Thursday, October 9, 2025

FB Scoop: Inah de Belen Thankful for Positive Responses, Appeals for Respecting Choices


Images courtesy of Facebook: Inah de Belen


41 comments:

  1. Oh no... the perfect race will not allow you to have your own choices and opinions :D :D :D Penoys are cultists by nature ;) ;) ;)

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  2. Agree! You do you! Keber sa mga sasabihin nila. Find your own happiness! ☀️

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  3. yes i respect her choice...

    but if you're a woman dreaming of marriage, family, motherhood.... live in set up does not favor you.

    learn from men...

    they don't just offer marriage to any woman... even if 10 yrs na kayo mag jowa... hahaha!

    they vet you, they evaluate you, they assess you... before they even consider you for wife title...

    learn from men...
    men are smart.

    be smart. think like a man.

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    1. Man ka to say think like a man? AGAIN, sinabi na nga, your life, your choices, your rules. Wala silang inaapakang tao at di lahat ng couples eh end goal ang marriage.

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    2. Akala mo HR may pa vetting nahiya naman kami sa mga kalalakihan na sobrang banal lol

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    3. marriage is not that important noh so are men. madaming single ladies na masaya and of course madami din married women na masaya. depe depende talaga sa kalagayan.

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    4. Men? Smart? Hahahahaha.

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    5. Di ba ganun na nga ginagawa nya? Think like a man--so live in muna or live in LANG para wala syang hawak sa'yo and anytime you can leave your situationship :)

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    6. 7:31 it means don't give wife duties to a man who is NOT married to you....

      men won't give you the wife title until sure sila na ma meet mo yung requirements nila..

      as a woman, you shouldn't give wife benefits until sure ka na committed ang lalake sayo and marriage is a legal and public commitment hindi lang religious vows yan... it is meant to protect the future children.

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    7. 1:26 teh wala ka brain cells? di ba sabi ko i respect her choice? basahin mo ulit mula simula.

      9:43 yes, men are smart... bat ka naman nila aalukin ng kasal eh dami mo na naka live in??

      7:31 think like a man meaning learn to protect your best interest... if you're a woman.. it is not in your best interest to be test driven by a man before marriage...

      6:17 men don't need marriage... marriage was designed to protect the woman and her children.... gets mo??

      3:39 yes, men have an internal vetting system... they want the best wife... kahit pangit pa yang lalake na yan... gusto nya best wife for himself.... kaya ikaw na babae... wag ka papayag na hindi mo muna kinilatis ang lalake bago ka sumama... sa live in setup... he's test driving you... tapos ikaw committed na... payag ka teh? maawa ka na lang sa future kids mo... they deserve a father who is totally and legally committed to you.

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    8. 9:50 mahiya ka naman sa sarili mong judgmental , who ever you are 2025 na malapit nang mag 2026 don’t you ever put down women for having an intimate relationship with their partner, wala kang paki sa life choices nila, some people are not brought up Maria Clara..Cultures and beliefs change, iba iba tayo ng upbringing at resources and social activities / circles, at matuto kang mag upgrade ng brain system mo to tides of time.and lastly Hindi lahat gusto ng kasal or a big rock around their finger, iba iba tayo ng priorities in life ✌️

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    9. 11:29 ikaw ang mahiya sa future kids mo... haha at wala ako pake sa life choices ng iba.... i am sharing the truth for those women who are discerning marriage and family life... live in setup is not in their favor... i love women and i want them to understand their worth... anong maria clara ka dyan??? very modern and very practical and approach ko no! tsupi! pang live in ka lang na babae kaya hindi mo magets yung point ko. tsupi!

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    10. 11:29You are not only close minded you lack the character to have intelligent conversation that you reek and has a vibe of a judgmental nosy neighbor that your eyes get titillated when a neighbor brought a new man locked on her arm. Bakit ako mahihiya sa” future kids” ko if they are well provided , educated and sheltered. You have to understand not all relationships last right coz we don’t live in your Utopia or your lala land.🤪 keep drinking that delulu kool-aid😝

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    11. My correction my strong message was meant for 9:50/12:28. I’m thanking FP that I get to talk to people with different values and beliefs all over the world and have to accept the reality that some people with different background are still stuck to closed mindset and very judgy. What a sad life. Shiver me timbers — 11:29/12:57.

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    12. 11.29 "Hindi lahat gusto ng kasal" - she said, she only cares about those women who want to get married. Learn to read, girl.

      "at matuto kang mag upgrade ng brain system mo to tides of time" - Your upgraded mindset yielded 58% of births occurred outside of wedlock. This indicates that a significant portion of mothers in the Philippines are not married at the time of their child's birth. So how will you defend that your mindset is the way to go? Oh! You said not all women want marriage, that means, a man will just bang that woman and then leaves her once he got tired of her then? How's that sound??

      To all women that want to get married, listen to 12.55 -- she's telling the truth, and if I may add. Please avoid Pinoy men who were born and raised in the Philippines. I'm not saying that they are all deadbeats, but a lot of them are! So, avoid them at all cost!

