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Maritesan with my Mom, yung na miss namin ang isat-isa 😂
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As the saying goes, you reap what you saw. Tina is trying to break the generational trauma cycle. I myself, hindi ko kinakausap father ko, though mahal ko naman siya, at feeling ko napatawad ko na siya sa mga nagawa niyang physical, mental, emotional, financial wounds saken, mas okay pa din na hindi na lang kame mag usap o magkita kung hindi naman kinakailangan. Wala din namang signs na willing siya magbago or narealize nya mga mali niya dati.
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DeleteHahaha natawa ko dun sa try mo makasama un nanay niya ng one week hahahah obviously toxic un nanay. Dahil kunh mabait yan hindi yan lalayuan ng sarili niyang anak.
DeleteMalamang toxic parent ka kaya ka nilalayuan ng anak mo. Kahit naman si Danita wala sa poder niya.
DeleteMeh. Sumbatan ang parents snowflake era style. I too have troubles with my parents pero check mo dn side nila ha, d yung puro sayo lang. Minsan OA tayo eh, and feel natin tayo lagi tama. Don’t wait na sa grave na yung parents bago nyo sila dalawin, or naghihingalo na bago nyo sila kausapin.
Deletedaldal mo din sa public. Keep it to yourself nobody cares about a story of strangers like you
Delete6:06PM Thanks for sharing your story. As a mental health advocate, I applaud you for setting boundaries.
Delete12:35AM Typical ragebait comment.
Kahit mag text lang ng happy birthday sa umampon sayo di mo magawa, ano naman ang toxic dun? Wala naman nagsabi sayo to live with her for a week. I think in this case Tina is such a brat and she passed the entitlement to her daughter.
DeleteYour generation can easily distance yourselves from your parents these days. Mga entitled kayo. The good and hardships that your parents went through to bring you up is overshadowed by what you think you deserve. Have you ever also taken into consideration that you are also not perfect. I believe past should be the past and it is not too late to start a new story. And maybe without the pressures of trying to bring up your children the best you can creates another better relationship. Your generation loves to go to therapists who actually are teaching you to distance yourselves from toxic narcissistic people. Instead of trying to lead you towards repairing the relationship
Delete10.59 may mabigat na dahilan yan kaya siya nilayuan. What if magapologize na lang siya kay tina para matapos na ang problema niya? #hindiporketmagulangperpektona
Delete6:31 Auntie maaga kapa maglalaba bukas stop your kacheapan. Ampon man yan o biological. Pag toxic and pamilya eh karapatan ng Tao na lumayo sa ganyang kadramahan ng pamilya. Di niya ask na amponin siya you’re such a telenovela chosera
DeleteWala akong respeto sa mga magulang na naninira sa anak in public
DeleteWell I am all for honouring your parents and giving them respect. But I have met that woman and if I may say, toxic siya and nakakastress. Butangera ang lola mo. Wala namang masama na idistance ni Tina Paner sarili niya sa kanya. For her peace of mind and all. Pero siguro wag din magexpect ng mamanahin yun mga anak na dumistansya na sa magulang. Give it to other siblings na nagalaga talaga para fair
Delete10.03 I think the very person who needs to do the repairing is the narcissist. Cut the panunumbat because that's her choice and that's not the solution to the problem. For me that's bullying to make her submit. I'm sorry but i sensed the narcissism in you too.
DeleteMeron talagang toxic parents na kahit gaano ka kabait e di ka talaga nila feel and lagi kang hinahanapan ng mali. Hindi talaga healthy ang environment kaya you really need to have the distance para stress free. Hindi naman sa hindi mo sila love o respected pero yan ang best setup para walang gulo. Pwede naman natin sila intindihin and take all the negativity in pero may hangganan dahil tao lang naman tayo and pangit din kasi if you reach that point. You become a very "bad" person and the negativity can eat you up. Ikaw din talo.
ReplyDeleteThere are toxic children too pero they don’t admit it, lalo na mga gen z, feel nila sila tama lagi… and I’m a millennial.
DeleteMillenials ang pinatoxic. 11:00 kayo yung generation na feeling superior.
Delete11:00 sure may times na kids are the problem pero you need to acknowledge na may times parents din ang mali. Alam kong nasa Bible yung honor thy parents hence yung mga comments na parents mo pa din sila etc. We all agree with that but by honoring, iba iba yan for everyone. For me, dun ka sa setup na less stress for both as opposed to gera at gatong all the time. Also, sana wag din masyadong bigyan ng immunity yung parents na kahit mali sila they should be given a pass. Wala kasi ma solve na problem pag ganyan.
