Sa akin naman walang Tama o Mali diyan. Preference yan eh. Maganak ka o hindi depende yan sa gusto mo at sa kakayanan mo. Just be prepared to face the consequences of your own acrios
3:35 sablay comment mo girl. The main point is she’s not in the position to give any advice kasi nakaranas siyang magkaanak so she will never understand what it’s like to be childless.
Penoys doing penoy things again :D :D :D Naku, over populated na ang penas ;) ;) ;) Sya nga pala, bakit wala pa kayong anak? ;) ;) ;) Bigyan mo na ako ng apo :D :D :D
Etong penoy nato maka comment lang -fact check ka. Lagi ka andito mocking pinoys , kung nahihiya ka sa lahi mo, dungka kung San ka man - kasura kakasmiley mo.
Kahit may anak si Jodi mapera yan kaya yung nararanasan nyong freedom dahil wala kayong anak eh baka mas may freedom pa sa inyo si Jodi when it comes to financial freedom
12:50 Kilala ba namin kung sino ka?? Eh nauna pa ang comment kesa sa yo. Kay Jodi kasi pertaining yun. Malay ba ng lahat na wala kang anak at hindi rin kami nagtatanong. Hahaha!
At very obvious na napikon ka 10:20. Wag kasing feeling main character. Hindi naman ikaw ang tinutukoy ni OP kaya wala talaga kaming pakialam sa buhay mo o kung may idea ka man. Ikaw ang mukhang lonely at madali kang matrigger ng mga anonynomous commenter.
To 10:20 (who is obviously 12:50) Madam, si Jodi po kasi may anak kaya she will never know the feeling of freedom on not having kids. Ikaw childfree. Kaya yung original comment is hindi para sayo. Gets mo ba yung point namin?
7:24 ang tagal nila mag ate sa Star Magic teh! hindi na lang sila close nung lumipat si claudine so I guess ganun ang mga prinsipyo niyo sa buhay. Kapag hindi na nagkikita eh limot na din ang nakaraan?!? Kalurks
8:23 and 9:47 red flag dahil sa kwento ni claudine? Mismong mga kapatid ni claudine k raymart kampi. Nagsusustento si raymart at bnibigyan ng time mga anak nya. Mismonh court hindi nag-agree k claudine dahil pnapataasan ng pnapataasan ang child support. D nyo naalala na sabi ni claudine bnubugbog sya ni raymart with matching pasa sa face? Yun pala nagpagawa ng ilong. D nyo naalala nun snabi ni claudine na sinaktan sya ni raymart nun umalis sya tapos nagpalita si raymart ng evidence na puro sya pasa at wasak ang damit. Pati sasakyan ni raymart wasak. As for ninakaw ni raymart ang money nya that is her side of the story. Claudine and jodi are not close friends. Nagkasama lang sila sa teleserye. Were they in constant communication after the teleserye? No. Claudine just added that layer of drama na close sila para mauto ang mga utouto na close friends tapos jinowa ang ex husband.
Because we don’t want to bring children in this world that people are so cruel and toxic just like you ? We cannot protect our kids 24/7 from abusers , rapists , pedophiles and worst from member of the clan who are rapist s! We also want to stop the cycle of trauma , mental issues , and toxicity . Now if you call that selfishness or whatever , do it .
Ako may anak ako at super demanding at bigat ng responsibilities talaga magka anak lalo na kung hands on ka sa bata, sa bahay plus asawa. Swerte ka kung may mga katulong ka. Dami mo talaga masasacrifice lalo na career mo kaya naiintindihan ko yung mga ayaw magka anak at gusto ng freedom.
Hindi dahil may matres ka eh 100% sure na mabubuntis ka. Madaming mga babae na kahit gustong-gustong magkaanak eh hindi nabubuntis dahil sa ibang health issues or sometimes ang male partner/asawa nila ang may problema. Just stating a fact.
I made my decision to be childfree at 2015. As the years progressed, I became more firm in my decision. Hindi madaling maging ina. I could write a longer comment to explain my stance, pero judgemental people like 1:43 will not understand.
1:43 check grammar: i will not bring anothe human being in this world who would be mentally unstable than me, one more thing, to interact to a person like you, is very disturbing and unsafe at the same time esp. for kids.
Pag g*g* yung magiging tatay, iresponsable at iiwan rin lang naman yung nanay at yung bata, wag nalang. Kung walang kakayahan bigyan ng maayos na kinabukasan yung bata, wag nalang.
