’t tell me trip lang nila? What a bullcrap! And you’re saying pinagbabantaan anak mo? Bat di mo pina blotter that time? You’re omitting the real reason why they reacted that way. Pa victim
Airing this on public with this he said she said without the whole picture is careless, children are involved, it just exposed both kids to more bullies fr social media. :(
Kalimitan away bata, sumsawsaw mga magulang. Kaya lalong gumugulo, at yun mga bata naman nagiging palaaway din. Minsan na ttrigger ng mga competitive parents ang mga anak nila to not be humble but rather strike back
ReplyDeleteBullying ang issue dito. Hindi basta basta lang.
DeleteHindi away bata ng bullying
Wala bang CCTV sa paligid ng pool? Dapat meron dahil center for sports competition pala itong venue.🙄🙄
Delete12:39 need talaga e discipline ang mga bata but 7 & 8yrs old? Kung HS mga yan gets ko pa. For me, it's also away-bata na parents mismo ngpasimuno. Why? Dahil mga competitive mga parents, ayaw din nila malamangan mga anak nila. - not 12:28
DeleteBullying , alam naman na yan. Parehas daw sila na bbully, Sy"s posts were from way back pa, ito naman si V na bully din daw nun isa
Deleteparents should be a part of kasi minors pa sobrang bata pa ng involved.
DeleteAt 1:58 I’m sure meron. Kaya malakas ang loob nung isa na mag demanda.
DeleteAno bang school yan
Delete@203 there are many forms of discipline.. kun high school na tsaka i disiplina, di ba medyo late na?
DeleteWe should all remember that kids mirror what they experience at home, their parents’ and family dynamics affect them a lot and even the movies/games etc that they are exposed to. Kaya may effect tlga lahat sa young minds mula pa nung maliit sila. Nanurture lalo habang lumalaki. What they see or feel at home will be their basis when they go out of the world. This should be a reminder for all of us.
Delete2.03 Korek! Competitive ang mga bata, mas competitive pa parents lalo na kun may social standing na ayaw maungusan. Dapat competition will foster sportsmanship, hindi eh. Nag labu-labo na kasi pare-parehas kelangan mas magaling sa isa. Hangng umabot na sa 'bullying' as alleged by both camps
DeleteTutal pare-parehas kayo claiming to have been bullied, mag usap na lang kayo
Hindi aabot yan ng demanda kung ung magulang ay dinisiplina na lang ung anak, kaya nagdemanda kase di nga inaayos ung bata. Traumatized na and ung magsyota eh parang wala lang. Ang nagkakaso last resort na yan. Hassle yan eh di ba. So ganon kakalalim ung trauma sa anak ng mga Vargas para magdecide magkaso.
Deleteyes dapat dyan niresolve right away duon mismo sa competition, Para hindi na lumaki pa
DeleteThat's the issue nga eh. The parents of the bully don't bother to discipline their own kid. Vargas' son was not taught to strike back. I've seen these kids grow, they were taught with humility and kindness. Especially from the very hands on mom Yasmine.
DeleteZero tolerance ang bullying. This family panay post, the other family gumalaw na in a legal way. Demandahan ang gusto nila hindi dapat mag hanap ng kakampi sa mga marites. Bullied anak ko, buong school staff kasama sa meeting. Kinailangan pa magpa therapy ng anak ko dahil lang yung magulang ng bata pinagtatakpan ang anak nila instead na turuan ng tamang asal.
Deletebullied vs bullied
ReplyDeletepanalo yun tatay na lumusob sa kalaban (sa tingin niya)
sa tingin ng anak niya magaling ang tatay niya at nadefend siya
sa sunod okay lang mam bully uli, tutal andyan si daddy
See!! Sa mga sumuporta sa mga naka all white shirt na couple (pra ma hypnotize kayo w/c worked 🤦🏻♂️), I knew all along sablay choice nyo because that guy has a shady image! Ito na nga! Pumatol sa bata at dinamay na nga magulang!
ReplyDeletehindi ka pa din naman sure kng alin ang totoo. anyone can say, this happened, kahit hinid
DeleteThe legal action stems from a pattern of conduct where the respondents' minor child repeatedly pushed and held the Vargases' son underwater during swimming training sessions.
