Tuesday, May 15, 2018

FB Scoop: Bianca Gonzalez Intal Tells Basher to Tell Comment Face to Face



Images courtesy of Facebook: CNN Philippines

75 comments:

  1. Eksaherada ang babaeng tamad magpa-scrub hahaha!

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    1. Eksaherada? Tama lang naman yung sinabi niya sa mga bashers na kagaya mo!
      Matatapang, pero pag pinatulan naman daming palusot.

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    2. Anong year na may nangmamaliit parin base sa balat??? Hindi na nakakatawa yan. Isip isip din ng bagong joke.

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  2. Totoo naman. kung maka kuda mga celeb mom parang mga hands on mothers.

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    1. True naman. Sila may helpers at home while most "working mothers" don't have any, yet they survive motherhood on a daily basis.

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    2. Tataa!!!! Iba ang mag-isa lang na doing it all sa me 3-4 help!

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    3. Ulirang Ina - hirap pero me labindalawang anak! Panay hinagpis dahil hindi alam saan kukunin ipapakain at ipapaaral sa mga anak! Kakapanganak lang buntis na naman!

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    4. Tama. Kung may helper ka, you dont do the cooking, cleaning, washing of clothes, etc. tapos parang pag ininterview ideal moms. Ediwow

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    5. Discriminating kayo sa mga working moms. Kaloka gusto niyo sa bahay lang talaga ang babae. Kayo ang magpa-interview kasi mostly likely celeb moms have yaya. Because They are Working.

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    6. True,1 anak nga lang hirap what more kng literal n more db!!

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    7. 3:33 may mga working din naman na walang help. Next time interviewhin nila mga nanay na walang help ng magkaalaman ang totoong meaning ng hands on mom. Gamit na gamit ng mga celebs kahit ilang oras lng nila mahawakan anak nila sa isang araw hands on na agad hahaha

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  3. Mukhang sira yung basher. Siyempre si bianca yung tinutukoy nya na pseudo mother! Palusot pa eh hellooo

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    1. True.
      Daming mga ganyang mga netizens, akala mo ang gagaling.

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  4. It's a tie. Basher had a huge point and Bianca's excuse is acceptable.

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  5. Walang "ALSO" sa comnent ni ate gurl. Palusot pa, huling huli na.

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  6. Ohhh Bianca snapped!

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  7. You demanded for real mothers to be featured & mentioned not these pseudo mothers. Wow where did this basher get the guts to defend himself after he dropped that comment.

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  8. Nakakairita yung commenter. Girl, own up to your comment. Nakakahiya ka

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  9. Ang lungkot siguro ng buhay ng basher na to. We don’t know what happens in their household for us to judge them. We only see what they choose to show us. You see celebrities on tv shows or what not (without their kid) because that is their job. In the same way, you won’t see a working mom with their kids at the office while doing their job. If you’re going to judge celebrities for not being with their kid 24/7 you might as well judge all working moms. I know mommies who are not celebrities with multiple helpers and it never ocurred to me to think of them as pseudo moms.

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    1. Tbh, you don't want to elevate the level of discourse so that's why you're just saying na "don't judge" bla bla, "god bless you na lang". Kaya hindi nagpoprogress ang isip ng tao dahil sa mga taong ganito mag-isip.

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    2. @1:47 maganda ang argument ni 1:01 while this 1:47, well, reading her comment, parang sarili nya ang tinutukoy nya.

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    3. 10:31 saan banda yung maganda ang argument? Looking at it means na ayaw niya lang i-raise ang argument dahil wala siyang pakialam. Puro don't judge lang ang karamihan sa inyong mga Pilipino kasi nga wala kayong matinong pang-argument. Judging at yours, you're one of those.

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    4. 1:42 tama naman si 1:01 bakit nya ijudge nde naman nya kasama 24/7 ang nakita lang nya is story sa IG or baka post. Lahat ng parent may struggle and yes, she is right na some moms have to work. From the looks of it mas ikaw yung walang point, alam mo ung argument for the sake of argument? Hindi din yun nakakatalino mas nakakb*b* pa nga kase kahit useless gagawan ng issue.

