She doesn't tolerate disrespect. Aminin niyo na ang relasyon nag babase kung gaano ka patient ng girl sa kalokohan ng lalake. Like yung friend ni Derek na si J ngayon gusto niya balikan si P. Kung kailan sumuko si P sa daming beses siyang niloko bakit ganyan ang mga lalaki
12:21 Stop na kayong mga defenders ni Ellen. Isn't it obvious na Ellen cant keep a relationship, ano yun lahat ng lalaki sablay at sya hindi? Eh since her youth she lived a wayward life. Walwal sya, party goer and alcoholic tapos todo tanggol nyong mga kunsintidor kayo. Derek isn't a saint either, buti nga sa kanya nakarma sya through Ellen pero wag nyo i-justify ang kapalpakan ni Ellen sa mga naging relationships nya accept that red flag sya.
Too sad and too bad that Derek thought he won a jackpot by marrying a strong willed, happy go lucky, independent, pretty, hot momma and rich woman like Ellen. Na tanso sya, pili ng pili nauwi din sa wala, dami nya tinalokuran na babaeng matino nung araw, i think karma nila isat isa
May mga tao talaga na hindi sanay sa matagalang relationship. Siguro nagsasawa. Siguro ayaw magsettle ng matagal. Siguro di na matake un tao na kasama nila pag may nadiscover na ayaw nila. Minor annoyances then could be a major issue now. Which is not a bad thing. Preference yun eh. May mga tao ayaw ng matagalang relasyon. May mga tao na ayaw ng relasyon at all. May mga tao na ayaw ng anak. Preference tawag dun.
Walwal, party goer, wayward life. Never ka dumaan sa phase na yun nung teens-early 20s mo? Nerd ka ba o wala kang friends? Marami ganun ang past pero nagbago for the better. Di porke't ganun ang past mo e hindi na kaya magtagal ng relationship. The only way ay makahanap ng decent na guy. Di ko kilala si Ellen personally pero based sa public posts niya, she is a good mom. Maraming lalaki nappreciate ang ganun babae. FYI di porke't nag party e masama o malanding tao na. Ang pag party ay ka tulad lang din ng pag attend ng concert.
3:05 not always. Marami ako kilala na matino yung babae pero babaero lang talaga yung lalaki. Hanggang sa napuno na yung babae. KADALASAN , lalaki talaga may kasalanan dahil hindi makuntento sa isa or for their ego, nambababae sila.
Ellen doesnt tolerate disrespect pero sya she disrespects also her husband. Yung mga prank nya kay derek na hindi naman nakakatuwa or nakakatawa esp when he was aleeping, that is also disrespectful. Ellen is immature, childish and brat as a partner. Un lang yun. If you cant compromise, stay single.
Anong nkakabigla eh ang dami nila pera para takpan lahat ng responsibilities, daming yayas so di sila napupuyat sa gabi, daming pera so i dont think yan ang reason, more of nagkalabasan na ng real ugali at true colors ng isat isa plus PPD
As for a friend's case, the guy cheated on her early days pa lang ng marriage nila. Same with my cousin's case, kaso yung pinsan ko pinatawad at tiniis. I salute women who do not tolerate disrespect.
activated kasi ang masculine instincts ng babae after manganak... so kung hindi marunong si guy na manuyo at ipakita sa gawa ang pagmamahal at suporta... dalawa na sila "nakapantalon" sa relasyon... Two masculine energies in a relationship are a surefire recipe for headbutting and conflict..
1:40 anong pinagsasabi mo? once you are married, hindi lang sarili mo ang iintindihin mo at laging tama, spoiled etc, kundi ang buong family mo to every decision you make, no room for immaturity and pettiness, you need to find a compromise at alam dapat ng isat isa ang ugali, alin ang pwedeng baguhin at alin ugali na live with it and pick your battles. FYI sa mga hindi nakakaintindi na tinawag si Ellen na Biyatch ni Derek specially tumatawa sila pareho is not a disrespect but playful bantering ng couple , which normal couple have pero sa mga outsider it will look cringy.
