Of course. Walang problema! Nagmamahalan kami eh! - Maja Di pwede! Ang akin ay akin! Niluwa ko na yan! - Kim Hoy mga te! Kung ayaw niyo, sa akin na lang siya! Please, ibigay niyo na...please! - Sarah
di ko ma-gets ang logic ng 'akin ay akin' at 'niluwa ko na yan' statement mo for Kim, anon1:29. contradicting ang sinasabi mo na kasing contradicting ng sinasabi ng keemchew.
For me no. I never date my friends and certainly yung ex ng kahit cno na kabarkada or best friend ko. For me off limits tlga yang mga yan. Although my cousin is now married to my ex bf... but ndi niya alam na naging bf ko un lol kaya yan.. it took yrs before i gt used to seeing them together. So because i knw how it felt... nding ndi ko magagawa un to any of my friends.
yeah it's a trend in showbiz which obviously KIM does not adhere to..meaning she is not swallowed up by the lifestyle she sticks to her values, discipline and beliefs..she has high regard for herself and others which is admirable in an industry that can be toxic and sometimes compromise your values and beliefs...
I don't see anything wrong with it. Can't dictate what your heart feels. Bitter lang yung mga ex na ayaw payagan ang relationship. Ang selfish. Can't she be happy that two significant people in her life are happy?
kung barkada lang kayo, yung hindi kayo mag bff, ok lang naman, pero sa totoo lang kahit sa mga hindi close na magbarkada pag pinatos mo ang ex ng barkada mo parang hindi pa rin maganda yun diba.
hnd bitter ang tawag dun.. ikw yung syota mong katext kayakap kahalikan mo date boyfrend na ng bestfrend mo na lage mong kasama ok lng sau na maghangout kau together kc parang awkward saken..
KOREK NA KOREK AT PUEDENG-PUEDE; WHY NOT, COCONUT!!!...kung ayaw na sa'yo, huwag pilitin dahil ikaw din ang magsa-suffer...hangga't maaga, alam mo na, na wala ka nang appeal sa kanya...da best to do is move on , hanap na ng iba!!!
in the first place, i think hindi ni KIM pinagbawalan na magkarelasyon yung dalawa..she just chose to distance herself from a person that hurt her (GERALD) and a person that she can no longer trust (MAJA)....
Para sakin hindi... friends are like brothers to me, whether we like it or not after ng relationship nasisira ang friendship, life is short and i dont like feeling awkward or whatever so no i dont date people im friends with. oi yung mga bashers dyan wala akong pinatatamaan sariling opinyon ko naman to. whatever floats my boat lang to.
well if youre a true friend.. why would you entertain someone who broke your friends heart?! parehas naman silang may point teh, for sure naman gusto rin nya maging maligaya yung friend nya, nagulat lang siguro kasi she didnt see that coming.
as if naman na love at first sight sila ni gerald and maja... or may nangyari sa kanila kagad na nauwi na lang sila together but sa sobrang bilis ng pangyayari about budoy and maja i dont think maja even considered her best friend.
kase yung bond nila ni maja not just an ordinary best friend they were sisters sukdulang parehas mga damit nila pag rehersal sa asap alam nila lahat sa isat isa..nanjan na ipagshoping ni kim si maja this two girls are just like sisters.. kaya big deal anu gusto ng mga fans ok lang bff padin cla parang ang weird
iba ang situation nila..ini explain ni george iyon na hindi pa sila friends dati at panoorin mo sa kris tv ang pov ng group ni georgina, it's a big NO ang stand nila. hindi pwede sa kanila ang ganoon.
respects all the people that is around her? oh yeah right! kaya pala si xian lim na ex ng friend nia na si erich ay bf niya daw ngayon?it just goes to shows one thing SHE IS IMMATURE! she only cares for her OWN HAPPINESS!
Okay lang pero dapat handa mong tanggapin na pwedeng mawala si BFF. Ang awkward lang kung magkakasama kayong lumabas, gumimik, mag out of town with your EX at BFF mo lalo na kung si EX ang pinakalatest EX mo.
Iba ang issue kina Erich at Kim, career related. Pero si Xian may issue kay Erich, dahil di makapag move on! Kaya nga kinukulit ni vice about kay Erich! At di po naging sila kasi nag focus sa career si Erich and diba sabi nya ayaw nya sa showbiz? Si coco at enrique nga basted, sya pa?
Makikisawsaw....naging couple si erich at xian...pero paganda na career ni girl at di naman sikat si boy, mas pinili ni girl ang umaangat nyang career. This was during katorse. Nawala si xian sa katorse at nawala din si erich sa life nya...he felt devasted for awhile. He moved on...ngayon sila na ni kim.
bilib din naman ako sa inyo. talagang ipipilit kahit hindi totoo. mas marunong pa kayo sa may katawan. sa kanila ng dalawa mismong bibig nanggaling, sinabi nila on the national tv na HINDI NAGING SILA. nanligaw si xian, oo pero never naging sila. malinaw na malinaw iyon.
other stars didn't really fall in love with thier ex... that is why it was easy for them! but kim loved so much and got hurt in return, when her ex bestfriend patol to that person, normal na yung reaction ni Kim. I ranas that kasi... pero ung ex bestfriend ko ok na kami pero we can tell na siguro we are friends na lang..." hi, hello, kumusta, good bye! :)"
sila sila na lang nagjojowaan, but i don't blame them. ikaw ba naman paligiran ng mga beautiful and handsome co-actors. at least they're not spreading s*d's. and if they are, at least its constrained amongst them.
No. simply because, me and my friends are very close, ive seen them fall in love, heard their lovey dovey stories and break up stories. i know way too much to even find their exes attractive. nangyari na rin sakin yung ligawan ako ng ex ng friend ko but i dont find that attractive, feeling ko lang ssa mga lalakeng ganun e bastos! nakita nang kaibigan ko yung ex nya tapos liligawan ako ano yun?! i think maja entertained gerald because maybe she liked him na noon pa... dont bash me ah, opinion ko to.
Agree with you. I found it offensive when my barkada's ex started sending pa-sweet messages. I though if he can do that to my friend, what will stop him from doing the same thing to me? Mag-isa siya!
Syempre hindi, pwede kaming maging friend hanggang dun lang. Awkward kaya un, kahit sbhin mo pang nakamove on na ung friend mo sa ex nya na un. At kahit nakamove on kana at meron ng iba may kurot parin un sa puso kapag nagdadate ung friend at ex mo lalo na kapag naging sila. :)))) besides hindi magandang tingnan:)))
Tama. Actually ngyari narin sakin yan nung highschool ako, si friend pa ung isa sa mga gumagawa ng paraan para magkaayos kami ni ex nung kami pa at alam nyang un ung first serious relationship ko(magkakaibigan kami) , tapos mababalitaan ko nalang na sila na pala after 2yrs at may anak na. hahaha Although nakapag moved on na ko awkward padin pag magkakasama kaming magkakaibigan, at parang nawala ung RESPECT since sa huli ko na nalaman.
OPINION ko lang::::::sa situation ni Kim hindi rin natin masisisi kung maxado syang nasaktan kasi minahal nya talaga ng sobra tapos kay maja pa nya nasabi ung mga nararamdaman nya dati, at hindi rin natin masisisi si Maja kung nafall sya kay Gerald kung nakita at naramdaman nya naman na mahal talaga sya at handang ipaglaban. Time can heal all wounds, magkakabati din yan sila FOR REAL pero siguro hindi na mababalik ung dating friendship. Kaya sa mga bashers ng dalawa isip isip muna pag may time. hahaha Opinyon ko lang naman!:)
nope kaya nya may salitang delicadeza only woman with no respect to their friends would do that.. especially if your her bestfreind alam nya lahat ng pinagdaanan mu sa taong yun gaya ng ginawa ni maja.. what would maja and gerald expect magparty silang tatlo.. how could maja love someone na nanakit sa toong minahal nya (kim) ng hnd lng as bff kungdi bilang kapatid at taong nagmahal din sa kanya bilang tunay na kapatid..
THERE'S NO LAW OR PASSAGE IN THE BIBLE THAT FORBIDS A WOMAN TO FALL FOR HER BFF'S EX-BF, AS LONG AS ALL 3 OF THEM ARE NOT LEGALLY COMMITTED TO SOMEONE...INDECENCY IS WHEN YOU BREAK A STANDARD RULE, WHEN YOU CHEATED ON YOUR CURRENT PARTNER...everything said against Maja is plain BITTERNESS of defeat, ego-trip, self-pity...if you keep dwelling in the past, sulk in the corner, & cry over a spilled milk, YOU'LL NEVER GET TO MOVE ON.
it could rarely happen, i'd rather avoid it.. if it persists.. i'll not make quick decision .. i will not surprise my friend that m already dating her ex..... instead.... we have to talk bout this matter first before getting into d relatonship wid her ex! at least there we have talked about it seriously and thats what we call --- RESPECT!
tama, hindi minamadali yung ganito, hindi pwedeng gulpi de gulat kasi ang kalalabasan masisira ang friendship. syempre pag alam mong nagkanda lokaloka ang friend mo dun sa ex na nanliligaw sayo pano mo ieentertain yun? these things happen naman talaga, pero ussually hindi bad break up kaya ok lang sa friend kahit idate ang ex, pero kung alam mong halos isumpa na ng friend mo yung ex nya tapos idadate mo? maloloka na naman si friend, not because mahal pa nya pero dahil awkward!
no especially kung sitwasyon kaagaya nina kim at maja.. kase alam ko lahat laht ng sakit ng pinagdaanan ng bff ko kung ganu sya nahirapan kung ganu ka traumatic tpus magiging kame nung taong yun panu kakayanin ng konsensya ko panu kame lalabas na tatlo? panu kme magiging bff pa pag kasama ko c boylet dapt wala c bff vice versa so no complicated and ang hirap
hindi okay... lalo na pag alam mong first love yun ng friend mo, i mean sa totoo lang hindi talaga ang awkward. bakit pa hindi na kailangan ng friendship nyo ng ganun bakit ka papasok sa something na alam mong ikasisira ng pagkakaibigan nyo. sobrang mahal ko ang friends ko as in we do everything together, we go everywhere together, we cant not see eachother, sobrang dami ng napagdaanan ng friendship namin and we respect eachother and love eachother well enough para pumatol pa sa mga exes. kahit naman sa lalaki hindi rin okay yun, theyre just not vocal about it.
Share lang yung yung kay kim at Gerald hindi nila first love ang isa't-isa napanuod ko pbb days nila shinare pa nila ang story ng mga first love nila.. i think yung kay kim one great love niya si gerald but yung kay gerald i don't know..
teh hindi naman nya iniwan yun, they just had misunderstanding na hindi kaagad nafix. but theyre ok naman sila melissa, kim, kitkat, beauty and kim nagkikita parin pero hindi na talaga si erich. we would never know the real story naman talaga kaya hindi natin pwedeng sabihin na karma yun.
