Siguro he find solace doing it. When I lost a loved one due to a critical illness I felt comfort and purpose connecting with people na may pamilyang may ganong karamdaman din. So I get him. Coping mechanism nya rin tumulong
Wala bang mga magulang etong mga batang ito? Doon kayo sa mga magulang ninyo humingi ng tulong at sila may obligasyon sa inyo. Physical, financial, spiritual, at kung ano anong klaseng tulong eh ihingi niyo sa mga magulang ninyo. Anak anak tapos bahala na si Batman. Mawiwili lang silang mag anak niyan at naipapasa pala sa iba ang obligation nila. Walang obligation si Kuya Kim sa inyo. Buti nga tulong pang pa check-up binigay at hindi pera. Kasi baka lalong dumugin siya
I don't kiss or say i love you sa parents ko parang ang awkward.With my friends mom pag alis at dating me hug and kiss.I am not comfortable chatting up with my parents too.Ok weird ako
Pwedeng isa sa problema niya sa buhay is magulang niya, di mo naisip yon?!?
And there are some na ayaw nila maging pabigat sa ibang tao. Like me. I can't for the life of me unload to people close to me. There's shame, or guilt baka isipin nila nakakadagdag sila sa dalhin ko and fear of being dismissed lang at sabihin magdasal ka na lang iha. I had to seek other options.
1011 minsan tawag dyan pride. You true loved ones can handle it. Share with them not only the good but the bad also. unless babaw mg tingin mo sa kanila na feeling mo dagdag ka pa and they can’t handle it na. something to think about lang ha, another point to consider. loved want to and will help kahit sa maliit na paraan - kahit smile or hug lang.
1023 It happened to me. My family and my friends were the caused of my depression. Wala akong matakbuhan, sa bahay, sa school. Wala. After 3 decades, I'm still alive. I still couldn't believe how did I make ir.
5:17 Some parents are incapable and they could be toxic which could cause the triggers of suicidal attempts for someone who is already depressed. Wag ka mag mando kung di ka makakatulong. I had tried to end my life a few times before sa pagslash ng wrist. Pwede sya makasurvive pero may triggers pa din. Kaya tumigil ka.
@5:52 kaka internet mo yan.. and I’m nit even kidding! I’m studying right now and thesis namin yan. Parents are blocked by social media now, that’s how strong its influence, kaya kids are being raised by tiktok not by mom and dad, which very sad:
1223 Thesis mo pala yan. You are studying? Why are you so cruel to people with suicidal tendencies? Do you understand your thesis? Do you understand the purpose of a thesis? It's not just a requirement.
Totoo kaya yang mga taong yan o nagpapanggap lang? Para kasing yung mga abusado sa FB. May isang manghihingi ng tulong tapos kapag may mga nag-offer ng help, magsusunuran na yung ibang nanlilimos.
Glad that kuya Kim helps but I hope this is a wake up call for our government to basically step up with these kind of issues. Yung tipo bang mas iadvertise nila at paigtingin yung agency na makakatulong professionally sa mga may mental health issues and mental health illness because end of the day, tao lang si kuya Kim and he can’t help them all. In addition, Kuya Kim might be knowledgeable but he’s still not a licensed or professionally equipped.
Not necessary, 1132. Yan ang hirap sa ting mga pinoy. Mabait, sana tumakbo… wag ganon. Baka mas makatulong pa sya kung di kumandidato. Pag tumakbo sasabihin pang nepo.
Ayan nanaman tayo sa public office.If u appreciate what he is doing, all the more he stays in his place and focus para mas maraming matulungan kesa join the dirty world of politics .Yan palang nagawa nya..iba ang scope sa public office
Bless you, Kuya Kim. I hope hindi sya ma burn out since it would be a trend that people who needs psych help would run to him. Even psychiatrist and psychologists need a break and a session regularly to keep them grounded. Hopefully he can build an NGO or non profit that can handle more of this cases so he can help more and he won't be burnt out.
Based on experience, the biggest struggle of someone with mental health issues sa Pinas is getting help.
1- it’s expensive to have regular therapy sessions. Ang nangyayari tuloy, shortcut, i.e., getting dependent on meds, or just stop the sessions suddenly, even without the advise of the therapist. Don’t know which of the two is worse, but both are definitely not good for the patient. Just wondering, is such covered and be claimed under PhilHealth? Do health insurances in the country have coverage for mental illnesses? Do employers provide such assistance to their employees and their dependents? All these would have helped alleviate the cost for therapy sessions.
