Ang dami kasi nilang free time. Ako i have no time na, work, bahay, money, kids, hubby, my parents’ health, ang labahin, ang tuition, ang bills, plus my new wrinkles, naku naku i have no time para sa depression.
This is so true though. Honestly, watch alaska frontier. People have to fend for themselves. Their lifestyle is going back to the olden days. They hunt for food, have no tvs or the luxury we have now They get really exhausted by the end of the day - no depression, no trouble sleeping, etc. So there has to be some connection with our lifestyle now, why we have an endemic of depression and all the mental struggles we have now...
1:50 kaya nga wala na syang panahon para isipin na depressed sya dahil nga sa mga responsibilities sa buhay. Simula ng nagkaroon lang ng social media at lahat na ng tao nagse-self diagnosed eh ginawa nang normal ang depression. Pwede naman talaga na makaranas ka ng depression pero, it's all about mindset. If lagi mo iniisip na depressed ka hindi ka talaga gagaling. Kahit pa uminom ka lagi ng anti-depressant, kung wala kang right mindset depression will linger. Marami sa generation ngayon bine-beybi ang depression to have an excuse for their indolence. Psych grad here.
I agree na pag nasa bahay ka lang mas prone sa ganyan especially kung di ka lumalabas with friends mashado. Madami kasi time mag overthink. I experienced this. So ngayon when i feel so down, i go out for coffee kahit ako lang mag isa. Maiba man lang ang surroundings at mag people watch. Narerecharged ako when i go back home. Laban ulit.
Agree 11:49 dun sa other ways of coping. Klaruhin lang natin yung “may pinagdadaanan” from “depression”. Yung depression as clinical diagnosis, iba po yun. May mga tests para dyan at mga professionals po ang gumagawa. May mga prescriptions po ang doktor. Hindi po lahat ng depressed emotera. Yung iba mala Robin Williams na hindi mo madedetect kaya minsan too late na bago pa malaman ng malalapit sa kanila. Yung “depressed” as a mood dahil may pinagdadaanan, yan pwede yan iaddress through various coping mechanisms like art therapy, music, etc. So si madam natin dahil nga mukhang may pagsubok na malaki (usapang asawa), normal ho iyan. Outlet niya. Hindi lang tayo can afford sa luxury ng time and unpaid pursuits para gumanyan kaya busy busyhan tayo sa buhay para maitawid yung araw araw kahit may pinagdadaanan hehe
1:50 I think OP meant no time to dwell on it which I believe is pretty common for most FIlipinos. Kaya akala natin hindi uso ang depression dito kasi people just get on with their lives.
Sana makabalik ka na sa kung ano man ang makapagpapasaya sa yo Ellen. You have your kids, you can probably go back to acting kung gusto mo or travel like you used to do.
Ellen , Please TRY to Get CLOSER to ☝️🙏 .. Baka Spiritually din nagkuKULANG na ! Lalo sa Panahon ngayon KAHIT GAANO KA KAYAMAN kung WALA SI LORD sa Buhay Nyo .. WALA RIN ! Look at Derek R. naTUTUTO ng magPost ng All about GOD !☝️❤️🙏
This is how Ellen was when she broke up with lloydie.exactly the same pattern.i guess something is really going on in the domestic front.divorce is waving i guess since her hubby is a British citizen.
Ganun talaga, it's not her fault na rich sya. Same way na di rin fault nag mga kapus sa buhay na mahirap ang everyday life nila. Lahat ng tao , regardless ng financial status, may problems.
I'd do the same if I were as rich as her. Probably buy an Hermes or travel to Switzerland ganern. But I have bills to pay and buwanan ang sweldo kaya no choice. Hehe
These 2 are really hurting. Hopefully they both find peace. Yung lalake seems like touting her by posting na lagi siyang nasa labas at may ganap sa buhay. Si girl naman lagi lang nasa bahay. Haaayy its really sad to see them like this
Maglaba ka, maglinis ng bahay, magpadede ng anak, maglinis ng poopoo, maglaba ng damit ng mga anak mo, magluto at kung anu ano pa. Ganun ka busy ang typical na nanay at walang choice kung minsan but to keep going kahit you're dealing with postpartum blues. Yes she has househelp but she can do all those if she wants. Nakakatulong sya to distract yourself because you're too busy.