Coz Kim is dating Xian whi has a mutual understanding with Erich in the past. So, parang yung sin na ginawa sakanya ni Maja, e sin na mas nauna pa niyang na commit?
eto ah, honestly speaking, sa barkadahan sa pagkakaibigan nangyayari to talaga and nagugulo talaga ang friendship, pag pumatol ka sa ex ng friend mo nagkakaron ng awkwardness, nagkakaron ng sapakan minsan nagkakaron ng awayan talaga diba?! if you say na yeah ok lang why not, date mo yung ex ko, it simply means na ok yung hiwalayan nyo, maybe nag fall out of love lang kayo or baka hindi naman nyo minahal talaga isat isa or hindi mo minahal talaga yung ex mo kaya you can say na okay lang na idate mo yung friend ng ex mo. pero if its someone you really love ibang usapan kasi talaga yun, kahit gano katagal pa yan, not unless hindi na kayo friends ng friend mo tapos nagdate sila ng ex mo yun wala ka na karapatan mag salita, pero if bestfriend mo sya, or close barkada or close friend mo tapos idadate yung ex mo na minahal mo ng sobra sinaktan ka ng sobra... nako wag ka nang mag expect na magiging friends pa kayo.
hiningal naman ako sa kwento mo, naghahagilap kasi ako ng period...anyway, ang happiness at kilig na maibibigay ng potential suitor/bf-to-be ay hindi kelan man maibibigay ng best fren...ikaw ang may karapatang mag-decide kung ano ang pipiliin mo...bff mo o ang ex niya?...sino sa kanila ang magpapaligaya sa'yo today, tomorrow, & in the future???
I never dated kht sinong ex ng aking friends b4. Never sumagi sa isip k na kht sino sa knila eh mgstuhan k. #1 rule in frienship yan! -- now im happily married.
Siguro gerald and Maja used to find eachother attractive na noon pa, kasi sobrang bilis naman ng pangyayari sa kanila, may attraction na between them for sure noon pa. what and how it got triggered... we will never know. pero sa totoo lang nakakatakot naman magkaroon ng friend na ganyan... dito nagaapply yung akala mo kilala mo na sya pero hindi pa rin pala. and yung your bestfriend is your worst nightmare :) im not bashing maja and im not on kims side, im just stating kung ano yung nakikita ko sa kanila ni gerald.
PWEDE! but you have to accept the fact that you have to choose. because ano yun magsasalo kayo? double date? lol ano bey! baka mapraning pa kayo kung ano tumatakbo sa mga isipan nyo! lol too awkward!
you wouldnt know unless you try nga diba? pero yun nga you have to choose parin your ex or your bff? kung ok lang sa bff mo e di mas okay diba?! lol at sinagot ko talaga!
nako ineng ilang taon ka na ba? kasi alam mo maiisip mo lang yan kung sila pa ng friend mo e type mo na ang jowa nya, tapos nung nagbreak inentertain mo yung thought na yun!
Anon 1:57 Ikaw ilang taon ka na? ang layo ng sagot mo eh :) Anon 1:58 binasa mo po ba ng maayos ang nakapost?
Ang tanong What IF kung sila pala ang nakatadhana, wala naman nakalagay diyan na IISIPIN NA KAYO na ANG NAKATADHANA o kailangan mo siyang sagutin , kaya nga WHAT IF EH tsaka kaya nga may nakalagay na NAKATADHANA eh meaning mangyayari ang mangyayari at wala ka ng magagawa kung mangyari man yun Ayaw mo man o sa Gusto, lubayan mo man ng ilang beses ang lalaki kung nakatadhana kayo pagtatagpuin pa din kayo kahit anong iwas niyo... kaya nga NAKATADHANA GETS? isip isip naman bago magcomment!
Tsaka kung magcocomment huwag yung sunod sunod yung dahilan ah napaghahalataan na iisang tao ka lang eh eh!
hahaha nakakatawa si Anon 1:57 at Anon 1:58 Iisa lang yung sagot! Maganda naman yung tanong niya at wala din naman nakalagay na Isipin mo na kayo ang nakatadhana! bwahahaahaha magegets mo naman kung iintindihin mo yung tanong nya! may dinidepensahan ka na sa Sagot mo eh! kuha ko na din yung Point mo may comment ka din sa Baba eh siguro ikaw din yun LOL.
nangyari sa barkada namin to. my friend went out with our friends ex, kala namin ok lang talaga, magkakasama kami nag hahangout, ok nga rin yung mag ex eh nagbibiruan ganyan. tapos malaman laman namin na nagkikita ulit patago yung friend namin and yung ex nya, narealise daw na mahal parin isat isa... kawawa naman yung isa din namin na friend. my gosh kaloka! so hindi. hindi ako papasok sa something na magcocomplicate ng situation and magpapahirap hindi lang sakin kundi sa mga tao sa paligid ko! kaloka!
Bakit wala si Xian At Erich? Naging Sila tapos ang Awkward pa kasi si kim ang isa sa mga nakakakita kung gaano sila sweet dati magkakasama sila Gumala, kaya siguro never na din talaga sila magkakaayos ni Erich kasi sila na ni Xian.. unlike Maja na naging close lang kay kim after break up with gerald!
hindi totoo ang tadhana ay nakatakda. ikaw mismo ang gumagawa ng destiny mo. kaek ekan lang iyang nakatadhana sa iyo. palusot lang iyan ng mga taong ayaw magpakatotoo.
Di naging sila pero MU, so parang naging sila kasi gusto i pursure ni Xian si Erich pati mom nya like si Erich. Pero ang ending basted. Kaya sabi ni xia. Never naging sila pero kung sinagot naging sila! Diba dont date your bff's ex? Eh bat sya? Tapos alam nya na may feelings pa talaga si xian kay erich! Pero parang si Kim kay Gerald, bitter pa rin si xian kay erich dahil nabasted kaya ayan bagay nga sila ni kim! Bitters!
Naging sila po! dineny lang kasi malakas ang loveteam ni Erich at Enchong dati madaming photos silang sweet! at imposibleng aminin din ni xian now kasi may LT sila ni kim.
LOL.. so pag sinabi ni erich na tatalon siya sa bangin meaning nun tatalon talaga siya? tao din yan nagsisinungaling! walang perpekto teh , kulang ka sa research hindi porket idol mo yun na talaga papaniwalaan mo..showbiz yan kailangan mong magsinungaling para sa career mo!
Eh paano kung Mahal mo na? pipigilan mo ang alam mong magiging kasiyahan mo?
parang ganto lang kung pipiliin mo Alam mong magiging Masaya ka pero hindi ang Bestfriend mo, pero kapag hindi mo pipiliin sabihin na natin Happy ang Bestfriend mo pero ikaw hindi! parang magiging unfair ka sa sarili mo nun!
pero bakit ka ba dadating sa point na mamahalin mo ang ex ng friend mo? diba kailangan magsasama kayo, maghahangout, or baka attracted ka na dun sa ex bago pa maging ex? hindi naman instant ang mainlove lalo na sa taong alam mong ex ng kaibigan mo. may process na pinagdadaanan yung mga ganyan, kasi usually pag ex na ng friend mo hndi na rin masyado na eentertain yan kasi nga hindi na sila ng friend mo, or baka nung nagbreak sila kasalanan ni friend and kumampi ka sa ex tapos nadevelop kayo! gets mo?! yung mga ganyang sitwasyon hindi yan yung biglaan mong mamahalin yung ex, something should happen bago mo marealise na inlove or mahal mo na yung tao. kungeentertain mo posible mahulog ka nga. pero kung hindi mo ieentertain hindi mo maiisip na sya yung kaligayahan mo noh!
teh maiisip mo lang yang mga bagay na yan kung sila pa lang e may pagtingin ka na dun sa partner ng friend mo, ngayon pag nagbreak sila shempre ieentertain mo na yung thoughts na yan, baka gumawa ka pa ng way para maging friend mo pa rin yung ex and kung swerte ka magugustuhan ka rin nya kaya magiging kayo!
excuse me naman!!! where is the link between sasa and gege? paki-acknowledge, cosmo! para di naman sayang ginugol naming oras dyan sa walang kwentang ligawan na yan.
Gusto kasi ni Kim sya lang! Diba todo deadma sya sa kung sino ang apple of the eye bo Ge, Bea, Sarah, Maja pero pag nag break magiging friends? Nakakatawa ka kim! Sabi nga ni gerald, it takes maturity and moving forward!
I remember angelica Said nung nililigawan ni Carlo si Maja, sabi niya boto siya para sa Dalawa.. siguro nasa tao lang yan kasi Super close din si Angelica at Maja actually mas matagal pa nga sila magkaibigan kesa kay kim kasi si Angelica nagpapayo kay Maja tungkol sa lovelife and take note bad break din yun kasi nagsabay si angelica at camille kay carlo at siguro kasi Masaya na talaga si angelica kay derek nuon kaya wala na siyang Angst..siguro kay kim kasi may feelings pa din..Halata naman.
Galit sina john prats noon kay angelica kasi insinuate niya na si camille dahilan ng break up nila...pero totoong nanligaw si carlo kay camille before pa naging si angelica at carlo si camille talaga gusto nya..pero nadevelop narin xa kay angeluca kaya naging sila...pero talagang bumalik prn si carlo kay camille pro basted naman d xa inintertain...kaya sila nag away away inis na inis nga si camille kya ayaw nya pag usapan un nunkc labas xa 3rd party...ilang years dn bago sila ngkabati...nung nagkaasawa na ata si camille...lols -#panahonkoyan #gmikdays fantard ni camille
syempre ang payo mo ay nakadepende sa kung sino ang kaibigan mo sa love triangle, maeexpect mo ba na magpayo si angge kay kim o kay gerald kung hindi naman sila close? itry natin itanong yan dun sa same circle ni kim, gerald at maja kung ano payo nila...
Sinabi na nila yan sa Kris TV. No-no sa kanila ang mag-date ng ex-bf ng friend. Hindi pa magkaibigan sila anne at georgina nung naging sila ni richard, according to them.
Hindi pa din naman magkaibigan si Maja at kim nung naging sila ni Gerald..naging close lang sila after break up ang di maganda yung kay kim xian erich na nakikita niyang sweet yung dalawa tapos tingnan niyo now kung sino yung kadate ni kim? diba si xian!
Si solen di pinatulan si retsard kc bff sila ni george...sabi nga nya u dont date ur bff's ex...thats the rule of anu ba un nakalimutan ko...lols khit obvius type nya rin si retsard nung after survivor nila...pinigilan nya...si anne xa lumapit kina georgina na kalimutan na nila un...ayaw sknya nila george dati dahil kay retsard...
A big NO!! There are so many fishes in the ocean, why choose a fish that's rotten ? Both Gerald and Maja are rotten... So they deserve each other .. There is an unwritten law- u don't date your best friend's ex ever.. It takes good breeding to know this and definitely Maja doesn't have one.. Magsama sila ni Gerald
Nakakatawa ka so si kim may breeding? sa mga ginagawa nya obvious na wala! at unwritten law ka dyan! o may unwritten law din na free ang mag move on kung di ka na mahal!