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    13. 1:48 ikaw ang close minded hahaha

      sa mga gusto mag live in, your choice....

      but for those women DISCERNING marriage and family life... read 9:50 again.

      yung mga babae na nagkamali like 1:48 naiinggit lang sila sa mga hindi pa nakapaglive in at pinakasalan talaga haha syempre mag-advice sya ng mali para matulad kayo sa kanya haha...

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  4. It's always the religious and bible verse people grabe maka judge, mind your own business pero dami ko kilala mga binoto at suporter sila ng masasamang politiko

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    1. religious? hindi naman religious reasons kung bakit hindi ako pabor sa live in...

      yes! her life her rules...

      but for single women dreaming of having her own family and raising children...

      marriage is a legal commitment that will protect her future children... kung babae ka... sana maisip mo yan...

      yung friend ko, nag live in sa bf... nagkaanak...

      naghiwalay.... walang accountability si guy.., nagpakasal lang sa iba...

      so ngayon ang anak ni friend ... anak sa labas maski panganay.... yung legal wife, ayaw magbigay ng sustento... daming alibi... wala magawa si friend kundi single mother i'm a strong independent woman ang peg...

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    2. Ang judgmental mo 934, ikaw iyung tipong kahit anong ganda ng magiging buhay ng "na test drive" na babae according to you, e mababa pa din tingin mo sa kanila. And you are not a "friend" dun sa sinasabi mong friend mo. Ang perfect siguro ng life mo.

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  5. Hypo crite kasi mga pinoy. Pinaka judgmental na tao mga religious eme. Kita kits na lang po tayo mga banal sa impyerno. Haha

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  6. How is no one talking about her drastic weight loss

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    1. And why should we talk about it? Gusto mong hiyain siya o pag-usapan ng tao kung bakit siya pumayat?

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    2. Because it is not anyone's business

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    3. That was an old picture.. she still is medyo malaman pa rin

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    4. 5:13 dear napaka defensive mo wag ka paka-Western dyan! Pinoy Kami Kaya compliment sa amin ang pumayat sya, Hindi insulto. Hypocrite ang nagsabi dito not our business eh bakit nasa showbiz chika site ka dear?

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    5. Because some people know how to respect others unlike you. May mga bagay na hindi na kailangang pag-usapan kung alam mong makakasakit ng damdamin or sensitive topic.

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    6. Ang hina naman ng comprehension mo 2:05. Read the comment again, let it sink in, and then go back here and tell me kung compliment yan. May pa dear dear ka pang nalalaman. Hehehe

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    7. 2:05 REALLY?! You think that's a compliment? Oh, dear!

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  7. Sans the religious aspect, can we all agree that the biggest “perk” of living in is having sex without the commitment of marriage?

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    1. Kung maka "can we all agree" ka naman dyan 6:06. Yan ang perspective mo, at mayroon din ang ibang tao. Hindi lahat kagaya mo. For others, they may see it as taking the relationship to the next step after being boyfriend-girlfriend. And next big step na ang marriage.

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    2. NOPE. I don't agree with you.

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    3. 6:06 Biggest perk sa'yo yan kung hayok ka sa laman. Sa iba, ang biggest perk is yung may kahati ka sa gastos like rent, may katulong ka sa gawaing bahay, may mag-aalaga at aalalay sa 'yo kapag may sakit ka, and yung may mapaglalabasan ka ng mga bagay na di mo ma-share sa iba.

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    4. To be brutally honest, YES! Please sa mga nagsasabi ng NO don’t tell me mag li-live in pa din kayo ng walang nangyayari eme!

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    5. 7:33 ang babaw! ginawa mo investment yung partner mo ... hahahahah kahati sa renta? potek na mindset yan... maghanap ka na lang borders

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    6. So true agree ako dito, bonus lang on the side yang sex, Iba pa rin na may companion ka at may napaghihjngahan ka ng sama ng loob. And in tbis exonomy! Two is better than one! Tsaka lets be real hindi po everyday ang jurjur minsan lagod na kayo pareho sa life! At kailangan isked yan. Sa totoo lang. lalo na sa mga trentahin

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    7. Hay naku we can’t deny the fact na takot talaga sa legal commitment ang mga nag li-live in.

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  8. Cant believe Janice de belen tolerate this. Ako lang naman😭

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    1. 5:23 She came from a broken marriage herself so obviously, Janice will tolerate their set up.

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    2. instead of tolerating the setup... she could have given better guidance to her daughter... what women need is a vetting system to be honest... you don't need to do the live in setup to get to know the guy or to know if it will work... vetting system meaning:

      know your non negotiables,
      be clear with your deal breakers
      understand your preferences
      learn the red flags

      ang lalake po kasi walang epekto sa psyche nila maski ilang beses sila makipag live in...

      sa babae kasi is traumatic yan...

      Note: hindi po RELIGIOUS reasons ang sinabi ko ha? sasabihin na naman ng mga b*b* dyan religious chuchu eh

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  9. Ganda ng mukha. I hope youll find a better one than J. I know him so well, like you

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  10. Two consenting adults decided to live together. Kung nagsesex man sila 24/7 or not, naghahati sa renta o sa bills, o nagnenetflix lang together, wala na tayo paki don. Kung may umiyak after, thats on them. Wag nyo na problemahin ang vetting process. Lol.

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