1:33 salute also women who choose to stay and sacrifice for the sake of the children (as long as the guy apologizes and STOPS cheating). Hindi rin biro magtiis for the kids. May studies kasi na may risk ma traumatize mga bata sa hiwalayan.
1:40 agree with you. It makes sense. I felt that way after ko manganak. Like after all the hard work i did carrying the baby and delivering her. Lol i felt superior at bawat kilos ng asawa ko nakikitaan ko ng mali. Lol. Poor hubby.
It takes more courage to humble one’s self, forgive, stay, change, and work things out. I hope people who take the leap to get married will take commitment more seriously.🙏
12:45 maniwala ka the more you forgive, the more they will lose respect for you. Hahabulin ka nila when you walk away kasi that's the only time they respect you is when you walk away. Taken for granted ka lang if you stay
12:52 YES ... agree with you. Pero dapat kasi yan ay na established na during courtship stage. Nasabi na sana ni girl.. hey this is my deal breaker.. pag ginawa mo to, goodbye forever....
It's very important for couples to talk heartily before getting married. The non negotiables, finances, parenting style, and anything under the sun. Para alam ng isa't isa saan lulugar.
Kaya nga importante na may sarili kang pera at kumikita ka para hindi ka aasa sa lalaki, at pag gusto mo na umalis eh anytime pwede ka umalis sa isang relasyon
1:29 madaming partners ang nagbabago for worse after marriage. As in may iba 360 ang pinagbabago kahit na matagal na in a relationship. Magtitiis nalang ba lagi dahil commitment?
haaay... thought sila na forevs! sayang! malala ang postpartum siguro ni ellen and husbands should be more understanding. but ano ba daw ngyare classmates?
Why do I have a feeling na si Derek ang nakipaghiwalay? Mga previous relationships nya mostly nagtatagal, except Andrea na medyo mabilis lang. Pero lahat di nauuwi sa kasal. Si Ellen yata yung shortest pero pinakasalan agad. I feel like di nila ganun kakilala ang isat isa and when they started living together dun na naglabasan ang mga ugali na non negotiable. Tapos kasama pa yata nila sa bahay parents ni Derek. For me mahirap yun.
Di kasi dapat ginagawang free monthly trial ang isang relationship sa pamamagitan ng pag live in, tapos kung sigurado na, kasal ang kasunod. Kaya nga kadalasan mga naghihiwalay sa mag asawa ay yung nag live in muna bago kasal. Look at tom and carla
From the start, I felt they would not last long. It was a pandemic romance. Circumstances were different then. Derek is controlling but there was no need to control Ellen then because of the pandemic restrictions. Ellen could not be her usual walwal self. But now that everything is back to normal, Derek's controlling ways is suffocating Ellen's free spirit.
As I said before, EA is not marriage material :D :D :D Just check her past relationships and you will know ;) ;) ;)
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DeleteShe doesn't tolerate disrespect. Aminin niyo na ang relasyon nag babase kung gaano ka patient ng girl sa kalokohan ng lalake. Like yung friend ni Derek na si J ngayon gusto niya balikan si P. Kung kailan sumuko si P sa daming beses siyang niloko bakit ganyan ang mga lalaki
DeleteMalala postpartum ni EA. Same din sa kanila ni JL. History repeats itself lang.
DeleteHindi ikaw ang nauna at bukod tanging nakahula na maghihiwalay silang 2. Masyado ka namang proud
Delete12:21 Stop na kayong mga defenders ni Ellen. Isn't it obvious na Ellen cant keep a relationship, ano yun lahat ng lalaki sablay at sya hindi? Eh since her youth she lived a wayward life. Walwal sya, party goer and alcoholic tapos todo tanggol nyong mga kunsintidor kayo. Derek isn't a saint either, buti nga sa kanya nakarma sya through Ellen pero wag nyo i-justify ang kapalpakan ni Ellen sa mga naging relationships nya accept that red flag sya.