Why would kim worry of how maja feels? did she ever think of how Kim would feel if pinatulan nya si Gerald?? so si maja api apihan? paano ang mga lalaki na dumaan na sa kamay nya? carlo, john, jason, coco? thats why Mateo brfoke up with her in the 1st place. Mateo was raised a gentle man.. he came from a good family kaya hindi sya na bastos... But will see how she and gerald goes??
Siguro mas pangit lang siguro kung Bestfriend na si Maja at kim nung sila pa ni Gerald kaso hindi eh, naging close lang sila nung nagtour sila sa ibang bansa at tsaka dun lang nakwento ni kim ang lahat so ang paniniwalaan nung isa yung nakwento sa kanya kawawa din naman yung guy..
In the end, it depends on your values and principles. iba ang pananaw ng conservative kesa liberated. what might be okay for some is distasteful to others...
It depends on the maturity of people involve. I find it immature to hate on your so-called BFF and throw everything you have just because she's dating your ex!
Tama sa kabila ng Magagandang bagay na ginawa din naman sayo ng BFF mo, inalalayan ka nya tapos etong isang bagay lang ilalaglag mo siya na kung tutuusin naging totoo naman siya sayo. IMMATURE!
Kung naging totoo man sya sayo as besfren u wont dare to date ur frens ex lalo pa at alam mo at witness ka sa naging relasyon nila kung paano nasaktan ang besfren mo. Respeto na lang sa mararmdaman ng besfren mo. Applicable lang iyan sa magkarelasyon dati na naging maganda ang ending ng relasyon nila like it's a mutual decision or d nangaliwa ang partner kaya nagkahiwalay. Dahil pag may ganyang factor d mo maaalis sa isipan ng besfren mo na mafeel ang pagtatraydor
It's not immaturity. It's called RESPECT, FRIENDSHIP, and VALUES. Obviously, Maja and Gerald do not have any of these at all. Common sense lang naman. Life is not always about getting what YOU want. If you are really mature, you do not do things that will hurt people you consider friends.
Sa Bansa natin conservative pa rin majority ng Pinoy so hindi magandang tinggnan at masama talaga yung ginawa ni Gerald and Maja so expect na turn off ang majority ng Pinoy sa kanilang dalawa it will reflect on their endorsement kapag wala ng product na kukuha sa kanila as endorser yun na yun
Big No for me I cant imagine my bestfriend dating my ex respeto lang at if that friend really values the friendship never nyang gagawin yun, maging thankful nalang si Kim and Sarah who happens to be a friend of Maja na nakilala nila kung anong klaseng kaibigan si Maja as for Gerald yung ginawa nya reflects what kind of character he has which is weak wala syang self control basta happy sya which I doubt how can you be completely happy kapag alam mo sa puso mo na may tao kayong sinasaktan walang patutunguhan yan
anon: 2:58am If being happy means I am hurting a best friend and or someone close to me.. I would rather choose not to be happy.Marami pa namn jan iba.. For people like me who treats a bestfriend as a family masakit talaga yun.. But kim has moved on.. and for M_j_r_ot she can just "get it on" with whom ever she wants to get it on with...
anon 2:58, d naman issue d2 kung c kim or maja ang dapat masaya. . .ikaw, magiging happy k b kung mas pinili ng bff mong maging jowa ang ex mo n d kayo in good terms ng ex mo? so sa kaso ng idol mo, .mas pinili nyang maging masaya k ge kesa mapanatili ang friendship @ respe2, kz takot mabakante.
It depends on how long their relationship and if they end up as good friends or the decision of ending up the relationship is mutual. Actually, it really matters how your relationahip ended. If nasaktan talaga ang isa sa magkarelasyon definitely alam mo na mahirap e pursue ang ganyang bagay regardless if it's been a year na sila at sign of respect n lang sa besfren mo.
Bottomline it all really depends on the situation. Like Im setting an example kay maja at kim. Mahirap talaga kasi iyong iniisip mo karamay ng nasaktan ka ng ex mo ay nakipagdate sa taong nanakit sayo and worst hindi sila bati ni Gerald. Kaya it can be a very crucial and sensitive situation.
It's called RESPECT. Sorry, but to me I value more my relationship with my friends. REAL friends stay true and are LOYAL regardless. Obviously, Maja is not REAL as a person. No values at all. Well, what can you expect from an open city girl. This is the reason why Matteo's family didn't like her. This girl has BAD vibes written all over her. So, hopefully hindi sya pagsawaan ni Budoy and leave her for another one. Hopefully, pakasalan sya then she can prove her bashers including me wrong.
4y sila naging mag-on sobrang laki na ng emotional even physical investment dun ah. Grabe madami na nangyari nun. Then of course bilang babae, nagiging overly attached ang mga yan after nun. Etong si bff alam nya lahat, nag aadvice pa sya diba? Nagbreak. Nanligaw. Sinagot ni bff dahil 3y ago na daw at may permission ni xbff, kaw ba prangka mo ba sasabihin na ayaw mo? Syempre bilang bff dapat knows mo na yon. And alam mo nasaktan yun frend mo,kung magiging kayo ng ex nya ofcourse mapipilitan magkaharap ulit ang dating magbf at magbff. Sobrang awkward nun!
4:37 Maunawain na kaibigan lang ang makakaintindi kay Maja at true friend :) I thought Gerald and Kim are already friends after theyve both moved on from their past relationship. So si Kik feeling ko nagsisisi din sa mga nasabi nya :) Kasev great friend ang nawala sa kanya. Ngaun wala na tuloy syang friends :/. Takot na siguro ring iclose sya kase sisiraan ka sa tao pag may gnawa ka sa kanyang d nya nagustuhan.ang REAL FRIEND d magagawa ang ginawa nya. Tsk tsk.
ung friend ko ganyan ganyan ung nangyari. actually pareho ko silang kaibigan. mag bff cla since HS.. pos nung nag break si girl 1 s bfnya.. after 2 years naging bf ni g2. super iyak si g1 kc dun cya kay g2 nag kwento ng lahat lahat. kaya para sken ala masama kung maging bf m un bf nya kc break n naman. ung delikadeza lang. tska kung kaya m harapin ung bff m.
NOPE. . . . kasi there will always be some awkwardness and uneasyness at syempre bilang respeto sa friend or bff mo lalo nat naging hindi maayos ang end ng relationship ng friend mo @ nung ex. . .pero sa 2lad ni maja, a guy over her bff, walang kaso, parang naprove nya . d kumple2 ang life kung walang lalaki kesa mapanatili ang pgkakaibigan, . .
If it's the ex of your best friend, then definitely not. Only a selfish person would do such a thing. Love at the expense of other people's feelings is not worth it. You will not be at peace.
If it's the ex of your best friend, then definitely not. Only a selfish person would do such a thing. Love at the expense of other people's feelings is not worth it. You will not be at peace.
Imposibleng maging rebound si Kim sa kahit sinong lalake. Maraming humahanga at nagka crush kay Kim Chiu. Hindi kagaya ng napa balitang masama ang ugali, dahilan kung bakit turn off ang mga showbiz katrabaho, pati manliligaw kuno! Tanungin si Ejay, Enchong,Xian at iba pa! At baka; flirt pa, kaya galit si Angelica P? Noong hindi pa sikat si Xian Lim; sa 2008 hanggang Valentine's 2011, hindi binalita ang iba ibang babae na na link sa kanya. Huwag na pangalanan ngayon, baka sisikat pa! Yun ang gusto nila! Kaya ngayon; kahit waley si Erich G. sa buhay ni Xian, gusto ng mga Erich fans idikit uli ang pangalan ng idol nila upang mapag usapan! Try ninyo akitin uli si Xian. Keber ni Kim. Hindi naman napabalitang sumama si Kim ni Xian kung saan saan mag isa, pati outside P.I.!
Sige, sabi mo eh! Ang dami mo na naman alam sa life ni Erich, di ka pa fan nyan ha! Iba talaga pag sikat. At may mga may crush pala sa idol mo? Sino? Kay Erich kasi too many to mention!
absolutely not. hindi pa rin maganda ang kalabasan kahit sabihin pa na wala na. delikadesa nalang at kung pano mo pahalagahan ang friendship. kaso wala sa vocabulary nya ang respect.
IISA LANG ANG TINUTUMBOK NG QUESTION-ANSWER PORTION NG FORUM NA 'TO-->>PARA KINA KIM AT MAJA, KOREK???...anyway, my very own opinion is-->>hindi kasalanan at hindi kawalan kung na-fall in love si Maja kay Gerald dahil maliwanag pa sa sikat ng araw na 3yrs history na ang KimGerald affair...IT'S OVER!-->>as in, TAPOS NA, THE END na, PAST TENSE na, QUITS na!...HINDI MAIBIBIGAY NI KIM KAY MAJA ANG HAPPINESS AT KILIG FACTOR NA PUEDENG IBIGAY NI GERALD, & THAT IS A FACT!...kaya dapat huwag maging selfish; after all meron na siyang Xian; si Xian na maaaring lihim na nasasaktan habang nakikita niyang 'di pa maka-get-over si Kim kay Gerald.....BE REAL, KIM...LIFE DOESN'T END WITH JUST ONE PERSON...God is good if only you ask for another chance of happiness...good luck sa 'yo...we love you :)
It happened on my cousin and her friend. Nung una, oo ilang shempre, saka tinatago pa. Pero if the friendship is genuine, malalampasan nila, like what happened on my cous and her bff. Now she's happily married on that guy and in really good terms, as in bff ulit, sa bff niya.
So, paano pala kung yung ex ni bff mo ang nakatadhanang maging lifetime partner mo?
INSECURE AT TALUNAN PAG AYAW TANGGAPIN NA MERON NG IBA ANG EX-BF NIYA...at kung mapunta siya sa BFF mo, SO WHATTT???...hindi mo na siya pag-aari; kumbaga, history na lang kayo; past has passed...kailangan mag-MOVE ON; huwag magmukmok sa sulok; enjoy life to the fullest!.
And to the NEW GF, wala kang kasalanan; hindi yan indecent ek-ek dahil wala na sila dati pa; walang batas ng tao o Diyos na nagbabawal diyan dahil hindi kayo pinagsabay; you don't have to feel guilty dahil ikaw ang piniling mahalin.
LESSON LEARNED: huwag pa-apekto sa sasabihin ng iba; tao lang sila, hindi Diyos...go where your heart desires & pleases, as long as you do not pass on somebody's "property"...if you choose to be NEGA, live with misery :(
Yes- kung friend ka lang at wala ka naman alam sa pangyayari sa kanilang relasyon. NO- ikaw ang nagadvise nang bongga2x sa friend mo about her ex and ikaw ang dumamay sa kanya nung down na down siya at ikaw ang super bestfriend niya! at kung may delekadesa ka rin back off nalang! P.S= kung may balak ka palang magboyfriend sa ex ng bestfriend mo eh wag ka nalang magpa super bestfriend at bonggang bonga magadvice sa kanya dba MAJA?
goodness!kung matagal na at may bf na ako ok lang naman. basta mahal ng guy ang bff ko happy ako.gusto ko maging masaya ex ko at bff ko.si kim naman immaturity yan. let's face it di pa talaga ngmamature si kim parang bata pa rin.