2- not having enough free support for citizens and knowledgeable first responders to calls. Because of #1 issue, kahit mag-resort to calling those numbers published for free assistance, minsan walang nasagot or hindi alam pano tumanggap ng call. The most they can do is give you another contact where you have to pay for consultation.
3- people not getting educated on mental health illness. Not all mental health illness needs meds. Mostly, even if you need to take meds, regular therapy sessions are needed. And it’s not always the case that you will have the first therapist you meet as the most “capable” or matched to handle your case. So, once you feel like you are, or a patient close to you is, not getting better after few sessions, search for another therapist. Also, follow through outside the sessions is very important, so if people close to the patient don’t understand and know what to do, there will be slow progress or patient may not even get better but worse. Like physical illness na depende sa sakit ang gamot, ganun din ang mental health illness. Hindi sila pare-pareho kaya iba-iba rin ang approach.
Kaya if you have people close to you who are struggling mentally, it’s important to get them to regular therapy, know their diagnosis, research about it, and work with the therapist.
KK knows the pain of losing loved ones through self-elimination. What he couldn't do for his daughter, he does for others. It's a good deed, a form of redemption in the name of his daughter.
kuya Kim i hope you do this privately. unfortunately maraming forda clout lang jan. like a lot of things, dahil lang sa iilan nasisira ang lahat. not only would be burnt out helping, baka mapunta lang attention mo sa mga hindi naman talaga nangangailangan ng tulong. tutal, nabanggit mo naman na, it's awareness enough naman na. pero keep it up, saludo po ako sa inyo
Tingin ko yung nararamdaman ni Kuya Kim parang ung sa iba din na namatayan. Ediba pag may namatay na mahal natin sa buhay parang forever na yun e. Masaya ka at alam mong kaya mong mag move forward pero dala mo pa din yung pain kasi namimiss mo parin ung taong nawala sayo. Kaya siguro yan ang therapy ni Kuya Kim sa pag oonline tingin ko hayaan na natin sya kasi nakakrelate sya dun nga sa mga may problema din gaya sa anak nya parang tingin nya anak nya din sila at gusto nya tulungan.
Kahit sabihin na natin forda clout, gusto padin ni Kuya Kim ng kausap, gusto nya magshare,tumulong. Basta magawa n yan ni Kim medyo gagaan siguro pakiramdan nya.
Based on experience, the biggest struggle of someone with mental health issues sa Pinas is getting help.
1- it’s expensive to have regular therapy sessions. Ang nangyayari tuloy, shortcut, i.e., getting dependent on meds, or just stop the sessions suddenly, even without the advise of the therapist. Don’t know which of the two is worse, but both are definitely not good for the patient. Just wondering, is such covered and be claimed under PhilHealth? Do health insurances in the country have coverage for mental illnesses? Do employers provide such assistance to their employees and their dependents? All these would have helped alleviate the cost for therapy sessions.
2- not having enough free support for citizens and knowledgeable first responders to calls. Because of #1 issue, kahit mag-resort to calling those numbers published for free assistance, minsan walang nasagot or hindi alam pano tumanggap ng call. The most they can do is give you another contact where you have to pay for consultation.
3- people not getting educated on mental health illness. Not all mental health illness needs meds. Mostly, even if you need to take meds, regular therapy sessions are needed. And it’s not always the case that you will have the first therapist you meet as the most “capable” or matched to handle your case. So, once you feel like you are, or a patient close to you is, not getting better after few sessions, search for another therapist. Also, follow through outside the sessions is very important, so if people close to the patient don’t understand and know what to do, there will be slow progress or patient may not even get better but worse. Like physical illness na depende sa sakit ang gamot, ganun din ang mental health illness. Hindi sila pare-pareho kaya iba-iba rin ang approach.
Kaya if you have people close to you who are struggling mentally, it’s important to get them to regular therapy, know their diagnosis, research about it, and work with the therapist.
ang sakit nyan. at the end of the day, you saved a lot of strangers except your own.
ReplyDeleteSiguro he find solace doing it. When I lost a loved one due to a critical illness I felt comfort and purpose connecting with people na may pamilyang may ganong karamdaman din. So I get him. Coping mechanism nya rin tumulong
DeleteSome people do that to honor the life and memory of a loved one
DeleteWala bang mga magulang etong mga batang ito? Doon kayo sa mga magulang ninyo humingi ng tulong at sila may obligasyon sa inyo. Physical, financial, spiritual, at kung ano anong klaseng tulong eh ihingi niyo sa mga magulang ninyo. Anak anak tapos bahala na si Batman. Mawiwili lang silang mag anak niyan at naipapasa pala sa iba ang obligation nila. Walang obligation si Kuya Kim sa inyo. Buti nga tulong pang pa check-up binigay at hindi pera. Kasi baka lalong dumugin siya
ReplyDeleteI don't kiss or say i love you sa parents ko parang ang awkward.With my friends mom pag alis at dating me hug and kiss.I am not comfortable chatting up with my parents too.Ok weird ako
DeleteKung makapag judge ka. You don't know these people.