DeleteMas lalong hindi husband material si derek
DeleteToo sad and too bad that Derek thought he won a jackpot by marrying a strong willed, happy go lucky, independent, pretty, hot momma and rich woman like Ellen. Na tanso sya, pili ng pili nauwi din sa wala, dami nya tinalokuran na babaeng matino nung araw, i think karma nila isat isa
DeleteHistory repeats itself over and over and over and over and over again
DeleteNakahanap si Derek ng katapat hahaha
DeleteMay mga tao talaga na hindi sanay sa matagalang relationship. Siguro nagsasawa. Siguro ayaw magsettle ng matagal. Siguro di na matake un tao na kasama nila pag may nadiscover na ayaw nila. Minor annoyances then could be a major issue now. Which is not a bad thing. Preference yun eh. May mga tao ayaw ng matagalang relasyon. May mga tao na ayaw ng relasyon at all. May mga tao na ayaw ng anak. Preference tawag dun.
Delete12:59 relationships involve just two people. Two people. Kahit kasambahay ka pa nila wala kang k na husgahan na palpak un isa
DeletePareho lang silang red flag.
Deleteparehas sila may mali dahil sa mag-asawa dalawa kayo nagagree na mag I do dalawa din kayo pag naghiwalay
DeleteE does not settle for anything less than what she deserved. She is a female alpha.
Deletepareho lang silang walang nagtatagal na karelasyon
DeleteWalwal, party goer, wayward life. Never ka dumaan sa phase na yun nung teens-early 20s mo? Nerd ka ba o wala kang friends? Marami ganun ang past pero nagbago for the better. Di porke't ganun ang past mo e hindi na kaya magtagal ng relationship. The only way ay makahanap ng decent na guy. Di ko kilala si Ellen personally pero based sa public posts niya, she is a good mom. Maraming lalaki nappreciate ang ganun babae. FYI di porke't nag party e masama o malanding tao na. Ang pag party ay ka tulad lang din ng pag attend ng concert.
Delete3:05 not always. Marami ako kilala na matino yung babae pero babaero lang talaga yung lalaki. Hanggang sa napuno na yung babae. KADALASAN , lalaki talaga may kasalanan dahil hindi makuntento sa isa or for their ego, nambababae sila.
Deletenagkapikunan,wala kasing respeto sa isat isa
DeleteEllen doesnt tolerate disrespect pero sya she disrespects also her husband. Yung mga prank nya kay derek na hindi naman nakakatuwa or nakakatawa esp when he was aleeping, that is also disrespectful. Ellen is immature, childish and brat as a partner. Un lang yun. If you cant compromise, stay single.
Deleteito na ba yung na Karmy si Dery? Dami umiyak dahil kay D na mga babae
ReplyDeletethis is really sad. still hoping they get back together.
ReplyDeleteMe too , lets pray for their union for them to reconcile.
DeleteI wish for it too. Sana in time magkaauos din sila whatever they are going through.
DeleteGood job, girl!
ReplyDeleteWhy do some marriages break after magkaanak?
ReplyDeleteSometimes PP depression or ung nabibigla sa major life changes
DeleteAnong nkakabigla eh ang dami nila pera para takpan lahat ng responsibilities, daming yayas so di sila napupuyat sa gabi, daming pera so i dont think yan ang reason, more of nagkalabasan na ng real ugali at true colors ng isat isa plus PPD
DeleteAs for a friend's case, the guy cheated on her early days pa lang ng marriage nila. Same with my cousin's case, kaso yung pinsan ko pinatawad at tiniis. I salute women who do not tolerate disrespect.
Deleteactivated kasi ang masculine instincts ng babae after manganak... so kung hindi marunong si guy na manuyo at ipakita sa gawa ang pagmamahal at suporta... dalawa na sila "nakapantalon" sa relasyon... Two masculine energies in a relationship are a surefire recipe for headbutting and conflict..