I won't date my best friend's ex kasi awkward. At kung hindi maiwasan, titignan ko kung worth it ba yung guy, kasi friendship yung kapalit e. Kung ako kay Maja I won't choose Gerald kasi alam naman ng lahat na playboy talaga siya. No brainer na to conclude na hiwalayan din ang aabutin nila. Lalo na na malaki ang pressure na mawork out nila ang relationship to prove everyone wrong. At kapag nag-away sila, which is dadating at dadating, maaalala lahat ni Maja ang stories ni Kim at baka maapply niya rin sa sarili niya. Kapag dumating yung panahon na binasura na rin sya, PAK isang malaking 'yan, sabi ko naman sa'yo e!' ang matatanggap niya. So goodluck, alam naman niya siguro yung napasukan niya.
sa totoo lang why would i use my friend's trash? basura na nga pupulitin mo pa? Seriously me and my girlfriends nagkakaroon ng same crushes pero never kami nag step out beyond magkatalo talo sa ex dyowa. And thank God iba iba kami ng taste sa lalaki. Ang awkward kaya na magkakasama kayo tapos andun yung basurang ex mo... respeto nalang sa kaibigan...
kung di mo kayang respetuhin kaibigan mo then hindi mo rin kayang respetuhin sarili mo kasi pumatol ka sa wala rin respetong tao.
This happened to me. My barkada's ex was my boyfriend. Short time lang sila like 4 months. Matagal na sila hiwalay like 3 yrs na before I got in the picture. Nagpaalam ako sa barkada ko before ko in-entertain yung ex nya. Pero in fairness hindi pa kami magkakilala nung barakada ko nung naging sila. Tsaka naka-move on na sya nun at may bf ng iba. Yun lang. So pwede to date an ex of a friend.
Siguro awkward sa umpisa pero kung nakapag move on ka na talaga, you won't drag the issue and make so much fuss about it for a LOOOOONG TIME like what Kim is doing. Dati naawa ako sa kanya, pero sya kase talak ng talak about sa sitwasyon while si Maja quiet lang. Silence is a virtue din talaga. Much better manahimik, less talk less mistakes.
in my opinion..sa kanilang tatlo (kim-gerald-maja)wala namang tama o mali sa kanila they all just made a decision that is according to their beliefs or values or what makes them happy...only the fans are over reacting to the issue...
gerald= chose to be happy with maja regardless that he has a past with kim.
maja= chose to be with gerald and she should know the consequences of her actions...friendship or love(kuno??)
kim= i think she is not bitter...she just chose to distant herself from people that hurt her badly from the former boyfriend who broke her heart and the bestfriend the she trust the most and in the end choosing the guy cause a traumatic pain in her. ..
c'mon we cannot expect them three to be hanging out like buddies like it's ok it will be too awkward when you know that kim-gerald's relationship really ended badly just clouded by the network because of their strong following...
POV..not judging..lets just all be happy for them..
Kim seems to still be very much in love with Gerald. I don't think she has had any serious relationship after their break-up. Technically, Kim can't stop the two from getting into a relationship. Matagal na din naman silang break ni Gerald di ba? Ang dami na ngang naging ka-relasyon ni Gerald after her eh. Masakit kung sa masakit kasi si Maja ang new girl, but Kim has to accept it and learn to move on and find her own happiness. Getting mad at the two will not change their status. Maja, being privy to the details of Kim and Gerald's story should know what she is getting into. Decision nya to choose love over friendship. She should be ready to stand by that choice even when things don't work out in the end. She took that risk, chose the guy over her BFF. It doesnt make her a bad person, just a girl who chose one over the other. She chose love over propriety and friendship. We will soon see if she made the right choice.
It's not about Gerald for Kim. If it was, she would have made an issue out of the Sarah-Gerald courtship, which she did not. She is all about the betrayed trust between best friends. Imaginin mo. Si Maja to console Kim before, baka kung ano ano rin nasabi nyang nega about the guy in support of her best friend. We all know what that's like. Like a good best friend dadamayan mo heartbroken friend mo. Kakampihan mo sya. Then all of a sudden, after a few years, ikaw ang "kumuha" sa guy na yon? Nakakairita naman talaga yun for any woman.
TALK! Yan lang naman ang dapat gawin if things like this will ever happen. Kausapin mo ung bff mo be open about it na nangliligaw si ex then if walang go signal and approval kay bff eh di wag, at pag nag-ok naman eh di good, then yun nga lang you have to put into mind na there will always be awkwardness between the two kaya less na dapat ang group hang outs. RESPECT! both your bff and your ex's boundaries.
It will take so much effort on your side, kaya dapat kayanin mo kasi ginusto mo yan in the first place.
At the end of this, Kim comes out the winner. Fate laid before her very eyes the kind of people she loved and trusted. The guy who continuously uses her and does not care at all of propriety until the very end. The girl who she has treated like a sister despite frowns from so many people surrounding her. The pain hopefully will make her stronger and wiser.
Of course. Walang problema! Nagmamahalan kami eh! - Maja
ReplyDeleteDi pwede! Ang akin ay akin! Niluwa ko na yan! - Kim
Hoy mga te! Kung ayaw niyo, sa akin na lang siya! Please, ibigay niyo na...please! - Sarah
Lol bat wala sa corcle si Erich kay Xian?
Deletekulang c Erich bestfriend din ni kim tpuz ex ni xian lim :)
DeleteI don't think Sarah will plead for Gerald to go back in her life. She chose her parents over him and it only means he's not very much into him.
Deletedi publicized ang kina erich at xian just like kina sarah at gerald kay di nakakonek, pero bakit di nakakonek sina anne at sam?
Deletedi ko ma-gets ang logic ng 'akin ay akin' at 'niluwa ko na yan' statement mo for Kim, anon1:29. contradicting ang sinasabi mo na kasing contradicting ng sinasabi ng keemchew.
DeleteFor me no. I never date my friends and certainly yung ex ng kahit cno na kabarkada or best friend ko. For me off limits tlga yang mga yan. Although my cousin is now married to my ex bf... but ndi niya alam na naging bf ko un lol kaya yan.. it took yrs before i gt used to seeing them together. So because i knw how it felt... nding ndi ko magagawa un to any of my friends.
DeleteDi pa nilagay ung best example of all. Mo the logical and whian the graphic and kc the montero!
DeleteKaya nga galit na galit si Mo ke KC right?
DeleteNO-respect nalang po sa friend:)
ReplyDeleteDelicadeza! NO!
ReplyDeleteang gulo. bahala cla, buhay nila yan.
ReplyDeleteif the relationship is over,, why not?? it's a trend in the showbiz world,,,
ReplyDeleteIt depends
DeleteSaka na kpg nkaget over n c Kim
Delete-Maja-
yeah it's a trend in showbiz which obviously KIM does not adhere to..meaning she is not swallowed up by the lifestyle she sticks to her values, discipline and beliefs..she has high regard for herself and others which is admirable in an industry that can be toxic and sometimes compromise your values and beliefs...
DeleteYes! Absolutely! Because love is unstoppable and sometimes unbelievable
ReplyDeleteNO. Especially if you were the BEST friend, not just a regular barkada.
ReplyDeleteI don't see anything wrong with it. Can't dictate what your heart feels. Bitter lang yung mga ex na ayaw payagan ang relationship. Ang selfish. Can't she be happy that two significant people in her life are happy?
ReplyDeletekung barkada lang kayo, yung hindi kayo mag bff, ok lang naman, pero sa totoo lang kahit sa mga hindi close na magbarkada pag pinatos mo ang ex ng barkada mo parang hindi pa rin maganda yun diba.
Deletehnd bitter ang tawag dun.. ikw yung syota mong katext kayakap kahalikan mo date boyfrend na ng bestfrend mo na lage mong kasama ok lng sau na maghangout kau together kc parang awkward saken..
DeleteKOREK NA KOREK AT PUEDENG-PUEDE; WHY NOT, COCONUT!!!...kung ayaw na sa'yo, huwag pilitin dahil ikaw din ang magsa-suffer...hangga't maaga, alam mo na, na wala ka nang appeal sa kanya...da best to do is move on , hanap na ng iba!!!
Deletein the first place, i think hindi ni KIM pinagbawalan na magkarelasyon yung dalawa..she just chose to distance herself from a person that hurt her (GERALD) and a person that she can no longer trust (MAJA)....
DeletePara sakin hindi... friends are like brothers to me, whether we like it or not after ng relationship nasisira ang friendship, life is short and i dont like feeling awkward or whatever so no i dont date people im friends with. oi yung mga bashers dyan wala akong pinatatamaan sariling opinyon ko naman to. whatever floats my boat lang to.
ReplyDeleteIf you're a true friend, you will let your friend be happy.
ReplyDeleteif you are a true friend why would you love someone who can can destroy your friendship
Deletewell if youre a true friend.. why would you entertain someone who broke your friends heart?! parehas naman silang may point teh, for sure naman gusto rin nya maging maligaya yung friend nya, nagulat lang siguro kasi she didnt see that coming.
DeleteYou can choose your friends, but you can't dictate your heart who to love. Just saying.
Deleteas if naman na love at first sight sila ni gerald and maja... or may nangyari sa kanila kagad na nauwi na lang sila together but sa sobrang bilis ng pangyayari about budoy and maja i dont think maja even considered her best friend.
Deletestar circle quest kya nga my magic eh.
ReplyDeleteno. its weird, i tried to imagine mangyari sa barkada ko yan, di carry ng powers ko.
ReplyDeleteDiba halos lahat naman sa showbiz gumagawa niyan, di ko lang magets kung bakit sobrang kay Kim lang, katangi tangin, naging big deal?!
ReplyDeletekase yung bond nila ni maja not just an ordinary best friend they were sisters sukdulang parehas mga damit nila pag rehersal sa asap alam nila lahat sa isat isa..nanjan na ipagshoping ni kim si maja this two girls are just like sisters.. kaya big deal anu gusto ng mga fans ok lang bff padin cla parang ang weird
Deletemusta naman c anne at georgina? what do u think of their bond?? mga chiu tards tlga move on move on dn pg my time
DeleteBakit? Naka-bond ka ba nila at alam mo kung gaano kalalim friendship nila? Hahaha!
Deleteit just means that KIM's values are still intact and does not allow herself to be consumed by the glitz of it all...(showbiz industry)
Deleteshe acts according to what she believes in and RESPECTS all the people that is around her...
iba ang situation nila..ini explain ni george iyon na hindi pa sila friends dati at panoorin mo sa kris tv ang pov ng group ni georgina, it's a big NO ang stand nila. hindi pwede sa kanila ang ganoon.
DeleteKim & Maja's situation is far different. Naging friends si Anne and Georgina nung pareho na silang ex nung guy. Kaya pwede ba, wag mo silang icompare.