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  10. Whoaaa! I had maids while bringing up my kids but am I a pseudo mother? A mother is a mother is a mother. Who could or would describe one as pseudo, real? Only the kids they raised and what and how they have turned out can really "judge" these mothers.

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    1. So hindi ka naglalabada at nagluluto at naglilinis ng bahay...unlike yung mga cant afford to have help e sila lahat yun plus work plus alaga sa anak. Single Moms. So mas mahirap kesa sa karanasan mo....

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    2. 231am, bakit need pagkumparahin? dahil magkaiba ng estado sa buhay? dahil mas mahirap karanasan mo, mas higit ka sa ibang nanay?

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    3. josmio 2:31, hindi naman masasabi na porket may time magpahinga ung ibang mother because they can afford help ibig sabihin pseudo mother na sila. kakaloka. Why discredit them just because they made better choices earlier in their life kaya afford nilang kumuha ng househelp?? Mga utak talangka.

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    4. 2:31AM. I feel your pain. With your comment, parang may pinagdadaanan ka. I wish you well and i hope you overcome it soon. Para din sa anak mo at maenjoy nya ang relaxed at masayang ikaw.

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  11. first off, no such thing as real mothers vs pseudo-mothers. there’s only MOTHERS. period.

    secondly, ever heard of the saying ‘it takes a village to raise a kid’? it doesn’t matter who comprises your village, it can be immediate family, yayas, daycare, nannies, friends. it’s not easy raising a kid so you get help from wherever you can get it. just because we get help from others doesn’t make anyone any less of a mom.

    we are all doing the best that we can to nurture our kid, so there’s no need for any mom-shaming or mom-comparison. we do what we think is best for our kids!

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    1. Right. there are only Mothers. Pero ang difference is yung getting by all by herself vs with help ang gusto ipoint out nung commenter.

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    2. 2:27 so? parusahan ang mga nanay na may kakayanan kumuha ng tulong from other people? Ako I work from home dito sa US and I raise my kids too. Tingin ko ba mas magaling na nanay ako dahil mas pagod ako gawa ng sariling sikap talaga dito? No way! Kanya kanya tayo ng kapalaran kaya kanya kanya rin tayo ng pagiging nanay. Hindi sa physical na pagod namemeasure ang pagka-nanay. I may be doing more manual work as a mom but it doesn’t mean yung mga mas convenient ang set up ay hindi kasing deserving maging nanay. Masyado nang judgmental mga tao ngayon, lahat ng bagay pinuna!

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    3. The commenter isnt questioning bianca about her being a Mother. Her point is mothers who have help vs mothers with help. Iba naman kasi kung pati household chores on top of taking care care of the kids eh ikaw lang lahat gagawa. Yon ang point dito. Wag ka masyadong defensive 1:45. There are different situations for every mother.

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    4. tama ka 2:27. Pero very wrong naman na tawagin na Pseudo mothers. Kakaloka ang bitterness nung girl na commenter.

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    5. The commenter just said “pseudo mom” on a thread where Bianca is a guest and asked for “real mothers” to be on the show- which part of that is not questioning her as a mother 3:24?

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    6. 3:24 to label mothers who get help as ‘pseudo-mothers’ and not ‘real mothers’, don’t you find that offensive? do not discredit a mother who gets help just because she can afford or she has sources for help.

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  12. Itong mga celebrities akala mo mga ulirang ina eh karamihan naman sa kanila may mga yaya na kayang magpuyat para sa mga anak nila. Tapos kung makapagbigay ng tips akala mo napaka-hands on at siya lang lahat ng gumagawa nun. Kaimpokrituhan.

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    1. I know right! Commenter was right.. why not interview moms who have no help at all while having a job. Doon magkakaalaman sa pagka hands on ng mga celebrities na to.

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    2. Hindi naman siguro hypocrisy un, it just so happen na they can afford helpers and it does not mean na hindi na sila pwede magbigay ng tips dahil mas nakakaangat sila sa buhay.