Delete1:40 anong pinagsasabi mo? once you are married, hindi lang sarili mo ang iintindihin mo at laging tama, spoiled etc, kundi ang buong family mo to every decision you make, no room for immaturity and pettiness, you need to find a compromise at alam dapat ng isat isa ang ugali, alin ang pwedeng baguhin at alin ugali na live with it and pick your battles. FYI sa mga hindi nakakaintindi na tinawag si Ellen na Biyatch ni Derek specially tumatawa sila pareho is not a disrespect but playful bantering ng couple , which normal couple have pero sa mga outsider it will look cringy.
Delete3:15 agree ako dito. Mas pipiliin mo magdesisyon base sa pamilya mo. Hindi na lang sarili mo iisipin mo.
Delete1:33 salute also women who choose to stay and sacrifice for the sake of the children (as long as the guy apologizes and STOPS cheating). Hindi rin biro magtiis for the kids. May studies kasi na may risk ma traumatize mga bata sa hiwalayan.
Delete1:40 agree with you. It makes sense. I felt that way after ko manganak. Like after all the hard work i did carrying the baby and delivering her. Lol i felt superior at bawat kilos ng asawa ko nakikitaan ko ng mali. Lol. Poor hubby.
DeleteThe novelty wore off
ReplyDeleteSana lahat ng babae may courage to walk away sa relationship na hindi na maayos.
ReplyDeleteIt takes more courage to humble one’s self, forgive, stay, change, and work things out. I hope people who take the leap to get married will take commitment more seriously.🙏
Delete12:45am sana nga easy lang mag walk away. Sana nga kasing care free lang ni mareng Ellen na pa medimeditate pabeach beach lang haha
Delete12:45 maniwala ka the more you forgive, the more they will lose respect for you. Hahabulin ka nila when you walk away kasi that's the only time they respect you is when you walk away. Taken for granted ka lang if you stay
DeleteAt 12:14 marriage is a commitment. If you can’t handle one “no”, don’t get married. Let’s not waste each other’s time, money and effort.
Delete12:45 agree with you.
Delete12:52 YES ... agree with you. Pero dapat kasi yan ay na established na during courtship stage. Nasabi na sana ni girl.. hey this is my deal breaker.. pag ginawa mo to, goodbye forever....
It's very important for couples to talk heartily before getting married. The non negotiables, finances, parenting style, and anything under the sun. Para alam ng isa't isa saan lulugar.
DeleteKaya nga importante na may sarili kang pera at kumikita ka para hindi ka aasa sa lalaki, at pag gusto mo na umalis eh anytime pwede ka umalis sa isang relasyon
Delete1:29 madaming partners ang nagbabago for worse after marriage. As in may iba 360 ang pinagbabago kahit na matagal na in a relationship. Magtitiis nalang ba lagi dahil commitment?
Delete12:45 agree. Napansin ko life has many phases. Lahat ng pgsubok ay lumilipas. Things get ugly then it gets beautiful din naman.
DeleteYun na… wala talagang forever kay D and E… ang bilis maghiwalay. Kawawa ang anak.
ReplyDeleteMagpaka totoo tayo dito, who did not see this coming?
DeleteSana me magpaalala sa kanila nung mga sinaunang posts nila ng mga harutan nila para marealize nila kung bakit sila nagpakasal
ReplyDeleteyun umiinom si JL ng redhorse?
Deletewala na end game na
ReplyDeleteEnd game ay kung sila na ang nag end up, nag hiwalay na nga eh, so i think what u mean is game over lol
DeleteBaka game over
DeleteAyun na nga, walang usok kung walang apoy.
ReplyDeleteNakahanap si Derek ng katapat! Bilib ako kay Ellen..Go girl!
ReplyDeleteTrue! Parang si J&C. I love women na hindi iiyakiyak na martyr.