DeleteThese bullying incidents, by way of drovning the Vargas couple's child, occurred several times despite efforts, reminders and appeals made by the Vargases to the parents of the bully to tell their child to stop and to manage the minor's conduct.
"Mayroon pa ngang ginava yung bully na hindi talaga appropriate at sobrang sakit sa kalooban namin. Kinadyot niya yung anak ko sa malaswang paraan at nung nakita ng misis ko at sinabi sa nanay, tinawanan pa ng nanay at sinabi, 'He's just dancing!'," Vargas said.
"Every time we go to the parents to try to resolve these issues, we were either dismissed or gaslighted," he added.
The situation reached a breaking point during a swimming competition at the Rizal Memorial Sports Complex last
February.
In the event, Vargas and several other people personaly witnessed the minor pushing his child at the side area of the poci during warm-up period, almost injuring his son right before the competition.
Sa anak mo to gawin masaya ka?
At 12:43 Kahit ako man ang nanay na namin argumentative, nakita na stimuli ang anak ko sa side pool tapos pinagtatawanan pa ng mga kaibigan niyo, kahit 8 years old kapa, I will tell you what you did is wrong. Ang mali ni Alfred, public official pa naman, nanduronng bata.kaya guys, disiplinahin natin ang mga anak natin bago disiplinahin ng ibang tao.
DeleteHindi porket ayaw mo yung isa eh totoo sinasabi ng Sy couple.
DeleteD porket naka white mali na, no parents will sacrifice their child to gain publicity lang, let the investigation run its course
DeleteAnong konek ng shady image na pinagsasasabi mo? Anak mo kaya mabully anong gagawin mo? Vargas couple will not push for legal action if responsableng magulang itong parents ng bully. Magtatanggol ka narin lang sablay pa. hahahaha kaloka
DeleteWalang mapapala ung mag asawa kung mag sinungaling sila... sooo
ReplyDeleteYeah right unbelievable mga statement niyo
ReplyDeletesana pinag usapan muna ng mga magulang. ano kaya nagawa ng school?
ReplyDeleteNandun na nga sa statement ng mga V na ilang beses n nla sinabihan ang parents but they were dismissed or gaslighted.
DeleteIlabas ang video
ReplyDeleteFeel ko competitive ang dalawa bata. Ayaw mag patalo. Pikon din sila sa isa’t isa. They hate each other kaya umabot sa nag aasaran ang dalawa bata. Nanakit ang isa mananakit din yung isa hanagang sa lumaban na both magulang at umabot sa kasuhan.
ReplyDeleteParehas sila bully. Period
Hindi sila same age bracket sa competition at malakas ang vargas compared don sa isa.
DeleteThese behaviours are learned at home… sa family, parents or sa mga bagay na exposed sila. Kasama na rin jan ung toxic mentality na “wag kang magpapatalo”, “wag kang magpapaapi” etc kaya in return, we don’t raise strong kids, we raise bullies. Laging gustong the best kahit sa anong paraan pa. Laging feeling victim kya gustong gumanti or ayaw palamang. Mga laging feeling nasa tama.
DeleteMas lalong n trauma mga anak dahil ginawa nilang circus. Sana nagusap n lnh at ginawang learning opportunity.
ReplyDeleteNag-attempt nga raw but Alfred's side was dismissed and gaslighted
DeleteWe believe in you Rob Sy
ReplyDeleteknow and analyze his side, alfred's side and the school's statement for now.
DeleteOutside school event
DeleteShe didn't say bakit pinahiya at pinagduduro? Ano yun, out of nowhere dinuro at pinahiya without a reason? Bakit parang may kulang sa story
ReplyDeleteshe might be looking for sympathy from netizens first.
DeleteThis!
DeleteCorrect.
Delete1:57 may point ka. It may have happened but definitely there’s a reason why. Politiko ung isa, may image na pingangalagaan. Most probably tama ung narration na ilang beses na sila inapproach pero walang ginawa kaya umabot
DeleteAgree!