DeletePwedeng isa sa problema niya sa buhay is magulang niya, di mo naisip yon?!?
DeleteAnd there are some na ayaw nila maging pabigat sa ibang tao. Like me. I can't for the life of me unload to people close to me. There's shame, or guilt baka isipin nila nakakadagdag sila sa dalhin ko and fear of being dismissed lang at sabihin magdasal ka na lang iha. I had to seek other options.
5:17 pano pala kung ang problema nya is ang parents nya? Pano pala kung sila ang cause kung bakit sya depressed?
Delete1011 minsan tawag dyan pride. You true loved ones can handle it. Share with them not only the good but the bad also. unless babaw mg tingin mo sa kanila na feeling mo dagdag ka pa and they can’t handle it na. something to think about lang ha, another point to consider. loved want to and will help kahit sa maliit na paraan - kahit smile or hug lang.
Delete1023 It happened to me. My family and my friends were the caused of my depression. Wala akong matakbuhan, sa bahay, sa school. Wala. After 3 decades, I'm still alive. I still couldn't believe how did I make ir.
Delete5:17 Please be kind.
5:17
ReplyDeleteSome parents are incapable and they could be toxic which could cause the triggers of suicidal attempts for someone who is already depressed.
Wag ka mag mando kung di ka makakatulong. I had tried to end my life a few times before sa pagslash ng wrist. Pwede sya makasurvive pero may triggers pa din. Kaya tumigil ka.
So magaanak ka nga at bahala na si Batman. Repeating the cycle. Tapos pipila sa ayuda
Delete@5:52 kaka internet mo yan.. and I’m nit even kidding! I’m studying right now and thesis namin yan. Parents are blocked by social media now, that’s how strong its influence, kaya kids are being raised by tiktok not by mom and dad, which very sad:
DeleteSocial media daw muna bago mga magulang
Delete1223 Thesis mo pala yan. You are studying? Why are you so cruel to people with suicidal tendencies? Do you understand your thesis? Do you understand the purpose of a thesis? It's not just a requirement.
DeleteSana lang hindi magamit si Kuya Kim at ang mental health for the views and likes.
ReplyDeletenagtataka nga ako kng bakit halos same wording nung unang hinelp ni kuya kim. gumagaya ba o ano
DeleteHindi iisang tao ang pwedeng mahirapan or same ng pinagdadaanan. Judgmental much?
Deleteipasa ni Kuya Kim sa mga magulang nila. yun may obligation sa mga anak nila. Hindi ibang tao
Delete10:12 PM pero same wording?
DeletePaanong same wording? If it’s about the use of common terms eh hindi mo naman maaalis yun noh
DeleteTotoo kaya yang mga taong yan o nagpapanggap lang? Para kasing yung mga abusado sa FB. May isang manghihingi ng tulong tapos kapag may mga nag-offer ng help, magsusunuran na yung ibang nanlilimos.
ReplyDelete10:17 yan nga rin naisip ko.
DeleteGlad that kuya Kim helps but I hope this is a wake up call for our government to basically step up with these kind of issues. Yung tipo bang mas iadvertise nila at paigtingin yung agency na makakatulong professionally sa mga may mental health issues and mental health illness because end of the day, tao lang si kuya Kim and he can’t help them all. In addition, Kuya Kim might be knowledgeable but he’s still not a licensed or professionally equipped.
ReplyDeleteGood job. I hope he runs for public office
ReplyDeleteNot necessary, 1132. Yan ang hirap sa ting mga pinoy. Mabait, sana tumakbo… wag ganon. Baka mas makatulong pa sya kung di kumandidato. Pag tumakbo sasabihin pang nepo.
DeleteAyan nanaman tayo sa public office.If u appreciate what he is doing, all the more he stays in his place and focus para mas maraming matulungan kesa join the dirty world of politics .Yan palang nagawa nya..iba ang scope sa public office
DeleteBawi bawi din pag May time
ReplyDeleteGrabe ang hinanga ko kay kuya Kim dito.
ReplyDeleteBless you, Kuya Kim. I hope hindi sya ma burn out since it would be a trend that people who needs psych help would run to him. Even psychiatrist and psychologists need a break and a session regularly to keep them grounded. Hopefully he can build an NGO or non profit that can handle more of this cases so he can help more and he won't be burnt out.
