Hahaha i-co comment ko sana DI PA BA MATATAPOS ITO. May nauna na palang comment. No. 1 pa. Hahaha. Hay Ellen kung sising sisi ka na nagpakasal, malamang it's a tie. Malamang sising kabayo din si Derek. 50 na nga nagpakasal nagkamali pa. At hindi pala actual cheating. Nasa utak niya lang o tamang hinala
Nailed it. The woman is so noisy on social media; sounds like she has to hear herself repeat why she left to convince herself that she did the right thing. She sounds bitter.
Derek started it. Tinapos lang nya. Oh ngayon, asan ang pavictim posts ni Derek? Wala na. Effective ang style ni Ellen kasi nasa kanya ang katotohanan.
4:15 started what exactly? Kung mag salita ka akala mo kasama mo sila sa bahay ah hahaha sobrang loser lang ng mga taong paniwalang paniwala sa one sided story.
both are toxic personalities based on previous relationships, wag na sila magpakasal, may mga personality flaws ang mga ito kaya nakahanap sila ng katapat nila sa isst isa, both red flags, may pera lang sila
keep the bentley... the gifts, all of it including cash and properties... para maramdaman ng cheater ang sakit hahaha.. kasi kung hindi... buhay binata ulit yan...
Di naman sa nakikialam ako pero dapat tumahimik na kayo ni derek dahil paglaki ng anak nyo makikita itong mga sinasabi nyo at sya ang masasaktan. Tama na yun nasabi nyo wala ng dapat idagdag.
Plus inamin nya dba na she gives silent treatment. So mas mahirap nga to e kesa un nasisigawan ka. At least sa away naguusap kayo eh un silent treatment is like wala pake.
Silent treatment is manipulative din e.Kung palasigaw tong si D sya naman silent treatment para aluhin sya and magbend sa gusto nya.Pareho silang toxic at makalat.
Para sa akin, pag matanda na kayo, nakakapagod na makipag away, sa una naman talaga ng relasyon, may mga ugali tayo hindi natin alam sa isat isa, depende nalang yan sa pag uusap, pagigjng tapat sa isat isa, compromise, and choose love, over ur pride..
Mas maingay at mahilig sa attention ang lalaki.. for a guy na pa macho and English gentleman ang pa-image, that is totally weird.. Sya nag announce ng miscarriage ng asawa without her knowledge... Sya mahilig pa house tour kahit alam nya di comfy wife nya sa ganun. Kahit bahay pa nya, mag asawa na sila, he should respect his wife's feelings.. pa simpleng yabang kunbaga YYSS. Nag post pa ng pa iyak itak while on a reterat. My goodness, IN A RETREAT/ HEALING SESSION!!! where dapat in solitude and almost meditative mode, nag papa video..
Possible naman na hindi sya palasigaw or palamura. Pero for sure may ways sya na toxic din. Ngayon pa lang nga eh, the way she broadcasts their marital issues, ang toxic na.
Ang ingay nito. Good thing wala na si D sa buhay mo. You bring nothing but chaos. You need proof? Go back to your dating histories! Kalat mo girl! Thank God and I really hope wag ka mangdamay. Stay single!
My goodness! This woman needs a lot of validation. Too many justifications about her choices. Elena, there is dignity in silence. You have aired your side of the story and that's ENOUGH!
11:42 That’s your opinion and clearly she’s not getting your validation. She clearly thinks that’s the best way to handle HER situation. Kung babae ka, nakakaawa ka kasi imbes suportahan mo kapwa-babae mo, ikaw pa ang unang mang-aapi. Who are you protecting by keeping silent? Cheaters and narcissists? Sure, be dignified. But she’s choosing to fight boldly and loudly so other women may learn how to stand-up against abuse, too.
Silence is not weakness. There is power in silence. The way she tells the whole world about her issues seems like she really is seeking validation. Coz if not, why the hell would you post online.