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    3. And how would you know, 1:46Am, kung nagpuyat o hindi sila nagpuyat para sa mga anak nila? Pag artista hindi na napupuyat sa anak?
      Think.

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    4. 11:14 Think ka rin. That's why they have alternate nannies para 24/7 coverage. Ano, si celebrity mom pa rin ang gumigising sa gabi while si yaya is sound asleep? Think again.

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    5. the commenter is blaming the media not bianca. mali lang delivery nya. the media always features celebrity mom and make them look as if they're so mighty for being a parent when they are actually overpaid. not that it's their fault to be overpaid but thats the reality of the world. parehas ng pawis naipinatak pero sang kusing ang halaga ng atin at sang milyon ang halaga ng kanila. again hindi nila kasalanan.

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    6. Why not? @1:33. What if they breastfeed their child? Can the yaya do that for the mom? Point is, hindi mo or any of us know what is happening in their household so wag mo sabihin na hindi nila kayang magpuyat or pagsilbihan ang mga anak nila dahil lang celebrity sila.

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  13. Baka akala ni commenter si bianca un host at yung nasa left ang guest.

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    1. Lol that was i actually thought also. Kaya i was wondering why Bianca reacted, she was the guest pala. Found out only when i read the comments here lol

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  14. my point si basher, she did not say si Bianca yun, so it would be hard to assume (Not the basher)

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    1. si bianca yung guest, so siya yung nafeature. meaning siya ang sinabing pseudo mom

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    2. “Not these pseudo moms” just means Bianca is one of them. Reading comprehension 101z

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  15. Bakit sa Pilipinas ang daming utak talangka. Parang kapag medyo nakaangat angat ka discredited na lahat ng ginagawa mo. Kapag afford mo ang househelp, hindi ka na real mother. Malamang these people na nakakaangat is may ginagawang something na tama sa buhay nila kaya afford nila ang househelp. Hindi naman kailangan ung pinaka kaawa awa ung istorya mo bago maging legit ung accomplishment. Mahilig kasi ung mga pinoy sa kawawa stories.

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    1. Those mothers who has help should know their place and should stop pretending and giving tips as if they can be a hands-on mom and at the same being active on their other side of life. We know that they use help in achieving those things so that's why technically they are hypocrites.

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    2. OMG hypocrites agad! I’m sure those “pseudo-moms” are grateful sa helpers nila. Hindi madali maging ina lalo na kung kailangan mo rin magbayad ng bills at nang may maipakain ka rin sa anak mo. Ang hirap iwan ang anak mo sa iba at ipagkatiwala sila sa hindi mo ka-anu-ano.

      I’m sure yung mga tips na nanggagaling sa “pseudo-moms” na sinasabi niyo, valid naman yun. Kasi kahit may work sila at may helpers, sila pa rin ang nagpapalaki sa mga anak nila.

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    3. 1:29 and if they can afford the help why not? Siguro nga kaya nila magproject as a good mothers kase they focus on being a mom rather than gawaing bahay. I grew up with a yaya too and I can say my mom, a career woman is the best hands on mom kase kapag time for us yun lang ginagawa nya nde baglalaba or nagluluto so wala kang karapatan to say na hypocrites sila. And kahit sinong hands on mom nangaangan at some point ng tulong from others and if you have the resources, why not? Sana mapost ito kase sobrang unfair naman ng pinagsasabi mo.

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  16. Just because we have help doesn’t make us less of a mother. Ang sasama ng mga ugali niyo. And i’m sure if these “real” mothers na tinatawag niyo, if they can afford help kukuha din sila. Will that make them psudeo mothers na? I never thought there would be people who would actually agree with the hater.

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    1. They're technically useless. Mas nag-invest ng pagod ang mga yayas sa pag-aalaga at pagpapalaki sa anak niyo compared sa inyo na mismong nanay tapos kung makapag-bigay kayo ng tips daig niyo pa mga ulirang ina. Stop being hypocrite.

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    2. Di mo gets. Nothing against mom having nannies. They portray them as role model moms when in fact it is NOT the norm. So how can regular moms relate to Bianca Intal's parenting when in fact she has at least two nannies ??