ReplyDeleteBased on experience, the biggest struggle of someone with mental health issues sa Pinas is getting help.
ReplyDelete1- it’s expensive to have regular therapy sessions. Ang nangyayari tuloy, shortcut, i.e., getting dependent on meds, or just stop the sessions suddenly, even without the advise of the therapist. Don’t know which of the two is worse, but both are definitely not good for the patient. Just wondering, is such covered and be claimed under PhilHealth? Do health insurances in the country have coverage for mental illnesses? Do employers provide such assistance to their employees and their dependents? All these would have helped alleviate the cost for therapy sessions.
2- not having enough free support for citizens and knowledgeable first responders to calls. Because of #1 issue, kahit mag-resort to calling those numbers published for free assistance, minsan walang nasagot or hindi alam pano tumanggap ng call. The most they can do is give you another contact where you have to pay for consultation.
3- people not getting educated on mental health illness. Not all mental health illness needs meds. Mostly, even if you need to take meds, regular therapy sessions are needed. And it’s not always the case that you will have the first therapist you meet as the most “capable” or matched to handle your case. So, once you feel like you are, or a patient close to you is, not getting better after few sessions, search for another therapist. Also, follow through outside the sessions is very important, so if people close to the patient don’t understand and know what to do, there will be slow progress or patient may not even get better but worse. Like physical illness na depende sa sakit ang gamot, ganun din ang mental health illness. Hindi sila pare-pareho kaya iba-iba rin ang approach.
Kaya if you have people close to you who are struggling mentally, it’s important to get them to regular therapy, know their diagnosis, research about it, and work with the therapist.
KK knows the pain of losing loved ones through self-elimination. What he couldn't do for his daughter, he does for others. It's a good deed, a form of redemption in the name of his daughter.
ReplyDeletekuya Kim i hope you do this privately. unfortunately maraming forda clout lang jan. like a lot of things, dahil lang sa iilan nasisira ang lahat. not only would be burnt out helping, baka mapunta lang attention mo sa mga hindi naman talaga nangangailangan ng tulong. tutal, nabanggit mo naman na, it's awareness enough naman na. pero keep it up, saludo po ako sa inyo
ReplyDeletethis is his calling
ReplyDeleteTingin ko yung nararamdaman ni Kuya Kim parang ung sa iba din na namatayan. Ediba pag may namatay na mahal natin sa buhay parang forever na yun e. Masaya ka at alam mong kaya mong mag move forward pero dala mo pa din yung pain kasi namimiss mo parin ung taong nawala sayo. Kaya siguro yan ang therapy ni Kuya Kim sa pag oonline tingin ko hayaan na natin sya kasi nakakrelate sya dun nga sa mga may problema din gaya sa anak nya parang tingin nya anak nya din sila at gusto nya tulungan.
ReplyDeleteKahit sabihin na natin forda clout, gusto padin ni Kuya Kim ng kausap, gusto nya magshare,tumulong. Basta magawa n yan ni Kim medyo gagaan siguro pakiramdan nya.
Based on experience, the biggest struggle of someone with mental health issues sa Pinas is getting help.
ReplyDelete1- it’s expensive to have regular therapy sessions. Ang nangyayari tuloy, shortcut, i.e., getting dependent on meds, or just stop the sessions suddenly, even without the advise of the therapist. Don’t know which of the two is worse, but both are definitely not good for the patient. Just wondering, is such covered and be claimed under PhilHealth? Do health insurances in the country have coverage for mental illnesses? Do employers provide such assistance to their employees and their dependents? All these would have helped alleviate the cost for therapy sessions.
2- not having enough free support for citizens and knowledgeable first responders to calls. Because of #1 issue, kahit mag-resort to calling those numbers published for free assistance, minsan walang nasagot or hindi alam pano tumanggap ng call. The most they can do is give you another contact where you have to pay for consultation.
3- people not getting educated on mental health illness. Not all mental health illness needs meds. Mostly, even if you need to take meds, regular therapy sessions are needed. And it’s not always the case that you will have the first therapist you meet as the most “capable” or matched to handle your case. So, once you feel like you are, or a patient close to you is, not getting better after few sessions, search for another therapist. Also, follow through outside the sessions is very important, so if people close to the patient don’t understand and know what to do, there will be slow progress or patient may not even get better but worse. Like physical illness na depende sa sakit ang gamot, ganun din ang mental health illness. Hindi sila pare-pareho kaya iba-iba rin ang approach.
Kaya if you have people close to you who are struggling mentally, it’s important to get them to regular therapy, know their diagnosis, research about it, and work with the therapist.