I dont think they’re hiwalay na because she’s still living at Derek’s house. It’s more of like Derek giving her all the space that she needs. Kaya pansin ko Derek is always out of the country or out anywhere else. Sana ma survive nila yan. This requires more effort from Derek na umintindi. As to how long he can manage, that is the question. Iba ang utak ng nanay na may post partum depression muntik na kami maghiwalay ng asawa ko because of it.
Not anymore even the engagement ring. If follower ni Ellen she mentioned numerous times in the past na she doesnt take off her rings kahit nagsi swimming kasi naiwawala nya. So for her to take off both rings it means trouble in paradise talaga. She still even wears the ring her dad gave her and the one na may name ni Elias.
May mga lalake o babae na nawawalan na sila ng gana sa kanilang mga partner pagdating sa S. Gusto nila bago ulit kasi andon ung thrill or excitement or L kaya nagkakaganyan ang mga magpartner. Tuluyan silang magjanap ng bago parati. One after the other at inirarason na lang nila mga bagay na normal lang naman sana na dumadaan sa buhah.
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Ang dami kasi nilang free time. Ako i have no time na, work, bahay, money, kids, hubby, my parents’ health, ang labahin, ang tuition, ang bills, plus my new wrinkles, naku naku i have no time para sa depression.
ReplyDeleteHindi mo namalayan na sign or cause din ng depression yan
DeleteThis is so true though. Honestly, watch alaska frontier. People have to fend for themselves. Their lifestyle is going back to the olden days. They hunt for food, have no tvs or the luxury we have now
DeleteThey get really exhausted by the end of the day - no depression, no trouble sleeping, etc. So there has to be some connection with our lifestyle now, why we have an endemic of depression and all the mental struggles we have now...
1:50 kaya nga wala na syang panahon para isipin na depressed sya dahil nga sa mga responsibilities sa buhay. Simula ng nagkaroon lang ng social media at lahat na ng tao nagse-self diagnosed eh ginawa nang normal ang depression. Pwede naman talaga na makaranas ka ng depression pero, it's all about mindset. If lagi mo iniisip na depressed ka hindi ka talaga gagaling. Kahit pa uminom ka lagi ng anti-depressant, kung wala kang right mindset depression will linger. Marami sa generation ngayon bine-beybi ang depression to have an excuse for their indolence. Psych grad here.
DeleteI agree na pag nasa bahay ka lang mas prone sa ganyan especially kung di ka lumalabas with friends mashado. Madami kasi time mag overthink. I experienced this. So ngayon when i feel so down, i go out for coffee kahit ako lang mag isa. Maiba man lang ang surroundings at mag people watch. Narerecharged ako when i go back home. Laban ulit.
DeletePero si depression baka magka time syo day, mayaman or hindi , may kanya kanya tayong problema. Iba syo, iba kay elen.
DeleteAnd it's their fault? Na marami silang time? Na hindi sila isang kahig isang tuka? Na they have other problems apart from paying the bills?
DeleteAgree 11:49 dun sa other ways of coping. Klaruhin lang natin yung “may pinagdadaanan” from “depression”. Yung depression as clinical diagnosis, iba po yun. May mga tests para dyan at mga professionals po ang gumagawa. May mga prescriptions po ang doktor. Hindi po lahat ng depressed emotera. Yung iba mala Robin Williams na hindi mo madedetect kaya minsan too late na bago pa malaman ng malalapit sa kanila. Yung “depressed” as a mood dahil may pinagdadaanan, yan pwede yan iaddress through various coping mechanisms like art therapy, music, etc. So si madam natin dahil nga mukhang may pagsubok na malaki (usapang asawa), normal ho iyan. Outlet niya. Hindi lang tayo can afford sa luxury ng time and unpaid pursuits para gumanyan kaya busy busyhan tayo sa buhay para maitawid yung araw araw kahit may pinagdadaanan hehe
Delete1:50 I think OP meant no time to dwell on it which I believe is pretty common for most FIlipinos. Kaya akala natin hindi uso ang depression dito kasi people just get on with their lives.
DeleteIdle mind is the playground of the devil daw
DeleteAng galing mo dai Ellen. Malampasan ra lagi ni nimo tanang pagsubok dai
ReplyDeleteShe's going through something talaga post partum ata..