Hanggang may period may pag-asa. We adopted our eldest son but we were also trying to have bio kids for years. Dati natatakot ako kasi mid 30s na ako. Pero yun caretaker ng bnb namin nabuntis at 46 kaya nabuhayan ako ng loob hehe. I got pregnant with our first bio child na nabuhay at 39 after 9yrs of being married and after 2 miscarriages, then next at 41. Nagmultiple rounds of workups kami until we decided na mag IVF. Sa IVF consultation some things were explained to us such as babaan ang sugar para maganda ang mabuo. In preparation nagstop kami any form of sugar except yun nasa veggies and a little fruit sometimes. Sinabihan din pala ako na both my tubes are blocked pero for me as a google researcher (haha) iniisip ko baka the blockage is because of inflammation and hindi naman totally blocked. This also gets resolved by lessening sugar. Ayun I got pregnant naturally before my scheduled harvest. I also told 3 people about this and all 3 of them got pregnant naturally. Try lang you never know. Wala naman mawawala. But here’s the thing, sa totoo lang walang pinag-iba ang relationship namin ng husband ko. If anything mas stressful talaga ang may anak. I love my kids to death pero kung hindi kami napagbigyan with our eldest son and our 2 bio kids, I don’t think we’d love each other less or live our lives na parang something’s missing. Yun ngayon naman na meron kids, masaya pero magulo. Napakagulo. Arawaraw ang gulo ng bahay haha. Maingay. Hindi nauubos ang ingay. Baby dust to all of you who are trying.
I have high respect to those who consciously chose not to have kids. At least alam nila ung capacity nila: emotionally and financially. Kesa naman mag anak nga tapos di naman maalagaan or makapag provide.
Puede artificial insemmination parang JLo in the back-up plan or IVF both with just a sperm donor. Kung gusto mo naman makatipid just do the deed with a fubu while you’re fertile hehe. Or did you mean ayaw mo ng anak na lalake? Coz I understand that too. I have 3 boys haha.
Why would someone ask her that eh may anak siya? Magkaiba ang perspective ng nagkaroon ng anak sa hindi. And to 12:50, sana inintindi mo yung comment. Nakakaloka, ikaw pa may gana sabihan ang iba na lonely at loser. Yes you have an idea, but Jodi doesn't kasi may anak siya.
A mother giving advice for the childless? Seems contradicting
ReplyDeleteHolier than thou as always naman talaga yan datipa
DeleteMay nagtanong sa kanya alangan i-bash nya yung letter sender?
DeleteSa akin naman walang Tama o Mali diyan. Preference yan eh. Maganak ka o hindi depende yan sa gusto mo at sa kakayanan mo. Just be prepared to face the consequences of your own acrios
Deletenot her fault but true
Delete3:35 sablay comment mo girl. The main point is she’s not in the position to give any advice kasi nakaranas siyang magkaanak so she will never understand what it’s like to be childless.
DeletePenoys doing penoy things again :D :D :D Naku, over populated na ang penas ;) ;) ;) Sya nga pala, bakit wala pa kayong anak? ;) ;) ;) Bigyan mo na ako ng apo :D :D :D
ReplyDeletetechnically, the PH is not overpopulated. We have poverty issues and urban congestion issues.
DeleteNOPE. We're not overpopulated. Did you know that in 2024, the birth rate in the Philippines is lower than Japan?
DeleteEtong penoy nato maka comment lang -fact check ka. Lagi ka andito mocking pinoys , kung nahihiya ka sa lahi mo, dungka kung San ka man - kasura kakasmiley mo.
DeleteYou have no idea the feeling of freedom on not having kids at your age ante…
ReplyDeleteI’m very much happily married for 20 years now and we are childfree. So I have an idea . ❤️
DeleteHindi naman kasi ikaw ang tinutukoy 12:50, si Jodi. Huwag kang pamain character. Jodi has a child kaya she’ll never know.
DeleteKahit may anak si Jodi mapera yan kaya yung nararanasan nyong freedom dahil wala kayong anak eh baka mas may freedom pa sa inyo si Jodi when it comes to financial freedom
Delete12:50 Kilala ba namin kung sino ka?? Eh nauna pa ang comment kesa sa yo. Kay Jodi kasi pertaining yun. Malay ba ng lahat na wala kang anak at hindi rin kami nagtatanong. Hahaha!