DeleteNo - the generation today think they know best when wala pa naman life experiences but think theyre always right puro may sense of entitlement and wont even try to understand and respect the past way of life. Not even grateful for the right things the past generations did that gave u all the convenience you enjoy today. Puro bastos at mal edukado, too sensitive and dont know the word tough gusto nyo everything comes easy for you everything should adjust to you otherwise you start crying ang complaining. You should grow up and learn the word maturity. Also just let ur elders di sa lahat ng oras patol kayo ng patol one day pag tanda nyo babastusin din kayo and much worse baka wala pumansin sa inyo by then probably its ok with society to leave the parents or elders to die alone cause toxic diba so when that time comes and its your turn - have fun!
Delete@3:10 proud millenial here. It speaks more about your own values if you think asking to be treated as an individual with equal rights and respect is “feeling superior”.
DeleteMatagal na to issue. I understand where Tina and her daughter are coming from.
ReplyDeleteParang pinagkakitaan lang ni Daisy si Tina Paner. Ang dami na din nabigay ni Tina na pera sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman kasi talaga nya anak si Tina, kapatid nya ang tunay na nanay nyan so pamangkin lang nya
DeleteMala Sara G and Charice ba?
DeleteThey kept their silence but bring up the past.old or not,if this is their healing so be it.tama
ReplyDeleteNa ang patawarin dahil matanda na.pwede patawarin na Hindi maging parte ng buhay para sa ikakatahimik.trauma is forever sa Tao.hindi yan naalis ng panahon.
Narcissistic kasi po kayo kaya nilayuan na kayo ng mga mahal ninyo sa buhay. Puro pa kayo sumbat e obligasyon nyo namang buhayin mga anak ninyo.
ReplyDeleteFeeling nila utang na loob nila buhay ng anak nila sakanila eh in the first place sila gusto magkaanak at mag asawa
DeleteLove you sist! I love this mentality. The oldie kacheapan, mala telenovela na binuhay kita utang na loob katoxican needs to stop. Like my auntie na 70 plus na at may pabackground na flower at quote sa Facebook profile at mahilig mag post ng religion yes putulan ng internet lol
Delete10:38 hindi nya anak si Tina. Kung naabutan mo ang panahon ng mga yan nabulgar yan mga bandang 1989 naging malaking balita yun
Delete9:07 at 1038 aware ba kayo na ampon si Tina?
Delete5:26 anong pinagkaiba kung ampon?
DeleteBiological or adopted, anak pa rin iyon. Pareho silang mag-ina na may problema. Ano iyan, hihintayin na lang na mamatay ang nanay niya, then doon magsisisi na sana nagkasama pa sila?
DeleteAng hilig pala ni Monching sa ampon
Delete5.26 So what kung ampon? do you mean to say dapat iba ang treatment kapag ampon? What tf is wrong with you?
DeleteAllegedly, when Tina was young, hindi napunta sa kanya ang kinita nya. Yun ang breaking point nya nung teenager na sya.
ReplyDeletemaybe because she was still a minor then?
Delete10:38 but Niño Muhlach was also a minor when he started working. See the difference?
Delete9:11 siguro dahil ampon ginawa yon pambayan ng ginastos sa kanya?
DeleteBat nag ampon if wala pala budget?
DeleteYeah i heard that too and narcissistic people dont think this is wrong and wonder why their children went no contact with them.
DeleteGrabe si daisy noon, lahat din inaway nyan at laging pa interview against tina. Kahit si kuya germs hindi nya nakaya yan
ReplyDeleteUmpisa pa lang ng interview, alam na agad na toxic Ang Lola. Mapanumbat agad. While Ang tanong lang is kumusta sila ng Maganak nya at kelan sila hurling nag kita.
ReplyDeletelol yes sist she’s literally giving “mayaman ako, i know everything” kacheapan and katoxican with matching “pinalaki kita, pinaaral sa magagarang school etc” cringe Ang mga words ni Auntie with matching malatelenovela kadramahan
DeleteI remember back in the 80s, nung may that’s entertainment pa, when Tina is teamed with Cris Villanueva, laman ng mga tabloid ang mga interviews with Miss Daisy. To the point na pinakikialaman niya ang mga movies, kissing scenes ( as if meron) and team ups and there wasn’t a time when she would sat something nice about Tina until Tina ran away from home and moved to the U.S.