Deletekasi si maja ang naging crying shoulder ni kim during gerald's liaison w/ bea..kaya naging big deal.
Deleterespects all the people that is around her? oh yeah right! kaya pala si xian lim na ex ng friend nia na si erich ay bf niya daw ngayon?it just goes to shows one thing SHE IS IMMATURE! she only cares for her OWN HAPPINESS!
Deletekase alam lahat ni maja ang straggle ni kim kay gerald,
DeleteShe respects pala all the people. Kamusta naman na dinidate niya si Xian na ex pala ni Erich?
DeleteIt's a small world after all... lol
ReplyDeleteOkay lang pero dapat handa mong tanggapin na pwedeng mawala si BFF. Ang awkward lang kung magkakasama kayong lumabas, gumimik, mag out of town with your EX at BFF mo lalo na kung si EX ang pinakalatest EX mo.
ReplyDeletethe issue between erich xian kim?totoo ba
ReplyDeleteanung issue sakanila?
DeleteYup! naging mag On si Xian at Erich nung Buo pa ang Group na chiurigogobashu actually kasama si xian sa mga Galaan nila with kim and the rest.
DeleteIba ang issue kina Erich at Kim, career related. Pero si Xian may issue kay Erich, dahil di makapag move on! Kaya nga kinukulit ni vice about kay Erich! At di po naging sila kasi nag focus sa career si Erich and diba sabi nya ayaw nya sa showbiz? Si coco at enrique nga basted, sya pa?
DeleteSo love pa din ni Xian si Erich? paano si kim?
DeleteRebound! Hahahaha
DeleteMakikisawsaw....naging couple si erich at xian...pero paganda na career ni girl at di naman sikat si boy, mas pinili ni girl ang umaangat nyang career. This was during katorse. Nawala si xian sa katorse at nawala din si erich sa life nya...he felt devasted for awhile. He moved on...ngayon sila na ni kim.
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bilib din naman ako sa inyo. talagang ipipilit kahit hindi totoo. mas marunong pa kayo sa may katawan. sa kanila ng dalawa mismong bibig nanggaling, sinabi nila on the national tv na HINDI NAGING SILA. nanligaw si xian, oo pero never naging sila. malinaw na malinaw iyon.
DeleteNo. Awkward yun para sakin lalo na kung super close kayu ng friend mo. It's a no-no for me. Marami naman iba jan.
ReplyDeleteD na nila napansin un. . . bsta ang importante ngmamahalan cla. . .mapapansin lang nla pag nkta nila to. ,
ReplyDeleteother stars didn't really fall in love with thier ex... that is why it was easy for them! but kim loved so much and got hurt in return, when her ex bestfriend patol to that person, normal na yung reaction ni Kim. I ranas that kasi... pero ung ex bestfriend ko ok na kami pero we can tell na siguro we are friends na lang..." hi, hello, kumusta, good bye! :)"
ReplyDeletefell*
DeleteIn letting your friend/bestfriend date your ex...
ReplyDeleteyour ego says NO.
but your conscience suggests otherwise.
For me, i won't let myself date my friend's ex, but if the situation is otherwise, who am I to be selfish?
magkakagulo kayo at first... pero magkakaayos din kayo ni friend pero you wont be close anymore, baka maging acquaintance na lang.
DeleteNo. specialy kung niloko ka ng X. concern nalang sa fren or lalo na sa bff mo kung pinatos nya X na nanloko sayo.
ReplyDeletesila sila na lang nagjojowaan, but i don't blame them. ikaw ba naman paligiran ng mga beautiful and handsome co-actors. at least they're not spreading s*d's. and if they are, at least its constrained amongst them.
ReplyDeleteMAJA ANG PINAKAMAH***T DYAN!!!
ReplyDeleteNo. simply because, me and my friends are very close, ive seen them fall in love, heard their lovey dovey stories and break up stories. i know way too much to even find their exes attractive. nangyari na rin sakin yung ligawan ako ng ex ng friend ko but i dont find that attractive, feeling ko lang ssa mga lalakeng ganun e bastos! nakita nang kaibigan ko yung ex nya tapos liligawan ako ano yun?! i think maja entertained gerald because maybe she liked him na noon pa... dont bash me ah, opinion ko to.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you. I found it offensive when my barkada's ex started sending pa-sweet messages. I though if he can do that to my friend, what will stop him from doing the same thing to me? Mag-isa siya!
Deleteoo noh! ano yun! parehas nya pa kaming g**aguhin?! nako pwede ba,
Deleteagree 101%....
DeleteSanga-sangang pag ibig ateh!
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Syempre hindi, pwede kaming maging friend hanggang dun lang. Awkward kaya un, kahit sbhin mo pang nakamove on na ung friend mo sa ex nya na un. At kahit nakamove on kana at meron ng iba may kurot parin un sa puso kapag nagdadate ung friend at ex mo lalo na kapag naging sila. :)))) besides hindi magandang tingnan:)))
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteTama. Actually ngyari narin sakin yan nung highschool ako, si friend pa ung isa sa mga gumagawa ng paraan para magkaayos kami ni ex nung kami pa at alam nyang un ung first serious relationship ko(magkakaibigan kami) , tapos mababalitaan ko nalang na sila na pala after 2yrs at may anak na. hahaha Although nakapag moved on na ko awkward padin pag magkakasama kaming magkakaibigan, at parang nawala ung RESPECT since sa huli ko na nalaman.
DeleteOPINION ko lang::::::sa situation ni Kim hindi rin natin masisisi kung maxado syang nasaktan kasi minahal nya talaga ng sobra tapos kay maja pa nya nasabi ung mga nararamdaman nya dati, at hindi rin natin masisisi si Maja kung nafall sya kay Gerald kung nakita at naramdaman nya naman na mahal talaga sya at handang ipaglaban. Time can heal all wounds, magkakabati din yan sila FOR REAL pero siguro hindi na mababalik ung dating friendship. Kaya sa mga bashers ng dalawa isip isip muna pag may time. hahaha Opinyon ko lang naman!:)
nope kaya nya may salitang delicadeza only woman with no respect to their friends would do that.. especially if your her bestfreind alam nya lahat ng pinagdaanan mu sa taong yun gaya ng ginawa ni maja.. what would maja and gerald expect magparty silang tatlo.. how could maja love someone na nanakit sa toong minahal nya (kim) ng hnd lng as bff kungdi bilang kapatid at taong nagmahal din sa kanya bilang tunay na kapatid..
ReplyDeleteTHERE'S NO LAW OR PASSAGE IN THE BIBLE THAT FORBIDS A WOMAN TO FALL FOR HER BFF'S EX-BF, AS LONG AS ALL 3 OF THEM ARE NOT LEGALLY COMMITTED TO SOMEONE...INDECENCY IS WHEN YOU BREAK A STANDARD RULE, WHEN YOU CHEATED ON YOUR CURRENT PARTNER...everything said against Maja is plain BITTERNESS of defeat, ego-trip, self-pity...if you keep dwelling in the past, sulk in the corner, & cry over a spilled milk, YOU'LL NEVER GET TO MOVE ON.
Deleteagree! korek na korek.
DeleteKinda agree with Anon 9:21.
DeleteBakit hindi linked si Sam Milby at Anne Curtis? Booooo! Innacurate!
ReplyDeleteNo, dami daming guys/girls. Awkward sa friendship yan kahit past na.
ReplyDeleteit could rarely happen, i'd rather avoid it.. if it persists.. i'll not make quick decision .. i will not surprise my friend that m already dating her ex..... instead.... we have to talk bout this matter first before getting into d relatonship wid her ex! at least there we have talked about it seriously and thats what we call --- RESPECT!
ReplyDeletetama, hindi minamadali yung ganito, hindi pwedeng gulpi de gulat kasi ang kalalabasan masisira ang friendship. syempre pag alam mong nagkanda lokaloka ang friend mo dun sa ex na nanliligaw sayo pano mo ieentertain yun? these things happen naman talaga, pero ussually hindi bad break up kaya ok lang sa friend kahit idate ang ex, pero kung alam mong halos isumpa na ng friend mo yung ex nya tapos idadate mo? maloloka na naman si friend, not because mahal pa nya pero dahil awkward!
Deletebakit wala ang ficture ni fafa fiolo diyan?
ReplyDeleteDepends if i know na matagal na silang wala..and if my friend agree then go..atleast hindi sya magugulat kasi napaalam ako..
ReplyDeleteno especially kung sitwasyon kaagaya nina kim at maja.. kase alam ko lahat laht ng sakit ng pinagdaanan ng bff ko kung ganu sya nahirapan kung ganu ka traumatic tpus magiging kame nung taong yun panu kakayanin ng konsensya ko panu kame lalabas na tatlo? panu kme magiging bff pa pag kasama ko c boylet dapt wala c bff vice versa so no complicated and ang hirap
ReplyDeletehindi okay... lalo na pag alam mong first love yun ng friend mo, i mean sa totoo lang hindi talaga ang awkward. bakit pa hindi na kailangan ng friendship nyo ng ganun bakit ka papasok sa something na alam mong ikasisira ng pagkakaibigan nyo. sobrang mahal ko ang friends ko as in we do everything together, we go everywhere together, we cant not see eachother, sobrang dami ng napagdaanan ng friendship namin and we respect eachother and love eachother well enough para pumatol pa sa mga exes. kahit naman sa lalaki hindi rin okay yun, theyre just not vocal about it.
ReplyDeleteShare lang yung yung kay kim at Gerald hindi nila first love ang isa't-isa napanuod ko pbb days nila shinare pa nila ang story ng mga first love nila.. i think yung kay kim one great love niya si gerald but yung kay gerald i don't know..
Deletesi gerald inlove every year yan lol!
DeleteNaisip ko lang, di kaya karma to for Kim? Sa pang-iiwan niya sa ere sa mga former friends niya nung nagsisimula palang siya (erich,melissa,etc).
ReplyDeleteteh hindi naman nya iniwan yun, they just had misunderstanding na hindi kaagad nafix. but theyre ok naman sila melissa, kim, kitkat, beauty and kim nagkikita parin pero hindi na talaga si erich. we would never know the real story naman talaga kaya hindi natin pwedeng sabihin na karma yun.
Deleteokay? hahaha hahaha. fantard, don't make up stories.
DeleteCoz Kim is dating Xian whi has a mutual understanding with Erich in the past. So, parang yung sin na ginawa sakanya ni Maja, e sin na mas nauna pa niyang na commit?
Deleteeto ah, honestly speaking, sa barkadahan sa pagkakaibigan nangyayari to talaga and nagugulo talaga ang friendship, pag pumatol ka sa ex ng friend mo nagkakaron ng awkwardness, nagkakaron ng sapakan minsan nagkakaron ng awayan talaga diba?! if you say na yeah ok lang why not, date mo yung ex ko, it simply means na ok yung hiwalayan nyo, maybe nag fall out of love lang kayo or baka hindi naman nyo minahal talaga isat isa or hindi mo minahal talaga yung ex mo kaya you can say na okay lang na idate mo yung friend ng ex mo. pero if its someone you really love ibang usapan kasi talaga yun, kahit gano katagal pa yan, not unless hindi na kayo friends ng friend mo tapos nagdate sila ng ex mo yun wala ka na karapatan mag salita, pero if bestfriend mo sya, or close barkada or close friend mo tapos idadate yung ex mo na minahal mo ng sobra sinaktan ka ng sobra... nako wag ka nang mag expect na magiging friends pa kayo.