DeleteSi 1:14 at 2:56 very obvious na mga losers bwahahaha . So so lonely at mga mapait . lol lol lol
DeleteAt very obvious na napikon ka 10:20. Wag kasing feeling main character. Hindi naman ikaw ang tinutukoy ni OP kaya wala talaga kaming pakialam sa buhay mo o kung may idea ka man. Ikaw ang mukhang lonely at madali kang matrigger ng mga anonynomous commenter.
Delete10:20 Nasupla ka kasi! Hahaha Si Jodi kasi ang sinasabihan hindi ikaw bigla mo isisingit yang sarili mo. Feelingera ka.
Delete10:20 Nasaktan ka? Intindihin mo kasi mga comments muna bago reply.
Delete10:20 sa comment mo, seems ikaw ang loser at pikon hehe
DeleteTo 10:20 (who is obviously 12:50) Madam, si Jodi po kasi may anak kaya she will never know the feeling of freedom on not having kids. Ikaw childfree. Kaya yung original comment is hindi para sayo. Gets mo ba yung point namin?
DeleteAhm...you're not childless so you won't really feel how painful it is for some 2ho wish to have kids
ReplyDeleteWhatever! Hindi ko pa din ma gets bakit pinatulan mo si Raymart eh antagal din naman kayo naging chummy chummy ni Claudine. I kennat talaga!
ReplyDeleteHindi naman sila close. Claudine just made it seem like they are to create drama. Isa pa napakatagal na hiwalay ni raymart and claudine.
Delete7:24 ang tagal nila mag ate sa Star Magic teh! hindi na lang sila close nung lumipat si claudine so I guess ganun ang mga prinsipyo niyo sa buhay. Kapag hindi na nagkikita eh limot na din ang nakaraan?!? Kalurks
Delete7:24 Red flag pa rin si Raymart te.
Delete7:24 8:23 naging close noon sina claudine at jodi para talagang mag ate sila sayang yung friendship nila
Delete8:23 and 9:47 red flag dahil sa kwento ni claudine? Mismong mga kapatid ni claudine k raymart kampi. Nagsusustento si raymart at bnibigyan ng time mga anak nya. Mismonh court hindi nag-agree k claudine dahil pnapataasan ng pnapataasan ang child support. D nyo naalala na sabi ni claudine bnubugbog sya ni raymart with matching pasa sa face? Yun pala nagpagawa ng ilong. D nyo naalala nun snabi ni claudine na sinaktan sya ni raymart nun umalis sya tapos nagpalita si raymart ng evidence na puro sya pasa at wasak ang damit. Pati sasakyan ni raymart wasak. As for ninakaw ni raymart ang money nya that is her side of the story. Claudine and jodi are not close friends. Nagkasama lang sila sa teleserye. Were they in constant communication after the teleserye? No. Claudine just added that layer of drama na close sila para mauto ang mga utouto na close friends tapos jinowa ang ex husband.
DeleteSi Ms. know-it-all.🙄
ReplyDeleteMay anak ka eh. You will never know the feeling. Ever. Ever. Stop, Jodi. Just stop.
Question lang sa mga ayaw. Well kaya kayo binigyan ng matres for a reason tapos hahadlangan nyo lang magkaroon ng anak?
ReplyDeletePake mo. Di naman ikaw gagastos at mag aalaga
DeleteHahahahahaha! Ay ganun ba dapat?🤣
DeleteAko gusto ko magkaanak pero naintindihan ko ung mga may ayaw. Ang daming reasons kaya.
DeleteBecause we don’t want to bring children in this world that people are so cruel and toxic just like you ? We cannot protect our kids 24/7 from abusers , rapists , pedophiles and worst from member of the clan who are rapist s! We also want to stop the cycle of trauma , mental issues , and toxicity . Now if you call that selfishness or whatever , do it .
DeleteAko may anak ako at super demanding at bigat ng responsibilities talaga magka anak lalo na kung hands on ka sa bata, sa bahay plus asawa. Swerte ka kung may mga katulong ka. Dami mo talaga masasacrifice lalo na career mo kaya naiintindihan ko yung mga ayaw magka anak at gusto ng freedom.
DeleteHindi dahil may matres ka eh 100% sure na mabubuntis ka. Madaming mga babae na kahit gustong-gustong magkaanak eh hindi nabubuntis dahil sa ibang health issues or sometimes ang male partner/asawa nila ang may problema. Just stating a fact.