4:10 ruining her reputation by reposting an article which was harmless? Mga repost ni adarna panay paininira. I’m notsiding with the guy but call them out both. Parehas silang toxic,
Like Pokwang, ang ingay din nun dati. O di ba tumahimik din. Time heals all wounds. One day titigil din to si Ellen. Be patient bashers and non-bashers
Hahaha! Regalo pero pinabayad sa service fee. How gentlemanly.. he's been quiet - i think he's scared that ellen is going to release more recordings and it will ruin him further.
It makes me think so then when he was with andrea, did he ask her to pay for their trip?? 🤣
Pag niregaluhan ka ng kotse, normal naman na, na ikaw na magbabayad ng mga maintenance nun. Duh. Binigyan ka na nga kotse gusto mo free maintenance pa? Free gas din ganun ba? Pag bnigyan ka bahay gusto mo free amilyar din? Freeloader ka ba. Hahahaha
12:50 si Derek ang nag dala sa casa, and 2x sya siningil. Sabi ni Ellen hindi sya nag d-drive so malamang si Derek din ang gumagamit ng car at naka sira kaya dapat siya din talaga ang magbayad.
It’s not a problem to pay for car maintenance, pero dpt may heads up from your partner na may babayaran sya lol. Hindi yung dadating nalang sa kanya billing😆
354 - may cases na ganun. And wala naman din masama. Unless bibigyan mo ng malisya. Kunwari humiram asawa mo sayo para ibigay sa parents nya or something, wala naman masama if singilin mo.
I totally understand where is she coming from.exposing this to the public helps protect other women who will be victimise by Derek in the future.plus this is her coping mechanism for the breakdown of her marriage.
408 - well if it happens to me I will definitely not act like ellen for the whole world to see. It is never ok to destroy someone else by public trial whether true or not sinasabe mo.
1251 a woman is abused and all your thinking about us being classy?? Ellen exposing derek isn't just exposing. It's telling her story so other women can be warned. There are very subtle signs of men abusing women. You're not seeing it because you probably have not been in her situation. I'll give you an example ha - when he and andrea broke up, he claimed that he was the one who broke up with andrea. If you don't think that's emotional abuse, you're sick in the head. They're public figures and for a man to embarass a woman like that?
Now, with ellen - yelling, calling her dumb in public, buying her a bentley even when she doesn't like cars and don't like driving, says he's buying it for himself (do you not see how manipulative & selfish this is?) Kunwari he's so bongga but the underlying motive is, they're married so he's going to drive the car himself 🤣 so he doesn't really care about what Ellen WANTS.
and then cheating..what else?!
If you don't find this helpful for all other women to be warned of subtle signs...then good foryou, you probably have not been in a an abusive relationship.
Mga typical comment na "you dont have her money" argument. Well Im just happy na Im healthy. Mas impt yun sakin kesa money. And I dont need a lot of money like hers tapos miserable.
Si Derek kaya ang tipo ng guy na dahil maganda ang kitchen e ayaw ipagamit dahil baka magasgas? Parang ang hirap if parang de numero ang kilos mo sa bahay na maraming bawal galawin or gamitin.
Yes. Napanood ko sa house tour nila how Ellen kept rolling her eyes regarding ayaw magasgasan yung countertop sa kitchen because very expensive daw. Kitang kita na sa reaction Ellen that time how she loathes some of his very metikuloso ways😄
Real rich people does not give a damn abt a scratch in the kitchen/cars. Mga gamit na yan exposed talagang masira, busy area yan kitchen ano gusto nya😆
Always calm daw kasi iba nakikipagaway for her. Si JL naapaway dahil sa kanya. Biglaan alis nila sa sitcom. Same kay Derek naapaway sa kaibigan pero na kay J ang huling halakhak.
She didnt need to talk about her break up with jlc. Kasi napaka quiet lang ni jlc that time. At, inilabas na nila un mukhang tang* na video ni jlc na yumayakap sa gasul. That was enough to destroy him.