ReplyDeletehiningal naman ako sa kwento mo, naghahagilap kasi ako ng period...anyway, ang happiness at kilig na maibibigay ng potential suitor/bf-to-be ay hindi kelan man maibibigay ng best fren...ikaw ang may karapatang mag-decide kung ano ang pipiliin mo...bff mo o ang ex niya?...sino sa kanila ang magpapaligaya sa'yo today, tomorrow, & in the future???
DeleteAgree!
DeleteI never dated kht sinong ex ng aking friends b4. Never sumagi sa isip k na kht sino sa knila eh mgstuhan k. #1 rule in frienship yan! -- now im happily married.
ReplyDeleteSiguro gerald and Maja used to find eachother attractive na noon pa, kasi sobrang bilis naman ng pangyayari sa kanila, may attraction na between them for sure noon pa. what and how it got triggered... we will never know. pero sa totoo lang nakakatakot naman magkaroon ng friend na ganyan... dito nagaapply yung akala mo kilala mo na sya pero hindi pa rin pala. and yung your bestfriend is your worst nightmare :) im not bashing maja and im not on kims side, im just stating kung ano yung nakikita ko sa kanila ni gerald.
ReplyDeleteang mga tao naman kasi pag sa iba nangyari ok lang, pero pag sa kanila na hindi na ok! lol
ReplyDeleteUnspoken girl code
ReplyDeletePWEDE! but you have to accept the fact that you have to choose. because ano yun magsasalo kayo? double date? lol ano bey! baka mapraning pa kayo kung ano tumatakbo sa mga isipan nyo! lol too awkward!
ReplyDeleteWhat if yung Ex pala ng BFF mo ang lalaking Nakatadhana talaga sayo? Paano yun?
ReplyDeleteAnswer pls :)
Napaisip din ako ah Oo nga naman...
Deleteyou wouldnt know unless you try nga diba? pero yun nga you have to choose parin your ex or your bff? kung ok lang sa bff mo e di mas okay diba?! lol at sinagot ko talaga!
Deletekung Sila pala kahit piliin mo pa yung BFF mo now at the end of the Day wala ka pa din magagawa sa nakatadhana.
Deletenako ineng ilang taon ka na ba? kasi alam mo maiisip mo lang yan kung sila pa ng friend mo e type mo na ang jowa nya, tapos nung nagbreak inentertain mo yung thought na yun!
Deletebakit mo naman iisipin na yung ex ng bf mo ang nakatadhana sayo? bakit hindi ibang tao? baka type mo yung ex kaya naiisip mo yan.
DeleteAnon 1:57 Ikaw ilang taon ka na? ang layo ng sagot mo eh :)
DeleteAnon 1:58 binasa mo po ba ng maayos ang nakapost?
Ang tanong What IF kung sila pala ang nakatadhana, wala naman nakalagay diyan na IISIPIN NA KAYO na ANG NAKATADHANA o kailangan mo siyang sagutin , kaya nga WHAT IF EH tsaka kaya nga may nakalagay na NAKATADHANA eh meaning mangyayari ang mangyayari at wala ka ng magagawa kung mangyari man yun Ayaw mo man o sa Gusto, lubayan mo man ng ilang beses ang lalaki kung nakatadhana kayo pagtatagpuin pa din kayo kahit anong iwas niyo... kaya nga NAKATADHANA GETS? isip isip naman bago magcomment!
Tsaka kung magcocomment huwag yung sunod sunod yung dahilan ah napaghahalataan na iisang tao ka lang eh eh!
Love is a choice, mga te.
Deletehahaha nakakatawa si Anon 1:57 at
DeleteAnon 1:58 Iisa lang yung sagot! Maganda naman yung tanong niya at wala din naman nakalagay na Isipin mo na kayo ang nakatadhana! bwahahaahaha magegets mo naman kung iintindihin mo yung tanong nya! may dinidepensahan ka na sa Sagot mo eh! kuha ko na din yung Point mo may comment ka din sa Baba eh siguro ikaw din yun LOL.
Anon 2:25 Korek ka!
Si anon 2:25 at 3:06ay iisa ang comment nirephrase lang. Katawa umagree sa sariling comment!
Deleteane ver?? you make your own destiny. those who grew up and can't get over on fairy tales lang naniniwala sa "kung kayo, kayo talaga"...just saying.
Deleteano ver?? YOU MAKE YOUR OWN DESTINY nga dba?? those who overly grew up on fairy tales lang naniniawala s "tinakda ng tadhana"..just saying.
Deletee ateng, baka nakatadhana din kayong dalawa ng BFF mo na maging AWKWARD.
Deletenangyari sa barkada namin to. my friend went out with our friends ex, kala namin ok lang talaga, magkakasama kami nag hahangout, ok nga rin yung mag ex eh nagbibiruan ganyan. tapos malaman laman namin na nagkikita ulit patago yung friend namin and yung ex nya, narealise daw na mahal parin isat isa... kawawa naman yung isa din namin na friend. my gosh kaloka! so hindi. hindi ako papasok sa something na magcocomplicate ng situation and magpapahirap hindi lang sakin kundi sa mga tao sa paligid ko! kaloka!
ReplyDeleteBakit wala si Xian At Erich? Naging Sila tapos ang Awkward pa kasi si kim ang isa sa mga nakakakita kung gaano sila sweet dati magkakasama sila Gumala, kaya siguro never na din talaga sila magkakaayos ni Erich kasi sila na ni Xian.. unlike Maja na naging close lang kay kim after break up with gerald!
ReplyDeletenako naman gawa gawa lang naman ang erich xian! hindi naman naging sila! may ibang gf si xian nung katorse days nila!
DeleteNaging sila huwag naman magbulagbulagan porket fan kayo nung isa!
Deletedi ri naman si kim at si xian pang loveteam lng ang lahat kawawa si kim ayaw aminin ni xian na nanligaw sya kay kim
DeleteAng dami na pala gantong Issue lol. Sobrang naging big deal lang talaga tong kila kim kasi nga dahil sa Interview galore..
ReplyDeleteAng Masasabi ko lang ang Naka Tadhana ay Nakatadhana at di madidiktahan ang Puso!
ReplyDeletehindi totoo ang tadhana ay nakatakda. ikaw mismo ang gumagawa ng destiny mo. kaek ekan lang iyang nakatadhana sa iyo. palusot lang iyan ng mga taong ayaw magpakatotoo.
DeleteDi naging sila pero MU, so parang naging sila kasi gusto i pursure ni Xian si Erich pati mom nya like si Erich. Pero ang ending basted. Kaya sabi ni xia. Never naging sila pero kung sinagot naging sila! Diba dont date your bff's ex? Eh bat sya? Tapos alam nya na may feelings pa talaga si xian kay erich! Pero parang si Kim kay Gerald, bitter pa rin si xian kay erich dahil nabasted kaya ayan bagay nga sila ni kim! Bitters!
ReplyDeleteNaging sila po! dineny lang kasi malakas ang loveteam ni Erich at Enchong dati madaming photos silang sweet! at imposibleng aminin din ni xian now kasi may LT sila ni kim.
DeleteDi po sinungalin si erich, honest sya! Pag sinabing hindi, hindi! Kung naging sila bakit bitter pa rin si Xian?
DeleteLOL.. so pag sinabi ni erich na tatalon siya sa bangin meaning nun tatalon talaga siya? tao din yan nagsisinungaling! walang perpekto teh , kulang ka sa research hindi porket idol mo yun na talaga papaniwalaan mo..showbiz yan kailangan mong magsinungaling para sa career mo!
DeleteEh paano kung Mahal mo na? pipigilan mo ang alam mong magiging kasiyahan mo?
ReplyDeleteparang ganto lang kung pipiliin mo Alam mong magiging Masaya ka pero hindi ang Bestfriend mo, pero kapag hindi mo pipiliin sabihin na natin Happy ang Bestfriend mo pero ikaw hindi! parang magiging unfair ka sa sarili mo nun!
pero bakit ka ba dadating sa point na mamahalin mo ang ex ng friend mo? diba kailangan magsasama kayo, maghahangout, or baka attracted ka na dun sa ex bago pa maging ex? hindi naman instant ang mainlove lalo na sa taong alam mong ex ng kaibigan mo. may process na pinagdadaanan yung mga ganyan, kasi usually pag ex na ng friend mo hndi na rin masyado na eentertain yan kasi nga hindi na sila ng friend mo, or baka nung nagbreak sila kasalanan ni friend and kumampi ka sa ex tapos nadevelop kayo! gets mo?! yung mga ganyang sitwasyon hindi yan yung biglaan mong mamahalin yung ex, something should happen bago mo marealise na inlove or mahal mo na yung tao. kungeentertain mo posible mahulog ka nga. pero kung hindi mo ieentertain hindi mo maiisip na sya yung kaligayahan mo noh!
Deleteteh maiisip mo lang yang mga bagay na yan kung sila pa lang e may pagtingin ka na dun sa partner ng friend mo, ngayon pag nagbreak sila shempre ieentertain mo na yung thoughts na yan, baka gumawa ka pa ng way para maging friend mo pa rin yung ex and kung swerte ka magugustuhan ka rin nya kaya magiging kayo!
DeleteAng masasabi ko lang HAPPINESS is a CHOICE kung saan ka Masaya dun ka! Go lang!
Deletee di choose ka lang, basta ang i-choose mo eh yung sigurado kang hindi ka iiwan.
DeleteHappiness is a choice totoo yan, but you can only say it is true happiness kung wala kang natatapakan.
Deleteexcuse me naman!!! where is the link between sasa and gege? paki-acknowledge, cosmo! para di naman sayang ginugol naming oras dyan sa walang kwentang ligawan na yan.
ReplyDeleteGusto kasi ni Kim sya lang!
ReplyDeleteDiba todo deadma sya sa kung sino ang apple of the eye bo Ge, Bea, Sarah, Maja pero pag nag break magiging friends? Nakakatawa ka kim! Sabi nga ni gerald, it takes maturity and moving forward!
I remember angelica Said nung nililigawan ni Carlo si Maja, sabi niya boto siya para sa Dalawa.. siguro nasa tao lang yan kasi Super close din si Angelica at Maja actually mas matagal pa nga sila magkaibigan kesa kay kim kasi si Angelica nagpapayo kay Maja tungkol sa lovelife and take note bad break din yun kasi nagsabay si angelica at camille kay carlo at siguro kasi Masaya na talaga si angelica kay derek nuon kaya wala na siyang Angst..siguro kay kim kasi may feelings pa din..Halata naman.
ReplyDeletethey didnt break up because of camille.