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    3. Yes it doesn't make you less of mother kung may yayas ka. But these celeb moms kasi make it look on social media na they are the perfect moms in the planet. Like the breastfeeding issue before for instance.

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    4. 1:27 and for those mothers na kelangan magwork to pay their bills and sustain their careers so useless din? Anong pag-iisip yan? Perfect sila sa paningin nila same way na tingin nyo perfect kayo dahil nafulfill nila yung goals nila career man yan or lifestyle. So wala kang karapatan to judge them and call them useless. So yung mga ofw na nagpapaalaga ng anak sa mga kamag anak useless din ba sila kase they provide sacrifice of not being around pero nagsend lang ng money?

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    5. maka useless ka diyan, anong klaseng pag iisip yan? ang useless na nanay, anak ng anak kahit di kaya buhayin ang mga anak nila. yun panay ang tihaya at pinapabayaan ang mga anak nila. useless ang brain mo.

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  17. usual, bianca talks like as if she does great on everything

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  18. I totally agree with Ms. Valdes. The show would have been worthwhile if they made a story of everyday moms. I have nothing against moms who have yayas because I'm sure they are as loving as those who don't. But the show should have just been more realistic and maybe more relatable.

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    1. Same here, too bad bianca missed the point and shes beginning to sound like her friends na mommies na rin ngayon, nagiging patolera na rin sya just like them.

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    2. kung regular mo mba yan may manunuod? sa producers kayo magreklamo

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  19. The issue here is yung ibang mga celeb moms (take note : IBANG) kung makaclaim eh sobrang struggle nila magpalaki ng mga anak nila kahit na may help sila. Kahit ang totoo ibang tao yung naghihirap sa pag alaga majority of the day sa anak nila. Nakakainsulto sa mga nanay that are not as lucky to have a comfortable setup like them.

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    1. Kaya nga, katawa pa 'tong bianca na sasabihin busy sya sa pag aalaga ng anak nya..sa lahat ng busy mag-alaga ng bata sya yun maraming time mag-post at umopinyon sa social media

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    2. but how do you know that they don’t have struggles as well? how do you measure what they’ve done for their kids? are you with them 24/7?

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    3. 12:54 I'm sure they do. Lahat ng nanay may struggles. Pero sana these celeb moms stop making it look like super hands on mom sila when in fact hindi naman. Yes, having yayas and all doesn't make them less of a mother pero yung ipapamukha sa social media and tv na sobrang ulirang ina image sila na para bang sila gumagawa lahat eh sobrang off.

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  20. sino ba ang working mom or working parents na walang katulong sa bahay kahit nga mga normal na office workers may katulong na sa bahay ngayon para mag asikaso sa bahay. OA masyado tong mga bashers na to.

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  21. Napaka self righteous nitong si bianca kala
    Mo lagi sya ang nasa tama. Magbibigay ka ng opinion public opinion sana din mag expect ka ng public and Even basher's opinion. Manahimik ka kung ayaw mo mabash. Palibhasa feeling inportante at matalino. Madada ka lang. pintas ka ng pintas sa gonyerno pati sa mga tao pag ikaw nilusob, pavictim maghahamon pa. Kala ko ba matalino ka? Sana alam mo din na di yan makikipag face to face sayo noh?

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    1. obvious ang hatred mo kay bianca

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  22. Woahh, mothers are still mothers in their own ways as long as they nurture to the best of their abilities. Whoever said that the interview is supposed to strictly pertain to bayaning ina w/ 12 kids in tow and is trying to make ends meet.

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  23. Defensive much?

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  24. The show is bad, and it doesn't show what real moms in the PH go thru. Whether may yaya or wala ang totoong moms sa PH are struggling with raising their kids. I don't blame Bianca for the show but I blame her for being so out of touch. I hope she doesn't call herself a journalist.

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  25. Define millennial mother? If one can, I don't think Bianca will fit the bill. She just has too much free time to do social media.

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  26. I have nothing against Bianca but maybe shows like this should feature leading women not from showbiz.

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