If a person is so secure of herself, she does whatever she wants. I like how she put a stop the minute there’s disrespect. Nagpa baranggay sya right so that’s the answer. Nakakatawa yung pinabayaran sa kanya yjng service ng Bentley lol
True. Yung iba dito baka 2.5k lang na participation fee nirarant nio na lol. May ganyan tao na kamag-anak mo bibigyan ka kunwari gift pero siya rin yung gagamit lol. Scammer pala
Women should take this as warning. Ellen’s narrative will help other women who’s facing the same situation as hers. She is the victim here. Derek just found his match.
im not kampi pang kay ellen because we are women but there are women who can just stand on their own without a man, she is one of those women, wag na mag asawa. Stay single, buti si ellen mapera
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Kailan kaya matapos ang drama niya sa SM? Ang dami kasi chena eh.
ReplyDeleteI think kahit ako nsa situation nya, baka magawa ko rin yan nung ganyang age pako ha pero pag nsa 40s kana wala ka na ata energy haha
DeleteHahaha i-co comment ko sana DI PA BA MATATAPOS ITO. May nauna na palang comment. No. 1 pa. Hahaha. Hay Ellen kung sising sisi ka na nagpakasal, malamang it's a tie. Malamang sising kabayo din si Derek. 50 na nga nagpakasal nagkamali pa. At hindi pala actual cheating. Nasa utak niya lang o tamang hinala
Delete12:21 yup
DeleteAg ginawang circus pa ang separation nila.
DeleteSiya talaga yung Basha ng totoong buhay dahil ke JLC at DR
DeleteNailed it. The woman is so noisy on social media; sounds like she has to hear herself repeat why she left to convince herself that she did the right thing. She sounds bitter.
DeleteBakit ba ang ingay ng babaeng ito
ReplyDeleteFeeling victim kc khit mas toxic pa cya dun sa derek!
DeleteDerek started it. Tinapos lang nya. Oh ngayon, asan ang pavictim posts ni Derek? Wala na. Effective ang style ni Ellen kasi nasa kanya ang katotohanan.
DeleteShe has the right to. Bakit mas maingay ka?
Delete1120pm. Ikaw yun toxic. Enabler
Delete415 katotohanan na hindi siya pang wife material. Dapat di na siya nagpakasal. Madami Siya magsawa at umaway, dapat Kinilala niya sarili niya
Delete517 enabler din kayo sa maling ways ni ellen noh
Delete4:15 started what exactly? Kung mag salita ka akala mo kasama mo sila sa bahay ah hahaha sobrang loser lang ng mga taong paniwalang paniwala sa one sided story.
Deleteboth are toxic personalities based on previous relationships, wag na sila magpakasal, may mga personality flaws ang mga ito kaya nakahanap sila ng katapat nila sa isst isa, both red flags, may pera lang sila
Delete4:05 lakas maka wife material mo day!
Deletekeep the bentley... the gifts, all of it including cash and properties... para maramdaman ng cheater ang sakit hahaha.. kasi kung hindi... buhay binata ulit yan...
ReplyDeleteDi naman sa nakikialam ako pero dapat tumahimik na kayo ni derek dahil paglaki ng anak nyo makikita itong mga sinasabi nyo at sya ang masasaktan. Tama na yun nasabi nyo wala ng dapat idagdag.
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteSocmed is her drug that she can't stop using :D :D :D
ReplyDeleteThis. And marami rin tao ang ganito. Masyado addict sa socmed.
Deletee di ba Friendster sya nag start at dun sumikat kaya galawang Ellen Adarna talaga ganyan
DeleteIt’s obvious in that recording that she set him up. She provoked him because she knew that she would get that reaction from Derek.
ReplyDeleteExactly! Find her sooo toxic
Deletei have been saying this since that recording surfaced. manipulator moves
DeleteHay nako ellen tama na. Isipin mo nmn mga anak mo jusko 😅
ReplyDeleteI’d rather have a shouting match with my partner rather than a partner who posts all our issues on social media.