DeleteGalit sina john prats noon kay angelica kasi insinuate niya na si camille dahilan ng break up nila...pero totoong nanligaw si carlo kay camille before pa naging si angelica at carlo si camille talaga gusto nya..pero nadevelop narin xa kay angeluca kaya naging sila...pero talagang bumalik prn si carlo kay camille pro basted naman d xa inintertain...kaya sila nag away away inis na inis nga si camille kya ayaw nya pag usapan un nunkc labas xa 3rd party...ilang years dn bago sila ngkabati...nung nagkaasawa na ata si camille...lols -#panahonkoyan #gmikdays fantard ni camille
Deletesyempre ang payo mo ay nakadepende sa kung sino ang kaibigan mo sa love triangle, maeexpect mo ba na magpayo si angge kay kim o kay gerald kung hindi naman sila close? itry natin itanong yan dun sa same circle ni kim, gerald at maja kung ano payo nila...
DeleteNo big deal. They all should be mature enough to handle those kinds of situation.
ReplyDeleteYeah Right!
DeleteIt's okay bakit sina anne, georgina, solenn, isabelle! Kay richard!
ReplyDeleteNasa tao nga lang yan.
DeleteSinabi na nila yan sa Kris TV. No-no sa kanila ang mag-date ng ex-bf ng friend. Hindi pa magkaibigan sila anne at georgina nung naging sila ni richard, according to them.
DeleteHindi pa din naman magkaibigan si Maja at kim nung naging sila ni Gerald..naging close lang sila after break up ang di maganda yung kay kim xian erich na nakikita niyang sweet yung dalawa tapos tingnan niyo now kung sino yung kadate ni kim? diba si xian!
Deletefor ur info anon 1:45, d p mgbff sina anne @ georgina nun sila p ni chard. pahiya k no
DeleteSi solen di pinatulan si retsard kc bff sila ni george...sabi nga nya u dont date ur bff's ex...thats the rule of anu ba un nakalimutan ko...lols khit obvius type nya rin si retsard nung after survivor nila...pinigilan nya...si anne xa lumapit kina georgina na kalimutan na nila un...ayaw sknya nila george dati dahil kay retsard...
DeleteA big NO!! There are so many fishes in the ocean, why choose a fish that's rotten ? Both Gerald and Maja are rotten... So they deserve each other .. There is an unwritten law- u don't date your best friend's ex ever.. It takes good breeding to know this and definitely Maja doesn't have one.. Magsama sila ni Gerald
ReplyDeleteNakakatawa ka so si kim may breeding? sa mga ginagawa nya obvious na wala! at unwritten law ka dyan! o may unwritten law din na free ang mag move on kung di ka na mahal!
DeleteMay breeding nga daw si kim yung tipong nanlalaglag ng kaibigan at pagiging masaya niya kapag nangaaway ang Fans niya! ayun ang magandang breeding!
DeleteWhy would kim worry of how maja feels? did she ever think of how Kim would feel if pinatulan nya si Gerald?? so si maja api apihan? paano ang mga lalaki na dumaan na sa kamay nya? carlo, john, jason, coco? thats why Mateo brfoke up with her in the 1st place. Mateo was raised a gentle man.. he came from a good family kaya hindi sya na bastos... But will see how she and gerald goes??
DeleteSiguro mas pangit lang siguro kung Bestfriend na si Maja at kim nung sila pa ni Gerald kaso hindi eh, naging close lang sila nung nagtour sila sa ibang bansa at tsaka dun lang nakwento ni kim ang lahat so ang paniniwalaan nung isa yung nakwento sa kanya kawawa din naman yung guy..
ReplyDeleteIn the end, it depends on your values and principles. iba ang pananaw ng conservative kesa liberated. what might be okay for some is distasteful to others...
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the maturity of people involve. I find it immature to hate on your so-called BFF and throw everything you have just because she's dating your ex!
ReplyDeleteTama sa kabila ng Magagandang bagay na ginawa din naman sayo ng BFF mo, inalalayan ka nya tapos etong isang bagay lang ilalaglag mo siya na kung tutuusin naging totoo naman siya sayo. IMMATURE!
DeleteKung naging totoo man sya sayo as besfren u wont dare to date ur frens ex lalo pa at alam mo at witness ka sa naging relasyon nila kung paano nasaktan ang besfren mo. Respeto na lang sa mararmdaman ng besfren mo. Applicable lang iyan sa magkarelasyon dati na naging maganda ang ending ng relasyon nila like it's a mutual decision or d nangaliwa ang partner kaya nagkahiwalay. Dahil pag may ganyang factor d mo maaalis sa isipan ng besfren mo na mafeel ang pagtatraydor
DeleteIt's not immaturity. It's called RESPECT, FRIENDSHIP, and VALUES. Obviously, Maja and Gerald do not have any of these at all. Common sense lang naman. Life is not always about getting what YOU want. If you are really mature, you do not do things that will hurt people you consider friends.
DeleteAnd so does Kim. Shunga ka? Lahat ng sinabi mo umaapply sa idol mo! Fantard!
DeleteSa Bansa natin conservative pa rin majority ng Pinoy so hindi magandang tinggnan at masama talaga yung ginawa ni Gerald and Maja so expect na turn off ang majority ng Pinoy sa kanilang dalawa it will reflect on their endorsement kapag wala ng product na kukuha sa kanila as endorser yun na yun
ReplyDeleteBig No for me I cant imagine my bestfriend dating my ex respeto lang at if that friend really values the friendship never nyang gagawin yun, maging thankful nalang si Kim and Sarah who happens to be a friend of Maja na nakilala nila kung anong klaseng kaibigan si Maja as for Gerald yung ginawa nya reflects what kind of character he has which is weak wala syang self control basta happy sya which I doubt how can you be completely happy kapag alam mo sa puso mo na may tao kayong sinasaktan walang patutunguhan yan
ReplyDeleteGusto mo si kim lang Happy?
Deleteanon: 2:58am If being happy means I am hurting a best friend and or someone close to me.. I would rather choose not to be happy.Marami pa namn jan iba.. For people like me who treats a bestfriend as a family masakit talaga yun.. But kim has moved on.. and for M_j_r_ot she can just "get it on" with whom ever she wants to get it on with...
Deleteanon 2:58, d naman issue d2 kung c kim or maja ang dapat masaya. . .ikaw, magiging happy k b kung mas pinili ng bff mong maging jowa ang ex mo n d kayo in good terms ng ex mo? so sa kaso ng idol mo, .mas pinili nyang maging masaya k ge kesa mapanatili ang friendship @ respe2, kz takot mabakante.
DeleteIt depends on how long their relationship and if they end up as good friends or the decision of ending up the relationship is mutual. Actually, it really matters how your relationahip ended. If nasaktan talaga ang isa sa magkarelasyon definitely alam mo na mahirap e pursue ang ganyang bagay regardless if it's been a year na sila at sign of respect n lang sa besfren mo.
ReplyDeleteBottomline it all really depends on the situation. Like Im setting an example kay maja at kim. Mahirap talaga kasi iyong iniisip mo karamay ng nasaktan ka ng ex mo ay nakipagdate sa taong nanakit sayo and worst hindi sila bati ni Gerald. Kaya it can be a very crucial and sensitive situation.
As if the guy is the last man on earth duhh
ReplyDeleteIt's called RESPECT. Sorry, but to me I value more my relationship with my friends. REAL friends stay true and are LOYAL regardless. Obviously, Maja is not REAL as a person. No values at all. Well, what can you expect from an open city girl. This is the reason why Matteo's family didn't like her. This girl has BAD vibes written all over her. So, hopefully hindi sya pagsawaan ni Budoy and leave her for another one. Hopefully, pakasalan sya then she can prove her bashers including me wrong.
ReplyDeletetama.
DeleteVery nice chart :)
ReplyDeleteno it's not, walang link between sarah and gerald. hindi sya accurate! nakakainis.
Delete4y sila naging mag-on sobrang laki na ng emotional even physical investment dun ah. Grabe madami na nangyari nun. Then of course bilang babae, nagiging overly attached ang mga yan after nun. Etong si bff alam nya lahat, nag aadvice pa sya diba? Nagbreak. Nanligaw. Sinagot ni bff dahil 3y ago na daw at may permission ni xbff, kaw ba prangka mo ba sasabihin na ayaw mo? Syempre bilang bff dapat knows mo na yon. And alam mo nasaktan yun frend mo,kung magiging kayo ng ex nya ofcourse mapipilitan magkaharap ulit ang dating magbf at magbff. Sobrang awkward nun!
ReplyDeletei think tunay na mga babae lang ang makakaintindi kung ano nararamdaman ni kim bout sa nangyari.
ReplyDeleteYes mga tunay na babae na di maka pa rin maka move on at umaasang babalikan pa! Diba kim?
Delete5:19. . may syota k b? kasi what if sayo mangyari yon, ok lang?! . .well, unless wala ka ni isang friend , hahaaaa
Deletekung naka move on ka na.. wala na effect yan. tignan mo sina Anne Curtis.
Delete4:37 Maunawain na kaibigan lang ang makakaintindi kay Maja at true friend :) I thought Gerald and Kim are already friends after theyve both moved on from their past relationship. So si Kik feeling ko nagsisisi din sa mga nasabi nya :) Kasev great friend ang nawala sa kanya. Ngaun wala na tuloy syang friends :/. Takot na siguro ring iclose sya kase sisiraan ka sa tao pag may gnawa ka sa kanyang d nya nagustuhan.ang REAL FRIEND d magagawa ang ginawa nya. Tsk tsk.
DeleteMay feelings pa kasi... Kung wala na... Keber and go lang ang sasabihin kim... 3 years ago and teenagers pa sila nun!
Deleteung friend ko ganyan ganyan ung nangyari. actually pareho ko silang kaibigan. mag bff cla since HS.. pos nung nag break si girl 1 s bfnya.. after 2 years naging bf ni g2. super iyak si g1 kc dun cya kay g2 nag kwento ng lahat lahat. kaya para sken ala masama kung maging bf m un bf nya kc break n naman. ung delikadeza lang. tska kung kaya m harapin ung bff m.
ReplyDeleteNOPE. . . . kasi there will always be some awkwardness and uneasyness at syempre bilang respeto sa friend or bff mo lalo nat naging hindi maayos ang end ng relationship ng friend mo @ nung ex. . .pero sa 2lad ni maja, a guy over her bff, walang kaso, parang naprove nya . d kumple2 ang life kung walang lalaki kesa mapanatili ang pgkakaibigan, . .
ReplyDeletemaharot lang ang pumapatol sa ex ng bff
ReplyDeletedi dapat patulan ang ex ng bff ano mauubusan ng lalaki malandi ang peg
ReplyDeletesa mga lalaki kasi okay lang magpalitan ng syota. . .pero deep inside, against din sila @ nasasaktan.
ReplyDeleteIf it's the ex of your best friend, then definitely not. Only a selfish person would do such a thing. Love at the expense of other people's feelings is not worth it. You will not be at peace.