DeleteIkaw nga binigyan ng utak pero di ginagamit mabuti
DeleteAno ang question mo? Hahaha
DeleteI made my decision to be childfree at 2015. As the years progressed, I became more firm in my decision. Hindi madaling maging ina. I could write a longer comment to explain my stance, pero judgemental people like 1:43 will not understand.
Delete1:43 check grammar: i will not bring anothe human being in this world who would be mentally unstable than me, one more thing, to interact to a person like you, is very disturbing and unsafe at the same time esp. for kids.
DeleteParang ano lang yan e binigyan ka ng utak gamitin mo din paminsan!
DeleteLife nila, choice nila. Very simple
DeletePag g*g* yung magiging tatay, iresponsable at iiwan rin lang naman yung nanay at yung bata, wag nalang. Kung walang kakayahan bigyan ng maayos na kinabukasan yung bata, wag nalang.
ReplyDeleteHayyy I really wish I have a child, sana may chance pa kami 🙏🏻
ReplyDeleteAko rin sissy. Thankful na lang talaga ako kasi napakabuti ng husband ko. I don’t feel kulang.
DeleteAdopt, madami babies inaabandon everyday. Baka yung ang purpose ng ibang di magka anak.
DeleteHanggang may period may pag-asa. We adopted our eldest son but we were also trying to have bio kids for years. Dati natatakot ako kasi mid 30s na ako. Pero yun caretaker ng bnb namin nabuntis at 46 kaya nabuhayan ako ng loob hehe. I got pregnant with our first bio child na nabuhay at 39 after 9yrs of being married and after 2 miscarriages, then next at 41. Nagmultiple rounds of workups kami until we decided na mag IVF. Sa IVF consultation some things were explained to us such as babaan ang sugar para maganda ang mabuo. In preparation nagstop kami any form of sugar except yun nasa veggies and a little fruit sometimes. Sinabihan din pala ako na both my tubes are blocked pero for me as a google researcher (haha) iniisip ko baka the blockage is because of inflammation and hindi naman totally blocked. This also gets resolved by lessening sugar. Ayun I got pregnant naturally before my scheduled harvest. I also told 3 people about this and all 3 of them got pregnant naturally. Try lang you never know. Wala naman mawawala. But here’s the thing, sa totoo lang walang pinag-iba ang relationship namin ng husband ko. If anything mas stressful talaga ang may anak. I love my kids to death pero kung hindi kami napagbigyan with our eldest son and our 2 bio kids, I don’t think we’d love each other less or live our lives na parang something’s missing. Yun ngayon naman na meron kids, masaya pero magulo. Napakagulo. Arawaraw ang gulo ng bahay haha. Maingay. Hindi nauubos ang ingay. Baby dust to all of you who are trying.
DeleteI have high respect to those who consciously chose not to have kids. At least alam nila ung capacity nila: emotionally and financially. Kesa naman mag anak nga tapos di naman maalagaan or makapag provide.
ReplyDeleteAko gusto ko anak pero ayaw ko ng lalaki hahaha OMG
ReplyDeletePuede artificial insemmination parang JLo in the back-up plan or IVF both with just a sperm donor. Kung gusto mo naman makatipid just do the deed with a fubu while you’re fertile hehe. Or did you mean ayaw mo ng anak na lalake? Coz I understand that too. I have 3 boys haha.
DeleteAlam mo bilib na sana ko kay Jodi pero yung bf nya isang Raymart. No way!
ReplyDeleteDahil sa kwento ni claudine? Eh yun mga kapatid nga ni claudine kampi k raymart.
DeleteAt lahat ng ex-bfs nya are questionable kaya never ako bumilib sa preaching ni gurl
DeleteLagi namang questionable life choices nyan ni Jodi. Akala mo sino magaling kung magpayo.
DeleteBakit may nagtatanong sa kanya ng ganyan eh she has not been in that situation, kaloka
ReplyDeleteWhy would someone ask her that eh may anak siya? Magkaiba ang perspective ng nagkaroon ng anak sa hindi. And to 12:50, sana inintindi mo yung comment. Nakakaloka, ikaw pa may gana sabihan ang iba na lonely at loser. Yes you have an idea, but Jodi doesn't kasi may anak siya.
ReplyDeleteNot the right person to give that advice
ReplyDelete