ReplyDeletePlus inamin nya dba na she gives silent treatment. So mas mahirap nga to e kesa un nasisigawan ka. At least sa away naguusap kayo eh un silent treatment is like wala pake.
DeleteI’d rather not have both. I’m not choosing between two bad options
DeleteBaka di sinuyo si Ellen at yan ang resulta hahaha. Akala niya hahabulin siya.
DeleteSilent treatment is manipulative din e.Kung palasigaw tong si D sya naman silent treatment para aluhin sya and magbend sa gusto nya.Pareho silang toxic at makalat.
DeletePara sa akin, pag matanda na kayo, nakakapagod na makipag away, sa una naman talaga ng relasyon, may mga ugali tayo hindi natin alam sa isat isa, depende nalang yan sa pag uusap, pagigjng tapat sa isat isa, compromise, and choose love, over ur pride..
DeleteKung parehas sana sila mag adjust sa isat isa eh d sana kaya maworkout. Pero kung both or 1 ayaw mag adjust wala talaga mangyayari.
DeleteMas maingay at mahilig sa attention ang lalaki.. for a guy na pa macho and English gentleman ang pa-image, that is totally weird.. Sya nag announce ng miscarriage ng asawa without her knowledge... Sya mahilig pa house tour kahit alam nya di comfy wife nya sa ganun. Kahit bahay pa nya, mag asawa na sila, he should respect his wife's feelings.. pa simpleng yabang kunbaga YYSS. Nag post pa ng pa iyak itak while on a reterat. My goodness, IN A RETREAT/ HEALING SESSION!!! where dapat in solitude and almost meditative mode, nag papa video..
DeleteAnu pa kaya gusto ni ellen malaman ng mga tao, di na natapos drama
ReplyDeleteSa behavior mo sa social media, you honestly think you can convince us that you don’t shout back? Masyado kang iskandalosa.
ReplyDeleteSobra. Kunwari mabait e sobrang toxic at nakakairita ang ugali.
DeletePossible naman na hindi sya palasigaw or palamura. Pero for sure may ways sya na toxic din. Ngayon pa lang nga eh, the way she broadcasts their marital issues, ang toxic na.
DeleteAng ingay nito. Good thing wala na si D sa buhay mo. You bring nothing but chaos. You need proof? Go back to your dating histories! Kalat mo girl! Thank God and I really hope wag ka mangdamay. Stay single!
ReplyDeleteTama yung stay single. She cant keep a relationship.
DeleteMy goodness! This woman needs a lot of validation. Too many justifications about her choices. Elena, there is dignity in silence. You have aired your side of the story and that's ENOUGH!
ReplyDelete11:42 That’s your opinion and clearly she’s not getting your validation. She clearly thinks that’s the best way to handle HER situation. Kung babae ka, nakakaawa ka kasi imbes suportahan mo kapwa-babae mo, ikaw pa ang unang mang-aapi. Who are you protecting by keeping silent? Cheaters and narcissists? Sure, be dignified. But she’s choosing to fight boldly and loudly so other women may learn how to stand-up against abuse, too.
DeleteSpeaking up isn’t seeking validation- it’s reclaiming power. The ones telling her to be silent are the same ones who’d cover for a cheater.
DeleteSilence is not weakness. There is power in silence. The way she tells the whole world about her issues seems like she really is seeking validation. Coz if not, why the hell would you post online.
DeleteAndami triggered s pagiging loud ni E. Nga wala kasi kayo money unlike her, kayo nalang ang manahimik lol
DeleteAnu ba kinalaman ng pagkakaron ni ellen ng maraming pera? Bakit ito un palagi nyong pinaglalaban? Lol. Without her money, what can she offer?
DeletePeople deal with grief differently. This is hers.
ReplyDeletePeople will always have opinions and she is asking for it big time.