ReplyDeleteSana makabalik ka na sa kung ano man ang makapagpapasaya sa yo Ellen. You have your kids, you can probably go back to acting kung gusto mo or travel like you used to do.
ReplyDeleteGanyan rin ginawa ni Ellen nung nag break sila ni JLC.🤭
ReplyDeleteShes human after all, iba lang talaga mga struggles natin sa buhay.. importante, willing ka harapin ang problema..walang perfect sa mundo..
ReplyDeleteHonestly, wala kasi silang ginagawa kaya sila nagkakainisan. Try nyo mag trabaho.
ReplyDeleteEllen , Please TRY to Get CLOSER to ☝️🙏 .. Baka Spiritually din nagkuKULANG na ! Lalo sa Panahon ngayon KAHIT GAANO KA KAYAMAN kung WALA SI LORD sa Buhay Nyo .. WALA RIN ! Look at Derek R. naTUTUTO ng magPost ng All about GOD !☝️❤️🙏
ReplyDeleteThis is how Ellen was when she broke up with lloydie.exactly the same pattern.i guess something is really going on in the domestic front.divorce is waving i guess since her hubby is a British citizen.
ReplyDeleteAng iba maglilinis, maglalaba, mag grocery errands, luto ng meals . Si Ellen playing piano, why not ??? rich kasi kami.
ReplyDeleteGanun talaga, it's not her fault na rich sya. Same way na di rin fault nag mga kapus sa buhay na mahirap ang everyday life nila. Lahat ng tao , regardless ng financial status, may problems.
DeleteAndaming hindi mayayaman na marunong magpiano. Sobrang luma na po yang mindset mo
DeleteI'd do the same if I were as rich as her. Probably buy an Hermes or travel to Switzerland ganern. But I have bills to pay and buwanan ang sweldo kaya no choice. Hehe
DeletePost pa more.
ReplyDeleteSad naman kung totoong hiwalay na sila ni Derek. Sana maayos pa. Sana magkabalikan pa.
ReplyDeleteD na nya suot ang Engagement at Wedding Ring...
ReplyDeleteThese 2 are really hurting. Hopefully they both find peace. Yung lalake seems like touting her by posting na lagi siyang nasa labas at may ganap sa buhay. Si girl naman lagi lang nasa bahay. Haaayy its really sad to see them like this
ReplyDeleteHiwalay na nga yata.
ReplyDeleteMaglaba ka, maglinis ng bahay, magpadede ng anak, maglinis ng poopoo, maglaba ng damit ng mga anak mo, magluto at kung anu ano pa. Ganun ka busy ang typical na nanay at walang choice kung minsan but to keep going kahit you're dealing with postpartum blues. Yes she has househelp but she can do all those if she wants. Nakakatulong sya to distract yourself because you're too busy.
ReplyDeleteI dont think they’re hiwalay na because she’s still living at Derek’s house. It’s more of like Derek giving her all the space that she needs. Kaya pansin ko Derek is always out of the country or out anywhere else. Sana ma survive nila yan. This requires more effort from Derek na umintindi. As to how long he can manage, that is the question. Iba ang utak ng nanay na may post partum depression muntik na kami maghiwalay ng asawa ko because of it.
ReplyDeleteNagka pikunan silang mag asawa sabi ko na e mga pino post nila galawang barkada lang Hindi mag asawa
ReplyDeleteHindi ko ma sight if me suot pa siyang wedding ring sa left hand niya.
ReplyDeleteNot anymore even the engagement ring. If follower ni Ellen she mentioned numerous times in the past na she doesnt take off her rings kahit nagsi swimming kasi naiwawala nya. So for her to take off both rings it means trouble in paradise talaga. She still even wears the ring her dad gave her and the one na may name ni Elias.
DeleteMay mga lalake o babae na nawawalan na sila ng gana sa kanilang mga partner pagdating sa S. Gusto nila bago ulit kasi andon ung thrill or excitement or L kaya nagkakaganyan ang mga magpartner. Tuluyan silang magjanap ng bago parati. One after the other at inirarason na lang nila mga bagay na normal lang naman sana na dumadaan sa buhah.
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