ReplyDeleteMadaming magulang ang gumagamit ng utang na loob card. Nangyari sa akin yan. Whether you believe it or not its a reality. May mga magulang na masaya pag lugmok, magkamali at dapang dapa ang anak nila. Sobrang sakit. Sumisigaw na lang ako sa utak ko dahil ayaw kong sabihan ng mga kamag-anak namin na wala akong utang na loob. And at the end of the day takot akong dumating ang panahon na mawala ang parents ko dahil sa akin.
ReplyDeleteSist mahigpit na Yamato been there done that. Now that I’m married with 2 kids and haven’t spoke to any of my family for years Ang sarap ng peaceful living without that kacheapan toxic utang na loob people lol
DeleteI believe you 11:05 yung maiisip mo na lang kung anak ka ba talaga?!
DeleteSetting boundaries with toxic family is the hardest thing to do. Para sa lahat ng kinailangang gawin yon just to have peace in their life, you do you. For the rest na feeling isa lang ang klase ng magulang sa mundo, kwento nyo yan eh haha
DeleteSad to say may mga parents talaga na makasarili, hindi iniiisip ang mga anak nila..yung palagi silang aasa sa anak at one time lang dimo mapagbigyan parang ang sama sama mo ng anak. Im lucky my parents are not one of them pero nakikita kong nararanasan ng mga kaibigan ko.. Kaya yung mga anak na tumutulong sa magulang i believe it should be done out of love not out of obligation. Saan ba magmumula ang pagmamahal kundi sa pagmamahal din katulad ng respeto sa respeto.
ReplyDeleteParang mom ni sarah si daisy kaya nga iniwan ng anak at pinili si mateo
ReplyDelete1129 tingin ko mas malala nanay ni Sarah. Grabeh siya.
Deletematagal na tong drama nila, di rin tunay na anak ni daisy si tina di ba? ang daming mga artista na nag ampon na ok at nagmahalan na parang tunay na pamilya pero ang iba naging ganito kasama ang relasyon dahil na din nag take advantage ang magulang sa anak.
ReplyDeleteMaraming di familiar kay Daisy R. When she was younger para silang pinagbiyak na bunga ni Anabil. She was feisty and may di rin talaga magandang ugali yan. Social media talaga dami nakikisawsaw mga hindi naman alam ang totoong story. Let them deal with their issue. Dami nag bibigay ng unsolicited advice
ReplyDeleteWalang anak si Annabelle na nagtakwil sa kanya so maybe Daisy is worse than Annabelle
Delete1135 lhat ng anak ni Annabel mahal na mahal siya at hindi siya iniwan
Delete5:30 di naman kailangan magtakwil para masabing hindi okay siya
DeleteMatapang si Anabel pero mukhang mapagmahal sa mga anak nya.
Deletehindi din naman siya ang real mom ni Tina
ReplyDeleteSiya po
DeleteAuntie naman kapatid ng mom ni Tina so kadugong kadugo hindi tipong galing orphanage or iniwan ng kung sino
Delete5:58 ilang taon ka na ineng? Kung di mo alam ang kwento wag mo ng ipilit, ok ba ineng?
DeleteAno kaya ang reason? hindi naman kasi lalayo ang anak sa magulang kung walang matinding dahilan.
ReplyDeleteHindi sila mag-ina, sister nya ang real mom ni Tina
DeleteTrue.
DeletePinanood ko interview. Napaka narcissistic pala nito si Daisy Romualdez. The way na nanumbat sya kay Tina. I have a narcissistic parent too, so I know. This is very familiar. I feel you Tina. I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteHilig talagang makialam ng ibang netizens. Mababaw din ang pang unawa about toxicity sa family.
ReplyDeleteI was a fan of triplets. Nakita ko kung pano sya pagalitan ni daisy nung araw kahit sa harap ng ibang tao yung tipong ikaw na mahihiya para sa kanya. Kahit si manilyn and sheryl inaaway nya nung araw. Ayaw masapawan si tina.
ReplyDeleteYung mga nag co comment na nanay mo pa rin yan, matanda na. You should watch her recent interview with aster. Super sumbat pa rin. Di nag bago.