Delete2:18 clearly, she doesn’t care like you do. She’s all about sharing her story because D triggered her and is ruining her reputation unfairly.
Delete4:10 ruining her reputation by reposting an article which was harmless? Mga repost ni adarna panay paininira. I’m notsiding with the guy but call them out both. Parehas silang toxic,
DeleteLike Pokwang, ang ingay din nun dati. O di ba tumahimik din. Time heals all wounds. One day titigil din to si Ellen. Be patient bashers and non-bashers
DeleteHahaha! Regalo pero pinabayad sa service fee. How gentlemanly.. he's been quiet - i think he's scared that ellen is going to release more recordings and it will ruin him further.
ReplyDeleteIt makes me think so then when he was with andrea, did he ask her to pay for their trip?? 🤣
kawawa din si andrea nun,kung mata-matahin dahil sa pagiging breadwinner. hayan D, nakahanap ka ng mas mayaman sa yo, ano ka ngayon, KARMA
DeletePag niregaluhan ka ng kotse, normal naman na, na ikaw na magbabayad ng mga maintenance nun. Duh. Binigyan ka na nga kotse gusto mo free maintenance pa? Free gas din ganun ba? Pag bnigyan ka bahay gusto mo free amilyar din? Freeloader ka ba. Hahahaha
Delete12:50 si Derek ang nag dala sa casa, and 2x sya siningil. Sabi ni Ellen hindi sya nag d-drive so malamang si Derek din ang gumagamit ng car at naka sira kaya dapat siya din talaga ang magbayad.
DeleteIt’s not a problem to pay for car maintenance, pero dpt may heads up from your partner na may babayaran sya lol. Hindi yung dadating nalang sa kanya billing😆
DeleteLol asawa nyo sisingilin nyo?
Delete354 - may cases na ganun. And wala naman din masama. Unless bibigyan mo ng malisya. Kunwari humiram asawa mo sayo para ibigay sa parents nya or something, wala naman masama if singilin mo.
DeleteI totally understand where is she coming from.exposing this to the public helps protect other women who will be victimise by Derek in the future.plus this is her coping mechanism for the breakdown of her marriage.
ReplyDeleteWhy is everyone enabling this kind of coping mechanism? Napaka cheap, classless and uneducated naman ng ways nyo.
DeleteTeh kung may magkagusto ky Derek ulit, problema nila un. Di naman sa kweba nakatira ang iba diyan sa Pilipinas ano???
Delete12:51 Wait til it happens to you and then you will learn how not to judge how women caught in abusive relationships cope.
Delete408 - well if it happens to me I will definitely not act like ellen for the whole world to see. It is never ok to destroy someone else by public trial whether true or not sinasabe mo.
Delete1251 a woman is abused and all your thinking about us being classy?? Ellen exposing derek isn't just exposing. It's telling her story so other women can be warned. There are very subtle signs of men abusing women. You're not seeing it because you probably have not been in her situation. I'll give you an example ha - when he and andrea broke up, he claimed that he was the one who broke up with andrea. If you don't think that's emotional abuse, you're sick in the head. They're public figures and for a man to embarass a woman like that?
DeleteNow, with ellen - yelling, calling her dumb in public, buying her a bentley even when she doesn't like cars and don't like driving, says he's buying it for himself (do you not see how manipulative & selfish this is?) Kunwari he's so bongga but the underlying motive is, they're married so he's going to drive the car himself 🤣 so he doesn't really care about what Ellen WANTS.
and then cheating..what else?!
If you don't find this helpful for all other women to be warned of subtle signs...then good foryou, you probably have not been in a an abusive relationship.
You will never act like ellen simply bec u dont have her money lol. Be classy and poor forever and keep quiet😆
Delete12:28 nailed it
Delete12:28 she’s far from being a victim you’re so easily fooled
DeleteMga typical comment na "you dont have her money" argument. Well Im just happy na Im healthy. Mas impt yun sakin kesa money. And I dont need a lot of money like hers tapos miserable.