DeleteIntrovert?????? 😂
ReplyDeleteSayang to si Ellen, paka ganda ng lahi pero mali mali ang desisyon sa buhay.
ReplyDeleteok lang she can afford to start over..maraming babae na stuck sa miserable rrlationships
DeleteNakakuha ng katapat si DR. Ngayon siya ang iniwang luhaan bwahaha
ReplyDeleteHindi ang tipo ni ellen ang magtatagal sa marriage, real talk yan
ReplyDeleteNag 1st birthday yung anak nila ni Derek. Wala si Derek. Yun na ang confirmation.
ReplyDeleteWALANG FOREVER!!! Fact!
ReplyDeleteMay pa 3 dragons pa silang nalalaman nung nanganak si E para daw sobrang lakas ng household hahahaha anyare 😂
ReplyDeleteEh di nag puksaan ng apoy yun 2 dragon.
DeleteCLASH OF THE DRAGONS! Hahaha and hindi lahat ng year of the dragon au swerte.
DeleteNaging katol baks! 🤣
DeleteNoticeable na wala din si D sa first birthday ng anak nila!
ReplyDeleteParang si Baste lang talaga nababagay dito sa babaeng ito
ReplyDeleteMasaya na si Baste para balikan sya.
DeleteKay Baste pinaka tinamaan si Ellen. Sobrang heartbroken ni girl dun, nag maoy pa nga eh. Paasa kasi din yung Baste. Galawang playboy 😂
Deletehaaay... thought sila na forevs! sayang! malala ang postpartum siguro ni ellen and husbands should be more understanding. but ano ba daw ngyare classmates?
ReplyDeletePostpartum? Hahaha. Wag kayo mag hanap ng isisi sa hiwalayan na ito. Ibog ba sabihin umpisa pa lang may postpartum kemerut na?
DeletePagtapos ng honeymoon phase, hiwalay agad. haha!
ReplyDeleteTold u 🤣 walwal queen eh
DeleteGRABE kahit ANUNG YAMAN mo .. KUNG WALA ANG TUNAY NA ❤️ AT DYOS sa Center nyo .. WALA RIN !
ReplyDeleteGo, go, go!
ReplyDeleteDerek deserves a better woman
ReplyDeleteWhy do I have a feeling na si Derek ang nakipaghiwalay? Mga previous relationships nya mostly nagtatagal, except Andrea na medyo mabilis lang. Pero lahat di nauuwi sa kasal. Si Ellen yata yung shortest pero pinakasalan agad. I feel like di nila ganun kakilala ang isat isa and when they started living together dun na naglabasan ang mga ugali na non negotiable. Tapos kasama pa yata nila sa bahay parents ni Derek. For me mahirap yun.
ReplyDeleteDi kasi dapat ginagawang free monthly trial ang isang relationship sa pamamagitan ng pag live in, tapos kung sigurado na, kasal ang kasunod. Kaya nga kadalasan mga naghihiwalay sa mag asawa ay yung nag live in muna bago kasal. Look at tom and carla
DeleteBakit andaming natutuwa sa break up na to? Shame on you guys.
ReplyDeleteFrom the start, I felt they would not last long. It was a pandemic romance. Circumstances were different then. Derek is controlling but there was no need to control Ellen then because of the pandemic restrictions. Ellen could not be her usual walwal self. But now that everything is back to normal, Derek's controlling ways is suffocating Ellen's free spirit.
ReplyDeleteFrom ‘my end game’ to game over real quick hahahaha as faster as lighting lol
ReplyDeleteSo totoo nga na hiwalay na sayang kala ko may forever sa kanila nakakalungkot
ReplyDeleteYung mga pa-cool kasi na couple, may gusto patunayan. Ayan, dyusme, hindi man lang tumagal ng 3 years ba?
ReplyDeleteAy ni remove? Kasi Hindi man lang nag effort forda 1st bday ang D? Well annulment naba next? Ghow Masmsh!
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