Hindi kasi mabait si Daisy masyadong matapang kaya nakaka trauma kasama sa buhay. Pareho kayo ni Amalia Fuentes kaya nilayasan din ng anak nyang babae at sumama kay Albert kasi masyadong control freak.
ReplyDeletePinanood ko yung interview. Grabe super toxic niya. Sinabi niya pa na madami siyang regret sa life choices dahil hindi siya nakapangasawa ng mayaman. Dun pa lang off na. Halatang narcissist siyang nanay. Unfortunately walang cure sa ganyan gusto nila lagi silang tama at lagi nilang binubully ang mga anak nila. Buti na lang hindi napariwara itong si Tina.
ReplyDeleteDuh. Manny Paner was earning well as a basketball player.
DeleteSana kahit bday or xmas greetings man lang , how hard is that? Or pagdalaw man lang minsan .
ReplyDeleteNot hard kung hindi narcissistic ang nanay mo. The only way to deal with a narcissist is to be as far away sa possible but I guess you don’t know one.
DeleteOmg. Not the kind of parent na dapat respetuhin. Wow, she expects Tina to financially support her. Even if Tina went to a good school, nabayaran na nya yun at mas higit pa from her earnings during her kasikatan. Daisy does not make sense at all.
ReplyDeleteWe don’t know kung anong trauma meron si Tina caused by her Mom. We can’t blame her.
Deletesi kuya germs lang talaga ang may alam sa mga tunay na pangyayari. may nakakaalam ba san nilagay ni kuya germs ang secret diary nya?
ReplyDeleteDaisy is vile, vindictive and a bitter mother. She is the wicked step mother in real life. She got 2 adopted daughters, Tina and Danita. All of them left her despite their flourishing showbiz careers.
ReplyDeleteI can relate Tina!
ReplyDeleteNakaka relate ako, naiintindihan ko. Ung ganitong ginawa ni Ms Tina Paner ay sobrang hirap. Kasi kelangan nyang maging matatag na pader para ma stop na yung generational na curse. Lahat ng sakit, lahat ng gulo kelangan nyang tiisin just to stop it sa generation ni Tina. Kaya kung ilalagay natin sarili kay Tina, included yang mga panghuhusga ng tao na kelangan nyang tiisin just to stop the cycle.
ReplyDeleteFan ako ng thats and triplets
ReplyDeleteNaalala ko lang,
Ayaw nya kay cris villanueva para kay tina
I think kaya nag break sila ni cris
Great love nila isat isa
Doon nag umpisa ang lahat
Pinaghiwalay sila ni madam daisy
Super broken hearted.l si tina.
So si Monching sana ang gusto nya for Tina kaso napunta kay Lotlot?
DeleteWell, look at Cris now. A versatile actor. Sayang sila ni Tina.
great love ni tina si monching gutierrez, yung tatay ni janine gutierrez. mag jowa sila and love team at that time kaso nakilala nya si lotlot and na inlove sila, parang karylle-dingdong-marian. afterwards, ni loveteam si tina kay chris villanueva na bagong pasok sa showbiz that time.
DeleteGreat love ni Tina Panernsi Monching na inagaw ni Lotlot.
DeleteKung talagang fan ka dapat alam mo na eme-eme lang yung kay Cris Villanueva at kung gaano nya iniyakan si Monching
DeleteGreat love ni Monching si lotlot. Itigil niyo na yang Tina Monching niyo.
DeleteWhen Danita was small and Tina was already a young adult, inimpluwensyahan din ni Daisy na magalit si Danita sa big sister nya. Nagrebelde din si Danita nung teenager sya pero di na gaanong pinakialaman ni Daisy dahil malaki age nila. Unlike with Tina na kasagsagan ng pag-uugali nya.
ReplyDeletehuy girl wag mo gawin outlet ang social media, image mo lang sinisira mo sa public sila lang ang nag gain sa ginagawa mo
ReplyDeletewhile I sympathize with Ms Daily, I fully. understand Tina. I can identify with her. there are wounds that are hard to heal. they may heal, but the trauma can linger until who knows when. we cannot force healing. it happens when it happens.
ReplyDeleteAfter Tina mag adopt ulit siya ng naging bata, si Danita Paner na nag showbiz din. Umalis din sa poder nya nung maging teen. Nag away din sila.
ReplyDeleteTama lang siguro na i-cut na ang ties pag ganyan kabungangera at sumbatera ang nanay mo. Di matatahimik buhay mo pag minentain mo pa relationship sa ganyan. Sakit sa sama ng loob lang ang aabutin.