ReplyDeleteIf it's the ex of your best friend, then definitely not. Only a selfish person would do such a thing. Love at the expense of other people's feelings is not worth it. You will not be at peace.
ReplyDeleteImposibleng maging rebound si Kim sa kahit sinong lalake.
ReplyDeleteMaraming humahanga at nagka crush kay Kim Chiu.
Hindi kagaya ng napa balitang masama ang ugali, dahilan kung bakit turn off ang mga showbiz katrabaho, pati manliligaw kuno! Tanungin si Ejay, Enchong,Xian at iba pa! At baka; flirt pa, kaya galit si Angelica P?
Noong hindi pa sikat si Xian Lim; sa 2008 hanggang Valentine's 2011, hindi binalita ang iba ibang babae na na link sa kanya.
Huwag na pangalanan ngayon, baka sisikat pa! Yun ang gusto nila!
Kaya ngayon; kahit waley si Erich G. sa buhay ni Xian, gusto ng mga Erich fans idikit uli ang pangalan ng idol nila upang mapag usapan!
Try ninyo akitin uli si Xian. Keber ni Kim. Hindi naman napabalitang sumama si Kim ni Xian kung saan saan mag isa, pati outside P.I.!
chiu; sa kahit sinong lalake!
Sige, sabi mo eh! Ang dami mo na naman alam sa life ni Erich, di ka pa fan nyan ha! Iba talaga pag sikat. At may mga may crush pala sa idol mo? Sino? Kay Erich kasi too many to mention!
Deleteabsolutely not. hindi pa rin maganda ang kalabasan kahit sabihin pa na wala na. delikadesa nalang at kung pano mo pahalagahan ang friendship.
ReplyDeletekaso wala sa vocabulary nya ang respect.
NO especially if you're still best friends, chat and go out regularl
ReplyDeleteIISA LANG ANG TINUTUMBOK NG QUESTION-ANSWER PORTION NG FORUM NA 'TO-->>PARA KINA KIM AT MAJA, KOREK???...anyway, my very own opinion is-->>hindi kasalanan at hindi kawalan kung na-fall in love si Maja kay Gerald dahil maliwanag pa sa sikat ng araw na 3yrs history na ang KimGerald affair...IT'S OVER!-->>as in, TAPOS NA, THE END na, PAST TENSE na, QUITS na!...HINDI MAIBIBIGAY NI KIM KAY MAJA ANG HAPPINESS AT KILIG FACTOR NA PUEDENG IBIGAY NI GERALD, & THAT IS A FACT!...kaya dapat huwag maging selfish; after all meron na siyang Xian; si Xian na maaaring lihim na nasasaktan habang nakikita niyang 'di pa maka-get-over si Kim kay Gerald.....BE REAL, KIM...LIFE DOESN'T END WITH JUST ONE PERSON...God is good if only you ask for another chance of happiness...good luck sa 'yo...we love you :)
ReplyDeleteIt happened on my cousin and her friend. Nung una, oo ilang shempre, saka tinatago pa. Pero if the friendship is genuine, malalampasan nila, like what happened on my cous and her bff. Now she's happily married on that guy and in really good terms, as in bff ulit, sa bff niya.
ReplyDeleteSo, paano pala kung yung ex ni bff mo ang nakatadhanang maging lifetime partner mo?
Napaka pretentious ng mga nagsasabi ng "definitely no". Hello, you'll never know unless it happened or it is happening to you.
ReplyDeleteShempre NO mga sagot niyo, sana mapanindigan niyo yan pag nangyari yan sainyo, specially when there's already feeling involved.
INSECURE AT TALUNAN PAG AYAW TANGGAPIN NA MERON NG IBA ANG EX-BF NIYA...at kung mapunta siya sa BFF mo, SO WHATTT???...hindi mo na siya pag-aari; kumbaga, history na lang kayo; past has passed...kailangan mag-MOVE ON; huwag magmukmok sa sulok; enjoy life to the fullest!.
ReplyDeleteAnd to the NEW GF, wala kang kasalanan; hindi yan indecent ek-ek dahil wala na sila dati pa; walang batas ng tao o Diyos na nagbabawal diyan dahil hindi kayo pinagsabay; you don't have to feel guilty dahil ikaw ang piniling mahalin.
LESSON LEARNED: huwag pa-apekto sa sasabihin ng iba; tao lang sila, hindi Diyos...go where your heart desires & pleases, as long as you do not pass on somebody's "property"...if you choose to be NEGA, live with misery :(
Yes- kung friend ka lang at wala ka naman alam sa pangyayari sa kanilang relasyon.
ReplyDeleteNO- ikaw ang nagadvise nang bongga2x sa friend mo about her ex and ikaw ang dumamay sa kanya nung down na down siya at ikaw ang super bestfriend niya! at kung may delekadesa ka rin back off nalang!
P.S= kung may balak ka palang magboyfriend sa ex ng bestfriend mo eh wag ka nalang magpa super bestfriend at bonggang bonga magadvice sa kanya dba MAJA?
why not?
ReplyDeletegoodness!kung matagal na at may bf na ako ok lang naman. basta mahal ng guy ang bff ko happy ako.gusto ko maging masaya ex ko at bff ko.si kim naman immaturity yan. let's face it di pa talaga ngmamature si kim parang bata pa rin.
ReplyDeleteI won't date my best friend's ex kasi awkward. At kung hindi maiwasan, titignan ko kung worth it ba yung guy, kasi friendship yung kapalit e. Kung ako kay Maja I won't choose Gerald kasi alam naman ng lahat na playboy talaga siya. No brainer na to conclude na hiwalayan din ang aabutin nila. Lalo na na malaki ang pressure na mawork out nila ang relationship to prove everyone wrong. At kapag nag-away sila, which is dadating at dadating, maaalala lahat ni Maja ang stories ni Kim at baka maapply niya rin sa sarili niya. Kapag dumating yung panahon na binasura na rin sya, PAK isang malaking 'yan, sabi ko naman sa'yo e!' ang matatanggap niya. So goodluck, alam naman niya siguro yung napasukan niya.
ReplyDeleterespect begets respect...
ReplyDeletesa totoo lang why would i use my friend's trash? basura na nga pupulitin mo pa? Seriously me and my girlfriends nagkakaroon ng same crushes pero never kami nag step out beyond magkatalo talo sa ex dyowa. And thank God iba iba kami ng taste sa lalaki. Ang awkward kaya na magkakasama kayo tapos andun yung basurang ex mo...
respeto nalang sa kaibigan...
kung di mo kayang respetuhin kaibigan mo then hindi mo rin kayang respetuhin sarili mo kasi pumatol ka sa wala rin respetong tao.
Awkward...hindi! Hindi applicable kay Kim at Erich re Xian. Hindi magbff si K and E...si Erich din ang umayaw kay Xian.
ReplyDeleteThis happened to me. My barkada's ex was my boyfriend. Short time lang sila like 4 months. Matagal na sila hiwalay like 3 yrs na before I got in the picture. Nagpaalam ako sa barkada ko before ko in-entertain yung ex nya. Pero in fairness hindi pa kami magkakilala nung barakada ko nung naging sila. Tsaka naka-move on na sya nun at may bf ng iba. Yun lang. So pwede to date an ex of a friend.
ReplyDeleteSiguro awkward sa umpisa pero kung nakapag move on ka na talaga, you won't drag the issue and make so much fuss about it for a LOOOOONG TIME like what Kim is doing. Dati naawa ako sa kanya, pero sya kase talak ng talak about sa sitwasyon while si Maja quiet lang. Silence is a virtue din talaga. Much better manahimik, less talk less mistakes.
ReplyDeletein my opinion..sa kanilang tatlo (kim-gerald-maja)wala namang tama o mali sa kanila they all just made a decision that is according to their beliefs or values or what makes them happy...only the fans are over reacting to the issue...
ReplyDeletegerald= chose to be happy with maja regardless that he has a past with kim.
maja= chose to be with gerald and she should know the consequences of her actions...friendship or love(kuno??)
kim= i think she is not bitter...she just chose to distant herself from people that hurt her badly from the former boyfriend who broke her heart and the bestfriend the she trust the most and in the end choosing the guy cause a traumatic pain in her. ..
c'mon we cannot expect them three to be hanging out like buddies like it's ok it will be too awkward when you know that kim-gerald's relationship really ended badly just clouded by the network because of their strong following...
POV..not judging..lets just all be happy for them..
Kim seems to still be very much in love with Gerald. I don't think she has had any serious relationship after their break-up.
ReplyDeleteTechnically, Kim can't stop the two from getting into a relationship. Matagal na din naman silang break ni Gerald di ba? Ang dami na ngang naging ka-relasyon ni Gerald after her eh. Masakit kung sa masakit kasi si Maja ang new girl, but Kim has to accept it and learn to move on and find her own happiness. Getting mad at the two will not change their status.
Maja, being privy to the details of Kim and Gerald's story should know what she is getting into. Decision nya to choose love over friendship. She should be ready to stand by that choice even when things don't work out in the end. She took that risk, chose the guy over her BFF. It doesnt make her a bad person, just a girl who chose one over the other. She chose love over propriety and friendship. We will soon see if she made the right choice.
It's not about Gerald for Kim. If it was, she would have made an issue out of the Sarah-Gerald courtship, which she did not. She is all about the betrayed trust between best friends. Imaginin mo. Si Maja to console Kim before, baka kung ano ano rin nasabi nyang nega about the guy in support of her best friend. We all know what that's like. Like a good best friend dadamayan mo heartbroken friend mo. Kakampihan mo sya. Then all of a sudden, after a few years, ikaw ang "kumuha" sa guy na yon? Nakakairita naman talaga yun for any woman.
DeleteHindi, kasi mas mahalaga sa akin ang friendship. :)
ReplyDeleteI think mas importante dapat ang friendship. dahil lang sa lalaki eh itatapon ko frienship namen? sbe nga ni gerald, it just comes to maturity ng tao.
ReplyDeleteTALK! Yan lang naman ang dapat gawin if things like this will ever happen. Kausapin mo ung bff mo be open about it na nangliligaw si ex then if walang go signal and approval kay bff eh di wag, at pag nag-ok naman eh di good, then yun nga lang you have to put into mind na there will always be awkwardness between the two kaya less na dapat ang group hang outs. RESPECT! both your bff and your ex's boundaries.
ReplyDeleteIt will take so much effort on your side, kaya dapat kayanin mo kasi ginusto mo yan in the first place.
-budang
At the end of this, Kim comes out the winner. Fate laid before her very eyes the kind of people she loved and trusted. The guy who continuously uses her and does not care at all of propriety until the very end. The girl who she has treated like a sister despite frowns from so many people surrounding her. The pain hopefully will make her stronger and wiser.
ReplyDeleteWhy are these people bashing Gerald and Maja?
ReplyDeleteHow about Gary V and Angeli? Gary's real girlfriend was Angeli's younger sister. Angeli got pregnant and Gary V married her...
Think people!!! Is that a lesser crime? Or is there even a judgment to pass? Cast the first stone, you righteous bashers!