DeletePuro post lang sila ng post ng paninira. Tahimik naman yung isang kampo
DeleteKaya nga, kung ikaw na parent pinagduduro at pinahiya ang anak mo di mo kasohan? Child abuse na yun.
Delete7:31 bakit nga pinagduduro? nobody does that without a reason, this camp seems to be purposely not saying saan lahat nagsimula
DeleteNo to bullying! Take this to court and we will see who’s telling the truth
ReplyDeleteim sure lalabas din ang totoo!
ReplyDeleteshow the video na
ReplyDeleteThis!
DeleteBakit daw sya pinagduduro? Malamang may nangyari. Saka hindi naman one time lang. Repeated several times. Kaya nga nakailang approach sa kanila yung kabila.
ReplyDeletes court sila magpaliwanag with evidence haha hnd sa social media..
ReplyDeleteIlabas Ang video para malaman kung cno nagsisinungaling. Cguro nman may cctv sa location kung san nangyari yung incident
ReplyDeleteI am a pre school teacher, the best foundation for young children is the power of play. Play is actually a child’s primary way of learning. A toddler who has rich, varied play experiences is more likely to develop strong cognitive, emotional, and social foundations that support success in school, relationships, and overall well-being.
ReplyDeleteTrue.
DeleteONE of the best...
DeleteMay resibo. Lagot. Di kaya yung anak ng kabila eh nagkwento ng mali sa magulang? May mga witness yan imposible naman sila ang ang starring sa teleserye na to. May mga extra dyan, mga uzi. Walang coach o teacher o classmate ba na nnandun?
ReplyDeleteKung may issue pala nung Feb, bait hindi nagkaso ung Sy?
ReplyDelete2:03 yes! Dalin sa korte yan…. Tutal andyan na yan. Para lahat magulang at anak ay matuto sa mga nagawa at ginawa nila.
ReplyDeleteKanya kanya silang version of truths.Nakakalito. Sana lumabas ang katotohanan
ReplyDeleteSabi nga ni judge judy, if it doesn’t make sense, someone is lying
ReplyDeleteIto na nga yung sinasabing if you don’t discipline your child, someone else will.
ReplyDeleteIf a child is bully that’s what they see from parents
DeleteShe never stated why she and her eight-year old son was harassed and traumatized by that incident last February. The way she responded to the query "bakit di mo pinangalanan.naunahan ka tuloy." makes me think this is a perpetual victim. We all have narcissistic tendencies, walang exceptions. Sa observation ko sa mga bullies and their primal caregivers, pinagsasabihan naman daw nila ang mga bata. Kaya lang, children are extra sensitive especially boys, they are neurologically fragile. They absorb everything including their parent's baseline. If the parents don't know how to regulate their emotions, what can you expect from a child, who is not used to see the difference.
ReplyDeleteAteneo din anak nila?
ReplyDeleteBaka Mag ka klase lang sa swimming class?
DeleteSabi sa Feb post dinuduro siya at pinahiya sila ng anak in public. Given Alfred's govt position and in any case, even a normal individual, would not do this randomly. Usually, may trigger. So baka eto na rin yung sinasabi naman nila Alfred's side na di tinatake seriously yung complaints nila..
ReplyDeleteDimosure!!
DeleteNot a mom yet pero I think papatulan ko rin yung bata kung paulit ulit binubully ang anak ko at wala rin makuhang help sa parents para idisiplina yung bata.
ReplyDeleteso bakit ka nga pinagduduro? What triggered the Vargases? Don’t tell me trip lang nila? What a bullcrap! And you’re saying pinagbabantaan anak mo? Bat di mo pina blotter that time? You’re omitting the real reason why they reacted that way. Pa victim
ReplyDeleteI hate bullying!! Wala din yan as mukha maamo o horror mn. Ilabas ang videos PRA magkaalaman na.
ReplyDeleteAiring this on public with this he said she said without the whole picture is careless, children are involved, it just exposed both kids to more bullies fr social media. :(
ReplyDeleteYADA YADA YADA
ReplyDeletejust prove in court, not in social media
i so agree!
DeleteTotally agree.
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