ReplyDeleteI chose not to talk with my parents too. Harap harapan ba naman ang treatment sa mga ank ay ibang iba. They choose one over the other. It’s not because I don’t love them, but I chose peace of mind more. Wala rin naman silang effort to reach out na and they don’t even ask or acknowledge na may mali sila…
ReplyDeleteKaya to those saying parents mo parin yan and dapat may utang na loob. Please stop it! You don’t know anything unless you are in the person situation
Never man lang natanong ni Aster bakit umabot sa ganyan ang anak. Anong dahilan? Very one sided interview
ReplyDeleteI understand na may mga sama ng loob sa nanay nya at maraming ginawang hindi maganda. If you have issues sana wag na sabihin sa public kasi lalo lng lalalim problema. Nobody is perfect. Still she is your mother no matter what. Wag na antayin na mawala sa mundo tpos iiyakan at magsosorry. Tpos dun iho-honor ang magulang pero too late na. Sana lng magkaayos ayos na sila. Admit nila mga faults nila, forgive each other and move on. Life is too short kaya spend time with your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteNarc people have no concept of self-awareness. Best thing you can do is stay away to save your sanity and well-being. Parang domestic abuse lang yan na paulit-ulit na pattern over the years.
DeleteYou will never understand because you are NOT a celebrity. Hindi maiiwasan na kahit anong pananahimik pa ang gawin mo, may mga taong isasapubliko nila ang family issues because they are celebrities. Dennis and his family is the perfect example. So 9:50, unless you've walked in Tina's shoes, you don't have the right to tell her or other children with issues with their parents what to do or how to deal with their situation.
DeleteLife is too short kaya dapat wag mo ilagay ang sarili mo sa stress at maging martyr at pasan ang daigdig. Kahit ceasefire ka na but your parents are still in fighting mode when you meet up, wala talaga patutunguhan kaya less evil is just to keep them at a distance..peace for both parties
DeleteHonoring also means acknowledging that your parents wont change for you. So you have to move on and keep her at a distance.
DeleteThis hit home. My parents are also like this especially my mom. i cant take the abuse anymore thats why i went no contact with them. Ang pinagkaiba lang is daisy has money, they dont because of poor choices. I still love my parents but i dont want to condone the abuse anymore. I might change my mind if they will apologize for all the pain they have caused me and cooperate with me.
ReplyDeleteSame. Tapos pag kausapin mo ng mahinahon ikaw pa yung mali at walang respeto daw. Mga di marunong mag reflect sa masamang ugali nila.
DeleteAs a child of a narcisstic father, ang hirap mag heal sa trauma na dulot ng toxic narc parent and I feel for Tina. I have already cut ties but there are days when I am consumed by so much anger.
ReplyDeleteThe grandma did not have to give that interview. Nobody even knows her anymore, nobody cares that she did, she didnt respect her daughter and granddaughter.
ReplyDeleteWalang tumagal kay D kasi maingay at mahilig makipag away wala na sa lugar. ilang beses din si Tina nalagay sa alanganin dahil sa pakikipag away niya. Si danita umalis din sa poder niya, hiniwalayan din siya ni manny paner. Hindi natin masisi si Tina
ReplyDeleteAnd she thinks na yong pakikipagway niya is aprobado ni tina. Lol. Ang ugali niya is im a mother i can do whatever i want. That is not the kind of mother whom you should honor.
DeleteI think the reason why the daughter said she decided for her mom was because she saw firsthand that her mom loved her lola so much that she cant disobey her. And that disobeying her means more pain and trauma for all of them. You dont have to live with a Daisy Romualdez to know, just by the looks, alam na this! They just protected their mental being.
ReplyDeleteWe are all second guessing what truly happened to them. Try not to cast judgement.
ReplyDeleteThey are adopted children. Sa anak nga hindi full relationship eh di lalo na sa walang lukso ng dugo.
ReplyDeleteKung lagi ba namang pinamumukha at halos isumbat na
ReplyDeleteinampon ka,
pinag-aral ka,
inalagaan ka,
ginastusan ka.
Di nakapagtataka na layuan ka 🤷🏻♂️
Halos ka age ko si Tina, never ko nabalitaan na nagsalita yan ng masama against her adoptive mom.
Ngayon lang yan pinagtanggol ang sarili niya.
ang pait pala at hindi matamis ang unang halik ni tina.
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