DeleteWell nobody cares abt you anon 715😆
DeleteMas mahirap naman wala ka na money miserable kapa. Maybe u dont have an opportunity to have money kaya u dont prefer it 715
DeleteCan’t help but notice… STOP TOUCHING YOUR FACE AND MOUTH WHILE TALKING ugh
ReplyDeleteTrue pansin ko dn yan
DeleteSi Derek kaya ang tipo ng guy na dahil maganda ang kitchen e ayaw ipagamit dahil baka magasgas? Parang ang hirap if parang de numero ang kilos mo sa bahay na maraming bawal galawin or gamitin.
ReplyDeleteYes. Napanood ko sa house tour nila how Ellen kept rolling her eyes regarding ayaw magasgasan yung countertop sa kitchen because very expensive daw. Kitang kita na sa reaction Ellen that time how she loathes some of his very metikuloso ways😄
DeleteBakit niya pinakasalan? Si Ellen pala di nagiisip,sabi daw ng Papa niya mag live in muna. Anyare Ellen?
Delete231am In other words, controlling ang personality
DeleteFeeling ko he, like most people, just want users to be careful and not burara kasi pinaghirapan eh. Pero kung OCD, asan naman compassion?
DeleteI’m
DeleteAn OC I understand Derek I’m living solo
Hay naku, wabi sabi. Embrace the imperfection. Ang OA naman yung wagna gamiitn
DeleteReal rich people does not give a damn abt a scratch in the kitchen/cars. Mga gamit na yan exposed talagang masira, busy area yan kitchen ano gusto nya😆
Delete8:39 hahahaahaha dear of course they do. What an ignorant blanket statement
DeleteAlways calm daw kasi iba nakikipagaway for her. Si JL naapaway dahil sa kanya. Biglaan alis nila sa sitcom. Same kay Derek naapaway sa kaibigan pero na kay J ang huling halakhak.
ReplyDeleteAttention is a new form of addiction. Hirap mag quit no?
ReplyDeleteSince friendster days. Nabuhay na sya sa world ng socmed. Guess the netizens make her happy even if she denies it lol.
Delete404, u mean chismis is an ancient form of addiction lol, like u hirap ba na hindi magcomment😆😆
DeleteShe needs to get off socials and deal with it in private.
ReplyDeleteIf you follow Ellen. Ganyan na talaga siya eversince. I mean, she always have a Q&A portion sa insta niya.
Delete💯💯💯
Delete611 u need to get off FP if you’re so affected abt her😆
DeleteShe never talked about her breakup with JLC
DeleteShe didnt need to talk about her break up with jlc. Kasi napaka quiet lang ni jlc that time. At, inilabas na nila un mukhang tang* na video ni jlc na yumayakap sa gasul. That was enough to destroy him.
DeleteIf a person is so secure of herself, she does whatever she wants. I like how she put a stop the minute there’s disrespect. Nagpa baranggay sya right so that’s the answer. Nakakatawa yung pinabayaran sa kanya yjng service ng Bentley lol
ReplyDeleteTrue. Yung iba dito baka 2.5k lang na participation fee nirarant nio na lol. May ganyan tao na kamag-anak mo bibigyan ka kunwari gift pero siya rin yung gagamit lol. Scammer pala
DeleteWomen should take this as warning. Ellen’s narrative will help other women who’s facing the same situation as hers. She is the victim here. Derek just found his match.
ReplyDeleteVictim? nagerecord while nag aaway at 5 years ago pa.
Deleted ko maintindihan story niya about bentley
ReplyDeleteim not kampi pang kay ellen because we are women but there are women who can just stand on their own without a man, she is one of those women, wag na mag asawa. Stay single, buti si ellen mapera
ReplyDeleteAgree ako na magpaka single si ellen. Or date date lang. Kasi masyado sya mataas and matigas to adjust or compromise.
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